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Thomas "Tom" Grade MD

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Grade, Thomas MD
"Oh baby," was the traditional greeting of Tom Grade, regardless of your gender, your title, or your position. He was the antithesis of predictable, enjoying everything from Michael Jackson concerts in Hawaii, to Barbara Streisand in the Staples Center, hiking deep in the woods to sailing across the ocean, dining at the best restaurants to insisting on using his own brand of tabasco sauce always stashed in his pocket. Dr. Grade was unconventional, more comfortable in natural fibers than blue jeans, a big proponent of porcelain fillings to maximize health even if it meant having all the silver ones removed first. For most of his life, he was the poster boy for following your passion and living life to the fullest. A resident of Gilbert, AZ for most of the past 25 years, Dr. Thomas Grade passed away suddenly at the age of 62 in Milwaukee, WI on 04/18/2013. He is survived by his children Madeline, Neenah, and Tavish Grade, Megan Carson, former wife Emily Grade, his mother Shirley, 5 brothers Sam, Matthew, Benjamin, Andrew , Charles and 4 sisters Johanna, Margaret, Mary and Jean. He was a graduate of Northwestern and received his medical degree at the Medical College of Wisconsin in Milwaukee. Following a near fatal hang gliding accident in 1984 which caused injuries and persistent pain throughout the rest of his life, Dr. Grade set his sights on mastering how to manage pain. He practiced traditional pain control techniques as well as integrated holistic approaches. He was Board Certified in 4 National Boards including Internal Medicine (specialty training in AZ at Maricopa County Hospital), Pulmonary Medicine, Anesthesiology, Pain Management. He also became board certified in Homeopathic Medicine and had extensive experience and expertise in ACMOS Energy Medicine, Acupuncture and other modalities of therapy. Dr. Grade never just treated the pain, but always centered his attention on the patient, their stories and their lives. Despite his own personal challenges, Tom had a very successful practice for many years in Arizona and accomplished much of what he tried to give to his patients---the ability to live life well despite the pain that comes from injury, disease, or emotional stress. He was a loving father, son, brother and friend. So many of us will miss Tom and the good things he brought into our lives. He was truly a unique and generous man. In lieu of flowers, donations are encouraged for the James M. Cox Foundation Center for Cancer Prevention and Integrative Oncology at Banner MD Anderson Cancer Center whose work reflects Tom's lifelong passion of integrating medical therapies to achieve the best outcomes. Donations may be mailed to 2025 N. 3rd Street, Suite 250, Phoenix, AZ 85004.

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Published by The Arizona Republic from May 5 to May 8, 2013.

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Michael Caviness

August 23, 2021

It has been well over 9 years since I was a patient of Dr. Tom Grade. I was treated by Dr. Grade when he had a place in a great east Mesa, AZ. hospital. At that time it was a good place; he was available to treat pain and do a wide variety of diagnostic medicine. That is one of the things that I liked about Dr. Grade, he just didn't give you a prescription and send you on your way, he really did care about you as an individual, he gave you as much time as possible he didn't just go from patient to patient on a slow roll, he moved swiftly despite his cane and his own pain problems that he received from his hang gliding accident. I never had the opportunity to see him in his brand new building that he was involved in across the street and down the road. I do know that he was really excited about this new building and a place where he could practice medicine. The last couple of visits that I had with Dr. Grade I had informed him and talked to him about my wife and I and the plans we had and were planning on moving to a small town in northern California and I was taking a new position as an electronic engineer, I was excited and he took the time to listen and even showed and expressed his enthusiasm for my wife and I. It really seemed kind of sad as if I was saying goodbye to a good friend. One thing that I never had the chance to experience is that he told me about a Italian restaurant in San Francisco that his family owned and he was going to let them know of us and the circumstances around us planning to stop in for a meal and visit. Being at that time that I felt like a welcome family member or good friend, I'm sorry to say that the stop never did work into our timeline and confusion being on the road. When I had later on received word on your passing, my wife and I indeed were truly sorry and saddened. Today I turn 70, and I would like to express my sincere gratitude in that you were able to help me go through life better, in that I would, and am, able to feel better with a little less pain, and that I can feel better without the help of wheelchairs, walkers, canes etc. I am very grateful that we were able to meet. Rest in peace Dr. Tom Grade and may God be with you and yours. Sincerely, Thank You.

