1969 - 2014
1969 - 2014
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Loretta Carman
June 22, 2014
Penny I just heard from Donna about your son. I am so very sorry for your loss,My thoughts and prayers are with you. Loretta Caman
~..~ 2 Thessalonians 2:16
June 22, 2014
May God's love bring you everlasting comfort during this time.
Tyson and Genine Gilbert
June 17, 2014
I'm sure this last weekend was heartbreaking without Mark. Just wanted to let you know, we are still thinking of you all. Sending prayers, and hoping you all find comfort with time.
June 9, 2014
Dear Penny,
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Your family is in my prayers. I pray that you will find comfort in your memories and each other. I did not know your son but in reading about him he lived life to the fullest and was such a joy to everyone.
B.J.Cromwell
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David Rodgers
June 6, 2014
From Jeeps to Drones to MMA.. we had a lot of great conversations Mark. I will miss you and I will keep your family in my prayers. Peace be with you brother.
Sam Austin
June 5, 2014
I was so saddened to hear of Marks tragic accident. Just like a parent, no teacher and coach wants to see their kids pass before them. I was so proud that Mark became such a great business man and even greater family man. God bless the Selbee family.
John 5:25
June 5, 2014
It can be so hard to face the first year without your loved one, but the love of family and friends can carry you through.
June 4, 2014
Penny and family, I'm very sorry for your loss. my thoughts and prayers are with you. Love, Ina Mae Nason
June 2, 2014
Dear Penny,
My heart goes out to you as well as my love of our family memories. My mom, dad, Bob and I shared so many happy times over so many years together. Would never have imagined anything so tragic in our futures. I love you still. God bless you and keep you in these difficult times.
Judy Hargis Plumb.
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June 2, 2014
Penny and Denise Our hearts are full of sadness for you . Linda sent the news . Was so shocked. I thought Mark Selbee would be the one person who could get out of any problem. He grew up to be a fine man, father,son and brother. We will always have fond memories of Mark . Our Prayers for you .Andy and Betty Smith
Kiley Lane
June 1, 2014
Rip Mark very great fighter. May god bless your soul. Praying for your family.
Kiley Lane
June 1, 2014
Rip Mark very great fighter. May god bless your soul. Praying for your familey.
Sherryl Longhofer
May 31, 2014
Penny and Denise, I was so saddened when I heard the news about Mark. I have had many tearful moments and then tender joyful memories of that sweet wonderful young boy in my classroom. You have all been in my prayers and thoughts and Penny I hope to get come visit with you soon. I have so many wonderful stories to share, as Mark was very special to me and he could melt your heart with those eyes and smile. He was the most adorable pilgrim that special Thanksgiving when our picture made the front page of the Topeka Capital Journal, Remember that Penny? Love to you both and to Mark's beautiful family. Sherryl Longhofer
E Harris
May 31, 2014
Dear Selbee Family,
Sorry to read about the loss of your loved one. Just kept praying to the Hearer of Prayer. Psalms 65:2; 83:18.
May 31, 2014
I have known Penny for most of her life although we have not been close. It is so tragic that this could have happened to a young man who was so full of life and love for his family. I feel for everyone in the family, trying to imagine how traumatic this is for everyone. My heart goes out to all of you. Such a beautiful family with so much to look forward to until this horrible event occurred. I pray for your healing and hope that you all may be comforted by beautiful memories.
May 31, 2014
Please find comfort in the Bible
May 31, 2014
Penny and Denise,
I'm so sorry to learn of your loss. You and in my thoughts and prayers.
Cheryl Walters
Topeka
James McCarter
May 31, 2014
I am sad to have lost an incredible friend, but can rest knowing that he is in Heaven now with our Lord and Savior. I spent almost everyday after school with Mark and have so many fond memories of him and what kind of person he was. He was big in stature, but a gentle and caring person. Most people saw a big man with a black belt, but I was fortunate to be close enough to him, as so many were, to be able to see a gentler side of him. He will forever be missed, but NEVER forgotten. Amy,Easton, Ellie Brooke, Hudson, Penny and Al know that I will continue to pray for all of you. God Bless and know that God has a Warrior in Heaven now. :)
Tiffany Hessler-Droge
May 30, 2014
I'm so sorry that Mark is gone. Mark was a wonderful person and he will be missed. Prayers to the family at this very difficult time.
