Alyssa Marie Buzzard

Alyssa Marie Buzzard obituary, BRADFORD, ME

Alyssa Marie Buzzard

Alyssa Buzzard Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jun. 1, 2009.
BRADFORD - Our beloved little angel, Alyssa Marie Buzzard, 5, died tragically May 28, 2009, as the result of an automobile accident. She was born March 28, 2004, in Bangor, the daughter of William "Buzz" P. and Crystal L. (Black) Buzzard. She grew up in Bradford, where she spent her days playing with her two brothers, whom she absolutely adored. She was daddy's little girl and mommy's little helper. She attended Happyfaces Preschool, where she had many special friends. Alyssa couldn't wait to start kindergarten in the fall. She also attended Bible school in 2008, where she learned many songs that she taught to other children. Alyssa loved High School Musical movies, and although she enjoyed doing many things, that was her favorite. Alyssa was a fun loving little angel who loved to sing and dance, dress up like a princess and fix her hair with hair pretties, jump on the trampoline, play cards and games, and go shopping to buy purses, jewelry, shoes and clothes. She also loved to swim and play at the park. She loved to bake and go to church with Grammy and sew and play with her Meme. She recently had a wonderful time at Acadia National Park climbing Bee Hive trail with her family. Alyssa was small in stature but had a big heart full of life, and will be greatly missed. Surviving in addition to her parents, are two brothers, Caden and Jacoby; maternal grandparents, David and Joyce Black; paternal grandparents, William and Helen Buzzard; maternal great-grandmother, Norma Black; paternal great-grandparents, Mary Maher and William and Mary Buzzard; very special aunts and uncles, Tom Hall, Amie Weymouth and her husband, Trey, Carrie Wilcox, Kim Niles and her husband, Shaun, and Jen Buzzard; and cousins whom she loved so much, Kaitlyn, Deanna, Destiny, Robert, Kylie, Mackenzie, Peter, Carter, Izak, Haylei and Madisyn. Relatives and friends are invited to call 5-8 p.m. Tuesday, June 2, at Brookings-Smith, 133 Center St., Bangor. A Mass of Christian burial will be celebrated 2 p.m. Wednesday, June 3, at St. John's Catholic Church, York Street, Bangor. Interment will be at Williams Cemetery, Bradford. The family invites relatives and friends to share conversation and refreshments after the services at Bradford Community Hall, 345 East Road, Bradford. Gifts in her memory may be sent to Alyssa Buzzard Memorial Fund, care of Maine Savings, P.O. Box 247, Corinth, ME 04427. Condolences to the family may be expressed at www.BrookingsSmith.com.

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June 10, 2009

Joseph and Catherine Mioni posted to the memorial.

June 6, 2009

Sean and Julie Maher posted to the memorial.

June 6, 2009

Kimberly DeWitt posted to the memorial.

Joseph and Catherine Mioni

June 10, 2009

We are so sorry to hear of the loss of your precious little girl. Please be assured of our prayers for all of your family. God bless.

Sean and Julie Maher

June 6, 2009

Dearest Billy, Crystal, and Family,
It is with the greatest of sympathy that we are writing you to express our heartfelt sorrow over your loss.I cannot imagine how hard and terrible it must be to lose a child.If you need anything or anyone to talk to, know that we are here.

You said before you died,
that I was the key to your heart.
But the truth is you were mine.
I ask the Lord above,
to answer my prayers.
That you would come back.
But, that wouldn't be fair.
I now know that you're happy where you are.
Safe in the arms of Jesus,
without any cares.
But I want you to know,
that I still love you so.
And I'll go on living for Him,
Knowing that His light will never dim.
Someday together we'll be,
But, until then, the Lord will take care of me.
So, keep on watching,
It won't be long.
That from this world,
I'll be gone.
Into your arms once again,
Safe from all the worldly harm.

With Love,
Sean, Julie, Alexis, Lauren, and Evan

Kimberly DeWitt

June 6, 2009

Crystal, I lost a child last week and as devastating as the loss of my 34 year old son, I can't conceive a mothers pain of losing a small child. My heartfelt thoughts of compassion are sent to you on the wings of Angels that watch over them.

June 6, 2009

We are so sorry for your loss. May God be with you and your family during this time.

