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Lenore J. Carter

1936 - 2009

Lenore J. Carter obituary, 1936-2009

BORN

1936

DIED

2009

Lenore Carter Obituary

Lenore J. Carter 1936 - 2009 It is with great joy we celebrate the homecoming of Lenore Carter into her Heavenly Father's Kingdom, through the grace of Jesus Christ, yet it is with immeasurable sadness that her family and friends release her. She returned to her Father's care on Thanksgiving Day, November 26, 2009, and was in the company of her loving husband and family at the time of her promotion. As beloved wife, Mimi, mother, sister, sister-in-law, aunt, friend, teacher and mentor, Lenore will be remembered for the countless lives she touched in inestimable ways. She possessed a unique and generous ability with correspondence, maintaining a network of relationships around the world. Lenore and Warren were overwhelmed by the love and generosity of those who supported them on this, their final adventure together. Lenore was born in Oakland, California, on September 8, 1936, to Paul and Zelda Wilkinson. She, and big brother Paul, moved many times as a child, due to her father's management promotions with Montgomery Ward. When she was in the fourth grade, the family settled in Hanford, where little brother Jack joined the family. The Wilkinson children enjoyed a family- life centered on their faith. Lenore's Godly parents, whose love and devotion to each other was clearly evident, served as roll models for Lenore as wife, mother, and grandmother. Lenore met the love of her life, Warren, in their junior year of high school through a church youth event. Both went to the University of La Verne and married between their junior and senior year. Upon graduation, they returned to Warren's home town of McFarland, California, where Lenore taught school, then happily welcomed sons Doug, Ken, and daughter Karen. After the kids were in school, she substitute taught at McFarland High School for many years. Being with kids was her life-long passion. During their entire married life, Lenore and Warren were active in the Church of the Living Savior in McFarland. As youth group leaders, their home was a hub of activity. Lenore especially loved being a stay-at-home mom, living in the country on the family farm. She took great pleasure in the kids' activities, including livestock showing, playing sports, camping, and school events. Friends also gathered often at home to play tennis, drink coffee, have Bible study, and relish the depths of relationships that were real and true. Dear to Lenore's heart was Kern County Student Leadership, a high school mentoring program started over sixteen years ago by Warren and Doug. She was the first female mentor, investing in the lives of countless young people through her commitment and devotion. Through the years Lenore supported many organizations; among these were serving on the board of directors for Crisis Pregnancy Center, the Delano Regional Medical Center Auxiliary, California Women for Agriculture, Young Homemaker's, and McFarland Women's Club. Lenore attended Bible Study Fellowship and Community Bible Fellowship for many years, treasuring the time spent learning with and encouraging women. Five years ago, Lenore and Warren moved to Bakersfield, embracing the close proximity to their very active family. Their focus became somewhat grandkid-centered: Doug and wife Dena have daughter Mackenzie; Ken and Balenda have daughters Taylor, Sydney, Maggie, and son Zachary; Karen and husband Joey have daughters Lauren and Abby; and like-a-son Jesse and his wife Raquel and family. "Mimi and Papa" have been faithful fans and fixtures at the kids' volleyball, basketball, tennis, soccer, baseball, and choir events and competitions. On earth, until we see her again, are the families of Paul and Opal Wilkinson, Jack and Donna Wilkinson, and brother and sister-in-law, Wayne and Margaret Carter. Welcoming her in Heaven are, among many, father and mother, Paul and Zelda Wilkinson, and father and mother-in-law Frank and Catherine Carter. Her life, her smile, her courage, her strength, her character, her patience, her wisdom, her grace, her love... she will be remembered and missed for these wonderful qualities of a life of loving service to her Lord, her family and to His people of every race, creed, and religion around the globe. The score is Love - 40, God wins, yeehaw! Welcome home, Mimi. We can't wait to see you again! A Celebration of life will be held December 12, 2009, 1:30 p.m. at Olive Drive Church, Bakersfield, CA. In lieu of flowers a donation may be made to Kern County Student Leadership, 1200 Discovery Dr., Ste. 450, Bakersfield, CA, 93309 or to the Church of the Living Savior, 149 5th St., McFarland, CA 93250.