Julie Camien
May 30, 2014
Penny, you and your family have been on our minds all week and in our prayers. We will continue to keep all of you in our prayers going forward.
Cathy Christman- Di leo
May 30, 2014
I was very saddened to hear of the tragic circumstances surrounding marks death. My heart goes out to his children, wife and family. Although we've been out of touch for many years, I have so many memories...he was a good friend to me during high school and will be remembered with much fondness.
Jessica Digilio
May 30, 2014
Mark was a great guy, I'm honored to have known him.
Stacy Copeland
May 30, 2014
Our family sends our condolences. There is no greater loss than a life lost early. Although I only met you once Amy I know your pain is unmeasurable.
Sincerely
Ronnie "The Kid" and Stacy Copeland
Bettie Fargo-Price
May 30, 2014
Penny, so sorry about losing Mark. Hold on to your memories and let them guide you during this time of sadness.
Lori and Brian Federico
May 30, 2014
Our deepest sympathies are with you during this sorrowful time.
Aaron Campbell
May 30, 2014
I'm sorry to hear about your loss. Sending prayers your way for the entire family.
Jack and Janet Stevens
May 30, 2014
Mark was truly an inspiration to all of us who knew him and loved him. Our most sincere and heartfelt condolences go out to Amy, Easton, Ellie Brooke, Hudson and all of Mark's Family. What little solace we can take from this tragic accident are the tremendous memories of Mark that we will all cherish for the rest of our lives.
John Tork
May 30, 2014
Mark was one of the most inspiring persons I have ever had the chance to know. He was in my corner for my last fight in KC . Words cannot express the true feelings I have in my heart and soul for your loss . God bless you and the children Amy
Deborah & Bill Robbins
May 30, 2014
Amy my words seem so small & shallow compaired to the sadness you must be going thur.I'm just so very happy that I got to know you and Mark thur my son Lee. Our thanksgiving dinners will never be the same without yall present.With each day you will have so many special memories so cherish these because they will help you to get thru each day.My prayers will be daily for God to keep his arms around you and the kids.With Love and such fond memories. Deb
Tim Huston
May 30, 2014
I am very sorry to hear about Mark's passing. I enjoyed getting reacquainted with Mark in Atlanta and meeting his lovely wife, Amy. My thoughts and prayers are with all of the Selbee family.
Jeannette Redmond
May 30, 2014
To the family and friends of Mr. Mark Selbee, my deepest sympathy for your loss, nothing can be said that will remove the pain and deep sadness you are feeling at this time, so may you be surrounded , strengthen and comforted by those you love at this very, very difficult time. Sincerely
Tom Madl
May 30, 2014
To Al and family,
I'm sorry I didn't know your son or his family, but I do know that life isn't fair and no parent should ever out live a child. I'm truly sorry for your loss.
jan nixon
May 29, 2014
Penny,
I just can't imagine what you're going through and I pray the good Lord will wrap his arms around you and your family and make this very difficult time a little easier.
Charley Emmons
May 29, 2014
To his family and all who loved Mark, I was a fellow student of Sun Yi's academy of Tai Quan Do and dreaded those long legs of Marks, but I was his Dads age and thankfully he treated me with respect, I will miss the young Mark that I can only imagine was a great dad, son, and husband, he will be missed by all who had the good fortune of knowing him. I am so sorry for your great loss. Charley Emmons WRHS 1964.
Jim & Pattie Phillips
May 29, 2014
Amy,
We are praying for you and your family. Jas has also been praying for Easton. All of the wonderful words expressed by others on this site are truly a testament to you and Mark and hopefully will be of strength to you and your family.
May 29, 2014
Amy, words cannot express how saddened I am for you and your family. I have such fond memories of your wedding. What a fun time. Stay strong for your beautiful children and cherish your memories of Mark.
Marie Yelvington
Jennifer Black
May 29, 2014
Sending prayers to all of Mark's family and friends. Amy - We are thinking about you and those sweet babies every day. And we will continue to do so. I know Mark is going to be the perfect guardian angel for you all. Hugs.
May 29, 2014
To Mark's family, we went to high school with Mark. He was a great guy. He will be missed. Scott (Smitty) and Tammy Sanders.
Suzanne Anderson
May 29, 2014
Penny,
I am so sorry for your loss. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Shana Crawley
May 29, 2014
Praying for your family. I am so sorry.