Arthur and Heather Dorr

Christopher Catalano

June 5, 2009

Dearest Bill, Crystal, Family and Friends.
You are all in my thoughts and prayers at this very difficult time. I am praying that you all will find some kind of peace and i am praying daily for the quick recovery of Caden.
I am heartbroken for all of you.
God Bless You All
With Deepest Sympathy

Dawn Allen

June 5, 2009

To the Family and friends of Alyssa,

I am so sorry for your loss.
There is nothing on earth as painful as losing a child.
I lost my son Noah, the day after he turned 5, because of a terrible car accident. July 2007.
He is burried in Bradford too.

I hope you can find peace in knowing that God IS with you...and your precious Alyssa is with you always.

Marianne Daley

June 4, 2009

Bill & Family: Recieved an email from my friend asking for prayer for your family. It was our mutual friend Ray Ginty who I attend church with. How small are world really is. The loss and saddess for you and your family i'll hold deep in prayer.
Much Love, Marianne & John Daley

Kristen Daley

June 4, 2009

Buzz, Crystal & Family,
My heart is broken for you. When we heard about what has happen words can not express the saddness we all feel for your loss. Your beautiful daughter is in heaven with God holding her.
Love Always,
Kristen Daley & Family

Diane McDonough

June 4, 2009

Buzz Crystal and family,
Words don't really seem to be effective to say how sorry we are about Alyssa. We can't imagine the pain, sorrow, and loss your entire family is feeling now. If it helps at all, don't forget that you have so many people who love and support you.
-The McDonough family

Bradford Elementary School

June 4, 2009

Our heart goes out to you, your family and especially Caden.

Steph Morneault

June 3, 2009

You do not know me, but please know I pray for your family every day, and that God's love will bring you peace.

June 3, 2009

I am so very sorry for your loss, I will keep your family in my prayers.

Kathy Black

June 3, 2009

Dearest Alyssa I may never have met you before but I am one of your cousins. I have known your mom since she was born. You are going to be very missed in the family but I know you will be thought of every day of every year. But I know you will awlays be looking down on us from heaven keeping watch. When it rains we will know you are watching when a special events happens. When we see the sun shine we know you are watching a happy event take place. But always knows this your are a very special little girl. We will miss you dearly.

Desneiges S

June 3, 2009

I do not know you, but your family is in my thoughts and prayers. I am heartbroken for your loss.

Melissa Krawczyk

June 3, 2009

Some people come into your life for a season, because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They may seem like a godsend and they are. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Realize that your need has been met, your desire fulfilled.
My thoughts are with you Crystal, Buzz and your entire family

Cheryl Busbey

June 3, 2009

Crystal, Buzz and all of your families. Words cannot express my sorrow for your family. My heart aches for you. Little Alyssa was such a precious angel. Although I have never met her, I feel as though I know all of your children through Kaitlyn. Little Alyssa is smiling down on us and especially Caden now as he continues to heal. God Bless all of you.

stacy summers

June 2, 2009

Although words cannot begin to ease the sorrow of your loss, please know that you are in our prayers and so many are still praying for you. I will continue to pray for your strength and Caden's continued healing.

Kari Spencer

June 2, 2009

I do not know your family, but I do have a friend that does and I have heard your story, and as a mother, as a person, I can only begin to imagine the depth of your loss. I understand your son, Caden, is healing, and I pray for his speedy recovery for your family. Your daughter was remarkably beautiful and your story touches the hearts of people and prayers are only widening for your family. Your daughter will be sorely missed by those who know and love her, and people will hold their loved ones even closer because of your little one. Stay strong and don't be afraid to cry.
Love,
Kari Spencer

Ginger & Cody Wentworth

June 2, 2009

Crystal and Family and Joyce and Family,
We are so sorry for the loss of your beautiful little girl. My heart aches for you and your family. Our prayers are with you and especially for Caden.

bryan novaco

June 2, 2009

Im so sorry for your loss bill and to your whole family. my heart hurts for you all. your in my prayers

Wayne Desjardins

June 2, 2009

To the Family and Friends of Alyssa,
My deepest sympathy at your sudden loss. My profound prayers are with you during these trying times. May the Spirit of God be with all of you now and forever. Alyssa is most certainly with our loving Father in Heaven.

