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Memories and Condolences
for Timothy Scaggs
Matt
February 4, 2017
Dear Timmy,
I met you when I was new to St. Jane Frances. My sister was in your grade and we used to tease her after school waiting for our parents to pick us up. Man how vividly I remember us, I was only in 5th grade. I just turned 23 in the beginning of January and was scrolling through memories in my mind this evening and couldn't help but think of you. You were a cool kid man and I know you're doing so well up there and it's sad that bad things happen to good people. But good people are never forgotten and to this day I will never forget you.
God Bless you Timmy and your loving family.
T Swick
December 29, 2010
Happy Birthday to my baby boy...you are missed greatly, and loved deeply. Can't wait to see you again!
Teresa Swick
May 26, 2009
Recently I've been asked a few times why God "allows" bad things to happen, and how He could take some so young. I do not know the master plan of the King, but I do know that while a perfect, carefree and griefless life is not promised to us, the love from our perfect Saviour is. HIS poweful love is all we need to get through anything. We are so tempeted to push God away when we are in the midst of tragedy, but turning to Him instead will get you through.
I Peter 1:6 "though now for a little while you may have to suffer grief in all kinds of trials. These have come so that your faith - of greater worth than gold, which perishes even though refined by fire - may be proved genuine and may result in praise, glory and honor when Jesus Christ is revealed."
T S
May 1, 2009
If you are missing Timmy and/or other friend and family that you love dearly, and found that sometimes grief is just so overwhelming, please know that Jesus wants you to lay your head on Him. Hand your load to Him, and He will give your heavy heart the rest it needs.
An angel on earth...and in heaven.
March 24, 2009
Me & Tyler with the blue Power Ranger
Alexa Swick
March 23, 2009
Hi Timmy We all miss u so much. Wish u were here with us. Love, Alexa
P.S. This is us in Disney World.
Teresa Swick
March 23, 2009
HI baby boy, my angel... Always on this day I recieve hesitant phone calls asking how I am doing, the callers are always afraid of what will happen if they mention OR NOT mention you. I always tell them all not to worry, that remembering you is nothing that could ever be anything but beautiful. What's hard for them to understand is why I can be so free of the overwhelming guilt and pain that not so long ago controlled my world. I know you know why, but for others... it is all because of God. I have given Him everything - all my worries, guilt, pain, and suffering. He has completly taken all that away as only He can. He has restored me completly and I have recieved HIs comfort, forgivness and healing grace. My relationship with God has grown and I know that you, Timmy, are in a place that is unimaginable and indescribable, and I also know that you are unconcerned with us here on earth, as you should be. Who would ever worry about us here, while being where you are?
That is why I chose to use this forum to do the work that God wants. I pray that many see it, and I will pray always for God's guidance before and whenever I type in the words. I will also be constantly praying for all those who mourn, especially for Timmy, that God may wrap His arms around them and give comfort as He has for me. Before I go I say this prayer for you, anyone who reads this.
Father in Heaven, I give so much praise to you because you are a God of miracles. I pray that you will do miracles in the lives of those mourning for Timmy, and all mourners today. I ask you for deliverance from all things that keeps us from becoming all that You created us to be. Set us free from everything that seperates us from You. I know that even in the midst of what seems to be the most hopeless situation, You can do Your greatest work. I cry to You Lord, that you do Your greatest work through us who have mourned.
It is IN YOUR NAME I PRAY, AMEN
holly coates
February 12, 2009
hey buddy! just stopping by to send my love to you! i hope you have a happy valentines day! you will always have a special place in my heart! aj and tyler remind me so much of you. even though you are not physically here with us; i know you are a awesome big brother and you are waiting for everyone in heaven! i love you buddy! xoxo hoddey
Teresa Swick
February 10, 2009
HI baby...It's been a while, but you are still constantly in my thoughts. We had Tyler's 3rd birthday party at Majic Kingdom. He was so excited and happy to be around all the characters. The only thing missing was you. I am so sorry that Tyler (and AJ) will never get to play with you. They sure are missing out. They would be looking up to you right now, trying to do all the things you did. We all miss you so much. Life is so awesome, but it will never be as good as it could have been. The hole will always be there, and there is no one that could ever fill it. I love you baby...TTMATSATSAB!
holly coates
October 22, 2008
hi hunny! thinking about you today and everyday brings such a smile to my face. you were such a wonderful person and i am sad that your physically not here but it gives me a relief that your somewhere so special! one of my best friends babygirl passed yesterday, she was two months old, and i just have the comfort that you and uncle adam and our loved ones are taking care of her. please help little victoria give her family the strength to get through this tough time....i love you tim....always and forever your hoddey
Mama
October 21, 2008
HI baby,
Do you know that I miss you so much? I have asked myself and God why you had to leave us so many times. I still do not understand. What I do know is that as much as I want you back her with me, you are too beautiful for this place. You are just too perfect to stay here in this mess of a world. I know you are in a place that matches you- incredibly beautiful. I don't know if I'll ever find myself worthy of being where you are, but my prayer is that our Father will. Whoever invented the phrase that "in time it will get better" never knew you. I love you with everything I have - thmatsatsab...
Teresa SWICK
September 3, 2008
Hi baby, You know AJ turned 1 on Sunday, It was such a beautiful day, except you were not there. I miss you so much. Not a day goes by that I don't think of you at least a thousand times. Tyler has so much of your personality, that sometimes I feel like it's you playing through him. Please know that I love you more and more and more, just like when you were here with me.
