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Davis James
September 20, 2013
9-20-13 That old teaching and advise you use to give, is still inspiring to me today.Alot of times when I have a bad day I think about it ,and apply it and it makes things go that much better.
Linda"LuLu" Blanks
November 30, 2011
Coach, as I am sure you are aware from HEAVEN, The Coldspring TROJANS are still in the playoffs, Thanks to the great coaching of your son BB and his wonderful staff. I know you are wishing us LUCK as we move forward. You are missed. we can see it in the eyes of BB. REST IN SWEET PEACE!
Linda" LuLu" Blanks
November 18, 2011
Happy Thanksgiving Coach! You are missed. Your son, The Great Brian Barbay has once again taken the Coldspring TROJANS to the playoffs. We know you and Coach Ed are enjoying this ride with us from HEAVEN! RIP!
wilcox james
September 25, 2011
Its been a year old man and its still hard to believe. you are not out. On the field running your favorite scat play. We luv and miss u and long for days past.
patterson james
January 9, 2011
gone and missed daily by the people who lives that he touched . I still prosper this day by the work eithic and pride this man instilled in me many many years ago
Ricky Johnson
October 20, 2010
I had the honor to work with Curtis in the late 80's and early 90's. I probably spent almost as many hours in a bassboat on Sam Rayburn and Toledo Bend with him as I did on the football field. I am proud to say he was my friend. He taught my youngest son how to fish and I can still hear him say, "Adrian, this is what we are fishing for." I only found out today of his passing as I was checking on how the Eagles were doing.
Mona, Kelly, Brian, and Darrell- Maronda and I are heartbroken at hearing about Curtis. Our prayers are with you. May God Bless you and give you strength in the days ahead.
October 11, 2010
My pray's are with all of you and rest in peace coach Beth(Jewett)
jalen Gilder
October 11, 2010
R.I.P. coach barbay watch over our team the warren warriors and your nefew coach kevin barbay
white james
October 7, 2010
Coach you are missed and loved.
Tiffany perez
October 5, 2010
My prayers go to the Barbay family. R.I.P coach barbay we will truly miss you. no one can ever replace you at NHS. Thanks to you my brother has confidence now that he never had. thanx for that we love you and miss you.
rita smith
October 5, 2010
Coach Barbay was one of a kind, What you saw and what he said was the way it was with him. Didnt talk behind your back about you. You always knew were you stood with him.They dont make them like that no more. Rest in peace Coach Barbay
Anjalica Ruzic
October 5, 2010
you will never be forgoten you were the best coach in history and football will not be the same anymore.. rip coach barbay..
Stacey LeJeune
October 2, 2010
We recently moved to Nederland but have lived in Newton for yrs & witnessed plenty of Coach's games & wow! He was such an awesome man! Mrs. Mona is a very special lady & was always dear to my kiddos up until we moved! Our prayers & sympathy are with Mrs. Mona,family,friends & everyone in the Newton Community!
Corey Lathan
October 2, 2010
I just finish our football game when I got a text from my sister of Coach Barbay's death. R.I.P Coach Barbay I had great memories playing for you. You can never be replace............Corey Lathan ( Waikele, HI)
ray Allen
October 1, 2010
Rip Coach.You held true to your standards until the end.Your were truly s great man. Prayers to teh family
KIMBERLY EAVES
September 30, 2010
Coach Barbay had a lot of Friends and Family whom Loved him Dearly.He will not be Forgotten by Nobody. Thoughts and Prayers to all the Barbay Family and The Football Players who will Miss him more.
mickens peter
September 30, 2010
still cant beleive that this man is gone . he was a good man, and did what he could for his players and for people as a whole.A wealth of knowlege and wisdom is gone but the lessons this great man taught will live on . God bless his wonderful family.
Jamie Westbrook
September 30, 2010
I will never forget Coach Barbay standing on the sidelines with his old school hat and trademark grey windbreaker.Thanks coach ,you used the football field to mold young boys into MEN,who were filled with pride,dedication and hardwork.We will surely miss you.May GOD bless the Barbay family.
September 29, 2010
I heard the news far on the west coast of Southern California, where I reside today. I grew up in Newton until the age of 13. I am 40 today, and have kept up to date on Eagle Football throughout all of the years gone by. So sad to hear about Coach Barbay's passing. He is truly a legend! John Dorsey (Newport Beach, California)
Johnny White (NHS Class of 1980)
September 29, 2010
My prayers and thoughts go to the all of the Barbay family during this tragic loss. Any memories are dim compared to the life-long commitment that Coach Barbay gave to all of Newton's residents. His love of the sport and his love of his family will be greatly remembered for years. He has sat a standard that any coach should strive for. God bless the Barbay family and Newton for the loss of a great man.
