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Walter Bertelson Obituary

Walter Samuel Bertelson

AGE: 64 • Howell

Walter Samuel Bertelson, of Howell, NJ, passed away unexpectedly on Saturday, Jan. 25, 2014 at the age of 64. He grew up in Neptune where he was known as " Buddy" to all and "Bip" to some. He recently retired from Monmouth University where he was Fire & Safety Supervisor for 33 years, and when he was not working he was a dedicated volunteer fireman for the Brielle Fire Department. A life well lived, Buddy was an avid outdoor enthusiast and a competitive sportsman. He played softball throughout his life, and when he wasn't playing softball he was either hunting, fishing or most recently playing golf, where he would challenge anyone to a game, anywhere! He was a loving husband, father, grandfather, brother, uncle, friend and our "silent" hero who will be forever missed.

Buddy was preceded in death by his parents, Walter and Myra Bertelson; his two brothers, Donald (Birdman) and Daryl Jay. He is survived by his long time love and adoring wife, Robin; daughter, Sheree and son-in-law, Gregg Colacichi; son, Christopher Bertelson and daughter-in-law, Candace; stepchildren, Jeffrey, Jason, and Jennylynn; daughter-in-law, Jennifer and ten adoring grandchildren; sisters, Patricia Bertelson, Linda and brother-in-law, Edward Preston and Cynthia Bruno; brother, Robert Bertelson and sister-in-law, Lynette; niece, Renata Bruno; nephews, Eric Preston, Robert D., Justin J. and Patrick Bertelson; his close friend/cousin, Raymond Boyd, and his lifelong sidekick, Michael LaCour.

A celebration of his life will be held Thurs. Jan. 30 from 7 to 9pm at the Francioni, Taylor & Lopez Funeral Home, 1200 10th and Atkins Ave, Neptune. A 11am service will be held Fri. Jan. 31, 2014 at the funeral home.

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Published by Asbury Park Press on Jan. 28, 2014.

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Wanda Starnes Gammon

January 22, 2022

I think of you often and miss you dearly. It seems like you just left us to join your family in heaven.

Todd Cory

January 22, 2020

RIP Buddy.. I think of you often and miss you a great deal

Greta and Ken Ritz

February 26, 2014

Our prayers, love and sympathy to the Bertelson Family. Buddy had a tremendous love for his family and friends and they will always have those memories to cherish. I will truly miss his smile and his sense of humor, and Kenny will miss those pool games. He was such a fierce competitor! May he rest in peace, and his memory live on in the hearts of everyone who loved him.

Candace Bertelson

February 24, 2014

Dad/Grandpa,

It's so hard to believe that you're gone. My heart, head and emotions have been in contradiction ever since you left: I miss you, yet I know you're with us; I feel like we got robbed, yet I'm so grateful for the time we had; I'm sad over all the things we had still to show you, yet proud for what you saw from us before you left. Losing someone so central to ones life is something I don't think I will ever understand.

All I do know is how very fortunate I feel to have been blessed with the honor of having you as a dad. Because although you're my father-in-law, you have been a dad to me from day one. I cherish the relationship we had and am a better person from all that you have taught me. Definitely better at pool and shooting!

We miss you every single day and will continue to keep your memory alive through Chance, your little "tink-tink", and the grandchildren you never got to meet. I so wish we had just a few more years, but like they say, the good ones go too soon.

Love & miss you. Until we meet again.

Candace
xoxoxoxoxoxo

Chance "lil tink tink" Bertelson

February 19, 2014

Grandpa, we had a
Once in a lifetime relationship, the way you held me and looked at me i will never forget! I promise i will make you proud whether on the links or the baseball diamond. I will carry you with me and let everyone know my Grandpa was a real life superhero. Love always & forever, Chance "little tink tink" Bertelson. I know your my guardian angel and with that knowledge i shall have no fear! Xoxoxo

February 12, 2014

Condolences to the family. Just found out yesterday. Always enjoyed Buddy's dry sense of humor. He will be missed.-Bill Pfister

Jo Ann Capone

February 2, 2014

My sincere sympathy to all of Buddy's family. Have fond memories growing up with the Bertelson family. The world has truly lost one of the Good Guys. May you RIP Buddy.

Tom Harvey

January 31, 2014

bud,don;mike and I were roommates for 3 yrs a lot of great memories was hoping to see him when icame back to nj rip brother , prayers to all the family

Tuna Vodola

January 31, 2014

Bip my brother. Our lead off batter who set the tables for the rest of the team. You will be missed dearly.

Rachel Colon-Ruth

January 31, 2014

I knew Buddy through Donnie, Bobby, Cindy & Mike LaCour. It was a pleasure to have known you back in the day Buddy. My condolences to your family & friends as they have lost a true gentleman. RIP Buddy.

