BORN

1924

DIED

2008

Vancie Flowers Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Aug. 21 to Aug. 22, 2008.

Vancie Flowers 1924 - 2008 Vancie Flowers passed away on August 18, 2008 at her daughter's home in Bakersfield surrounded by family and friends. She is preceded in death by her husband of 66 years Roy Flowers; parents; Will and Eva; brothers, Jay Dean and Charles Littlefield; sister, Grace Devin; and grandson Jeff Royal. Growing up in Oklahoma Vancie learned to play guitar and sing. She wrote and recorded many songs for which she received several awards. Vancie loved to paint, trying to capture on canvas some of the earth's beauty God created for us. She was a REAL lady. Vancie is survived by her daughter, Peggy and son in-law, Ben Royal; grandchildren: Gina Hutchison, Dee Dee (Greg) Chaidez- Bailey, Vancie (Randy) Barrera, Bret, and Jason; 11 great-grandchildren, 7 great- great-grandchildren. She also had a step-daughter, Leola and son in-law, Arnold Weld; grandchildren: Monty (Donna) Weld, Rhonda (Mike) Cannon, and Connie (Dan) McCutcheon; 8 great-grandchildren. She had 2 brothers, Vaughn (Veda) and Roscoe (Sylvia) Littlefield; and a sister, Joann Marmolejo. A memorial service will be held Saturday, August 23rd, at the Assembly Hall of Jehovah's Witnesses, 5501 E. Brundage Ln., Bakersfield, CA 93307 in the D hall at 3:00 p.m. Flowers and condolences may be sent to 9049 Ponderosa Ave Bakersfield, CA 93306. "We're glad she smelled the roses along the way".

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August 29, 2008

Hannah joseph

I was so very saddened to hear of Vancie's passing. Roy and Vancie were very close to me and helped me so much at a difficult time in my life, I lived with them for a time and Roy was kind enough to loan me his car so I could get to interviews to get employed.
Though I am from Boston, when Vancie had all those great country western singers over for those sing-a-long nights, they made me fit right in even singing along with them. I am so glad I have recordings of her songs and she told me the story behind many of them. I know that Vancie and Roy were very much in love. When I was with them and Vancie wasn't nearby, Roy would tell me of his love for her and he always got teary-eyed, Vancie did the same when speaking of Roy. I know that he brought her coffee every morning.
I wrote a poem for Vancie which she really enjoyed and would like to include it here for it speaks a little of her life that she shared with me.

THERE'S A KIND OF BEAUTY
(for Vancie)

There's a certain kind of woman
You just like to be around
She knows just how to lift you up
When you're blue and feelin' down.
As natural as the cool, sweet earth
That lies beneath her feet,
Her red hair glowin' in the sun
Like fields of sunkissed wheat.
She's bent her back to cotton fields
Been poor but satisfied,
The hot wind blowin' cross her face
Blue skies locked in her eyes.
Her heart's as big as a redwood
Her voice as sweet as love
She's a country western woman
Country music's in her blood.

She met the devil face to face
He told her "You're gonna' die!'
But this country woman stood her ground
Proved false the devil's lie.
She'll tell you she's as old as dirt
And seen a heap of life
And the pretty gal she used to be
Has faded to the night.
But there's a kind of beauty
That time just can't erase
The beauty that's in Vancie's heart
And soft upon her face.

I know that Jehovah will remember both her and Roy and I hope to see them in that earthly paradise so near .