Missing you so much, Mom
John and Wendy Lowry
July 27, 2008
Hi Timmy,
Just wanted to say that we still think of you often and miss you much
!!!! Wish you were here.....
John, Wendy, Aaron and Christopher Lowry
holly coates
May 8, 2008
hey buddy,
hope everything is going good...i miss you like crazy! i really miss your smiling face...you are cute as a button! i know that we all will see eachother again and that is going to be such a wonderful thing! since your the big brother i know you have alot of responsiblities looking after all your little brothers and of course ur only lil sis alexa!! you are such a wonderful little boy and i love you so much hunny! tell adam we said hi...love you!!!! kisses and hugs!
liz/deanna/eli booker
May 6, 2008
hey lil tim just writing to tell you that deanna,eli and your cousin his are thinking of you.love you always
Christine Coates
April 3, 2008
Hey Timmy is is aunt chris just wanted to say hi and tell you that I love you and miss you alot. You and Adam take care of each other and be good. Love you alot Timmy hugs and kisses xoxoxoxoxoxo......
Mom
March 10, 2008
Timmy, I miss you more & more. It still seems like it was just yesterday that you left us. I know that you are happy, but I still wish I could hold you or just smell you. Someday...
I love you...ttmsatsab!
Momma
Christine Coates
March 7, 2008
Hey Timmy Just wanted to say hi and tell you we all love you and miss you alot. Love Always Aunt Chris Hugs and kisses xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoo
The Lowrys
February 26, 2008
Hey Timmy,
Just wanted to say we miss you and you are still thought of so very often and missed dearly. Continue to watch over your dad and keep him going. We miss you.
Mrs. Wendy, Mr. John, Aaron and Chris
DEANNA BOOKER
February 19, 2008
HEY LITTLE TIMMY,THIS IS DEANNA REMEMBER ME.I LOVE YOU FOREVER.WE WILL ALWAYS BE COUSINS.
Christine Coates
February 14, 2008
Hey Timmy just wanted to tell you Happy Valentine's Day and tell you that I love you and miss you so much. Hugs and Kiss. Love always Aunt Chris xoxoxoxo.
Christine Coates
January 15, 2008
Hey Timmy it is Aunt Chris just wanted to say hi and tell you that I love you and miss you so much.Iknow that Uncle Adam is taking good care of you up in Heaven. Br good and remember that I will always love you. Love Always Aunt chris Forever. xoxoxoxxoxxxoxoxo......
Teresa
January 2, 2008
Happy New Year baby! We all love & miss you so much! Love, Mommy, DJ, Alexa, Tyler, & AJ
elaine and charlie swick
December 29, 2007
happy birthday buddy! i bet you are having a wonderful birthday party! love you hunny!
Love Mom-Mom and Pop-Pop Swick
T Swick
December 29, 2007
Happy Birthday Baby!!! Love, Momma
Alexa and Kayla
MOMMA
December 26, 2007
MERRY CHRISTMAS TIMMY!!! AUNT PATTY, UNCLE DAVE, MOM MOM ELAINE, KAYLA ALONG WITH ME AND ALEXA WENT DOWN TO WHERE YOUR CROSS IS ON THE SIDE OF THE ROAD. WE FIXED IT UP PRETTY NICE FOR YOU. WELL, I MUST ADMIT THAT UNCLE DAVE DID MOST OF THE LABOR. AUNT PATTY DECORATED THIS BEAUTIFUL TREE FOR YOU. I HOPE YOU CAN SEE IT AND I HOPE THAT YOU ARE HAVING A BLAST AT JESUS' BIRTHDAY PARTY. I LOVE YOU BABY.
December 20, 2007
I love and miss you so much. The greatest gift would be for me to be able to tell you how much you mean to me. I hope one day I'll get that chance.
Holly Coates
December 17, 2007
hey hunny just stopping by to wish you an early merry christmas!!!!!! i know you will have a wonderful christmas in heaven and i know that you and adam are probably building a beautiful home for all of us....i miss that beautiful smile of your...you were such a special person to me....and you are always in my heart for ever i love you buddy...love your hoddey!!
December 14, 2007
Hey Tim, Just wanted to let you know that we're thinking of you every day. We will miss you very much during this Christmas season. I wish more than anything that I was out shopping for you a gift. You know we love you and miss you so much. Please continue to watch over your dad and give him the strength he needs to get through the holidays. There is not a day goes by where I don't think of you, buddy. We miss you!
Love,
A close relative that misses you so much.
Aunt Chris Coates
December 13, 2007
Hey Timmy it is Aunt chris just wanted to say hello and tell you that I Love You and Always will.Love Always Aunt Chris Hugs And Kisses Forever. xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo.... LOVE YOU TIMMY
Holly Coates
December 12, 2007
hey buddy hows it going everytime i think of your face i imagine you cute as a button and always full of so much life that you made others happy....you were such a little sweetheart and actually i see so much of you in tyler all the time...i seen him monday night and he was bringing in all his toy trucks one by one to show aunt chrissy.I remember buying that stuff for you...like usual this spring well be at the site on thr road making it very springy and colorful...miss you bud wish you were still here...love you <3hoddey
christine coates
December 6, 2007
hello Timmy just wanted to say hello and tell you that i love you with all of my Heart.I hope that you are having fun with Uncle Adam please tell him that i said hello and that i love him and always will love both of you with all of my heart. please take care of each other and always look over all of all us us down here. Well i have to go now but i will talk to you both later. Always hugs and kisses. love always Aunt Chris forever.xoxoxoxxoxooxoxxo.....love you.xoxoxoxo.........