Gene Hickey

January 30, 2014

To a great hunting BUddy and friend never forgotten

Georgina LaCour

January 30, 2014

So sad for Robin, Sheree, and Chris and all the Bertelson family. Such a terrible loss. So glad we recently spent time together at my brother Sal's funeral Buddy. Will cherish all the time's we spent together when we were younger and all the times we played cards at Barbara's with Donny and Mike. Will always remember you and love you. Love Georgina

"Love from the Sea" watercolor

Francine Curto

January 30, 2014

You will be so missed by your family , Cindy , Bobby and your many friends. I have fond memories of the Bradley Park School Area , 9th & 10th Ave which we were all so much a part of. Hope to see you again one of these days.
love,
francine

Peter and Grace

January 30, 2014

Buddy!!You were more like family to us, we are going to miss you just knowing that you Robin were just down the street and we could always walk down and have some good laughs with you both.In the nice weather we would hear a motorcycle go down the street,Peter would always say is that Bud I would look out the window and there you were with you coverhalls on.I think the things we are going to miss the most is your smile,you always had one,the other is saying to Peter I got that tool or that's not the way you do it Pete.we will always remember the stories about your golf games with Ray.Rest in peace our friend knowing that you will be missed by many many people and that we will all look after Robin,Peter now has two women to look after in the neighborhood.Robin our hearts break for you. Peter and Grace

Jean Moran-Potts

January 30, 2014

R.I.P. Buddy as children we had a lot of fun. Say Hi to ma Bertelson.

melissa n monkey ed and hucky

January 29, 2014

May you forever shine down on us from up above

January 29, 2014

BUDDY!!! WE WILL FOREVER MISS U. YOU WERE A GREAT FRIEND TO EVERYONE, SOME MIGHT JUST SAY YOU WERE THEIR HERO U WERE ONE OF THE MOST CARING N GIVING PEOPLE I HAVE EVER MET U WERE TRULY ONE OF A KIND N U WILL ALWAYS B IN OUR HEARTS!
YOUR NEIGHBORS
MELISSA MONKEY ED N HUCKY!!!!!!

Lester Starnes

January 29, 2014

Buddy, I remember our rock fights, the time in grammar school that all the Bertelson boys had Mohawk haircuts and the many hours and days spent at your house where Myra always treated me like one of your family. I have known you since we were ten years old. Remember hanging out in Bradley Park Playground? There will never be another like you and you will be missed unbearably. You were an integral part of my childhood and you will forever be my brother from another mother. Love, Lester

Wanda Gammon

January 29, 2014

To my longest friend and cousin, I always knew I could get the real facts from you always. It wasn't long ago we were smoking cigars at Lester's wedding. I wish we still were! I always looked forward to spending time with you. Although you are no longer here, you will never be forgotten! Love and miss you lots.

Lenore Schilling

January 29, 2014

May you find peace, resting with all the times you have with your brother. And knowing that one you will see your family again.

carol

January 29, 2014

you will be missed so much & always be loved by family & friends love always cousin carol ann

January 29, 2014

Buddy-will always remember the days of pool games your softball games The first day you started at Monmouth College on the grounds crew you taught me a lot. R.I.P. Gary Strasser

James Kane

January 28, 2014

Sweet Prayers from the Kane Family. James, Sandra, Abbie, Elise and Tyler.

Debbie Dellett

January 28, 2014

Buddy,I have such good memories and thoughts of your kindness and friendship.They don't make many like you.I can still hear you yell out Good Morning World! May you play golf, fix a fish pond and help people fix things in heaven.Rip my friend. Robin my deepest sympathy to you.

January 28, 2014

Prayers to the entire family on this devastating loss. Chris & Candance please know that Eji & I are only a phone call away. You & your entire family and friends are in our thoughts and prayers.
Love, Lauren & Eji Maxilom

Janis Presseau

January 28, 2014

Many prayers for Chris, Candace, Chance and the entire Bertelson family. May many years of happy memories comfort you in difficult moments.

Steve Soltys

January 28, 2014

Buddy, you will be sorely missed, but will live on in all the hearts and lives you touched. Thank you for all of the wonderful times you allowed me to share with you and Chris.

Jesse Tjarks

January 28, 2014

I'd like to send my love and prayers to the Bertelson Family Walter "Buddy" Bertelson was a great man and also a fellow firefighter and I'm honored to have known him we had many great laughs over the years and I'll never forget the year I went to his house for Super Bowl, and Easter as well as many bbqs. I had many good times with you brother and you will be greatly missed All My Love Jesse Tjarks!

