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Rita Schnaidt Obituary

Rita Schnaidt August 19, 1931 to August 16, 2010 Rita Mae Barnes (Brooks) Schnaidt passed away at home with family present on August 16, 2010. Rita was born to Orley Jennings Barnes and Violeta May Berrey Barnes in Inglewood, CA, on August 19, 1931 along with her triplet sisters. She attended Standard School and Kern County High School. Her many interests over the years included playing summer softball, family camping at Bass Lake, dancing, volunteering in the Memorial Hospital Auxiliary, playing golf, watching her children and grandchildren play sports, rooting for USC, sewing, attending classes at BC, public speaking, cooking, entertaining, playing tour guide of the bay area for her many visitors, doing arts and crafts, and shopping garage sales. Rita married the love of her life, Ernest Schnaidt, on April 6, 1962. He brought much happiness to her life. Rita's greatest joy and interest was in meeting and interacting with people, a gift that served her well both personally and professionally. She enjoyed her career in real estate in Bakersfield for nearly 30 years. Characteristically active, up until one month before her passing she was still hard at work managing a large apartment building in Oakland, CA, where she was loved and appreciated by her tenants. Never timid and always fascinated by human experience, Rita traveled regularly in her later years, exploring New York, Pennsylvania, Washington D.C., and Europe. A favorite destination was Cayucos, CA. Always interested in the stories and opinions of others, she was an active member of Toastmasters and the Lions Club for many years. Rita was preceded in death by her mother, May and her sister, Lucille Irene Barnes in 1931; her grandmother who helped raise her, Lucy Adaline Rider Barnes in 1949; her father, O.J., in 1961; and her husband, Ernie, in 1988. Rita is survived by her brother, Samuel Barnes (Esta); her sister, Lois Roark (Bill); and her sister-in-law, Miriam Schnaidt; her nephew and six nieces, Brad Barnes, Brenda Barnes, Kris Talbot Rooney, Nancy Talbot Coy, Lisa Talbot Bohannon, Pamela Schnaidt Davis, Debra Schnaidt Lane, and their respective spouses and families; her three children, Sandy Brooks Ruff (Jerry), Michael Brooks (Barbara), and Marc Schnaidt (Rhonda); her five grandchildren, Jason Ruff (Amy), Seth Ruff (Kathleen), Jennifer Allen-Brooks Martinez (Mike), Traci Schnaidt, and Allyson Schnaidt. Rita also had four great-grandchildren: McCartney Ruff, Madison Ruff, Hudson Ruff, and Truman Ruff. There will be memorial service at Neighborhood Bible Church, 4101 Patton Way, in Bakersfield, on Sept. 18, at 1:30 p.m. Memories and affirmations that could be read at the service are welcome. Please mail to Sandy Ruff, 9530 Hageman Rd., Suite B345, Bakersfield 93312. www.bakersfield.com/obits

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Published by Bakersfield Californian on Sep. 14, 2010.

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Chika Nwoko

September 28, 2010

It is with utmost sadness that I write this note here. As a member of Rockridge Toastmasters, which is where I met Rita, she was one of the first people to give me encouraging words. She was a very generous lady and hosted our Toastmaster Christmas parties every year.
I will always remember her generosity, her kind words and quick wit. She was an extraordinary lady who accomplished more in her life, than most people ever will.
My condolences go out to her entire family. I know Rita is truly in a better place.
May her soul rest in perfect peace.
Sincerely

Wanda Hennig

September 27, 2010

How fabulous it was to have known Rita at Rockridge Toastmasters in Oakland. She was an inspiration with her wonderful sense of humor and warmth. We had our Christmas party at her apartment block every year. Her stories about the treasures she found at garage sales were constantly entertaining. She often spoke, in Table Topics speeches, about her husband and family. How good it was to have known her.

Faye Shearer

September 15, 2010

I first met Rita through her friendship with my sister. But she always included me in any activities that she had and hosted both of us at her home in Oakland. She was a great and gracious tour guide and a wonderful lady. I will miss the luncheons she always managed to have when she came to Bakersfield. Rita was a keeper of friends and always had many around her. She will be missed.

Kris Rooney

September 15, 2010

My life was richer because of my wonderful aunt Rita.
Peaceful rest-

Natalina Davis

September 14, 2010

I am fortunate to have wonderful memories of spending time with Rita while we worked in real estate together. Every day was a lesson learned. Her unique perspectives, of whatever was at hand, are life long lessons that I will always cherish with a smile. Having a heart of gold and her thirst for life and its gifts, as Rita did, should be a goal that everyone works to achieve. My condolences for your loss, she was a great lady and wonderful friend to all.

Dana Miller

September 14, 2010

I have wonderful memories of hanging out at Rita, Ernie and Marc's home as a child. She was always so entertaining and kind. Please accept my deepest sympathies.

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