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Published by Bakersfield Californian from Dec. 2 to Dec. 6, 2009.

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Chris Price

December 16, 2009

I am jealous of where Lenore is right now, looking at her Father, seeing and understanding His plan. She will be missed by all of us at church. Lenore will be missed and a part of you has been lost, but all of you will see her again but for now we will rejoice for her.

Lollar Wolfe

December 11, 2009

Posted this a couple days ago, but not sure where it went...The Lollar and Wolfe Families were so saddened to hear of Lenore's passing. We have each been touched by Lenore's kindness. Hard to believe those beach trips were almost 40 years ago. Lenore's fierce believe in Bill's teaching strategies warmed our hearts and provided untold encouragement to him. I (Laura/ie) enjoyed catching up with her at swim meets and CSUB events. Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire family. Our favorite condolence quote is Kahlil Gibran's, "Remembrance is a form of meeting." So many people have so many great memories of Lenore and the whole family. Love you, The Lollar and Wolfe Families...P.S. I apologize if this is duplication. Came on line to check on service time and didn't see my post.

Anna Grotenhuis

December 11, 2009

Dear Warren and Family, There was a bright light missing at
Mt. Hermon this year. We missed Lenore so deeply. She was
such a beautiful, kind and lively spirit. Warren and all her children
and grandchildren are in our prayers. With love, Anna and David
Grotenhuis

Aubrey Bourque

December 10, 2009

I can recall so many wonderful memories of times spent with Lenore and the Carter family. She is dearly missed. I feel blessed to have spent as much time with her as I did and to have been a part of her life.

Pam (Davis) Crain

December 10, 2009

What an experience it must have been for Lenore to see Jesus face to face and have Him tell her, "Well done, good and faithful servant!" I was blessed to have known Lenore and to have her and Warren sow good seed into my spiritual life as a child/teenager. She is truly one of the most beautiful women I have been blessed to know. My thoughts and prayers are with your whole family. The adjustment to your lives will be great, but what a comfort to know Lenore is experiencing much deserved joy like she has never known before.

December 10, 2009

Lenore was as beautiful inside as she was outside. She will be missed by all who knew her.

Julie Scholl

Fred & Jacquie Heyn

December 10, 2009

Dear Warren and family,
We have so many memories of Lenore and her happy addition to any gathering. You were both very present in our gathering last week at MT. Hermon. We can only imagine your new life in the days ahead and know that God will continue to bless you and us as we continue the journey without her here on earth.
We love you and we have all well loved Lenore.

Fred and Jacquie Heyn

Denice Giuntoli

December 9, 2009

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

December 8, 2009

Warren, so many years and so many memories. Your beautiful and loving wife, by example, showed me how a truly gracious and godly woman should lead her life. Around my home are little reminders of her love for me during a time when I was "family". How precious are the photos I have of Mimi & Papa Carter holding my first daughter the day we brought her home. Lenore, you will always have a special place in the heart of our family. MAJ

December 7, 2009

Dear Abby and Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May your memories give you peace.

Michele Bryant

Laura Cheng

December 7, 2009

Lenore was an inspirational role model for Drew and I; likewise has the family's final journey with her been a testimony in how to rejoice in the Lord in all things. Thank you for sharing this story of love with us! We are praying for those who will miss her the most, that they will hear her singing now in heaven as I do!

LANETTE CORNFORD

December 5, 2009

Dear Warren and family, What an incredible journey and life long testiment Lenore was to her family and faith. We know that she will be dearly missed, but what a short time in the grand scheme of things until we are all united again! You are all in our thoughts and prayers... Lanette (Eisner) Cornford and family

December 5, 2009

Morry and Marjie want you to know you and the family were prayed for today. We love all of you and know this is difficult but we know God is right there with you. Love, Marjie

Jerry Davis

December 4, 2009

Dear Warren and family,

We too rejoice for Lenore. But we are deeply saddened for your loss. Lenore has been and continues to be blessing to all who knew her, including Berkley and I and all our children. Our prayers are with you all.

