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R. Stetson Miller

1920 - 2010

BORN

1920

DIED

2010

R. Miller Obituary

R. Stetson Miller May 27, 1920 - September 12, 2010 Stetson was born on May 27, 1920, in Adrian, Michigan. He was the only child of Ralph and Emily Stetson Miller. When Stet was five years old, his family moved to Los Angeles, CA so that his father could establish his private medical practice in downtown LA. Dad attended Eagle Rock High School. While there, he enjoyed playing the drums with local bands, establishing close friendships and family ties that he maintained and cherished throughout his entire life, exploring the hills and city of Los Angeles and spending time with his family and friends on Balboa Island. He also enjoyed summer trips to Michigan working on family farms, strengthening his love of agriculture. Upon graduation Dad attended UC Davis and majored in dairy agriculture. When WWII broke out he proudly served in the U.S. Navy. After being discharged Dad returned to Los Angeles where he met the most wonderful Nita Chase and they were married on June 2, 1949. Shortly thereafter, Dad convinced Mom to move to Bakersfield where he soon started his own agency for Farmer Insurance which he ran for over 35 years. Prior to that, Dad was employed by a local dairy. Stet loved life. He was a terrific husband, father, grandfather, son and friend. He was generous with his time and was always willing to help. Dad was founder and active member of All Saints Anglican Church. He had a deep love for his church and the tremendous All Saints family. Stet was also a member of the Libertas-Security Masonic Lodge, and the Stetson Kindred. Additionally, Dad loved to travel around the country and throughout Europe and did so extensively. He particularly enjoyed RV trips with family and friends, in addition to spending time with family and friends, Dad loved home projects, Angels baseball and of course, wearing Stetson hats. Stet was preceded in death by his wife, Nita and parents, Dr. Ralph and Emily Miller. He is survived by daughters, Debbie Miller and Lori Hrovat, and blessed with granddaughter, Nicole Hrovat. The Miller family would like to thank Hoffmann Hospice (especially Ann, Kathy, Juanita, Desiree) for the wonderful care and the friends and staff at Carriage House Estates, especially Martha and Jack Griffith. Special thanks to great family friend, Pam Frasch. Memorial service will be held on Friday, September 17, 2010, at 1:00 p.m. at All Saints Anglican Church, 3200 Gosford Rd. No visitation is scheduled. Stet is at peace with our Lord. The family requests in lieu of flowers that donations be made to Hoffmann Hospice. Greenlawn Southwest Mortuary www.bakersfield.com/obits

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Published by Bakersfield Californian on Sep. 15, 2010.

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September 27, 2010

Lori, I only recently heard of your father's passing. He was very much loved and respected by his peers and Farmers Insurance to which he dedicated a lifetime career. May God bless you and your family. Barbara Natalia

September 15, 2010

Sorry to hear about Stet. I knew him over 35 years and enjoyed talking with him at community concert. He was a great guy and loved you girls.

Dan Nelson

Jordan Aguilar

September 15, 2010

If I close my eyes, I can see Stet attempting to back up that RV into his driveway, trying over and over again to get it just right, as Nita shouted instructions and words of encouragement. As a child, I had the privilege of being Stet's next-door neighbor. He and Nita were the absolute best; their seemingly unflappable tolerance of my brother and I and the never-ending stream of balls flying over their fence was truly remarkable. He will be missed!

Andrea Terwilliger

September 15, 2010

Debbie, so sorry to hear of Dads passing. My prayers to you and Lori.
Love from Day

September 15, 2010

Lori and Debbie,
I just want to say what a pleasurable/unique experience it's been knowing Stet. Pleasurable in that he always made me laugh with his amusing take on life and the people in it,unique in that i benefited from his knowledge and life experiences in a number of ways. Truely, a one of a kind.
I'll never forget, and will always cherish our trip to Michigan.Traveling the backroads trying to locate old homesteads and places of his childhood. Trying my best not to throttle him while we argued over which way to turn ( of course i'm sure he used great restraint in not doing the same thing to me.) His ceaseless teasing of the wait staff at various eateries.His razzing me on the golf course, (" Why the hell did you hit it over there, isn't the green that way"? ) All in all it was a fun trip and i'm grateful i was able to make it and allow Stet the opportunity to visit one last time.
I could go on and on. Needless to say, I am a better person for having known him and his family.

With all my love,

Keith Hall

Valerie Vibe

September 15, 2010

Erik and Valerie Vibe send our prayers and condolences with our deepest sympathy.

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