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Thomas Woods Obituary

Thomas J. (Tom) Woods

AGE: 55 • Tinton Falls

Thomas J. (Tom) Woods, 55, who brought so much life, love, and laughter to the lives of all who were lucky enough to meet him, died at peace, at his home in Tinton Halls, NJ, on his 22nd wedding anniversary, July 7, 2012. Tom, the second son of James and Kathleen Woods, was born in New York City on December 10, 1956. Tom was the Chief of Procurement for New Jersey Transit, a position that proved ideal for a man with an amazing aptitude for understanding complex systems and his extraordinary negotiating skills. After beginning his career as an expeditor for an engineering firm specializing in nuclear construction, he joined the Procurement Department of New Jersey Transit in 1987. In a career spanning 25 years, he held several senior management positions, a highlight of which was managing the first public-private partnership Design-Build-Operate-Maintain (DBOM) contract, which resulted in New Jersey's Hudson-Bergen Light Rail System. Subsequently, he headed up Light Rail Operations, Contracted Services, Real-Estate, and Advertising for NJT before returning to Procurement as its Chief.

Tom was a graduate of St. Benedict's Elementary School in Holmdel, NJ; Christian Brothers Academy in Lincroft, NJ; Manhattan College in New York; and the Rutgers University Executive MBA program, where he graduated at the top of his class. Tom was both the smartest and the funniest man in every room lucky enough for him to enter. His interests were as broad as his intellect and his sense of humor. A true Renaissance Man of the Jersey Shore, Tom was a guitarist, a singer, a writer, a blogger, a sailor, a swimmer, and a man who, along with his beloved wife and companion, Pippa, traveled the world in search of knowledge, adventure, friendship, and fun.

Tom was predeceased by his wonderful dad, James P. Woods. Tom is survived by his beautiful wife of 22 years, Pippa deCosson Woods; his beloved mother, Kathleen T. Woods; his older brother, Jim Woods, and Jim's wife, Kathryn Depman; his younger brother, Terry Woods, and Terry's wife, Gina Woods; Jim and Kate's three children, Jimmy, Nacy Kathleen, and Frank; and his beloved cousins, the Wray's, the Young's, and the Schweigard's; and five nephews, Yasha, Toby, and Sebastian Berg, Nicholas and Thomas de Cosson, and Kristin Golden; and two God Sons, Jack Sherlock, and Ben Waldron, and his God Daughter, Nacy K. Woods; and a truly great and wonderful circle of friends whom he loved and who will love and miss him dearly. All will celebrate him forever.

A visitation celebrating Tom's life will be held from 2 to 4 p.m. and 7 to 9 p.m. Wednesday, July 11, 2012 at the John E. Day Funeral Home, 85 Riverside Drive, Red Bank. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m. Thursday, July 12, 2012 at St. Anselm's R.C. Church, 1028 Wayside Road, Tinton Falls. The interment will follow at St. Gabriel Cemetery in Marlboro.

Tom's life was one lived with joy, love, and laughter. His final wish is that you live yours in that spirit. And celebrate his own with the same.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Tom's name can be sent to: The Center in Asbury Park, 806 Third Ave., Asbury Park, NJ, 07712 or Family Promise of Monmouth County www.ihn-of-MC.org. You are invited to share your memories and pictures of Tom at Tom's website at www.johndayfuneralhome.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Asbury Park Press on Jul. 10, 2012.

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WILLIAM BRYK

July 4, 2021

He enriched my life with laughter and my admiration for his talent, temperament, and judgment. May we meet again in a better place.

William Bryk

July 23, 2012

I remember working with Tom in the Manhattan College Players. I particularly remember his Laertes in our production of Hamlet. I would have liked to have seen his Mercutio in Romeo and Juliet and his Cyrano de Bergerac. From his obituaries, I sense he lived a full, rich life and enjoyed a happy, fulfilling marriage. I have only happy memories of Tom Woods: I regret his passing and hope that he and those he loved will meet again in a better place.

July 14, 2012

So sorry for your loss. I remember Tom at CBA being friends with my brother Dennis, also class of '74 . He was always funny and nice to me. I am sure he and Denny are looking down on us now, from heaven. My prayers to the whole family, Terry I know a little of what you are going through. you are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Terry Sheehan
CBA '77

Brent Barnes

July 12, 2012

Pippa, I'm so saddened by this. Tom was an amazing wonderful person. There really are no words.

Sheree Davis

July 12, 2012

Pippa and family,

I am so sorry that you have lost your husband Tom. I never met him, but reading his obituary, he surely was a wonderful person. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time. God Bless you Pippa...

Leigh Ann Von Hagen

July 12, 2012

Pippa, I am very sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this painful time.

Jean Davidson

July 11, 2012

Kay and Family:

My deepest symphony. We celebrate Tom's life and know that he is at last "Home"

Gordon

July 11, 2012

Pippa; Gabi & I are saddened and shocked to hear of Tom's passing, while I only met him once or twice he was charming & obviously the love of your life! Gabi was a great fan of his blog's! Our hearts go out to you and your family. Love Gabi & Gordon

Myra Negron

July 10, 2012

Pippa:

May god grant you and your family comfort during this difficult time.

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

fjohn reinke (mc1968)

July 10, 2012

The Manhattan College alumni community shares the grief, and is now praying for our fellow alumni and the family at this time. The Alumni Office has been informed. As well as the Jasper Jottings community that I personally can reach. We are all a little poorer now. "No man is an island, entire of itself ... any man's death diminishes me". We are sorry for your loss.

Flores Family

July 10, 2012

Pippa and the Woods Family,

Memories keep the one you loved close to you in spirit and thought and always in your heart, today and forever!

With Deepest Sympathy,

Angie and Lou Flores

Larry Mills

July 10, 2012

I will always remember you Tom. You were my best friend growing up. I will miss you.

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