Love, Jerry Davis

Morgan Essert

December 4, 2009

She was an amazing person with such a beautiful spirit! God is lucky to have her in his kindom... We will miss you Lenore

Wendell and Lynda Vinson

December 4, 2009

Dear Warren and family,

You are all in our thoughts and prayers. What a beautiful life Lenore lived and what a legacy she leaves behind. When Jesus said “I have come that you may have life, and have it to the full” (Jn 10:10) Lenore took him at his word. Her life is a testimony of the goodness of our God. May you be comforted in knowing there will be a glad reunion day.

With Love, Wendell and Lynda

December 4, 2009

What a beautiful tribute have you given your beloved Mimi both in words and in actions. We are warmed by the assurance that her smile is now illuminating her Father's house, created in large part by her delight in all of you.
With heartfelt sympathy and love,
Jerry and Eileen Lehmer

Crystal Henderson

December 3, 2009

We are so sorry for your loss, but rejoice with you in the knowledge that she is with our Heavenly Father. We count ourselves blessed to have know Lenore. May God bless your family.

Lori Wenger

December 3, 2009

Dear Warren and family,

We were blessed to be "church family" with you all for so many years, and we share your love for dear Lenore, and will miss her. We know she's celebrating God's love now in her amaziing heavenly home, and are thankful for that assurance. We will see you soon, and hold you in our prayers. Love, John and Lori Wenger

Bill McKernan

December 3, 2009

Doug, Dena, and the entire Carter family: Very sorry for your loss. A truly wonderful write-up that for sure captures the essence of your Mother. Thank you too for the connectivity we have maintained through all these years & all these miles. I still have fond memories of my trip out there, and the welcome your parents gave me.

All the best.

L. Diaz

December 3, 2009

What a beautiful tribute...so filled with examples of her giving and love for others. I knew her only by "reputation" as a giving and amazing woman. May she find all the joy she has anticipated . Peace to her family.

December 3, 2009

OUR FAMILY SHARES YOUR LOSS AS WE KNOW THE PAIN OF LETTING GO OF OUR HUSBAND AND FATHER TO CANCER. THE COMFORT OF OUR FAITH, FAMILY AND FRIENDS SUSTAINS US AS IT WILL FOR YOU. NADINE JOHNSON AND FAMILY.

Sheila Metzger

December 3, 2009

What a beautiful tribute to such a wonderful soul. We now have another bright, shining star looking down upon us in peace.

This world was truly a better place with the blessing of Lenore Carter being here.

What wonderful works of love she will be doing in her eternal home, among the Stars in Heaven.

What a legacy she has left behind, a wonderful caring and supportive family.

God Bless you all.

John Ashcroft

December 3, 2009

I am grateful to have known this wonderful woman of Christian character. The world needs more and more of her spirit and grace.

December 3, 2009

Dear Karen and family,

We are so sorry to read of your mother's passing but rejoice with you in the knowledge that she is with Jesus right now. I hope knowing that your mother has been reunited with loved ones and is in the presence of our Heavenly Father brings you comfort during this difficult time.

Please know that we will be keeping you and your family in our thoughts and prayers.

Howard and Linda Chasin

Jan, Steve & Shayna Williams

December 3, 2009

To the Carter Family: It was our honor to know Lenore through our friendship with Doug, Dena and Mackenzie. She was a graceful lady with a gentle and caring spirit. Our prayers go up for strength and peace in the midst of your storm.
"Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you...Let not your heart be troubled." John 14:27

Inez Wallace

December 3, 2009

GOD BLESS the family. She was a wonderful person. So friendly and loving. I had so much admiration for her. She will surely be missed. She is resting with Jesus Christ.

