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Thomas James Sexton Jr., 45, of Ahwatukee, AZ was called home to God on May 17, 2007 following his courageous battle with pancreatic cancer. Tom is preceded in death by his grandparents Thomas & Jane Sexton and Emile & Mary Buteau of Chicago, IL and survived by his parents Annette Buteau-Sexton of Phoenix, AZ and Thomas James Sexton Sr. of Ahwatukee, AZ. He is also survived by sisters; Annette Sexton-Ruiz of Phoenix, Kathleen Sexton of Ahwatukee, and Colette Padilla and brother-in-law George of Houston, TX, brothers; Timothy Sexton and sister-in-law Nanci of Tempe, AZ, Michael Sexton of Greenville, SC, and Patrick Sexton of Phoenix. He is survived by three nieces; Annette, Colette & Julia, eight nephews; Sean, Jacob, Emilio, Michael, Max, Tim, Casey & Patrick. Tom was born June 15, 1961 in Chicago, Illinois. He attended Queen of Martyrs Grade School & Carl Sandburg High School while in IL, then graduated from Camelback High School (Arizona) in 1979. His family moved from Chicago to Arizona in 1976 when Tom was 15 years old. His passion growing up was playing hockey, Tom was an outstanding goaltender. Tom and his brother Tim spent many hours on frozen ponds learning to play hockey. He attended Arizona State University and was goaltender for the Ice Devil Hockey Team. Tom proudly served his Country in the United States Marine Corps. His motto was: "Once a Marine always a Marine." Tom's career began and ended as a partner with his Father, Tom Sr., for Sexton Painting & Roofing of Ahwatukee. Tom had a passion for his work and his customers. His special bond and partnership with his Father will always be. Tom was a loyal, kind and honest man who lived life with no regrets always looking ahead, he was loved by all around him. Tom always made his Mother proud. Tom loved animals and his Country. Please join us to guide Thomas James Sexton Jr., on his final journey as he will now enjoy the fullness of Eternal Life in God's presence. Visitation: Messinger Mortuary-7601 E. Indian School Scottsdale, AZ 85251 Wed, May 23 5-8pm Mass for Tom: St.Thomas Catholic Church-2312 E Campbell Phx, 85016 Fri, May 25 10:30am Military Honors: Nat'l Memorial Cemetery-23029 North Cave Creek, Phx, - after Mass - 12:30pm Following the Military Honors there will be a Celebration of Tom's Life!

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Published by The Arizona Republic on May 22, 2007.

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Mikey

May 17, 2025

Miss you Uncle Tom
Thank you for being their for me
Hugs
Mikey

Your big sis Kiki

May 17, 2025

My dear brother Tommy

Its so hard to believe 18yrs ago today the Lord chose to take you home. Im sure you've been rejoicing with Daddy & all our other family.
We all miss you, especially my 3 sons who talk of you of often.
We will be visiting you & Daddy on Memorial day
Semper-fi & Love you bunches
Always Kiki

Kathleen

May 17, 2024

Dearest Tommy

May 17th 2007

17yrs in your Heavenly Home & you're still missed so very much....you & Daddy know what's going on down here....so sad
Pray for our Great USA

As I ponder your homegoing & Memorial day approaching, I Thank You for your service in the Marines. & Especially my Freedom that I never take for Granted also Sean & Mikey proudly served.

Please tell Daddy Mikey is now an EMT & soon to be a Fireman
He wishes Grandpa was alive to celebrate with him
Love & Miss you soooo much

Thankful for you & how close we were growing up & especially your last couple months -- you asking the Lord to Save you
Till we meet again
Love & Hugs

Sis Kiki

Sis Kathleen

May 18, 2023

16yrs in your Heavenly Home-- So hard to believe you've been gone this long---

Hope you're enjoying Daddy & other family
Just miss you both so much..My 3 sons miss you alot & thank you for being there for them.
Semper Fi my brother
Love hugs kisses and Smiles
Kiki

Annette Sexton Ruiz

May 16, 2023

Miss you so much little brother, wish you were here to watch all the new Star Trek shows with me, like we used to watch the Original Series together in the basement on 105th street. Hope you get to see the new shows in Heaven!!! Love you mucho, see you again one day...