Manny, Judy and Melissa Gil

June 2, 2009

Buzz, Crystal and family,
We are so sorry to hear of the loss of your beautiful little girl. We wish there was something we could say or do to help take away the pain. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Love,

June 2, 2009

Crystal, Buzz, and family,
I am so terribly sorry for your loss. My heart breaks for you and your family. You all are in my thoughts and prayers especially Caden.
Love,
Angie, Tylor, and Dominic

Ceara Ladue

June 2, 2009

Dear Buzzard Family,
We are so sorry for your terrible loss. We can't even begin to imagine what you must be going through. We are sorry that we couldn't make it up there in your time of need, but please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers everyday.
We love you!
Love, Mike and Ceara Ladue

June 2, 2009

Dear Buzzard Family,

We are so deeply sorry for the loss of your precious little girl. Your family esp. Caden will be in our prayers.

Joe, Sarah, Brian, Devin and Addison Smith

Barbie (Bryant) Richmond

June 2, 2009

Crystal and Family: I'm very sorry for your loss. I will be thinking about you and your family and especially little Caden.

Jolene (Ryan) Cox

June 2, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you all. No one should have to feel the pain of losing a child. Hopefully every day will get a little easier for you all.

Hilary Haney

June 2, 2009

I do not know your family, but I can't imagine what you must be going through right now. I'm so sorry for your loss. I pray that your other two children have the strength to recover fully. No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Holly Wells

June 2, 2009

Although I do not know your family, I do know the pain you are going through, I lost my son last year. Hold on to your memories and each other to get through this very difficult time. I am praying for Caden to be healed and able to come home soon. God be with you.

Kelly Tripp

June 2, 2009

To The Buzzard Family...We are so very sorry for your loss and are praying that Caden pulls thru soon and recovers. As many have said in here words can not express or fully capture what your feeling or going thru...we hope the many words written in here will help you find comfort and understanding,,,our prayers and thoughts are with you....Alyssa, you are a beautiful little girl,,rest in peace sweet angel,,,god bless you and your family,,,,

Kelly, Luther, Dylan & Sierra

Jim Novaco

June 2, 2009

To the Buzzard Family,
My heart and prayers go out to you all. At times like this I wish there was more to help with your pain and suffering than only being able to say I am sorry for your loss.
Billy I was totally shocked and horrified when I was given the news of what happened to you and your dear family. I know growing up you were Jason and Bryan's best friend and we were sad to see you leave for Maine. From seeing you grow up, I can guess Crystal is a beautiful wife and mother and it makes my heart all the more sadden for you both.
I know it will be difficult but try to remember all the good things in Alyssa’s life I read about and don't let her last hours ruin those memories. Please rest assured your little angel is now resting peacefully with God. May the Lord look upon your family and comfort you in your time of need.

Jason Novaco

June 2, 2009

To the Buzzards and Blacks, my family and I are so sorry for your loss. Our prayers go out to you all and to Alyssa.

nancy catalano

June 1, 2009

billy and family
i know the need to cry the missing the hurting. can't say it will ever go away
remember this Alyssa, is not lost but safe from all the evil in this world.
remember also that she looks on the face of God. Because Jesus lives we can believe on a wonderful reunion.
Much love Mom C

Charles Rideout

June 1, 2009

Buzzard family, My heart hurts for you and your loss of your little girl Alyssa. I know what you are feeling as I have lost a son and my daughter. my thoughts and prayers are with you.

Bridget Olmstead

June 1, 2009

Will, Crystal & Family -
Words cannot express how sorry we are for what your family is going through at this time. Our hearts & thoughts are with you, Caden & Jacoby.
Matt & Bridget Olmstead

Stacey Pinkham

June 1, 2009

Buzzard Family,
So sorry for your loss. I could not imagine the pain you must be going through. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Eleanor Malcolm

June 1, 2009

Buzzard Family
I do not know your family at all. I can not help passing on my thoughts and prayers to your family. I would also like to tell you that I was very saddened about the loss of your precious Alyssa. I will keep Caden in my prayers. God Bless you all at this time of sadness.

