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Randolph THROWER Obituary

THROWER, Randolph W. 1913-2014 Randolph Thrower died peacefully at home on March 8, having recently celebrated his 100th birthday. He was a leader in virtually every endeavor of his long and active life, which included a remarkable legal career and a dedication to public service. Randolph was a devoted family man with a gentle sense of humor, a deep reverence for the natural world and a joyous and generative approach to life. Together with his adored wife, Margaret, he loved to be in the mountains, at the beach and in the woods, especially at Sunnyside Farm in Gadsden County, Florida. He was a tree planter, a fisherman, a fossil hunter, a student of religion and history and an explorer of ancient ruins around the world. Randolph instilled a love of nature in his children and grandchildren, and he always had a twinkle in his eye and a light touch. Randolph was born on September 5, 1913, the son of Benjamin Key Thrower Jr. and Ora Hammond of Tampa, Florida. After the untimely death of his father when Randolph was an infant, he was raised by his grandparents, the Reverend Benjamin Key Thrower and Laura Mitchell Thrower, and his uncles and aunts. As a young boy, he attended Georgia Military Academy in Atlanta (now Woodward Academy), where he won many awards, including "Best Drilled Cadet." He went on to Emory College, class of 1934, and Emory Law School, class of 1936. The campus yearbook recognized Randolph as a leader "respected for his sober judgment, admired for his versatility, and liked by all for his genuine friendliness." At Emory he met the men who were his closest lifelong friends: Boisfeuillet Jones, Bruce Logue, Albert Reichert, and Jimmy Ferman. While at Emory, Randolph also met Margaret Logan Munroe from Quincy, Florida. They were married on Groundhog's Day in 1939 and lived their romance for the next 70 years. Throughout her life Margaret was an integral and beautiful partner in all of Randolph's endeavors. They hated to be separated, and Margaret went with him whenever and wherever she could. They moved to upstate New York in 1942 when Randolph joined the FBI, and to California in 1943, prior to his deployment to the Philippines and Okinawa as a captain in the Marine Corps. When the war was over and Randolph came home, they bought a little house in Atlanta, which they promptly filled with children. Randolph joined the law firm of Sutherland, Tuttle & Brennan in 1936 and he was proud to be a partner at Sutherland until his death. He achieved a high level of professional success, representing corporations and individuals, primarily in tax litigation. Randolph was an untiring advocate for his clients, renowned for his thorough preparation of legal arguments, his mastery of the facts and his persistence. When dealing with the government or opposing counsel, Randolph believed that if he could make them understand his position they would agree; if they didn't agree, he must not have explained it well enough, and he would patiently explain it again, and again. For Randolph, being a lawyer meant much more than just serving paying clients. From the outset of his career he was committed to providing legal services for those unable to pay, and he worked to improve the profession at every level. From his days as a young lawyer handling a death penalty appeal, to his active participation in the elder law program at Atlanta Legal Aid Society when he was in his nineties, Randolph participated personally in pro bono cases. He was president of Atlanta Legal Aid Society in 1953, and in 1983 led its groundbreaking and successful appeal for funds from Atlanta lawyers and law firms. He was a founding member of the Lawyers' Committee for Civil Rights under Law, which honored him with its 1997 Segal-Tweed Founders Award. Randolph was a leader in the American Bar Association, serving as chairman of the ABA Section of Taxation and for 17 years as a member of its House of Delegates. He was also president of the American Bar Foundation and a member of ABA's initial Commission on the Status of Women in the Profession. In 1993 the ABA awarded him the American Bar Association Medal, its highest honor, for exceptionally distinguished service by a lawyer to the cause of American jurisprudence, saying: He "set a standard to which all lawyers can aspire. His unique combination of advocacy, conscience and leadership provide a powerful moral force for all who know him. [He] has worked tirelessly as an advocate for the poor, for women, for minorities, and for our system of government that serves us all." Randolph also played key leadership roles in church and community activities. He was a founding member of Northside United Methodist Church, where he taught adult Sunday school for decades. He served for years as a trustee of Emory University and was chairman of the board of Wesleyan College. In his seventies, after most people would have thought they had done enough, Randolph led the Georgia Wilderness Institute as its first chair, as it built facilities to provide alternatives to incarceration for delinquent youth. In the early 1950s he became active in the fledgling Georgia Republican Party. He believed in the importance of a two-party system and was eager to fight the entrenched arch-segregationists and the unfair county unit system. In 1956 he ran for Congress as a Republican and, to everyone's surprise (especially his, and Margaret's, who was then six months pregnant), he almost won. In 1969 he was appointed commissioner of the Internal Revenue Service by President Richard Nixon. He served for two years, working through many high profile and contentious issues, including refusing tax-exempt status for private schools that discriminated on the basis of race. But the most difficult issues were not visible to the public. The Nixon White House sought to use the IRS for improper purposes, such as audits of its "enemies list." Randolph steadfastly refused to allow misuse of the IRS, and as a result, was directed by the President to resign. Randolph quietly returned to his law practice. Only after the Watergate hearings did he understand what he had been dealing with and speak publicly of his experience. From 1980 to 1992 Randolph served as chair of the City of Atlanta's Board of Ethics and was co-chair of an investigation into allegations of cheating on police promotion exams. Randolph's integrity, courage and fairness in these and other matters has been widely recognized and applauded. Randolph received many accolades, including honorary degrees from Emory University and Wesleyan College, the American Inns of Court Professionalism Award for the Eleventh Circuit, the Leadership Award of the Atlanta Bar Association, the Founders Award of the Lawyers' Committee for Civil Rights Under Law, recognition as one of Georgia's "Heroes, Saints and Legends" by Wesley Woods, the Ben F. Johnson Public Service Award from Georgia State University College of Law, the John Wesley Award from Reinhardt College, the Lifetime Anti-Defamation League Achievement Award, a special tribute from the Atlanta Legal Aid Society on its 75th anniversary, and the Coverdell Good Government Award, to name just a few. His memoir, Randolph Thrower: The Early Years, published by his family for his 95th birthday, is both wise and funny. At the end of his life, he delighted in the flowers in his garden and the hummingbirds that frequented his feeders. He demonstrated kindness daily and retained his dry wit and appreciation for a good story. Randolph was predeceased by his beloved Margaret, who died in 2009. He is survived by his five children-Margaret MacCary of New York City, Patricia Barmeyer of Atlanta, Laura Harris (David) of New York City, Randy Thrower (Carolyn) of Decatur, and Mary Wickham (George) of Richmond; his eleven grandchildren- 1, 1 William Thomas MacCary (Karla), Margaret MacCary (Arne Jokela), Wilson Barmeyer (Sarah), Mary Logan Bikoff (David), Benjamin Thrower (Meli), Randolph Thrower III (Amanda), Albert Thrower, Taylor Harris, Patricia Harris, Clayton Wickham and Will Wickham; and nine great-grandchildren-Kate MacCary, Julia MacCary, Alice Jokela, Billy Jokela, Tinsley Barmeyer, Cora Thrower, Ada Thrower, Davis Randolph Thrower, and Tula Thrower. The family expresses profound appreciation to his loving caregivers Jean Blythe, Audrey Kornegy, Doreene Blair, and Rose Marie Ricketts, and his secretary, Hazel Williams. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions can be made to the Atlanta Legal Aid Society or the charity of your choice. The family will receive friends Friday, March 14th from 5:00pm - 7:00pm at H. M. Patterson & Son, Spring Hill Chapel. Services will be held at Northside United Methodist Church on Saturday, March 15 at 11 a.m.