Jesse

January 28, 2014

Dear family of buddy my prayers
Go with yours a great man has been taken too soon but I bet they they are having a nice BBQ venison tenderloin in heaven God bless

Debbie Hewitson-Kirk

January 28, 2014

So sad to hear of Buddy's passing, he was a very special soul who touched so many lives. My condolences to his family.

January 28, 2014

my dear cousin,you will be missed so much by your friends and family you will always be in my heart.love cousin carol ann.

Susan Sferas

January 28, 2014

To my dear friend Patty and her family,
My very sincere condolences for your terrible loss. I hope good memories of Buddy will comfort you at this very difficult time and in the days to come.

January 28, 2014

my prays to the family. I was a childhood friend, we went to school and sometimes hanged out togather. He was a great friend, and will be missed by so many.
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Lynn Staufenberg

January 28, 2014

So sorry to hear of Walter's passing. He was a very nice man. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

January 28, 2014

The Hotellings are very sorry for your loss.

Warren Durham

January 28, 2014

Cindy and Bobby; You have my deepest sympathy, So sorry for the loss of your brother. I Pray that God provides you and your family comfort at this difficult time.

Martin Clark

January 28, 2014

So long, Buddy. A good guy from Neptune who made something of himself. RIP

Rick Caves

January 28, 2014

Dear Patty,
So sorry to hear of your loss. You are in my prayers.
Love & Peace,
Rick

Deborah Carbone

January 28, 2014

RIP Buddy? you for sure will be one of the Brightest Angels in heaven. My Heart and prays go out to the Bertelson family.

January 28, 2014

I don't know how you to it Cyndy. I did not know you had such a big family. I would have lived to have met them. May you find peace resting in peace in the arms of Jehovah God.

Melinda Gottschalk-Brennan Bruce Krezonis

January 28, 2014

Our deepest sympathies on the loss of such a great guy, big brother and friend for as long as I can remember. My heart is very heavy but I know he is in Gods loving hands with Mom, Donnie, & DJ. I will miss you forever Buddy. You always made me laugh every time we saw each other. Im blessed to have known you. Until we see each other again God Bless

Bob & Sue Campbell

January 28, 2014

We will miss our neighbor and friend "Buddy". Always willing to help anyone especially my sister, Jane B., his next door neighbor. No matter how busy he always had time to stop and talk or just wave hello. "Buddy" will be sorely missed by all! With Deepest Sympathy,

Maureen Dunne

January 28, 2014

My sincere condolences to the family. I think of the softball games with Infinity & Petro's Pirates.

Joe Strickland

January 28, 2014

Buddy,
The world won't be the same.Going to miss you my friend.

Eileen Morgan-Mayfield

January 28, 2014

Chris & family-so very sorry to hear about Buddy's passing. May memories of him make this difficult time a little easier to bear.

Jon Newman

January 28, 2014

I hope all the wonderful memories Bud left us with will help during a difficult time. Thanks Buddy, we miss you.

Denise Cramer

January 28, 2014

My condolences to the family and friends for your loss. May God's love comfort you during this time. I am sure Buddy will be playing ball in heaven.

stephen schraeger

January 28, 2014

My heart goes out to the Bertelson family RIP Buddy.

Todd Cory

January 28, 2014

RIP Buddy,sorrow to the family A better guy would be very hard to find!

January 28, 2014

R.I.P. Buddy will miss you.

SHERYL BRENAN

January 28, 2014

RIP WALTER

Michelle LaCour

January 27, 2014

Uncle buddy..words cannot describe the pain in my heart now that you aren't with us anymore. You are my closest Uncle I have had some of my most cherished memories with you my dad and Chris you never gave up on me through my trials and tribulations you never turned your back on me. Ill miss your big hugs and hearing "I love you little girl" my life is lived by the morals and values my father and you instilled in me our family is so close and you will live on through me Chris chance my dad your sister robin Uncle Bobbyall of us, and we know you and ma will be at every family party joking and laughing with us in spirit. You taught me so much about life Uncle buddy I love you more than words can explain I will miss you until you open the gates for me one day, your niece Michelle xo

Maureen McCormack

January 27, 2014

RIP Buddy, you will be missed.

Your Loving Little Sister Cyndy

Cyndy, Cynthia, Cyn

January 27, 2014

BUDDY my oldest brother, my friend and my HERO. I have been honored to have you in my life and I am your special little sister Cyn. Our family has a deep loving bond that many others don't ever experience. This special family connection of ours is so deep that words are not needed because our hearts are filled with pure LOVE. May you rest peacefully with DJ, Donnie and Mommy. I will try not to cry, this is not our final good bye, I'll be blowing you kisses in the wind to soar up to the sky. The Man every girl should have....

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