Kirsten Harken
May 29, 2014
Amy and family - I am so sorry for your loss. Mark was a fantastic person and someone that everyone loved having around. He was well respected and had an amazing way of making everyone feel good. He will be missed.
Paula Pautauros
May 29, 2014
My thoughts and prayers are with the family. I met Mark thru the title industry several years ago. He was a genuine kind hearted man that spoke highly and often of his wife and children. He will be greatly missed!
Paula L. Pautauros
Kerrin Thompson
May 29, 2014
There aren't enough words to express my sympathies, and I can't begin to imagine what you must be feeling. Hold tight to the wonderful memories and stories that you have of Mark. He will always be with you in that way. We love you!
~The Thompson Family
Clifford Manning
May 29, 2014
To Mark's family, I offer my condolences. I know he will be missed. His friends I have talked to, all have interesting and positive thoughts of him and his family. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Dena Lynch
May 29, 2014
Dearest Penny, my heart just breaks for you. I am so honored that the Lord placed me at the Family Fest in Gatlinburg so that I might be there to His word and hopefully offer some comfort. As I said while you were seated in our storage area, know from the bottom of your heart that you will see Mark again, he is with his Grandpa, and that even know, he is with you also.
Love and prayers,
Shirley and Larry Roudybush
May 29, 2014
Penny and family,
We are so sorry for your loss. Please know that you are in our prayers.
Mary Brooks
May 29, 2014
Penny' i'm so sorry for your loss and my heart aches for you and your family. May you find comfort in your faith, and loving memories. You are in my thoughts and prayers at this very sad time. God Bless you and your family,
Denise Ivory
May 29, 2014
Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.
May 29, 2014
To Amy, Easton, Ellie Brook, Hudson and the entire Selbee family, We knew Mark as a wonderful friend, dedicated husband and adoring father. His presence will be missed by everyone who knew him. We will continue to keep your family in our hearts and prayers as you go through this incredibly difficult time.
The Dement Family (Stevie, Cissy, Lauren Cade, Jolie Bey)-Augusta, Ga
Moe Barros
May 29, 2014
I knew Mark from the OP athletic club. We all called him "Selbee" what a great attitude towards life and great personality. My condolenses to his entire family.
Moe Barros
Mechelle Douglass- Hogan
May 29, 2014
Selbee family, may God wrap his loving arms around you all in this time of sorrow. Know He will lift and remind you of all your great memories and keep Mark in your heart forever.
So sorry for your loss. You all are in my prayers.
Candi (Pierce) Mouton
May 29, 2014
I was sadden to see another classmate passing especially so sudden as this. There was never a dull moment when Mark was around, band trips were never boring. May the lord comfort his family during this difficult time.
Joan Dunton
May 29, 2014
Amy there are no words that will express how we all feel. Mark was a wonderful dad and husband. If there is anything the Duntons can do please let us know.
May 29, 2014
So sorry to hear about your son. I can't imagin losing a child. Gary and Edith Reed. Thursday, May 29,2014 Springfield, Mo.
May 29, 2014
Penny, I was so sadden with the news of Mark's passing. God bless you and his family. It will take the Lord's help to help you find the courage and peace in the days to follow.
George Ludwig and daughter of Dixie Ludwig- Dee Ludwig-Ebert
Kimberly Burbank-Havens
May 29, 2014
I was saddened to read in the paper this morning of Mark's passing. When we were in band together, Mark had wonderful stories and jokes to share. He had a great sense of humor. He will be greatly missed. And he had great passion and love for all that life brought him. You all are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
May 29, 2014
Our thoughts and prayers are with the family. So sorry for your lose. Dana Wurdeman
susan rosetta
May 29, 2014
So sorry for your lost. Mark was a fun person to be around. He will be greatly missed.
Melissa Mayeux
May 29, 2014
Sending prayers to Amy, the kids and all that loved Mark.. I am so terribly sorry for your loss. I hope you find some comfort in all the wonderful stories that have been shared.
Reed
May 29, 2014
Offering my deepest condolences to Mr Selbee family. May God grant you strength and courage as you face the coming days.
Michelle Stuart-Bergin
May 29, 2014
I am so sorry for your loss. Words are not sufficient. I am thinking about all of you.
With much love,
Michelle
Heather Wanamaker
May 29, 2014
I went to high school at Washburn Rural with Mark. He was a nice, funny guy. He will be missed. My condolensces to his family.