Christine Coates
November 27, 2007
Hello Timmy I know that I have not got to say hi for a long but I am so sorry but I never forgot you and I never will. I know that Uncle Adam is there with you. Always remember that I Love you and always will. Timmy I always think about the times when I use to watch you it was so much fun. I really do miss that .But I will always have that special place in my Heart. Well Timmy I have to go now but always remember that we all Love You and always will forever. Love Always Aunt Chris Forever.Hugs And kisses Forever xoxoxoxoxoxoLove You......
Holly Coates
November 26, 2007
stopping by saying hello.....love you and miss you......hugs and kisses from earth to you up in heaven...have fun with adam! love you
-Hoddey
holly coates
November 12, 2007
hey there buddy... just stopping by to say hello. we miss you and think of you all the time. tyler looks more and more like you everyday.. i know you are looking down on him and alexa and aj...we love you have fun in heaven.
holly coates
October 31, 2007
happy halloween timmy!!! miss you so much and think of you always....have fun up in heaven eat all the candy you want...love holly
mom
October 29, 2007
Well baby, it's Trick or Treat time. I wish you were here so much. I wonder what you would have wanted to be this year. I wonder about so many things. Alexa is going to be a cheerleader, Tyler is going to be Frankenstein, and AJ is Tiger. I remember when you were Tiger. My favorite was the year that I made you a vine of grapes. You had purple ballons all over. I wish we could go back to that time so badly.I miss you so much. I would give anything to hold you. I love you,ttmtstsab. Momma
BETTE SCAGGS
September 16, 2007
MISSING U SO MUCH LATELY. WE ARE AT VIRINGIA BEACH AND IT SEEMS GLOOMY EVEN THOUGH ITS NOT. BEING HERE REMINDS US SO MUCH OF U, YOU LOVED THE BEACH. DREW IS HAVING A GOOD TIME AND IT'S HARD TO WATCH HIM ON HIS OWN WITHOUT HIS BIG BROTHER AROUND. WE KNOW HOW CLOSE U
GUYS WOULD HAVE BEEN. YOUR DAD MISSES U SOO MUCH EVERYTHING WE DO HE SAYS I WISH TIMMY WAS HERE. YOUR IN YOUR DADS TOUGHTS ALWAYS. WE MISS U AND LOVE U.
Mom
September 2, 2007
Hi baby. We welcomed you new baby brother a few days ago. He is beautiful and we are so grateful for the miracles that God gives us. His name is Adam and he has lips like yours. I wish you could be here with us. I know you would have been the most attentive big brother. I just wait on that day. I miss you so much and welcoming our new baby is so bitter sweet. I know that you share our joy,I just wish that I could witness it. You will always be my #1 baby boy. I love you ttmtsatsab!!!
Teresa Swick
August 2, 2007
Summer is halfway over now baby. You were always so much fun to play with in the pool(a little crazy too). You had no fear of the water. You were so risky, too. You always wanted to jump off the diving board or do flips off the side of the pool. It was so amazing watching you swim. Alexa reminds me of you in so many ways where swimming is concerned. You guys would have been having so much fun. I wish you could be here teaching her how to do all those crazy things you did, but I know you are so happy where you are.I feel so selfish wishing you back here, but I would do anything to hear your voice again. Sometimes I hear it when I am dreaming, but I always wake up way to soon. I just miss you so much and wish that I could go back and change so many things. I just pray everyday that you knew how much I truley loved you and what you meant to me. I regret so much that I took for granted that you would always be here.Living with that is almost as hard as living without you. You have taught me so much though, mostly- how precious our time is. Time is the greatest gift I have. I promise you that I will never spend it doing selfish things again.I will spend all of my time loving your sister and brothers like I should of loved you. I am so sorry for not being the best mom that I could have been. I just hope that there is a way for you to know that. I love you so much and miss you more than words can say. Til next time...TTMSSAB
July 9, 2007
Happy Birthday Mom & Dad!!!
liz,deanna,and eli swarthout
July 8, 2007
hey little timmy we miss u so much.deanna and elijah still talk about you.i still rember how you used to say my name,you would call me his.it was so cute.you had the prettiest little face.deanna still wears your ravens jeerzie.kids at her school ask where she got it and she tells them oh this is my cousins.well i just wanted to say hi.we love you very much and miss you.
July 6, 2007
Through all the pain and grief caused by the loss of such a beautiful child, God's love and comfort continues to shine through on those who love and miss him. We all should give thanks that the Lord gave us the time with a boy that is truley special. Thank you.
Teresa
June 18, 2007
Big Timmy,
If you should see this, I just wanted to tell you that for the 8 short years that we were blessed with our son, Timmy, I truly appreciated you as a father and a daddy so much. You were always there for our baby, and you were so special to him. I will always thank God that you were the other half of Timmy. Thank you so very much for being the Dad that you are. I know that Father's Day may be hard for you, but I know that our son was and is still the most the most beautiful child because of you. Thank you and Happy Father's Day.