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Published by Atlanta Journal-Constitution on Mar. 10, 2014.

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November 7, 2014

My father, Alfred M. Brown of Concord, N. C., served with Mr. Thrower on the board at GMA. He was a graduate as well. I have a framed pictorial listing of all of the board members in 1962. I just read the online obituary today.
Mr. Thrower was a man of integrity.

Sincerely
Alfred M. Brown, Jr.
Concord, N. C.

Charles Sadler

August 19, 2014

My Mother 1969 Dodge Dart was a faithful workhorse like Randolph Thrower legal career. Many blessings.

April 5, 2014

Offering my deepest condolences. ( Ps 46 : 1 )

March 22, 2014

Tricia and Laura-
I was surprised to see your dad's lovely obituary in today's Boston Globe. I have lived in Massachusetts for over 38 years and it brought back a flood of memories: Early years on Greystone Road, E. Rivers, Northside Methodist, and finally Hollins! Graduation was the last time I saw your parents and I remember they made a point of seeking me out to congratulate me. They always called me by my full name to distinguish me from you, Laura! My sincere condolences to all of your family--Laura Walker Dunn

March 18, 2014

May God grant you strength and courage as you face the coming days a head.

March 17, 2014

Randolph and Margaret Thrower were already well known for their impact on the Wesleyan College family of students, faculty and alumnae when I was a student there. (Class of 1958). I wish that I had known them personally. I mourn their loss together because their names just always flowed together in my memory. I was a scholarship student and I am sure that many Wesleyannes had the opportunity to attend Wesleyan because of their dedication to the "oldest and best.". My condolences to the family and friends of Randolph Thrower. He was ....Unforgettable. Medra Lott Keyser

Barrett Hawks

March 17, 2014

Much has been said about Randoloph's integrity, all of which is true. I would like to add one personal experience: I was interviewing with Sutherland in 1965. At the time I was with another Atlanta firm. Randolph insisted that I give my notice to my existing firm before he would extend me an offer to join Sutherland, because he did not want it to be said that Sutherland was proselytizing at another firm.

March 14, 2014

I am thinking of you. What a great life and a great father. He also had a great daughter in you.
Love to all your family,
Alice McDonough

Fount May

March 14, 2014

A true southern gentleman of the old school. My parents always enjoyed their company. ]Sorry for your loss but what a wonderful legacy he left.
Fount May, Jr.

March 13, 2014

May the God of all comfort be with your family at this time of grief (1Co 15:26).