Sister Kathleen

April 11, 2023

Another Easter in Heaven and Happy Birthday to Daddy
Love you both & miss you
Kiki

Big sis Kiki

January 2, 2023

Happy New Year Tommy sure missing you and Daddy
Praying this year is a Blessing for all
Boys give their Love
Hugs to you & daddy

Kiki

May 23, 2022

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Kiki

May 23, 2022

My dear brother Tommy
Miss you dearly
I appreciate all you & Dad have guided me thru.
As I reflect on your 15 th year of going home & all that's transpired! Especially lately
God Bless America
I miss you
Love Kiki

Kathleen Sexton

May 21, 2020

My brother, my friend....It's hard to believe you've been in your Heavenly home for 13yrs now. You are thought of often, your laugh and smile are such a joy to remember. Your love of Dogs and your Integrity that my sons still remember while living with you.
Hugs to Daddy as I'm sure you both are helping someone. I love the signs you both give me letting me know you're near. Especially Dad's on July 2nd. Please tell him THANK YOU
LOVE YOUS
YOUR BIG SIS KIKI

Patrick Sexton

May 18, 2020

Miss you brother so much, we were thinking about you and talking about you on the day you departed, many years later. All your sister rode our bikes to Cortez Park in Phoenix and saw a little lake and ducks, I remember how much you loved the little lake near your house in Ahwatukee! I think of you whenever I see Red roses, especially the ones that grow around my house that you loved the smell of ! They grow every year so I can remember you! Love you so much Tommy and one day I will see you again! Have fun with Dad and Jerry in the meantime! I also hope you get to hear Luciano Pavaroti lots in Heaven, as he followed you there a few months after you left us. I remember that you liked him! Love you lots!

Your sis Kiki

January 30, 2015

Happy 2015 my Marine brother. ..Mikey is also a Marine. .he's been serving in Romania and I'm so excited he'll be home February 21 for 2 wks... to God be the Glory! !!

Annette SextonRuiz

October 8, 2014

Dearest Tommy, Please let Dad know that we miss him here as we miss you, I hope you two are enjoying your time together, he also missed you so much when you left us. I am glad you are together, I love you both very much!!!

Big Sis Kiki

October 8, 2014

As you run into your Daddy's arms once again, as you did when you were little...Daddy is now with you in Heaven
To God Be All the Glory
xoxoxoxoxoxox

Greg Hallenbeck

October 7, 2014

I just read this

Semper Fi, bro, go easy.

October 31, 2012

Happy Halloweenie brother, miss you today
remembering our fun halloweens as kids dressing up in Chicago
love you Kiki

May 19, 2011

Dear Tommy,
Mom's birthday and Mother's day was last week, I remembered her birthday when you sang to her so nice like we did when we were little kids back in Chicago...you were awesome to try and make mom feel good on her birthday, then you ate the birthday cake too with us!!
Love you and miss you, I know you are doing great things as an angel in heaven!
Your sis,
Annette

May 18, 2011

Hey Tommy, Well yesterday was your 4the year in Heaven. Mom and I spent the day together and talked about you. We will bring you flowers next month on your birthday .... love and hugs
your sis
Kiki

Kathleen Sexton

January 5, 2011

Happy New Year buddy,, 2011 will be a great one. adopted a kitty from the humane society. she's real sweet== i didn't pick her, she picked me.
lots of love
kiki

sis

July 7, 2010

Hey Tommy alot has changed recently, --- miss you your sis Kiki

Ron Etz

April 7, 2010

Tommy,
Can't believe you are really gone, the world is an emptier place, Heaven is lucky to have you and enriched by your presence. My Dad always says "there are no ex-Marines, only Marines not on active duty" I'm glad you are "on duty" waiting diligently for us all to arrive. Thanks for the ride it was great to be your room mate, Toga parties and all. You are loved and missed. See you on the other side.

