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Jay Curtice Fretz

Jay Fretz Obituary

Fretz, Jay Curtice
36, of Tempe passed away Monday, May 17, 2010. Jay was born October 3, 1973 in Annapolis, MD to parents John and GayLee Fretz and shared a wonderfully diverse, well-traveled youth with them and his older brother Kevin. Jay graduated from Vestal High School in Vestal, NY in 1990. He then graduated from the State University of New York Binghamton, where he earned his BA degree in philosophy. Following his graduation, Jay moved to Chandler, AZ where his brother, Kevin lived. Jay settled in Tempe, AZ in 1996 and wed Angela Roose in 2003, becoming the proud father of Anika Jaden Fretz in 2005. Being a student of philosophy, Jay possessed an endless desire to learn and uncover the truths in everyday life. He was a supporter of environmental protection, and he was very passionate about creating a sustainable society. He and his wife had succeeded in reducing their own carbon footprints considerably, and he was dedicated to helping others move in the same direction. Jay's commitment to his vision and his own character was admired by many. Jay is survived by his wife Angela, daughter Anika, parents John and GayLee and brother Kevin. A memorial service for Jay will be held Friday, May 28 at 4:00 p.m. at the Valley Unitarian Universalist Church, 6400 West Del Rio Street, Chandler, AZ 85226. In lieu of flowers, a memorial fund has been established in the name of Jay's daughter, Anika. Donations to this fund should be sent to Angela Fretz at 1869 E. Minton Dr., Tempe AZ 85282. In addition, donations may be made to the Sonoran Institute in support of causes Jay was passionate about. www.sonoraninstitute.org.

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Published by The Arizona Republic from May 26 to May 28, 2010.

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Picture of Jay on the Tempe Town Lake bridge while a green building was being built.

Justin & Laura Stewart

June 4, 2010

Jay, I miss you dearly. A day hasn't gone by with out thinking about you. Rest in Peace, we will look after Anika and Angie for the rest of our lives, and spread your message of hope.

Justin & Laura

carol winer

May 28, 2010

John and GayLee, Angie, Annika, Kevin and family...my thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. I was at the service today and was most impressed by the Letters to Jay. Just listening to the heartfelt words that each of you wrote brought me closer to Jay. What a difference he made in his 36 years! Love, Carol Winer

Rob and Amanda Shoeman

May 28, 2010

We miss you Jay.

May 27, 2010

Dear John and GayLee,
Im am so sorry to hear about your son. I cant even begin to imagine your grief. I will pray for you and your family....May god bless your family in their time of sorrow. Sincerely, Heather Chandler (Chandler @ Rolfs).

May 26, 2010

Rest in peace my brother, and never stop searching for the truth. Your Brother

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