May 29, 2014
We are so sorry to read of Mark's death. Our prayers are with you. Bill and Jean Fitzgibbons
Kent Dieckmann
May 29, 2014
My Heart is Sad, May The Lord give You & Family, Peace & Love & Comfort, during this Hour of Saddness!
G. Freeman
May 29, 2014
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Karen Lim
May 29, 2014
Our hearts go out to Amy, Easton, Ellie Brooke, Hudson and all who knew and loved Mark. You have our deepest sympathy and continued prayers. May the Lord comfort you and give you strength for the difficult days to come. We pray that He will sustain you and provide for your every need. With much love from Atlanta, The Lim Family XOXO
Chris Holmes
May 28, 2014
My prayers go to you Amy, and your beautiful children. Mark was so full of energy, and he commanded the attention of all when he walked into a room. I will always remember the great times we had bone fishing at Andros. He and I spent a lot of time together on those trips. He will never be forgotten. Such a great man, father, and husband. I will miss his voice, his smile, his personality, and his friendship. God Bless to your family.
Sheila Gillespie
May 28, 2014
Dear Amy,
I am so very, very sorry for your loss. My heart in Georgia is aching for you and your family and I am sending love and prayers. I hope the support of friends, family and your Faith can get you through this difficult time.
Keeping you in my thoughts...Sheila Gillespie
The Staubs
May 28, 2014
I know that my words fall short of expressing the sadness our family feels for your loss. Mark was THE BEST. We love you all and offer never-ending prayers for your comfort.
Jordan Morgan
May 28, 2014
So sorry to hear about this terrible news. I only got to spend a little bit of time around Mark, but it was enough to realize that he was a great guy and somebody that you wanted to be around. My thoughts and prayers to his family.
Bobbie
May 28, 2014
I am so sorry for your family's loss. At times like these words fail me. I hope you find some comfort in the words at Rev 20:12 & 13, which gives us a beautiful future hope.
Robin Stohrer
May 28, 2014
Amy,
Words can not explain the sorrow I feel for you and the kids. My heart breaks for you all. You all are in my thoughts and prayers. Stay strong . I love you Girl!
May 28, 2014
Amy, may I add my voice to the many who are expressing sympathy for your loss. I am so sorry you have to walk this road.
Thoughts and prayers to you and your sweet kiddos.
Vicki (Horsch) Hoylman, northwest Ohio
May 28, 2014
Amy, We were saddened to hear the news about Mark. You are in our thoughts and prayers. May you find strength in your faith
Gary, Gloria, Brittany and Zachary Frederick
Steve & Dorothy Overbey
May 28, 2014
We were greatly saddened to hear of Mark's passing! We have known him since his teenage years and were a part of his Topeka TKD family. Our thoughts and prayers are with his entire family!
Julie Jones
May 28, 2014
Amy, I am so saddened to hear of your loss. I am praying for you & your children during this difficult time. Love, Julie (McKoy) Jones
Jean Sanders
May 28, 2014
I haven't seen Mark since the death of Master Elizabeth Parr. I have often thought of him because he was that kind of guy. A guy that stays in your memories forever. When he would come to our TKD testings in Loveland, everyone would be so excited awaiting his arrival. He was always so good & always had a smile on his face. My family loved & respected him. Willie often tells people how Mark threw him in the pool @ the Topeka Tournament. Willie always said how he seen the 2nd floor of the motel that day as Mark threw him in the air. (they were on the bottom floor in the pool). I remember the first time I met Mark. I am only 4'10" & he got eye level with me to say how awesome my son was. I am heartbroken hearing this & my prayers & thoughts are with you Amy & your family. RIP Mark.
Mounib Aoun
May 28, 2014
Mark will be missed by every one who known him or ever was in contact with him.
He lived the life of a legend, and he passed to the next life.
Mark will leave a void that will not be easily filled.
Mounib, Rami, Mira & Danny Aoun (Raleigh NC)
May 28, 2014
My sincere condolences to the family.
Chuck Wolfe
May 28, 2014
Our thoughts and Prayers go out to Marks wife Amy, family and friends. So Blessed to have spent time with him as a friend, student and training partner. Rest in Peace as God's Champion my friend. Chuck and Paula Wolfe
Getra White
May 28, 2014
Amy, I am so sorry to hear of your loss.You are in my thoughts. Stay strong for those little darlings you have.