Ervin & June Jandreau

June 1, 2009

Our hearts go out to you at this time and the days ahead. Peace be with you.

Crystal Benoit

June 1, 2009

Billy and Crystal, I am so sorry for the loss of your very beautiful daughter Alyssa. I couldn't even being to think how you feel but my thoughts and prayers go out to you. I also prayer that Caden stays stronge and I know Alyssa is watching over him. As hard as it must be, she will always be by your side and always be in your heart.

With all my love,
Your cousin Crystal

Julie McCarthy

June 1, 2009

Buzzard Family,
We would like to offer our prayers and condolences for the loss of your beloved little girl Alyssa. Although we never met her having a little girl that is five as well we can just imagine how cute she was dancing, dressing up and singing for your family. May God comfort you all and know that we are sending prayers to your family.
Matthew, Julie, Justin, Madison & Noah McCarthy

Jen Stanford (Ditzel)

June 1, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time. I am so very sorry for the loss of Alyssa, your beautiful little girl. May you find peace that she will forever be your little angel watching over you from above. Lots of Love

Shelley (Pray) Largay

June 1, 2009

My heart breaks for you all. I know no words can ease your pain. All I can tell you is to remember the good times you all had and that she is with you always. My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this time.

Aaron & Angela Catalano

June 1, 2009

Will, Crystal, Caden & Jacoby -
We are praying for you and your family in this sorrowful time. We truely can't express how sad we are for the loss of your beautiful angel Alyssa, but we'd like you to know you are in our thoughts. May you have strength to take one day at a time and be there for each other.
Love and Prayers,
Aaron & Angie

She was so very, very special
And was so from the start
You held her in your arms
But mainly in your heart

And like a single drop of rain
That on still waters fall,
Her life did ripples make
And touched the lives of all.

She's gone to play with angels
In heaven up above
So keep your special memories
And treasure. them with love

Although your darling daughter
Was with you just a while
She'll live on in your heart
With a sweet remembered smile.
(Author- Unknown)

Nick and Ashleigh

June 1, 2009

Buzzard Family,

We are thinking of you in your time of loss. Take comfort in the many good memories that you have made with Alyssa in her precious life.

Nick Randall and Ashleigh Tate

Kristin Coburn

June 1, 2009

Dear Crystal,
I went to Beal College with you and have wondered about you often. I wish that it was different circumstances that I was writing to you in, but unfortunately it is not. I am so very sorry for your loss. You and your family have constantly been in my thoughts. My heart aches for you all. Praying that you and your family can find some strength and comfort to help you through this.

June 1, 2009

to the family of little alyssa; may god be with you all. it must be just tearing you all apart, but just remember she is with jesus now, she is a real beautiful little lady. i have 4 grown girls. and i just cant amagin. may god be at your sides and comfort you, and we will be praying for with all our hearts, may god bless your aching hearts and all our love and prayers go out to you all ,like i said before. we live in plymoputh maine. and we are very strong pentycoastal people. love in christ mabel and ed metivier. feel free to contact us if you wish. {257-3214}

Debbie Widgeon

June 1, 2009

Buzzard family, Our hearts are just broken for you all. Although you won't really know who we are, or rememeber us from when you were little Bill, but we are a part of your extended family in Virginia and we couldn't be more sorry for your loss. We pray you hold yourselfs up for the sake of your little ones. We know how hard that will be. We pray for you all everyday. God bless each and everyone of you . The Widgeon Family, Jimbo, Debbie, Jimmy and katie

Beverly

June 1, 2009

I am so sorry for your loss. I do however understand what you are going thru - I lost a daughter to a car accident 12 years ago. If there is anything I can do please call. 827-2375

June 1, 2009

To Alyssa's family and friends, I did not know Alyssa but wanted to say I am very very sorry for the loss of your little girl. I will be praying for a speedy recovery for your son and for peace and comfort for the rest of your family. God Bless and take care of each other.

Ray Ginty

June 1, 2009

Dear Buzz and Crystal, I'm so very sorry for your lose. I can not even begin to know how you both feel. You are all in our prayers. This is a hard time for you all. And it will take some time to heal. Just cherish each other, and your family. You are all much loved, and I wish I could be there to hug you all., but I have caught the flu that is going around. All our Love. Ray and Sue Ginty----Madison Conn.