Teresa
Kayla Schmincke
June 6, 2007
Hey timmy I miss you so much even though you have been gone for three years it doesn't mean I will ever be finished missing you.
Love always, your big cuz Kayla Schmincke
BETTE SCAGGS
May 31, 2007
We miss you so much and wish we could all be together. This past weekend we went to the beach. It reminded us of you as most things do. Drew Drew is getting so big now and its hard for us because we know how close you guys would have been. Drew says goodnight TT to photograghs but he is to little to understand that his big brother is with god now. It's heartbreaking. You are forever in our hearts and you are loved very much. Please look after your mom and the baby.
Please continue to be with us and give our family the strength to go on without you here with us. As for your DAD he has been so courageous. He is lost without his best friend and will always be void in some ways. He is very troubled and carrys so much burden. In spite of all that he tries he really tries to go on living and keep your memory alive. We miss you little man.
love, all of us
THE SCAGGS FAMILY
MOM
May 15, 2007
BABY PRAY FOR YOUR MOMMA. PLEASE HELP ME GET THROUGH THIS DIFFICULT TIME. THERE IS STILL HOPE FOR THE BABY, BUT I NEED YOUR STREGNTH TO GET THROUGH THIS. IF THE PROCEDURE FAILS, THEN I'LL NEED THE KIND OF COMFORT THAT ONLY YOU AND OUR AWESOME GOD CAN GIVE. I LOVE YOU BABY. MOMMA
TERESA
May 12, 2007
HEY BABY,
I JUST WANTED TO SAY THAT MOTHER'S DAY HASN'T QUITE BEEN THE SAME FOR THE PAST FEW YEARS. I MISS YOU CARDS YOU WOULD MAKE ME. I AM SO GLAD THAT I KEPT THE ONES THAT YOU MADE SINCE YOU STARTED SCHOOL. I SAW MR. JAMIE AND MS. SHERRY TODAY. I CAN TELL THAT HE MISSES WHEN YOU USED TO VISIT HIM. HE PLAYED SOCCER WITH ALEXA FOR A LITTLE BIT AND ALL I COULD SEE WAS YOU RUNNING AROUND WITH THEM. I KNOW HOW MUCH YOU LOVED BEING DOWN THERE AT THE SHORE HOME. EVERYONE HAS BEEN WET DOWN WITH THE HOSE BY YOU AT LEAST ONCE. YOU ALWAYS DID SAY THAT YOU WANTED TO BE A FIREMAN WHEN YOU GROW UP. NOW YOU CAN DO WHATEVER YOU WANT. I JUST LONG TO BE WHERE YOU ARE SO MUCH. IT SEEMS LIKE SO LONG FOR ME, BUT FOR YOU, IT'S IN A BLINK OF AN EYE. DJ AND I ARE DEDICATING ALEXA AND TYLER TO JESUS TOMMOROW AT CHURCH. I KNOW YOU WILL BE THERE IN SPIRIT. ALTHOUGH IT IS A DAY OF CELEBRATION, IT HAS BEEN SO HARD AT TIMES ON MOTHER'S DAY. I WOULD GIVE ANYTHING TO HAVE ALL MY CHILDREN TOGETHER WITH ME TOMMOROW, BUT....ONE DAY. I MISS YOU AND I LOVE YOU, TTMASASAD. YOU KNOW WHAT THAT MEANS!!! MOMMA
D.J.
May 4, 2007
Hey Tim, Just wanted to say that we all miss you very much.
Mommy, Alexa and Tyler says Hi.
We think about you all of the time.We will continue to pray to you and keep you in our thohghts.
We all love love you so much.
April 18, 2007
Lil' Timmy, I think of you every day and miss you more every day. Please know that you will never be forgotten. You will be in our hearts forever. I know you are with us here every day. We will meet again someday and until then, please know that I love you and miss you more than words can say.
A loving relative
April 17, 2007
LITTLE TIMMY -- GOD HAS DONE SOME AMAZING WORKS THROUGH YOU. YOU WERE SO SPECIAL HERE, BUT EVEN MORE SO NOW. YOU MAY NOT BE HERE ON EARTH, BUT YOUR SPIRIT CARRIES ON IN SO MANY WAYS.
Momma
April 8, 2007
Happy Easter Baby, I miss you so much--more than ever. I'll never stop missing you until I see you again. I am so glad that on the third day, God's only son was resurected. This happen so that the sins of the world could be forgiven and wiped away. His sacifice makes it possible for me to see you again. Until then, I will miss you every second of every day. I love you, and I am so grateful for the gift that God has given me.
D.J.
April 3, 2007
Hey Tim,
I know that you are doing awsome right now ,You are in a place where you safe and have no worries. We all miss you so much.I think about you all of the time and wish you were still here with us. I am doing my best trying to keep mommy safe and happy.She misses you like crazy. She looks through your pictures and scrap book all of the time. Thank you for being a huge part of my life.I will never forget you. -----
Love D.J.
Mom
April 1, 2007
Baby Boy--Sometimes this pain is so exhausting, but I make my self look around to find energy in Alexa, Tyler, and God. Sometimes I wonder how life can change so much for the better in the wake of losing you. But, then I realize that it is the work of you and the Lord that makes it that way. You have created a new me and I give so much thanks for that everyday. I will tell so many people what you have done for me, so that it may help them too. I love you so much, and there are no words to describe how much I long to see you again.Momma...
