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John Dullum Obituary

(Asbury Park Press)

JOHN R. DULLUM
AGE: 64 BAYVILLE
John R. Dullum, 64, of Bayville, Berkeley Twsp., NJ died Saturday May 15, 2010 at Community Medical Center, Toms River. Born in Chicago, IL, he lived in Lakewood, NJ for 25 years before moving to Bayville 6 years ago. Mr. Dullum was a Corporate Credit Manager for Gulf & Western in Manhattan, NY then worked for Matlack Trucking in North Jersey. He later owned Innovative Logistics in Bayville, NJ before retiring. He was a lifelong Chicago Cubs fan and was a fan of NASCAR. John served in the US Army during the Vietnam War and was a parishioner of St. Barnabas RC Church, Bayville.
Surviving are his wife of 39 years, Marylou (nee Cantelmi); a son, Brian Dullum of Toms River; a daughter, Lauren Moulton and her husband Steven of Conshohocken, PA; three sisters, Valerie Amerlan and Kathryn Dullum of Bakersfield, Missouri and Pamela Dullum. John also has a granddaughter on the way.
The family will receive friends Wednesday 2-4 & 7-9pm at the Timothy E. Ryan Home for Funerals O'Connell Chapel, 706 Hwy 9, Bayville, NJ. A Mass of Christian Burial will be offered Thursday 11:00am at St. Barnabas RC Church, Bayville, NJ. Burial to follow at the New Jersey Veterans Memorial Cemetery, Arneytown, NJ.
Condolences may be sent to the family by visiting www.ryanfuneralhome.com

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Published by Asbury Park Press on May 18, 2010.

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Nilda Gastuch

May 20, 2010

Marylou and family, our thoughts and prayers are with you. I am so sorry for your loss.

Nilda Gastuch (Dullum)

Mariah Burnett

May 19, 2010

Dear Aunt MaryLou and family. I wanted to say that I am sorry for the loss. I love you always and I wish I could be there. I LOVE YOU ALWAYS!!! :)
Mariah Burnett

Valerie Amerlan

May 19, 2010

Dear Aunt MaryLou, Lauren, and Brian,
I am very sorry for your loss. Uncle John was a very great person and I love him very much. I know I didn't get to know Uncle John very well, but the part I did know made me smile and love him very much. I love you all and I hope to see you all soon.

jennifer grippe

May 19, 2010

dear marylou and family,our thoughts and prayers are with you. john is a great man,always had a smile on and never let anyone tell him something couldn't be done. jennifer grippe

Walter Hundeshagen

May 19, 2010

Brian and Family
MY thoughts and prayers go out to you in this time of need ....Just be comforted by the thought that he is with God and that he is being cared for in his Heavenly Realm....No more pain or hurt, all is better.....GOD BLESS YOU.....

Brian Zawid

May 19, 2010

Dear Brian, Marylou, and Lauren,

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in your time of grief.

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Joe Grippe

May 19, 2010

Dear Marylou and family, our thoughts and prayers are with you.America has lost another hero' but he will never be forgotten. Joe and Ann Grippe

May 19, 2010

Dear MaryLou and family : My deepest sympathy to you and your family. Elaine Tahaney (Brick, NJ)

SHANE GRANITSKI

May 19, 2010

BRIAN, LAUREN AND MARYLOU, I AM SO SORRY THAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH THIS. YOU ARE IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS, LET ME KNOW IF I CAN DO ANYTHING. LOVE YOU GUYS, SHANE

Kim Burnett

May 19, 2010

Love you all. Wish I could be there. See you soon. Kim

Jason Kaplan

May 19, 2010

Dear Brian and family, I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Jason Kaplan (Middletown, NJ)

Missy Greenawald

May 18, 2010

Dear Lauren and Family,

He left before you,
A place to prepare,
In the shelter,
Of our Lord's care,
May this bring comfort,
In the sorrow you bear.

My thoughts and prayers are with you.

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