Kathleen Sexton

April 4, 2010

Another Resurrection Sunday comes again, celebrating at Moms, missing you Tommy---Love you bro your sis

YOUR #1 SIS KIKI Sexton

January 15, 2009

HARD TO BELIEVE IT'S 2009 ALREADY. MY BROTHER AND FRIEND YOU ARE MISSED SO MUCH... THANKS FOR WATCHING OVER US.
LOVE YOU SINCE CHILDHOOD ALWAYS

David Weinstein

December 26, 2008

Tom we all miss you and hope your in a better place. Always a freind.

Kathleen Sexton

December 25, 2008

MERRY MERRY MERRY CHRISTMAS TOMMY!
MIKE IS HERE FROM SC YEA! WE'RE CELEBRATING AT MOM'S
but you already know that
Love you bro,
Misses, Hugs & Kisses
Kiki

YOUR SIS KIKI

November 27, 2008

HAPPY THANKSGIVING TOMMY
WE'RE GIVING THANKS AT DAD'S TODAY---MISSING YOU BEING THERE.
LOVE KIKI

KATHLEEN SEXTON

November 11, 2008

HAPPY VETERANS DAY TOMMY, THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR SERVING IN THE MARINES FOR OUR FREEDOM
LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU SO MUCH

YOUR BIG SIS AND CHILDHOOD PROTECTOR

dino barber

July 4, 2008

remember frontier days in prescott ,,dino

Kathleen Sexton

July 3, 2008

HAPPY 4TH OF JULY TOMMY! ENJOY YOUR NEW FOUND FREEDOM
GOD BLESS THE USA!
SEMPER FI
LOVE KIKI

Annette Sexton

June 17, 2008

Happy Birthday Tom, your birthday was on Father's day this year, I went to Dad's and sat with him and Timmy, we had a nice time and remembered you too!
Love you forever!
your sis, Annette

Kathleen Your sis

June 16, 2008

HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY TOMMY, I LOVE YOU AND I MISS YOU.

Your sis Kiki Sexton

May 17, 2008

One Year Later and you are still missed so much. Still hard to believe it's been a yr. and that you are gone. Mom, Tim, Pat, Annette & I held you in our hearts today.

Kathleen Sexton

December 26, 2007

MERRY MERRY CHRISTMAS TOMMY, WE ALL MISSED YOU YESTERDAY ESPECIALLY MOM AND DAD. LOVINGLY WITH HUGS AND KISSES. KIKI

Tom & his buddy Zuess (happy times)

July 17, 2007

Annette Sexton-Ruiz sister

June 16, 2007

How was that cake that Grandma Sexton made for you? You always loved her cakes that she brought over in the cake carrying case! Love you honey-bun!

Colette Sexton Padilla

June 15, 2007

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TOMMY !!!!! I hope your celebrating as I'm sure you are. Love always, your little sister, Colette

Kathleen Sexton

June 15, 2007

HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY BROTHER, I'M SURE YOU'RE CELEBRATING AT THE PEARLY GATES----I THINK OF YOU OFTEN. HUGS & KISSES FROM KIKI

Annette Sexton-Ruiz sister

May 30, 2007

Dear Tommy,
I know you don't want us to be sad now, but it is hard as we miss you. Thank you for allowing me to be close to you these past months, as I said, it was my pleasure and I am grateful. Now you can start to make a home for all of us when we join you up in heaven, in the meantime, enjoy being with your grandparents and godparents. Love you!

Annette and Tom April 1, 2007- miss you honey bun

May 30, 2007

David Weinstein

May 29, 2007

Dear Sexton Family,
I was able to be-friend Tom during my short days at Camelback High School. It is with a heavy heart that I now have to say good-by to a good man. I was thinking only the other day that it will be 28 years since we all grew up and what stories we could tell. I hope that all the many thoughts and well wishes you receive tell you about the kind of person Tom was and that his memory will live on.

May g-d bless you and keep you all the days of your life.