Mom
March 29, 2007
I miss you like crazy and I love you more and more and more and more and more and more and more and more and more and more and more and more and more and more and more and more and more and more and more. Momma
March 28, 2007
Mother, please don't mourn for me;
I'm still here, though you don't see.
I'm right by your side each day,
and within your heart I long to stay.
My body is gone, but I'm always here,
in everything you see, feel, or hear.
My spirit is free, but I'll never depart,
as long as you keep me alive in your heart.I'll never wander out of your sight,
I'm the brightest star on a summer's night.
I'll never be beyond your reach,
I'm the warm, moist sand when you're at the beach.
I'm the colorful leaves, when fall comes around,
and the pure white snow that blankets the ground.
I'm the beautiful flowers, of which you're so fond--the clear, cool water in a quiet pond.
I'm the first bright blossom you'll see in the spring;
The first warm raindrop that April will bring.
I'm the first ray of light, when the sun starts to shine, and you'll see that the face in the moon is mine.
When you start thinking there's no one to love you,
You can talk to me through the Lord above you.
I'll whisper my answer through the leaves on the trees,
and you'll feel my presence in the soft summer breeze.
I'm the hot salty tears that flow when you weep,
and the beautiful dreams that come while you sleep.I'm the smile you see on baby's face,
Just look for me Mommy,
I'm everyplace!
Anonymous
Chris Coates
March 27, 2007
Hello Timmy.
Just wanted to tell you that I miss you alot and I am always thinking about you. I know that Adam will take care of you and you will take care of him. Uncle Mark Holly and Markie says hello they miss you alot to. Remember that we LOVE YOU AND ALWAYS WILL FOREVER. Love always The Coates Family. XOXOXO WE LOVE YOU TIMMY.
Jeannie Jackson
March 26, 2007
My prayers are always with you, words cannot express the sorrow that I feel for you all. My heart aches for you...Jeannie
T. Swick
March 25, 2007
I miss you baby, more and more as time goes on... Momma
A loving relative
March 25, 2007
Hey Tim, I miss you so much. I just can't get used to the idea of you not being around. My heart feels like it is still ripped out just like that day 2 years ago. I know that we will meet again someday but that doesn't make it any easier now. It's amazing how such a little guy could have such an impact on so many lives, but I guess that is what makes you special. Keep watching over your Dad and help keep him strong. My heart still aches for you and I wish you were here more than you'll ever know. Something is missing and it always will be until me meet again. We all miss you so much and think of you every day. Just know that we love you and you will be forever be in our hearts and on our minds.
Shannon Trebes
March 24, 2007
Missing you and thinking of you little man. Hugs and Kisses to you and your mommy and daddy.
Alexa Swick
March 23, 2007
I love you and miss you so much.I have a soccer game tommorow and my friend Makaylin does too. I wish you could be there and play with us.I miss when you used to play hide and go seek and I miss when you used to lock me out of the door.I miss you. Love Alexa
D.J.
March 23, 2007
Hey Tim, JUST WANTED TO SAY HI AND THAT WE ALL MISS YOU VERY MUCH. ALEXA TALKS ABOUT YOU ALL OF THE TIME AND LOOKS AT HER SCRAP BOOK THAT SHE MADE OF YOU AND HER EVERY DAY. I KNOW THAT YOU ARE OK WHERE YOU ARE BUT I STILL PRAY FOR YOU EVERY DAY. I WILL KEEP YOU IN MY HEART 4-EVER.PLEASE LOOK OVER ALL OF US AND BE OUR LITTLE ANGEL. WE ALL MISS & LOVE YOU SOOOO MUCH.---LOVE -----MOMMY,D.J., ALEXA, TYLER AND YOUR NEW BROTHER OR SISTER.
TERESA SWICK
March 23, 2007
HI BABY,
WHAT CAN I SAY THAT EVEN BEGINS TO DESCRIBE HOW TERRIBLY I MISS YOU. YOU ARE IN MY THOUGHTS AS SOON AS I WAKE, WHEN I LAY DOWN TO SLEEP, AND ALL POINTS IN BETWEEN. THERE IS A PERMENANT ACHE IN MY HEART THAT WILL ONLY LEAVE WHEN I SEE YOU AGAIN.SOME PEOPLE THAT TIME HEALS AND THAT IT WILL GET BETTER, BUT FOR ANYONE THAT HAS LOST A CHILD, THAT JUST ISN'T THE CASE. IF ANYTHING IT SEEMS AS IF IT ITS HARDER. THE LONGER WE ARE APART, THE MORE THE PAIN GROWS. ALEXA AND TYLER KEEP ME GOING. I'M SURE YOU KNOW THAT MOMMY HAS A NEW BABY GROWING IN HER BELLY. I PRAY EVERYDAY THAT EVERTHING WILL BE OK THIS TIME. IF SO YOU WILL HAVE A NEW BROTHER OR SISTER THAT WILL PROBABLY LOOK LIKE YOU TOO. TOMMOROW AFTER ALEXA'S SOCCER GAME I AM GOING TO CLEAN UP AROUND YOUR CROSS. WE ARE GOING TO PLANT SOM FLOWERS AND MAKE IT LOOK NICE. I HOPE YOU LIKE IT. YOU ARE FOREVER IN MY THOUGHTS. I MISS YOU SO MUCH. I LOVE YOU TO THE SUN, THE MOON, THE STARS, AND BACK.