September 29, 2010
To the Barbay family my thoughts and prayers will continue to be with.
Lorene Adams-NHS Class of 1988 (Newton/Jasper,Tx.)
Leslie Myers
September 29, 2010
Coach Darrell Barbay & Family,
I'm so sorry for your loss. We are praying for you and your family.
Martin & Gracie Clark
September 29, 2010
We are so sorry to hear about your loss. May you feel God's loving arms around you.
Edward/Gwendolyn Carter
September 29, 2010
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
williams james
September 29, 2010
We will miss this East Texas legend. What a great man he was.The is now a empty place in all the lives of the people that he touched. I want to thank the Barbay family for being so unselfish and sharing this great man with us.God bless u and comfort you in your time grief.
Ryan Nelson
September 29, 2010
Coach it was a honor to play under you I wish I could play 4 more but even in the 4 yrs I had with you I was made into a better person on and off the field. There will never be another like you and I will always have the memories you left me with. Thanks to the Barbay family for bringing us such a great person. R.I.P coach
Eleanor LeBert
September 29, 2010
May God Bless you,family,friends and the community in this time of sorrow.
Eddie & Karyn Lobb
September 29, 2010
There will never be another coach to take his place. Newton has been honored to have the 4th Winningest Coach in Texas for all these years. He never put on airs, he was just the coach. I hope they have white perch & Blue Bell Ice Cream in Heaven. We know you are flying high. Purple Pride never dies.
Marie Voisin Durham
September 29, 2010
You will be greatly missed you touch alot of people. Your spirit will live on forever an ever. God bless an keep your family safe.
Linda "LuLu" Blanks
September 29, 2010
I had the honor of meeting Coach Barbay @ the gates to Trojan Staduim in Coldspring Texas.He was here getting a two for one deal according to Coach Bryan Barbay.He and I shared a few jokes, all about Coach Bryan.
I say to the Newton Eagles.Hang in there! Remember everything Coach Barbay stood for both on and off the field. We (Coldspring Trojans) feel your pain. We have been where you all are now.(1992-93)Keep trusting in THE ALMIGHTY. Be there for each other, just as Coach was there for each of you.
There has to be a football field and a CHAIR in HEAVEN that is now being used by this great coach.
TOUCHDOWN NHS COACH CURTIS BARBAY and THE EXTRA POINT IS GOOD!!!
Kim Langford Kelley
September 29, 2010
Words are inadequate in times like these, but please know that I love you and am praying for you and truly share in your grief.
Clover (Moye) Stiles
September 28, 2010
I have known the Barbay family since moving to Newton in 1974. My dad, "Bubba" Moye, had the honor of coaching with Coach Barbay as well as remaining true friends. As little kids, I remember going to the Barbay's after home games and practicing cheerleading with Kelly while Brian, Darrell and Paul Ramsey played football in the front yard. Many years later, I feel that our families remain connected. My heart aches for your loss but I pray you find comfort in knowing Coach Barbay touched so many lives and that he is now with the Lord. God Bless you and your family.
Cheri McMahon Popejoy
September 28, 2010
No words can convey my love for the Barbay family over the years...Since Mona kept Jason when he was 2 years old and all the love we have shared with Brian and Darrell....No words can explain the loss and the love that we fell for Mona and the kids.....A wonderful person has gone to heaven....Curtis...We will never forget your legacy...Love, Cheri McMahon Popejoy
Vivian Myers (High)
September 28, 2010
Mona and Family,
I was so saddened when I heard about Curtis. We will miss him so much. I enjoyed my first coaching job at Newton (1977-82) because Curtis was such a caring Coach and Athletic Director. He made sure everyone, even the girls program, got a "fair shake". He was a unique person, with a grand sense of humor, that made our jobs fun. All of the athletes admired and respected him as much as we did, knowing it was an honor to work/play for him. He was unselfish and we just knew he would take care of us. I left Newton to be a stay-at-home Mom after Josh was born in '82, but all of you have remained in our hearts through the years. Keeping you in our prayers and hearts forever ... Vivian Myers (High), Bucky High, and Josh High
lenton jenkins
September 28, 2010
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
ERIC DAVIS
September 28, 2010
TO COACH,
I just wanted to say THANK YOU. Thank you for your time, effort, LOVE, dedication, emotion and overall joy you brought to so many. It was a honor to know and play for you. You will be missed, but always remembered as a COCAH who cared for his players and instilled pride no matter what the situation. THANK YOU FOR LETTING ME BE PART OF YOUR LIFE. YOU ARE TRULY A LEGEND.