May 25, 2013

Also see the Milwaukee Obit page for Dr Tom at:http://www.legacy.com/guestbooks/jsonline/guestbook.aspx?n=thomas-grade&pid=164349546&cid=full

Joy Wolfe

May 9, 2013

Andrew and family, I am so sorry for your loss. I, too, come from a big family like yours. It's never easy losing one of the clan. May God be with all of you at this most difficult time.

May 8, 2013

I am sorry for your loss. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you during your time of grief. God cares for you and will help you during your time of need. ( Psalms 121:2)

Tom hiking

Chris

May 7, 2013

Tom wih Ben at Sally's marathon

Chris

May 7, 2013

Tom at Scott's in Tucson

Chris Saper (Shirley)

May 7, 2013

To Emily, Shirley and all of Tom's family,
It's impossible to tell you how sad I am for your heartbreaking loss. Joan Baez called Bob Dylan the “Original Vagabond”, but I think the phrase perfectly describes Tom. I owe Tom – really- all of my life, because I would never have come to Arizona but for him.
So I thank you, Tom. For a deep and wonderful network of friendships that remain to this day. For all of the good things that you enabled to come my way. For wonderful memories that I continue to cherish.
Although I've shared these photos of Tom on the _______________I thought that perhaps his Arizona friends might not have seen them.
It was treasure to have known you.

Nancy Christenson

May 6, 2013

My great friend took her mother to Dr. Grade for pain relief. He was super with this older woman. Gussie did feel better after her treatments w/ Dr. Grade. And my friend Perry learned much from Dr. Tom. He did help many folks. He'll be missed.

Luanne Barrett

May 6, 2013

I also worked with Dr. Grade during his internship and residency training in AZ in the 70's. No matter what the situation, one could always depend on Tom to lighten the load and bring a smile to everyone's face. There was no medical hierarchy with Tom and he loved life to the fullest giving his best to anyone he met; friend, patient or co-worker. Tom was definitly his own man and one in a million. RIP Tom, you were one of the best.

Kathe Whalen

May 6, 2013

Dr. Tom Grade was a resident at MIHS during the 70's and it was my pleasure to have worked with him on his ICU rotations. I think he was one of the smartest physicians I've known in 38 yrs of ICU nursing. He taught me a lot and we learned more together. Tom always had a smile on his face and was gentle and compassionate with our patients. He was fun and made the long hours pass quickly.

There was a close knit group of us back then, both doctors and nurses ,who enjoyed being together anywhere. We loved working together, but also enjoyed playing volleyball, parties or just hanging out. (We were all in our 20's.)

Tom was alway in the middle of the action and the light of any gathering. He had a great infectious laugh and wonderful sense of humor.
The world lost a terrific doctor and great guy with his passing.
Kathe

Perry Bailey

May 6, 2013

Dr. Grade was a physician that I worked with when a student in X-ray. It's tough being a student in the hospital. Doctors are the top of the food chain and and can make the stressful time incredibly difficult. Instead of difficult Dr. Grade made thing easy, with his calm and light-hearted manner, never condescending, the transition from student to medical professional was made much more pleasant. Over the years we became friends. Being a pain doctor, Tom went out of his way to help me when I had an abscessed tooth once and even went to my dentist appointment with me. I lost track of Tom over the last few years but he was often in my thoughts. I still have a photo of Tom standing in front of sign of the pain institute that he planned and designed before ground had broken. I have missed seeing him over the years and now I will always miss him.

Kathy V

May 5, 2013

My mother Betty elledge was Dr. Grades patient several years back. She was in failing health but after talking to him and him treating with respect and like a family member she always felt that was the best day ever when she was there. I was not a patient but when I went with my mother i even felt better and I wasnt a patient

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