LOVE, MOM
HOLLY COATES
March 23, 2007
timmy it has been so long and i miss u more and more each day. me and ur mom talk about you often and it brings smiles to our face knwoing that you had such a wonderful impact on everyones life. we love you so much and miss you alot. we know that today is two years for you and u are still with us whereever we go....we love you hunny and miss you sooooooooooooo much! we know u are so happy ur with adam now he meant alot to you! he is a fun guy....tell him we love him and miss him we know u are watching over us along with adam by ur side.......love you bud!
love always MOM-MOM ELAINE AND POP-POP CHARLIE AND AUNT CHRISSY AND UNCLE MARK AND HOLLY AND MARKIE XOXOXOXO
A Friend
March 22, 2007
You are so greatly missed. Tommorow you will be gone for two years. We all know God called you home for a reason. You had work to do. So many great things have developed in the past two years and we know it was the works of the Lord through you. Your Mom is a great person and she always credits that to you. We all love you so much. Keep taking care of your Mom and her family.
John, Wendy, Aaron and Christopher Lowry
March 21, 2007
The day is drawing near and we still miss you dearly. We pause and pray each time we pass the spot. It is this time of the year that has bitter sweet memories for me. One in particular always comes to mind. One Saturday afternoon, we all played a game of baseball just for fun over at the field in Riviera Beach. Grown ups against kids. We had a blast. You and Chris seemed so little back then. I can still hear you asking for a drink from the cooler that Ms. Bette brought. I gave it to you and you and Chris ran off to play. We had a great day. That day seems sooo long ago but then it seems like yesterday when you were lifted up to Heaven. We know you are in a better place but know that you are missed so much down here and not a day passes that you aren't remembered in a special way. We miss you Timmy. Love, Mrs. Wendy, Mr. John, Aaron and Chris.
D.J. Swick
March 14, 2007
Hey little man, Just wanted to let you know that we all miss you very much. It will never be the same without you.Your sister asks about you every single day. I know you are haveing a great time up there. I miss you so much. I promise that i will take very good care of your mother. Luv ya buddy ------- D.J.
Teresa Swick
March 14, 2007
Hi baby, I know you are happy to see your uncle Adam, But there are so many here that are suffering. Please help Mom Mom Elaine and Pop Pop Charlie right now. I know how much you love them. They don't understand why he had to go home right now, but please guide me so I can help them. You already help me so much everyday. You have changed my whole view of life and I am so grateful for that. Alexa misses you so much. I know you see the pictures she draws for you. Trista and Kayla also talk about you so much. The impact you've had on so many lives is so great. Thank you for helping your Mom. I love you and miss you to the moon, the sun, and the stars and back. Love, Momma
Mom
January 26, 2007
Hey baby boy, I miss you so much. Everyone says this is supposed to get easier, but for me it's just become harder and harder. I keep waiting for you to come in the door so I can hear you voice or smell you little blond curls. Alexa misses you so much. She talks about you everyday. Your little brother Tyler would have love to have known you, but then again, I believe you have already met. He reminds me of you so much with the same blond hair and blue eyes. When he laughs sometimes I feel like you are right there. You probably already know this, but you are going to have another little brother or sister.
I miss you so much. We all do. Things just will never be the same. We will continue to send you messages via ballon. I love you 2 the moon, the sun, and the stars and back. Love, Momma
Chris Schafer
September 5, 2006
Timmy,
My heart sank when I read your entry, I'm so sorry for your loss. Please try to not be so hard on yourself, your son wouldn't want that.
Chris
Wendy, John, Aaron and Christopher Lowry
September 3, 2006
Hey Timmy,
It's Mrs. Wendy, Mr. John, Aaron and Chris. Just a line to say we think of you often and know that you are in such a safe and wonderful place. But here on Earth, please send down some prayers for Dad and Ms. Bette. We think they could use some. Keep them strong not only for themselves but for your beautiful baby brother. Your baby brother is soooo adorable and we know you would have been the greatest big brother. We know you are watching him from above. Keep up the good work!!!!We miss you.
TIMOTHY SCAGGS
September 3, 2006
IT'S BEEN SOME TIME SINCE THE LAST TIME I WROTE TO YOU. WHAT DO I SAY? I MISS YOU. I CAN'T CATCH MY BREATH. YOU DIE EVERYDAY. I SEE AND HEAR THE ACCIDENT EVERYDAY. WE WERE HAVING SUCH A GOOD MORNING. I REMEMBER TYING YOUR TENNIS SHOE BY THE COUCH. I REMEMBER REACHING OVER YOUR BIKE IN THE DINNING ROOM TO GET SOMETHING AND THINKING THAT IT WAS RAINING REALLY BAD AND THAT I MIGHT NOT TAKE YOU TO SCHOOL. WE CAN JUST MEET YOUR CLASS A THE SCIENCE CENTER. THEN I THOUGHT, I'LL JUST TAKE YOU TO SCHOOL BECAUSE YOU WILL HAVE A GOOD TIME ON THE BUS RIDE WITH ALL OF YOUR FREINDS. IT ALL HAPPENED SO FAST.I DON'T FEEL LIKE A WHOLE PERSON ANYMORE. I DON'T FEEL LIKE I DESERVE TO BE HAPPY. I FAILED YOU ON THAT DAY. YOU HAVE A NEW BABY BROTHER. WE NAMED AFTER YOU, (ANDREW TIMOTHY SCAGGS ) YOU GUYS WOULD HAVE BEEN THE BEST OF FREINDS. I WILL MAKE SURE THAT HE KNOWS EVERYTHING ABOUT YOU. I WONDER WHAT IT'S LIKE IN HEAVEN ? I BET YOU HAVE ALOT OF FREINDS. I HOPE YOU'R NOT PLAYING GRAND THEFT AUTO. I TAKE YOU WITH ME EVERYWHERE I GO.