Jeff Massey
May 28, 2014
I'm going to miss that big smile and even bigger hug you use to give us everytime we met up. You and your wonderful family will be in the Massey family's prayers forever Big Guy...!!!!!
Randy and Bambi Berger
May 28, 2014
We are deeply saddened by the news of Mark's passing. We are blessed to be able to have know him for over 30 years.
His infectious personality and indomitable sprit have had an impact on all of those who know him. Mark will be missed, but will live on in our memories and in our hearts.
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Salbee family.
Lori Reiter
May 28, 2014
Mark was an amazing guy with such energy and enthusiasm for life. Such a tremendous loss. Sending many prayers to you and your family for courage and strength through this difficult time. So sorry for your loss.
Amy Juczynski
May 28, 2014
You always knew when Mark Selbee would walk in a room. He had a talent that most people only dream of capturing. He was a force of happiness and energy! His smile was amazing, with a personality to match. I will miss him. Amy and their sweet children are in our prayers. May The Lord wrap them up and hold them tight during this difficult time.
Scott and Lori Whaley
May 28, 2014
Denise and family, we are so sorry for your loss. We will be keeping your family in our thoughts and prayers.
May 28, 2014
I am still struggling with thoughts of this tragic event. Mark and his family were part of every conversation we had with Penny as are Denise and her family. My prayers are with alll of you. Judy Neher
Ty Sweeting
May 28, 2014
My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this very difficult time.
Colin and Brandi Greene
May 28, 2014
Our constant thoughts and prayers are with Amy, Easton, Ellie Brooke, Hudson - and all of Mark's family during this difficult time. May God's love surround you in all of the days to come.
May 28, 2014
Amy, my heart goes out to you and your children and my prayers will be ongoing. I remember you so well the day I met you at your's and Mark's home which is now my daughter, Meredith's and Shane's lovely home.
Cling to Proverbs 3:5-6 "trust in The Lord with all your heart and all your soul, lean not on your own understanding and He will make your paths straight".
Cling tight to this Amy -
With Prayers -
Judy Brinkley
Jody Williams
May 28, 2014
We love you so very much Amy, Easton, Ellie Brooke, and Hudson. My thoughts are never never away from you. I am praying for your strength and for your comfort. Mark was an incredible man and everyone that knew him loved him. I love you so much Amy. I will be here whenever you need me. Love, Jody, Ben and Carter
May 28, 2014
We can only imagine the grief and loss you are all feeling. Mark was a fun kid to be around and an amazing young adult. I will always treasure my memories of him and a project we worked together on in high school. He accomplished much in his young life and from all accounts was a wonderful husband and father. He seemed to take such joy in all he did. You are in our prayers. God Bless and sustain you through the days ahead.
Coach Bowen and ML.
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Scott Shibley
May 28, 2014
My prayers are with the entire family and so many that Mark touched. Mark embraced life and family in everything he did. You will be sorely missed my friend. I will always remember the great times we had together and your contageous positive attitude.
May God bless you and your sweet family...
Marti Siple
May 27, 2014
Our prayers are with all the family at this tragic time. From your friends in Topeka
Hank & Gary Gerdes, Marti & Phil Siple
Brian Tapp
May 27, 2014
I'm at a loss for words on the appropriate response for such a tragic event. I loved Mark like a brother and the time and memories that we shared will be folklore with me and our mutual friends going forward. I hope that his spirit transfers to his children because he was one of a kind.
Clay Witham
May 26, 2014
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Amy you will be in families prayers and thoughts as days move forward. Words can say how sorry I am for you and wonderful family. Hopefully we can catch up next trip the wife and make yo Kansas City. Clay Witham and Family. GOD BLESS
With Heavy Hearts we Pray for you all
Tyson Gilbert
May 26, 2014
To all the Selbee Family, Its all so difficult to believe. I cant imagine the pain you are all in. Mark was an extraordinary man, in so many ways. He touched many lives, and will be missed by all of them. We wish you all comfort through friends, family and faith. Tyson plans to attend the service, regretfully, I cannot. Know you are all in our thoughts and prayers. Please don't hesitate to reach out, if there is anything we can do to help. It is with fond memories, much sadness and great respect, we say, "Goodbye good friend, may you always Rest In Peace". Tyson and Genine Gilbert
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