Dana L. Base

December 2, 2009

TO THE CARTER FAMILY: Thanks for sharing this obiturary. You have, not "had" (present tense - or should I say "perfect" tense) a wonderful, God fearing mother, full of grace in every way. I imagine that rich will be her reward in heaven that she lays back at the feet of the King. The older I get and the more that I read obituaries like this, the more real the "future perfect tense" of the heavenly kingdom becomes to me. What a magnificent reunion that we should all have in that perfect place some day.

December 2, 2009

I have been included in so many Bakersfield doings because of my living with the Garcias. It has been a joy to get to know you all. I didn't know Lenore as well as Doug and his family, but I enjoyed the hours I had with her. It has been my privilege to pray for her and you all during her illness, and I will look forward to seeing her in heaven and really getting to know her.
Much love to you all-Tutu (Anajean)

Phil Robinson

December 2, 2009

I loved Lenore from the moment we met. I could feel her love and acceptance of me as a friend immediately. She reminds me of the comment" I love the Lord because he first loved me". You couldn't help but respond in kind to her love. Lenore was so full of love that, in Christ, she first loved everyone she met.

Arnold Simmons

December 2, 2009

Lenore was my "First Love." The moment I saw my Fifth grade teacher, from the third row, fourth desk back, I was mesmerized by her beauty and grace. That infatuation quickly grew into a profound respect for her guidance, example, and loyalty that has stood the test of time. Her influence has and continues to be a guiding light in my life. Over the years, when faced with difficult decisions, I often ask myself, "what would Mrs Carter say?" Yesterday, I cried. Today, I rejoice in the knowlede that Lenore has reaped her just reward and is home with the Lord. Thank you Mrs Carter.... you will be missed but never forgotten.

Robin Davis

December 2, 2009

Today thou shalt be with me in paradise. Luke 23:43
May it bring you peace to know your loved one dwells in God's company. Lenore occupied a special place in our hearts. She will be deeply missed.

December 2, 2009

Carters....It's a "downer" for our whole family.Each of us have loved and appreciated Lenore:them since 1973;Me since 1954.My 9 years as your McFarland Church pastor was a grand experience. We pray for everyone's eternity to be as secure as hers.
Glenn...Donna, kids, and grandkids

David, Karen,Geneva and Jessica Garcia

December 2, 2009

We are so blessed to know Lenore and her family and be included in her extended family around the world; to have been with her on many occasions at retreats and family events and celebrations, as well as having her and Warren visit us here in Mexico while their son Doug and family lived with us for 10 weeks several years ago. We will miss her and look forward to the day we will all be reunited.

Shari Blanchard - Mello

December 2, 2009

Although there are no words that will stop the grief your family is feeling, may you find comfort in knowing you are in our prayers for Heavenly Father to carry you through this.
We have many happy memories of her while growing up & you lived in McFarland. She was always ready with a hug when we saw her. And always remembered our names. We are blessed for having known her.

December 2, 2009

My name is Janet (Woods) Dye and I would like to tell the family they are in my prayer's. I have know Lenore all my life and will miss her. She was a great person and will watch over her family from Heaven. I have a lot of good memories of Christmas Parties with my family at their house playing games and eating fondue when I was younger and Lenore always made people feel at home in her home. Sincerely Janet Dye

Doris Hopwood Dunham

December 2, 2009

Indeed what a wonderful Christian role model Lenore has been for so many. Having known her since I was a youth also and in college, her loss is personal to me as well. I wish for the family the loving knowledge that Lenore is welcomed with her Savior and Lord and that we will see her again when we make that graduation. May you know in a very personal way the loving arms of God carrying you or walking with you each step of this journey as you celebrate Lenore's life and mourn her loss in this world. Continue to keep her alive in your hearts and minds by talking about her often, for the old African legend reminds us that no one is truly dead until they have been forgotten. May God bless you all.

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