I LOVE & MISS YOU.
DAD28
Robin Scaggs
May 20, 2006
Hey Lil' Timmy,
I love you and miss you. Not a day goes by that you don't tug at my heart. Keep watching over your Dad.
Love Aunt Robin
May 18, 2006
Keep looking over everyone Little Angel~
holly coates
April 6, 2006
hey tim,it was so nice of your aunt and uncle to keep ur guest book,i miss u so much tim and its hard to believe that you are gone. i know you hear me when i talk to u at night,please take care of my pop for me hes now up in heaven with you tell him ilove him, i missyou buddy and love u with all my heart. xoxo<3Holly
April 5, 2006
Glad to see that we still have a chance to send you a note. I'm thinking of you & hope that your having a beautiful life with the Lord. God Bless you "Little Timmy"
Robin Scaggs
March 23, 2006
Hey Tim,
We really miss you buddy. It's just not the same, wondering when you would be coming up to spend the night with us. I know you are with God, and I know you are watching over us, but we really miss you and will love you always.
Love Aunt Robin and Uncle Owie, Lauren, Owlen and Gannon
Carla Scaggs
March 23, 2006
Hi Tim, today you've been in Heaven one year with the Good Lord, and I know he's got you working day and night. We've seen and felt some beautiful things happen in the course of this year, no doubt you played a major part in those Blessings. It's funny how you knew just what we needed, and helped God make the delivery, guess He picked the right little guy for the job. My thoughts are about you each and everyday. I know you take after your Daddy when it comes to knowing a lot of people, so I'm sure you've made your mark up there as well, so could you pull some strings for these Orioles, they can't stink again this year. I love you Tim..
All my love,
Aunt Carla :)
BETTE SCAGGS
March 22, 2006
HEY LITTLE MAN,
ITS SO HARD WITHOUT YOU HERE. WE TRY AND CONVINCE OURSELVES THAT YOUR IN A BETTER PLACE NOW. ITS JUST THAT WE FEEL LIKE YOU HAD SO MUCH UNFINISHED BUSINESS HERE. NOT A DAY GOES BY EVEN A COUPLE OF HOURS FOR THAT MATTER WHEN WERE NOT THINKING OF YOU. I KEEP WONDERING WHEN WILL WE FEEL BETTER. THE TRUTH IS WE WILL NEVER FEEL BETTER ABOUT LOSING YOU, WERE JUST TRYING TO FIND A NEW NORMAL. TOMORROW MARKS A YEAR WHEN GOD MADE YOU AN ANGEL. YOUR DAD AND I WILL CLEAN AROUND YOUR CROSS. WE HAVEN'T BEEN BY THERE LATELY BECAUSE IT IS SO PAINFUL FOR YOUR DAD. HE IS DOING THE BEST HE CAN BUT EVERYDAY IS STILL A STRUGGLE FOR HIM. PLEASE WATCH OVER HIM AND BABY DREW. WE LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU DEARLY. OUR LIVES WILL NEVER BE THE SAME WITHOUT YOU BUT WE WERE BLESSED TO HAVE YOU TOUCH OUR LIVES AND OUR HEARTS IN YOUR SHORT TIME HERE. TALK TO YOU SOON! "you are my sunshine"
MRS.BETTE
Holly Coates
March 17, 2006
hey timmy, its me again i see that your book is going to be leaving soon and we will not be able to write you....i will talk to you as i still do and i know that you are watching over me...i miss you so much and i cannot go a day without thinking about you... i really miss you alot and i miss seeing ur smiling face brighten up a room.....just know that i will never forget you...love always. your cousin Holly
holly coates
March 2, 2006
hey timmy i just wanted to let you know that i miss you and love you!! ur my special lil angel watch over me !!! ill never forget you! <3Holly
Robin Scaggs
March 2, 2006
Hey Tim,
It's almost been a year and even though I can't express my feelings to you via writing much longer, you will always be in my heart, little guy! I love you and miss you more today than yesterday and will miss you even more tomorrow. Know that I love you and miss you more than words could ever say.
Love Aunt Robin
February 27, 2006
Thinking of you as that one year is coming up. We won't be able to write anymore...but know that you are thought of often & always will be~! You can never forget special people...you are one of them.
Holly Coates
January 27, 2006
hey timmy its holly, i was just writing to tell you that i miss you so much...i know that you are watching over me and all your family and friends....we love you so0o much and miss you dearly....i know you were there with us in spirit as your mommy had her baby and i know you were with her the whole time.... i know that you willl take care of tyler and watch over him......we love you timmy help us stay strong for you.....<3Holly
holly coates
January 24, 2006
hey tim its holly i have been thinkin about alot lately i cannot believe that the 1 year is approching i miss u more then words can describe. i love you and miss you........<3your cuz Holly
January 18, 2006
Today I was thinking of you Timmy, as the one year anniversary approaches. I know your at peace now. Keep watching over all of your family & friends..Let the sun shine all over your adorable little face!