September 28, 2010
My brother and I have known Coach Barbay all our lives. His parents (Curtis, Sr. and Irene) were great friends of our parents (Johnny and Vivian Stewart). I suppose our Lord needed a football coach and he now has the best. Our prayers and thoughts are with the Barbay family.
Jerry Stewart - Beaumont, Tx
Tommy Stewart - Spurger, Tx
September 28, 2010
Coach Barbay will forever be remembered. Memories of his accomplishments for the school as well as for the team members will linger the halls of Newton High for years to come. Mrs. Barbay, Kelly, Brian and Darryl continue to seek God's strength in the days to come and find comfort in knowing that Coach Barbay was a great man and he impacted people for many years whether directly or indirectly. He will never be forgotten.
Class of 1983 - Deborah Kenebrew-McLean
Reba Powell
September 28, 2010
Coach Barbay was the greatest! His coaching style brought us many years of memories. We will forever remember him and the great football teams that came thru Newton High School. The Barbay Family, let not your heart be troubled... Cherish the Memories and God Bless Each of You.
Class of 1983
Denise May
September 28, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with the entire Barbay family. God Bless.
Bambi Medley Granger
September 28, 2010
Coach Barbay, you are the best and we will never forget you!!

Donald Gauthreaux
September 28, 2010
From the extended Barbay family in Plaquemine, Louisiana and the Baton Rouge area, we want you to know our thoughts and prayers are with "Junior's" family and friends in Newton.
Donnie and Marty Gauthreaux
Susan Parmer Sanches
September 28, 2010
Was very sad to hear about Coach Barbay, my prayers are with the family.
David & Charmayne Hadnot
September 28, 2010
There are so many memories with Coach Barbay for all of us. However, his sense of humor will never be forgotten. He had such a unique way of talking to those he loved and knew. Deep down he was a Big Teddy Bear. He will never be forgotten. Our prayers go out to the family, NISD staff and students.
Melissa Mancill
September 28, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends. He was an exceptional man and will always be remembered as such. He changed the lives of many people and that is something that many are thankful for. God has a special place in Heaven for him.
September 28, 2010
To the Family of Coach Barbay:
May the peace of God rest upon you during this time. Know that we love you and will miss Coach Barbay. What is Newton Football without him? His legacy lives on. ~~~~Wordie Powell and Family**Newton,TX
Henry & Stacey Whitten
September 28, 2010
Our prayers are with the family in their time of need he was one of a kind RIP Couch Barbay.
Jim & Nina Washburn
September 28, 2010
Our prayers are with the Barbay Family. Coach Barbay, thank you for your dedication through the years and the wonderful memories. We will miss you.
Oleshihonna Seastrunk
September 28, 2010
My prayers are with the barbay family. Sorry for the loss.
Stacy Butler
September 28, 2010
Isaiah 40:31....But They That Wait Upon The LORD Shall Renew Their Strength; They Shall Mount Up With Wings As EAGLES!!!!! May the memory of Coach Barbay live on and the principles of life, he instilled in his players. My heartfelt condolences to Mona, Kelly, Brian, and Darrell.
Trennis Franklin
September 28, 2010
I can not express how I was hurt when I got the word that GOD had called coach home, but I know my pain does not compare to what his family is feeling. I know coach is at peace now, gone but never forgotten!!!!!!!!!
Stephanie (Laviolette) Labelle
September 28, 2010
I am sorry for your loss. My prayer are with each of you. I pray God gives each of you the courage and strength you need right now in your time of need.
Carrie Watson
September 28, 2010
Mona and family, I am sorry for your loss. There are not any words that can console you right now. But just know that you and your family are loved and prayers are going out to you.
Richard Fortenberry
September 28, 2010
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
~ Kinnetha "Nay-Nay" Harriel-Luckett
September 27, 2010
Prayers & Love sent to the Lovely Family of Coach Barbay RIP..........
c/o Class of 1985
Elmer Marcontell
September 27, 2010
I'm very sorry to hear of your families loss. Curtis was a good man. He coached my boy, Floyd Marcontell, in high school many years ago and never forgot about him. He would always ask me how Floyd was doing. I used to be a season ticket holder and loved to watch Curtis with his boys. He is going to be missed by many. My prayers go out to his Mona and the family.