Sincerely,
Hannah Ruth Joseph
Mt Vernon Congregation
Bakersfield, CA

August 23, 2008

Heidi "Flowers" Valles

What an accomplished woman: a beautiful tall red head, country singer, oil painter, and so much more. I don't know her whole story, but one day sitting at her kitchen table I saw her standing at the sink pealing an apple in one long piece and she said with a warm tone in her voice, "it is for my husband and everyday since I married him I peal his apple to keep him healthy," (and that was after 46 years). Like a apple tree gives sweat fruit freely to those who pass by, so did Aunt Vancie nurish and care for each person that came along her way. She was present and kind, talented and smart, rich and giving. May her memory encourage, inspire, and never fade from the hearts of those who love her. Her is the link to her hit song
"What a Man"
http://rcs.law.emory.edu/rcs/artists/f/flow5000.ht

August 23, 2008

Heidi "Flowers" Valles

What an accomplished woman: a beautiful tall red head, country singer, oil painter, and so much more. I don't know her whole story, but one day sitting at her kitchen table I saw her standing at the sink pealing an apple in one long piece and she said with a warm tone in her voice, "it is for my husband and everyday since I married him I peal his apple to keep him healthy," (and that was after 46 years). Like a apple tree gives sweat fruit freely to those who pass by, so did Vancie nurish and care for each person that came along her way. She was present and kind, talented and smart, rich and giving. May her memory encourage, inspire, and never fade from the hearts of those who love her.

August 23, 2008

Lori Royal

Dear Aunt Peggy, Uncle Ben and my many cousins,

I am sorry to hear of your loss of such a wonderful lady. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your families.

Love, Lori Royal

August 22, 2008

Joyce Chitty

Dear Peggy,Ben and family:
I was so sorry to hear about Vancie,she was such a jewel of a lady. She and Roy were so hospitable
and loving to so many. I remember a
family gathering at Mom and Dads
where she sang for us.She had so
many talents and hobbies.She also was a very loyal and dedicated christian and taught many to love Jehovah God and live by his standards. My prayers are for you and yours at this time of such loss.
I love all of you. Your cousin,Joyce Chitty.

August 22, 2008

Jo Ann Baker

I remember the first time I met Vancie & Roy back in 1972. Steve & I drove down to Bakersfield and stayed a few days with them. I remember how they made me feel welcome and part of the family. That love grew over the years. Vancie will be missed so much but we look forward to the future when we will see her & Roy again in the resurrection. (John 5:28,29) We send all our love to Peggy, Ben & all the family. Jo Ann & Steve Baker

August 22, 2008

Although I didn't know dear Sister Flowers, we share the same faith, so I look forward to hearing her beautiful singing voice in Paradise also. Until then, family, trust in Jehovah, the God of Comfort (Is. 61:2)!

August 22, 2008

Ernie Lewis

The members of the Moosehead Band send their condolences to the family. Both Roy and Vancie were friends of the group and are truly missed.

Sincerely,

Ernie Lewis c/o the Moosehead Band

August 22, 2008

Olevia Taylor

I'm sorry to here that our dear sister have fallen asleep in death but very soon we will see our dear sister again John 5:28-29

August 21, 2008

Nikki

My grandmother was definately one of a kind! I am so thankful that I got to know her personally. I only hope that I will be half the woman she was. She will truely be missed.

August 21, 2008

Sheree Ferrel

I will always remember Vancie AND Roy. I drove them to the convention about 3 years ago and I will always remember the CD that Roy gave me of Vancie singing and the pride and great love he had for her. They are both greatly missed, but it will only be for a short time. We shall all be together again soon and will be able to appreciate Vancies beautiful singing voice once more. My sincerest condolances at this time and pray Jehovah's Holy Spirit help carry you day to day.

August 21, 2008

justin barrera

Miss you Grandma!

August 21, 2008

Lance Royal

August 21, 2008

laurie faselli

Peggy, Ben and family,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all...Laurie (Don Baker's daughter)

August 21, 2008

Ivey Needler

I can remember when I was a little girl and Aunt Vancie made me a Little House on the Prairie type dress. I felt so special getting to spend that time at her house and getting to go on a Bible study with her. She truly loved Jehovah. Aunt Vancie was very encouraging and loving. She sang so beautifully. I loved listening to her records when she wasn't there to sing in person. It will be wonderful seeing her in the Paradise!

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