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Michael Caviness
August 23, 2021
It has been well over 9 years since I was a patient of Dr. Tom Grade. I was treated by Dr. Grade when he had a place in a great east Mesa, AZ. hospital. At that time it was a good place; he was available to treat pain and do a wide variety of diagnostic medicine. That is one of the things that I liked about Dr. Grade, he just didn't give you a prescription and send you on your way, he really did care about you as an individual, he gave you as much time as possible he didn't just go from patient to patient on a slow roll, he moved swiftly despite his cane and his own pain problems that he received from his hang gliding accident. I never had the opportunity to see him in his brand new building that he was involved in across the street and down the road. I do know that he was really excited about this new building and a place where he could practice medicine. The last couple of visits that I had with Dr. Grade I had informed him and talked to him about my wife and I and the plans we had and were planning on moving to a small town in northern California and I was taking a new position as an electronic engineer, I was excited and he took the time to listen and even showed and expressed his enthusiasm for my wife and I. It really seemed kind of sad as if I was saying goodbye to a good friend. One thing that I never had the chance to experience is that he told me about a Italian restaurant in San Francisco that his family owned and he was going to let them know of us and the circumstances around us planning to stop in for a meal and visit. Being at that time that I felt like a welcome family member or good friend, I'm sorry to say that the stop never did work into our timeline and confusion being on the road. When I had later on received word on your passing, my wife and I indeed were truly sorry and saddened. Today I turn 70, and I would like to express my sincere gratitude in that you were able to help me go through life better, in that I would, and am, able to feel better with a little less pain, and that I can feel better without the help of wheelchairs, walkers, canes etc. I am very grateful that we were able to meet. Rest in peace Dr. Tom Grade and may God be with you and yours. Sincerely, Thank You.
May 25, 2013
Also see the Milwaukee Obit page for Dr Tom at:http://www.legacy.com/guestbooks/jsonline/guestbook.aspx?n=thomas-grade&pid=164349546&cid=full
Joy Wolfe
May 9, 2013
Andrew and family, I am so sorry for your loss. I, too, come from a big family like yours. It's never easy losing one of the clan. May God be with all of you at this most difficult time.
May 8, 2013
I am sorry for your loss. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you during your time of grief. God cares for you and will help you during your time of need. ( Psalms 121:2)
Tom hiking
Chris
May 7, 2013
Tom wih Ben at Sally's marathon
Chris
May 7, 2013
Tom at Scott's in Tucson
Chris Saper (Shirley)
May 7, 2013
To Emily, Shirley and all of Tom's family,
It's impossible to tell you how sad I am for your heartbreaking loss. Joan Baez called Bob Dylan the “Original Vagabond”, but I think the phrase perfectly describes Tom. I owe Tom – really- all of my life, because I would never have come to Arizona but for him.
So I thank you, Tom. For a deep and wonderful network of friendships that remain to this day. For all of the good things that you enabled to come my way. For wonderful memories that I continue to cherish.
Although I've shared these photos of Tom on the _______________I thought that perhaps his Arizona friends might not have seen them.
It was treasure to have known you.
Nancy Christenson
May 6, 2013
My great friend took her mother to Dr. Grade for pain relief. He was super with this older woman. Gussie did feel better after her treatments w/ Dr. Grade. And my friend Perry learned much from Dr. Tom. He did help many folks. He'll be missed.
Luanne Barrett
May 6, 2013
I also worked with Dr. Grade during his internship and residency training in AZ in the 70's. No matter what the situation, one could always depend on Tom to lighten the load and bring a smile to everyone's face. There was no medical hierarchy with Tom and he loved life to the fullest giving his best to anyone he met; friend, patient or co-worker. Tom was definitly his own man and one in a million. RIP Tom, you were one of the best.
Kathe Whalen
May 6, 2013
Dr. Tom Grade was a resident at MIHS during the 70's and it was my pleasure to have worked with him on his ICU rotations. I think he was one of the smartest physicians I've known in 38 yrs of ICU nursing. He taught me a lot and we learned more together. Tom always had a smile on his face and was gentle and compassionate with our patients. He was fun and made the long hours pass quickly.
There was a close knit group of us back then, both doctors and nurses ,who enjoyed being together anywhere. We loved working together, but also enjoyed playing volleyball, parties or just hanging out. (We were all in our 20's.)
Tom was alway in the middle of the action and the light of any gathering. He had a great infectious laugh and wonderful sense of humor.
The world lost a terrific doctor and great guy with his passing.
Kathe
Perry Bailey
May 6, 2013
Dr. Grade was a physician that I worked with when a student in X-ray. It's tough being a student in the hospital. Doctors are the top of the food chain and and can make the stressful time incredibly difficult. Instead of difficult Dr. Grade made thing easy, with his calm and light-hearted manner, never condescending, the transition from student to medical professional was made much more pleasant. Over the years we became friends. Being a pain doctor, Tom went out of his way to help me when I had an abscessed tooth once and even went to my dentist appointment with me. I lost track of Tom over the last few years but he was often in my thoughts. I still have a photo of Tom standing in front of sign of the pain institute that he planned and designed before ground had broken. I have missed seeing him over the years and now I will always miss him.
Kathy V
May 5, 2013
My mother Betty elledge was Dr. Grades patient several years back. She was in failing health but after talking to him and him treating with respect and like a family member she always felt that was the best day ever when she was there. I was not a patient but when I went with my mother i even felt better and I wasnt a patient
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