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WHEELER, John Thomas JOHN THOMAS WHEELER ATLANTA, Ga. - John Thomas Wheeler, age 82, of Atlanta, Ga., formerly of Tuscaloosa, died Sept. 13, 2012. John Thomas Wheeler, born in Tuscaloosa, Ala., led a remarkable life. His many accomplishments were not for himself, but for others. His keen mind, curiosity, and determination allowed him to pursue a wide range of interests. Profoundly deaf since the age of 18 months, John Thomas "Tommy" Wheeler did not let his dreams of space and flight die. His love of flying was evidenced throughout his life. His mathematical mind served to undergird all his pursuits in flight and technology. At the age of 14, he began flying lessons; and at the age of 16, he began solo flights. The Tuscaloosa News carried the story of his solo with the headline "Deaf Boy Flies Solo." John Thomas Wheeler attended the Talladega School for the Deaf, Saint John's Catholic School in Tuscaloosa, Alabama, and graduated from Tuscaloosa High School. While a student in Tuscaloosa High School, John Thomas was recognized as one of the THS Black Bears' outstanding running backs. Although he was offered a football scholarship to the University of Alabama, Tommy declined. His deafness would require him to focus strictly on his studies. After earning his B.S. in aeronautical engineering in 1955, Tommy married his high school sweetheart, Margaret Lowrey. The young couple moved to Fort Worth, Texas, where Tommy began his work as an aerodynamicist at General Dynamics as he continued his studies in aerospace engineering. In 1960, Tommy became the first deaf aerospace engineer at NASA's Marshall Space Flight Center. After completing his master's degree in aerospace engineering, Tommy continued his post-graduate work at UAH, SMU, and UCLA. During his career at NASA at the Marshall Space Flight Center in Huntsville, Ala., Tommy Wheeler was part of the engineering team responsible for the development of the Mercury and Saturn programs. He was one of the pioneers in the use of virtual reality in astronaut training programs. One of his sadder duties was to be part of the investigative team analyzing the causes of the Challenger tragedy in January, 1986. After 38 years at NASA, John Thomas retired to care for his wife, who died in March, 1998. While at NASA, Tommy instituted Space Camp for the Deaf. Working with Space Camp administrators, Tommy was able to develop a substantive math and science program for deaf children. At the same time, as President of the Alabama Association of the Deaf, he was flying throughout Alabama to develop local deaf organizations. Working with the Alabama Governor and state legislators, Tommy was able to see legislation enacted to benefit the deaf. Many of his closest and dearest friends are those in the deaf community. Tommy remained an advocate for the deaf throughout his life. As a Major in the Civil Air Patrol, Tommy continued to work with the CAP as well as the Alabama Association for the Deaf. As a loving family man, Tommy was always there for his two daughters and his grandchildren. His greatest pride was in family, not in his personal achievements. He was truly a godly man who held the love of God and his quiet communion with God to be uppermost in his life. Many who came to know Tommy have stated that he was one of the best men that they had known. In the summer of 2000, John Thomas Wheeler married Margaret Stallworth Owens, a childhood friend and former classmate. Tommy and Margaret shared a home in Dunwoody, Georgia, where Tommy was active in Quota International of Northside Atlanta, an international service organization which has special emphasis on serving the deaf. Tommy remained a member of many service organizations: CAP, NAD, University of Alabama National Alumni Association, NARFE, Quota Club, and the Elks. During his long struggle with multiple illnesses, Tommy never wavered in his strong confidence in his doctors and in their understanding of him and his illnesses. John Thomas Wheeler was preceded in death by his parents, John Orion Wheeler and Doris Allie Hubbard Wheeler; his first wife and the mother of his children, Margaret Lowrey Wheeler; and grandson Robert Walker Bibb. Survivors include his wife of 12 years, Margaret Stallworth Owens Wheeler; two loving daughters, Margaret Ann Bibb and husband Alan, and Teresa Elaine Baker and husband Larry; two caring step- daughters, Donna Owens and husband Richard Barsky, and Krista Owens; his nine remaining grand- children, Dr. John Thomas McCarty and wife Frances, Jesse Lee McCarty, Preston Alan Bibb, Tyler Bramham Bibb and wife Megan, Blake Edward Talley, Anna Lauren Talley, Andrew Thomas Talley, Richard Kolton Baker, and Kaytlynn Diane Baker; two great-grandchildren, Maddie and Mare't Bibb; sister, Ann Vann; nieces, and nephews. Services will be 2 p.m. Sunday, Sept. 16, 2012, at Tuscaloosa Memorial Chapel Funeral Home. Burial will follow in Tuscaloosa Memorial Park with Tuscaloosa Memorial Chapel Funeral Home directing. Visitation will be one hour prior to services at the funeral home. A memorial service will be held in Atlanta, Ga. at a later date. For those wishing to send flowers, the family requests that in lieu of flowers, contributions be made in John Thomas Wheeler's memory to The Alabama School for the Deaf, 205 E South Street, Talladega, AL 35160, http://www.aidb.org.