Keith Mitchell Jr

June 1, 2009

Crystal, Buzz, and Family,
Words cannot express how sorry we are to hear of your loss. Our thoughts, sympathy, and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.

Patty Qualey

June 1, 2009

Joyce,David and the Buzzard Family
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. We are so sorry to hear about your grandaughter and daughter. Alyssa will find love and comfort in Gods arms and I hope you all find comfort in your faith.
Please take care and God Bless you all...
Love and Prayers,
John and Patty Qualey
Josh and Katie

Barry Maher

June 1, 2009

Billy and Crystal, I am at a loss for words for your loss, reason being is there are no words that I can speak that will ease your pain. They say that in time the pain will ease....but sadly it will never go away. I am sorry that I was not able to travel up there along with your Aunt Sandy. I wish nothing but good things for you both and the speedy recovery of Caden and Jacoby. Love, Uncle Barry

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Leaving You

Sorry I didn't get to stay.
To laugh and run and play.
To be there by your side.
I'm sorry that I had to die.

God sent me down to be with you,
to make your loving heart anew.
To help you look up and see
Both God and little me.

Mommy and Daddy I wish I could stay.
Just like I heard you pray.
But, all the angels did cry
when they told little me goodbye.

God didn't take me cause He's mad.
He didn't send me to make you sad.
But to give us both a chance to be
a love so precious .. don't you see?

Up here no trouble do I see
and the pretty angels sing to me.
The streets of gold is where I play
you'll come here too, Mommy and Daddy, someday.

Until the day you join me here,
I'll love you Mommy,Daddiy, Caden and Jacoby.

Each breeze you feel and see,
brings love and a kiss from me.

I love You all, Alyssa

Craig & Erin McCorrison

June 1, 2009

Buzz and Crystal,

Alyssa truly was a gift sent from God. We are so blessed to have known her for five years. She was a special little girl whose smile would brighten your day. We will miss her singing and hearing her laughter.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you always.

We love you all!

Deanna L.

June 1, 2009

I did not know you or your children but I met you briefly while at the hospital with my own son. What I went thru was hard but I could not imagine what is has been like for you. I cannot stop thinking of your family since we have left. My prayers are with you and for Caden. You will forever have a sweet angel looking over you and your family...God Bless.

Angie Ouellette

June 1, 2009

you are all in my thoughts and prayers at this tragic time! take comfort in knowing she is with our hevenly father looking down on you! Crystal i know you dont remember me, you were way to young, but my name is Angie and our mothers were once the best of friends, i have stayed close to many of your family members. if there is anything at all that i can do for you or your family dont hesitate to contact me!
thinking and praying for you all!
love,
Angie

Lisa P

June 1, 2009

You do not know me, but my heart breaks for you today. I am crying for your loss. Your beautiful girl is fine and happy in Heaven, but you hurt deeply and I wish I could say something that could take your pain away. I believe in prayer and will be praying for you... truly, I will. God will remind me of you and I will keep praying for your comfort and strength and all else you will need. Don't give up though I can only imagine that you feel like it.

Katherine Umecker

June 1, 2009

Billy and Crystal,

I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers. I wish there was someting more I could do or say to make your pain go away. Remember that smile on her pretty little face and the love she brought to you and the boy's. And remember she will always be there smiling for you and with you.
_________________________________________

Time has taken me from you,
Although not very far.
I'll be watching through the sunshine
And through the brightest star.

I'll be watching all of you,
From the heavens up above.
So take good care of each other
And carry all my love.

If you're ever wondering
If I'm there, here's where you can start.
Take a look inside yourself
Deep within your heart.

I'll always be your baby,
Your child (grandchild), your best friend.
So anytime you need me,
Close your eyes I'm back again.

With all my love,
Your cousin Kathy

Tara Erickson

June 1, 2009

To the Buzzard Family...My thoughts and prayers will be with you all today and forever...god carry you thru all the difficult times and know that she will be watching over you all; Stay strong and keep her memory alive

June 1, 2009

Not a day has gone by we have not thought and prayed for your family. I hope you find strength in each other, as well as your friends and family. All of us are out here storming heaven with prayers for Caden, while his little sister is watching over him.
Love
Bj and Randa

The Gibson Family

June 1, 2009

To the Buzzard Family,
My daughter, Alexis, was at Happifaces with Alyssa and she used to come home and talk about her friend, Alyssa. Take comfort in knowing that now you have an angel watching over your family. Our thoughts are prayers are with you.

