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Aubrey C. Carter Jr.

1946 - 2010

BORN

1946

DIED

2010

Aubrey Carter Obituary

Aubrey C. Carter, Jr. Nov. 20, 1946 - Nov. 30, 2010 Join us in a Celebration of Dad's life on Friday, Dec. 3rd, from 1-4 p.m., at Narducci's, 622 E. 21st Street. www.bakersfield.com/obits

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Published by Bakersfield Californian from Dec. 2 to Dec. 3, 2010.

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Frances Savage

November 28, 2020

Time passes and some memories fade, but I will always remember the summer I spent in Visalia visiting my California cousins. Love you and miss you. Your Oklahoma cousin Frances White Savage

Bonnie Richard

December 21, 2010

I am so sorry to learn of Aubrey's passing. I worked with him in Bakersfield, appreciated his knowledge and loved his sense of humor and zest for life. I miss him.

Shannon Saso

December 7, 2010

Thank you all who shared in remembering my dad. He was fun , giving, and could get a smile or laugh out of any of us until the very end. I will miss him terribly. If anyone would like to get in touch with me (his daughter, Shannon), I can be reached at [email protected]
I love you dad. Give grandpa Carter a big kiss for me!

December 3, 2010

What a shock it is to read of Aubreys passing!
He has always been so full of life! He was quick with a laugh and just as quick to give a helping hand! Jess amd I remember one year when Relay for life needed help to come up with the chicken at the last minute to feed thousands. Aubrey and his quick thinking and backing saved the day. If you had a problem he could figure it out and he walked that extra mile for his friends. He will be sadly missed.
We just read of your families loss a few minutes ago. So sorry not to have been at the memmorial today.
Jess and Dona Faz (one of the golfing gang)

Frances Savage

December 3, 2010

From an Oklahoma Cousin-

I came to California in 1961 and spent the summer with our grandmother, Dora Carter, in Visalia. That was a fun summer and I enjoyed visiting with Aubrey Jr and his family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Frances White Savage
Madill, OK

Arvilla Boswell

December 3, 2010

I am Aubrey's cousin, Arvilla. His father and my mother were brother and sister. We haven't been close in our adult years because of living in different cities. I have many memories of our childhood and the family fun we had. Aubrey was a character and always in trouble! He added excitment to our young years. I send my love & prayers to his family. Thanks for the memories, Aubrey!!

Glynette McTeer

December 3, 2010

I worked with Aubrey at Pac Bell in Bakersfield and am sad to hear of his passing. My sincere condolences to his family and friends.

Becky (Corgain) Reed

December 3, 2010

Bret, Shannon, Lori, and Family,
Mike and 1 are so sorry for your loss. Doesn't seem like we are old enough for this to be happening. South High doesn't seem like it was that long ago!!! Take care.

Sandy Caldwell Moening

December 3, 2010

remembering a good friend who always said 'hi' in the halls and carried an beautiful smile for all to see. He was the 'go to' person for a fun time at the games.

Mike&Mary Cabe

December 3, 2010

Rip Aubrey! You will be missed!
Me and my wife moved to California and that is where we met Aubrey and became good friends he is and was a special person and I we will always remember him for whom he was.


R.I.P!!!!

Mike & Mary Cabe

December 2, 2010

Shannon and Brett,

Your Dad was a very good friend and a very special person to us. Nobody could make us laugh like Aubrey did. Please know that we are thinking of you both and will keep you both and your Dad in our thoughts and prayers.

Laurel and Charlie Coleman

Joyanne Clark

December 2, 2010

Although I never got to meet Aubrey Carter himself, his children Bret & Shannon are two of my favorite people in the whole world; and with their families and children, some of my fondest life's memories will forever remain. My heart is broken for each who is grieving as there is never a good time for this moment.

December 2, 2010

My thoughts and prayers go out to the Carter Family at this very difficult time. Just know that this is NOT good bye.....it IS see you later. Believe it, because it is true. We love you all....Papa and Noni
aka Larry and Shelly Little

Susan Whitcomb

December 2, 2010

Aubrey was a good friend of mine. We worked together and AT&T in Alhambra, CA. He was a great cook. We used to have such laughs. He made me the best surf and turf dinner I ever had for my 40th birthday. And he even helped me move....that's a true friend. I am sad to hear he has passed on, but I will always keep him alive in my heart. Miss you, Aubrey!!!

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