John Crawford

March 13, 2014

Mr. Thrower was a shining example of personal and professional integrity. may he soar with the angels and within our hearts

March 13, 2014

I am sorry to miss both the visitation and the memorial service for Mr. Thrower, a wonderful man and wonderful public servant. He was especially helpful and supportive of Atlanta Legal Aid, throughout his career.

Randy Brown

March 13, 2014

My father and Randolph were KA fraternity brothers at Emory. Dad loved to tell the story about Margaret's coming to Atlanta to buy her trousseau when she was first engaged to another man. Having known Randolph from their Emory days together, she called him to say hello while she was in town. He took her to lunch; and, as Dad was fond of saying, "After that, the other fellow never had a chance." Randolph's impeccable 100-year animation on this earth is a testimony to accomplishment and integrity. I am grateful and proud to have known him.

Reed

March 13, 2014

Offering my deepest condolences to Mr Thrower family, may God grant you strength and courage as you face the coming days.

The Jones Family

March 13, 2014

May the God o all comfort be with you at this time of Grief. 1 Cor 15:26

l h

March 12, 2014

May God Almighty bring you comfort during your affliction.-Psalms 119:50

Leah Sears

March 12, 2014

Randolph Thrower was a man of great integrity and grace. I strive to live like he did. He will be missed.

Alex Woollcott

March 12, 2014

I was fortunate to have Randolph as my first supervising partner when I began my law practice in the mid 1980s. Aside from being a gifted lawyer, he was wise in ways that transcended the practice of law and above all a fine human being. Years later, I enjoyed seeing Randolph and Margaret at my family's annual Christmas drop-by. My sympathy to the entire Thrower family.

Trudy Crouch

March 12, 2014

My sincere and deepest sympathy to the family. I was working at the firm when the news media came to interview him about Watergate. Mr. Thrower was such a great example to everyone who worked with and around him. His wise counsel was always given freely and as a teaching moment.

DF

March 12, 2014

May The God Of All Comfort Be With You At This Time Of Grief 1Cor 15:26

Tom Bolt

March 11, 2014

My condolences to the Thrower family. It was a privilege to know Attorney Thrower through the American Bar Association where I served in its House of Delegates when he was presented our ABA Medal of Honor in 1993. Indeed he was a lawyer's lawyer.

Hopefully his family will find comfort in their many wonderful memories, as well as the love and kindness of family and friends. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

John Lupton

March 11, 2014

A truly great gentleman. I am honored to have known him and been able to call him a friend.
John M. Lupton

Helen Maddox

March 11, 2014

Bebbie, I was so sorry to hear about your father's death. I am sending much love to you and your family at this time. I just know that he was such a special man. The article in the paper captured his spirit so well. You were so blessed to have such loving parents. May those good memories be with you forever. Love, Helen

March 11, 2014

Randolph was a great lawyer and person. His courageous defense of the First Amendment during the flag burning era is a typical example. He set a wonderful culture as to what lawyers should be and do which will carry forward to the betterment of our world. He and Margret were such gracious and good friends to Gayle, me and our daughter Jennifer ( who practiced at Sutherland). We are so grateful for their lives . Bill and Gayle Ide

RONALD WHITEHEAD

March 11, 2014

Rest in peace mr Thrower you will be missed WISKERS

Elizabeth Cook

March 10, 2014

Bob and my prayers and thoughts are with the whole family. Uncle Randolph and Aunt Margaret touched so many lives in so many ways..he will be greatly missed by all!

Sheena Hayes

March 10, 2014

To the Family:My God give you power you need to get through this.Please draw strength from the words of the Psalmist.Ps.34:17,18.Please accept my condolences.

Bob, Elaine Woodward

March 10, 2014

God speed to one of my favorite people. As I wrote for his celebration he was and is a guiding light in my life. Elaine and I am sorry we can not be with you for this celebration of his life. I am having a procedure Wednesday that will prevent us being there in person but all of you will be our hearts and prayers. Bob and Elaine woodward

Sandy Hinton

March 10, 2014

I will always remember Mr. Thrower as the consummate Southern gentleman. I appreciated his kindness and consideration when I had the pleasure of assisting him at Sutherland. What an accomplished life he led and what a wonderful influence he was on all those privileged to know him and enjoy his company. Sincerest condolences to his family and close friends. He will genuinely be missed.

Bobbie Munroe

March 10, 2014

'An older man wanted to plant a certain type of tree. A young gardener told the man that this particular tree would take 40 years to blossom. The older man replied, "Then we'd better start this afternoon."' My dear Uncle Randolph...we we see the blooms from the trees he planted for decades to come. I have never respected anyone to the extent I respected him. He was truly one of a kind in the best way.

March 10, 2014

My condolences to the Thrower family. May you find comfort in your time of loss .Randolph touched the lives of many people he will be missed but not forgotten" Blessed are the dead which die in the Lord." Rev 14:13

Norman Stallings, Jr.

March 10, 2014

What an accomplished life! Hope that fond memories and the love of family and friends will be of comfort to you all at this time of great loss.

~ Rev.21:4 ~ V. Austin

March 10, 2014

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

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