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Della Cates Obituary

Della Cates, a Rio Oso resident since 1953, died October 4, 2010. She was 96 years young and was born March 6, 1914 in Red Oak, OK. Before moving to California, Della survived the Great Depression, lived through two World Wars, saw the end of Prohibition and had stories to tell about what the blinding Storms of the Dust Bowl looked like. Through it all, she loved life and was a devoted wife, mother, and grandma to family and friends who became her family. Besides her loving family, her passions were flower gardens, her vegetable gardens, her chickens and traveling each year to a family reunion in Broken Bows, OK. She was preceded in death by her husband of 56 years, Henry Cates. They married on February 23, 1943. Della is survived by her children, Bill Cates & wife Sandy of Arboga, CA; Sue Duncan & husband Dub of Gentry, AR; LeVon Scheiber & husband Willy of Rio Oso, CA; Barbara Nahas of Rio Oso, CA and Dan Cates & wife Pam of St. Roberts, MO, who gave her 14 grandchildren, 2 of whom preceded her in death, 20 great grandchildren and 3 great- great grandchildren who brought her endless joy. Also, she is survived by 2 brothers, Alvin Tomlinson of Broken Bow, OK, Donzel Tomlinson of El Dorado, AR and 1 sister, Donnie Whisenhunt of Broken Bow, OK. There is a viewing on Tuesday, October 12 from 2:00 to 8:00 at Lipp and Sullivan Funeral Home in Marysville. A graveside service will be held on October 13 at 1:00 pm at Fairview Cemetery in Rio Oso. Send Condolences to www.appealdemocrat.com

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Published by Appeal Democrat from Oct. 9 to Oct. 10, 2010.

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Appeal-Democrat

October 11, 2010

Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss. Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.

ERIKA HEREDIA

October 10, 2010

IN LOVING MEMORY OF A WONDERFUL person. We will love you and miss you always.<3 i WAS DELLA'S CARETAKER SHE WAS SUCH A FUN HAPPY AND LOVING PERSON ALWAYZ TALKIN ABOUT HER BEAUTiFUL ROSE BUSHES AND FRuiT TREES i ALWAYZ LOVED HOW SHE WOULD POiNT ME OUT THREW THE HALL AND SAY HEY SMiLE AND THEN WANTED A HUG i WiLL DEARLY MiSS MY DELLA HER SMiLE AND WoNDERFUL SPirT MY CONDOLENCES GO TO THE FAMiLY UVE LOST A WONDERFUL PERSON BUT GAiND A BEAUTiFUL GUARDiAN ANGEL R.I.P. DELLA

Bob Derby

October 10, 2010

My sympathies to you all. I remember that first summer----Danny bedded down in a peach box and your Mom and the rest of you helping your Dad pick---people aren't made like that anymore! What a wonderful long life---she was a great lady!!
Love to you all, Bob Derby

Jeanne Frei Caramico

October 10, 2010

Dear Cates Family, Just recently Susan Dethlefsen and my self(Jeanne Frei) were talking about what a wonderful person your Mom and Dad were. So much time passes and am personally sorry haven't kept in touch.My heart breaks for the loss of your Mother, I will send my prayers for all of you. Unfortunately for me I will be out of town during Mrs. Cates services. My thoughts are with you.Wonderful memories with your family. Love, Jeanne Frei Caramico.

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