Robin Scaggs
December 16, 2005
Hey Tim,
What can I say? It will never be the same without you. Know that we love and miss you more than words can say. I know you are among us and watching over us. I truly believe that. Please stay with us through the holidays as we need the strength that you give us. Love forever, Aunt Robin, Uncle Owie, Lauren, Owlen and Gannon
Holly Coates
December 13, 2005
hey tim, its holly i was just writing to you to tell you that i miss you so much... i was holding trista and she pointed to a picture of you and said guess who that is holly thats timmy... everyone misses you so much baby and you are in my heart forever watch over me ill see you in heaven !! love holly
holly coates
November 17, 2005
i can agree with everyones responses and it does not get any easier... you were a special person that touched everyones life. not a day goes by that i dont think about you u are always in my heart and i know u are here with me. i love you so much timmy and please watch over all of us...talk to you again soon love <3Holly
BETTE SCAGGS
November 6, 2005
HEY LITTLE MAN,
I MISS YOU MORE AND MORE AS TIME GOES BY. YOUR DAD AND I HAVE BEEN TOLD IN TIME LOSING YOU WOULD GET EASIER, BUT I DISAGREE IT'S GOTTEN HARDER. I WORRY SO MUCH ABOUT YOUR DAD HE IS HAVING SUCH A HARD TIME. PLEASE GIVE HIM THE STRENGTH TO GET THROUGH THIS. I KNOW IT WILL NEVER GET EASIER IT'S SOMETHING WE HAVE TO GET USE TO. YOU'LL GET YOUR BABY BROTHER YOU ASKED FOR LAST CHRISTMAS. HE IS COMING IN DECEMBER AND WE ARE GOING TO NAME HIM AFTER YOU (ANDREW TIMOTHY) WE KNOW YOU WOULD LIKE THAT. I DREAM OF YOU OFTEN AND ENJOY SEEING YOU. I WISH I COULD HUG YOU IN PERSON OR TAKE YOU TO ANOTHER WIZARDS GAME. ONE DAY WHEN I SEE YOU AGAIN!
PLEASE LOOK OVER YOUR DADDY AS HE STUGGLES EVERY DAY WITH LOSING YOU.
I NEVER THOUGHT WE WOULD BE TRICKER TREATING WITH YOU THE WAY WE DID THIS HALLOWEEN. PLEASE KNOW I MISS YOU EVERYDAY AND I LOVE YOU SO MUCH. THE HOLIDAY'S ARE AMOUNG US AND YOU NOT BEING HERE SEEMS UNBEARABLE. IT WILL NEVER BE THE SAME WITHOUT YOU. THERE WILL ALWAYS BE VOID THAT NOTHING ELES CAN FILL. HOPEFULLY ONE DAY WE WON'T ALWAYS BE SO SAD. FOR NOW WERE DOING THE BEST WE CAN TAKING IT ONE DAY AT A TIME. PLEASE WATCH OVER YOUR DAD AND I AND EVERYONE ELES WHO LOVES YOU. TALK TO YOU SOON. "YOU ARE MY SUNSHINE MY ONLY SUNSHINE".
holly coates
November 3, 2005
hey baby its holly i am in school and i miss you so0o0 much we missed you on halloween, alexa was tweety bird i know you seen her. we miss you so much and wish you were here with us.i love you ur never forgotten... love always holly xoxox
Robin Scaggs
November 3, 2005
Hey Tim,
The holidays are fast approaching, and I'm thinking about you so much. It will be very hard without here with us, but I know you are with us in spirit. I miss you so, so much, buddy. Not a day goes by that I don't have you on my mind, but I know you already know that. Please remember how much we love you and miss you. You're with God now, and I know you are fine, but it is still hard here without you. I love you and miss you.
Love, Aunt Robin
November 2, 2005
Happy Halloween Little Timmy
October 13, 2005
God Bless you little angel in heaven~
xxxooo
TIMOTHY SCAGGS SR.
October 13, 2005
HEY BRO,JUST WANTED TO SAY HI. YOU ARE THE FIRST THING I THINK ABOUT WHEN I WAKE UP AND THE LAST THING I THINK ABOUT WHEN I GO TO SLEEP. I MISS AND NEED YOU MORE THAN WORDS CAN SAY.SEE YOU LATER.
LOVE YOU,DAD
Robin Scaggs
September 29, 2005
Hey Tim, I miss you so much and wanted you to know that you are in my heart and on my mind every single day. I wish I could just hug you one more time. Please know that I love you and miss you more than words can say.
Love, Aunt Robin
September 28, 2005
Always in our Hearts..Little Timmy!
September 21, 2005
Thinkin of you
Robin Scaggs
September 1, 2005
Hey Tim, Just wanted to let you know that we are thinking about you so much. Lil' Owlen really misses playing with you. Even Gannon keeps asking when you will be at Mom-Mom's house. Tim, please know that we miss you so, so much. You will never be forgotten. You have left an imprint on our hearts that will forever be there. I miss you and think about you every single day. Please continue to watch over your Dad as I know you have been. We love you.
Aunt Robin, Uncle Owie, Lauren, Lil' Owlen and Gannon
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