Pat,Jacob,Kathleen,Tom & Colette @ Dad's firehouse on 111th Chicago, IL 8/2000

May 29, 2007

Tom's family Mom, Mike, Kathleen & Sean, Tim, Tom, Colette, Pat, Annette & Jaime' 5/88

May 29, 2007

Happy & healthy my brother Tom

May 29, 2007

Annette Jane Ruiz

May 28, 2007

rest in peace, uncle tom.
your niece, Annette.

Cris Chirumbolo

May 25, 2007

Tom:

You will be sorely missed. You were such a great friend to me, my family and many others. I will definitely remember all of the great times that we shared...and thank you for that. God Bless You!!!!

Rachel Ybarra

May 25, 2007

Annette, I am so sorry for your loss. May God give you strength through this difficult time and may all the memories of your son warm your heart. My condolences to all your family.

Laura Kenny

May 25, 2007

Tommy you will be missed. You were taken from us way too soon, but memories of you will live in our hearts forever. God Bless you and your family.

Jill Thomas

May 25, 2007

Tom, you will not be forgotten. Your family and friends have so many great memories of your time on earth. You are in a beautiful, peaceful place now. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Roberta Hardwick

May 24, 2007

Annette,
Cherish your loving memories of your son Tom, and please know you and your family are in my prayers for God's healing of your hearts and minds thru this most painful time. Love from an old friend, Roberta Hardwick

Tony Chirumbolo

May 24, 2007

You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. God bless you.

Barbara Brooks

May 24, 2007

To Tommy's family, May the wonderful memories you have of Tommy bring happy tears and be ones you'll cherish forever. I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Barbara Brooks (close friend of Kathleen)

craig hollenbeck

May 23, 2007

tom my chicago brother. you will be missed. all the fun we had in high school and the years after. you are a great friend and in a great place now. may the road rise to meet you and the wind be at your back!

Sean Sexton

May 23, 2007

Uncle Tom, you were such a great role model for me, thank you for your integrity that you taught me. Love from Sean- I will miss you very much

Tommy's favorite photo & truck

May 23, 2007

Tom @ Kath's wedding 1987

May 23, 2007

Annette Sexton

May 23, 2007

Tommy, you are forever my good little boy. I love you too Babe! love, Mommy

dino barber

May 23, 2007

man what a blast we had in the day i will miss ya

Sheila Kenny

May 22, 2007

My deepest sympathy to my Aunt Annette, Uncle Tommy, and all my Sexton cousins. I remember Tommy as a baby, and feel the loss of yet another family member. His grandma, Aunt Mary Jane, and Uncle Thad will be among those gone before him who will greet him in their arms. My heart goes out to all of you for he is gone too soon.

Michael Chirumbolo

May 22, 2007

Will always remember the good person that you were, Tom. Hope you are enjoying yourself in God's "highrise".

Marty Kunkle

May 22, 2007

I'll always remember Tom's laugh, so contagious ... I will smile every time I think of him. He was a good friend, hard worker and took alot of pride in his work...God Bless you Tom

Lilli Giles

May 22, 2007

People come into our lives and leave beautiful memories. May the thought of Tommy light up your hearts forever. Words cannot heal the pain of losing someone so dear...I am truly sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you....

Frank Chirumbolo Jr.

May 22, 2007

You will be missed, Tom. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

Emily Wilber (Church)

May 22, 2007

Tom, you will be missed. May you be in the comfort of God's hands now. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you in your time of grief. May your memories of Tom bring you comfort. God Bless You.

Kathleen ~sister~ Sexton

May 22, 2007

My brother, my friend. You are my Hero! So strong, so brave, never giving up. I Love You~ I'll cherish your last month on earth we had to share. Hugs buddy

Colette Sexton-Padilla

May 22, 2007

Tommy, I'm sorry your life on earth was taken so soon, we will all miss you. I hope your having a good time with our grandma's and grandpa's. Thanks for coming to my rescue all the time when we were younger. I Love You, Colette

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