Bonk, Michelle, Makayla & Alexis Gibson

Tim, Jen and Max Brown

June 1, 2009

Crystal and Buzz,
We will always be praying for the beautiful little angel in heaven. I will always remember her as all smiles and the little helper during bible school. We love you and don't forget that your family is always there for you.

AB L

June 1, 2009

Nothing I can say to you will change the way you feel.I was in your shoes 34 years ago, and I lost part of myself then and it still hurts to this day.I hope you all know God will Help you through this time ,Talk to him.

Scott & Diane Adams

June 1, 2009

Our Thoughts and prayers are with you and your Family.
Aunt Diane Uncle Scott

Joy and Peter Speed

June 1, 2009

Crystal and Buzz,
If there is anything you need from us please do not hesitate to call. We are always here for you all. We are going to miss our "Lyssa Lou" running across our lawn coming over to play with the kids. We have so many great memories that we will cherish forever. We love you all.
Love,
Joy, Peter, Jenna, "Benji Boo", and Natalie

Tania turcotte

June 1, 2009

To the Buzzard family, I am so sorry for your loss, and the agony and fear for Caden. Your beautiful baby girl is now a free flying angel that will always be with you and your family. There is nothing that can be said to ease your pain. All I can say from experience is that as the days pass time will ease your pain. There will always be something that will remind you of your precious angel. You will never forget her. Dad dont blame yourself. This was a tragic accident.. Stay strong and your love for each other will get you through this.. rest in peace baby girl Alyssa. Our prayers and thoughts are with you during this time of difficulty.

C Jerome

June 1, 2009

I do not know your family, but my heart goes out to all of you. Know that your Baby Girl is an angel and now she is watching over her family until she can give you all hugs and kisses again. Love and prayers.

Terri Rand

June 1, 2009

My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

June 1, 2009

Alyssa went to preschool with our son Clay. His birthday is 3/27 so I believe that him & Alyssa shared a birthday party at school. Please know that our thoughts & prayers are with you at this time & that we are also praying for the recovery of your son that is still in the hospital & that God will give you strength as you sit at his bedside.
Wayne, Stephanie & Clay

Marie Wheeler

June 1, 2009

Crystal, Sorry to hear about your lost. You're in my thoughts.

Darlene Rogers

June 1, 2009

What a beautiful little angel.. My thoughts and prayers are with the family.I didnt know you,But my heart goes out to all of you and your family at this time.God bless you..

Amanda & Jimmy Hampson

June 1, 2009

Alyssa was such a beautiful little girl inside and out. Crystal, Buzz, Caden, and Jacoby our thoughts and prayers are with you and if there is anything we can do please let us know.

Michelle Gibson

June 1, 2009

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Renee & Joe Murray

June 1, 2009

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009

Keith Turner

June 1, 2009

Heather and I are so very sorry for your loss. You and your family remain in our thoughts and prayers along with many from our extended family. We are especially keeping in mind young Caden and hoping and praying for his speedy recovery.

Kari Crouse

June 1, 2009

Will,Crystal,Caden,JaCoby & Family,
I'm so sorry for your loss. She is now a beautiful Angel. As my daughter says, look up into the night sky, the brightest star you see, is the person you love the most in heaven. God bless you all! Thinking & Praying for you all.
Hugs to all,
Kari

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Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

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Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

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What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

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Poems of Mourning and Comfort

The best poems for funerals, memorial services, and cards.

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Resources to help you cope with loss
How to Cope With Grief

Information and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.

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Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

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How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

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Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

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Ways to honor Alyssa Buzzard's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

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How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

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Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

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How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

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Sign Alyssa Buzzard's Guest Book

Not sure what to say?

June 10, 2009

Joseph and Catherine Mioni posted to the memorial.

June 6, 2009

Sean and Julie Maher posted to the memorial.

June 6, 2009

Kimberly DeWitt posted to the memorial.