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Published by Atlanta Journal-Constitution from Sep. 14 to Sep. 15, 2012.

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Peggy c. Estes

September 23, 2012

Tommy was my dear friend. I shall miss him. His life is so huge more than his heart. .. Hard to describe how his life had been accomplished..May God bless him and you have my condolences..Peggy Este and family

Alan Cech

September 22, 2012

Krista - our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time of loss. In His grace and mercy, Alan & Christy

LISA POWELL

September 19, 2012

remember that I was deaf student asd of 82 went to the space center and show me about space he was good teacher sorry for your loved loss

Amy Newland

September 19, 2012

I was so sad to learn of Tommy's passing! This is my 19th year running space camp and Tommy was such an important part of the students experience. The kids loved to hear his stories and learn about how they too could/might work for NASA. Thoughts and prays are with you all today and in the days again! Amy and the Deaf Space Camp students/staff

Kent Fujiki

September 18, 2012

Krista,
My deepest sympathy to you and your family. May God bless you and provide you with comfort and peace.

Doris (Luna) Carr

September 18, 2012

Tommys children Pray for your family and One good memories I never forget him . He took my dad Robert Luna and me when I was child He took us to fly his plane around and He asked me If the plan fall where will we land in Huntsville,al. I say go to the water . It s my good memories and its sad to loss a good friend and stay faith and strong.

Carole Carey

September 17, 2012

Margaret, Donna and family.....Tommy was very loved and will be greatly missed! He was a wonderful inspiration to Quota and everyone who knew him. I will miss his loving smile and wonderful sense of humor. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Love, Carole Carey

Denise Keaton-Smith

September 17, 2012

Krista, So sorry to hear about your loss. May God bless you and your family and keep your faith strong during this time of sorrow.

Kitty Spencer

September 17, 2012

Krista, so sorry for your loss. I know you loved and admired him very much and my heart goes out to your Mom too.

Virginia Holley Snyder

September 16, 2012

We had a great high School Class of 1947!!

Kathy Martinez

September 15, 2012

I only met your Father once, but he was the most pleasant and nice man I have met. I work for many elderly people now, and I can assure you he is one that I would be excited to see every day. I am so sorry for your loss, Know that he is with you at all times, and is having a grand time,I know this is certain.

September 15, 2012

I remember Tommy so well, we lived next door to the family while we were in high school. Very sorry for your loss. Cynthia Hobson Clements

September 15, 2012

Margaret - Tommy was much loved and admired. Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. Donna and Tarokh Taefi

Linda Shoemaker

September 15, 2012

My deepest sympathy and my prayer are with you all as he now is resting in a peace. God give comfort to be with you all. Your cherish and remember him in your heart always.

September 15, 2012

The Wheeler family and all who knew Tommy have suffered a great loss. He left a remarkkable impression on everyone who knew him. Only saw him at class and "Grand Old Bear" reunions after high school. We have given up a real American hero. Our prayers are with his remaining family in this time of grief.
Billy Leopard THS 1950.

Shannon Hesse

September 15, 2012

Teresa, Margaret Ann, Margaret and family - Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Tommy was truely a man among men. Some of my earliest childhood memories include him. God has a wonderful new angel! Love to all of you - Shannon, Andrew, Claire and Sara Evelyn

Ann Conrad

September 15, 2012

Teresa, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

M P

September 15, 2012

With deepest sympathy to the Wheeler family during your time of grief...Psalm 46:1...God is for us a refuge and strength, A help that is readily to be found during difficult times...May God provide you with peace and comfort to endure the days ahead.

Betsy Barb

September 15, 2012

Margaret & Family,
I am sorry for your loss. May God continue to bless and keep you.

September 14, 2012

Dear Krista & Family, My deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family. May you remember all the good times you shared. God Bless, Jan Fukumoto

Bobby Jones

September 14, 2012

Krista and Family:

You are in my prayers. May the Holy Spirit fill you with His peace and comfort.

Sarah and Charles Moore

September 14, 2012

Margaret and family,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We love you and share your grief.

betty miller

September 14, 2012

wishing you sympathy in the passing of tommie. betty miller

roxanne roach

September 11, 2012

I still have the letter your father wrote me after he read my dads book. I was humbled he would take the time to acknowledge me. what a great accomplishment his life was.

gail muncy

September 8, 2012

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to our country for freedom

thanks for your service to our country to keep us free. my son is in the service army 82 airboirne been in Arqa 1 and Afgan 2 X

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