Sheiree Mulhollan-Garsee
September 27, 2010
You have made a huge impact on so many lives! You will be missed. It was a pleasure being on the sidelines with you and your guys! May God bless you !! Class of 97!! Purple Pride!!!
Janelle Green Nichols
September 27, 2010
A great mentor to the youth of Southewast Texas was taken suddenly! The memories of great football, leadership, and perserverance will always remain! May God be with the Barbay family today, tomorrow, and forever! PURPLE PRIDE NEVER DIES! c/o 1997!!
kaitlyn smith
September 27, 2010
I did not know coach barbay personaly but he has inspired me to do my school project on him due to he did not take life for granted and helped so many people along the way My prayers are with everyone who had the pleasure to meet him in person
Trey Davis
September 27, 2010
So very sorry to hear about your loss. Our prayers are with the family in the days ahead. I always had to check the Newton score every weekend. He will be missed is an under statement but he will live on in the lives of those he touched.
Trey Davis
September 27, 2010
I'm so very sorry to hear about your loss. Our prayers are with the family in the days ahead. I know Coach is in the hands of our Lord now. I always had to check the Newton score every weekend. He will be missed by many but his legacy will live on through the lives he touched!
Richard & Frances McClelland
September 27, 2010
Our hearts are heavy. We lost a great friend and a wonderful leader. Our prayers are with the family. God Bless
NELDA SIMMONS
September 27, 2010
COACH BARBAY WILL BE MISSED GREATLY.BUT HIS LEGACY WILL LIVE ON FOREVER..MY PRAYERS AND THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU MONA AND YOUR FAMILY.GOD BE WITH YOU ALL...
September 27, 2010
curtis was my brother in law.in our younger days we hunted squirrels fished and golfed together.rip curtis i now have a inside man for my prayersto our god i love you bro. love smitty basil c smith
Tom Guidry
September 27, 2010
To the Barbay Family-
I was shocked to hear the news and send prayers to the Barbay Family. Coach Barbay was one my coaches at Bishop Byrne High School in the early 70's and was a great man and teacher. He will live with the Shamrock Family forever! May God Bless your Family!!!
Tom Guidry
Director of Music
Liberty ISD
Sarah Boyette Breaux
September 27, 2010
Coach u touched many young mens live and made a huge impact on a lot of people in setx. You will be missed
Peggy Williford-Vaughan
September 27, 2010
as a former student of coach Barbay my prayers are with his family and friends.
Mike & Janis LaChausse
September 27, 2010
We are so very sorry for your loss.
KATHY KNIGHTON
September 27, 2010
A GREAT COACH GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN. HIS LEGACY LIVES ON. MONA, MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.
Jamie and Sally Bragg
September 27, 2010
You will be missed and loved by many.
Karen Pousson
September 27, 2010
Gone on The BARBAY EXPRESS to his final game with the Almighty. There are no words to express how much he will be missed by his family and the entire Newton Community. To Mona, Kelly, Darrell and Brian cherish your memories and let them bring you comfort in your time of sorrow you are in my prayers. Karen Pousson, Newton
Jeff Parks
September 27, 2010
My Prayers are with the Barbay family. Curtis will be missed.God Bless You.
Issac/ Jackson Family
September 27, 2010
Weeping may endure for a night but joy comes in the morning.. Sharing in the memories of a coach that was an inspiration to many...There will never be another like Coach Barbay..Thanx for the love and concern of our young people.God Bless the Family as he carry you through this difficulty time.
bob hilliard
September 27, 2010
I have very fond memories of Coach Barbay during Athletic PE. back in the 70s.
He was always willing to chat with with the athletes from all sports and took a genuine interest in all of us.
I send warm condolences to all of his family.
Mary Ann Burbidge
September 27, 2010
Kelly,
I am so very, very sorry to hear about your Dad. My thoughts and prayers are with you, your Mom and your brothers. I was always in awe of what a close family you were. May you find comfort and peace in your memories, how very much he was loved and how much he contributed to life. God Bless.
Jim&Christina Rizzo
September 27, 2010
We send our deepest sympathy to Mona and all the Barbay family. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Linda"LuLu" Blanks
September 27, 2010
I had the honor of meeting this great coach @ the gates to TROJAN STADIUM in Coldspring, Texas.He was here getting a two for one deal, according AD Coach Bryan Barbay.
My heart goes out to the Newton Eagles. The Coldspring Trojans have been where you are now.(1992-93) Keep your heads up and remember everything Coach taught you.
I just know in my heart there is FOOTBALL and a CHAIR in heaven.
May Coach CB find sweet peace on that field above.Take everything "DAY BY DAY" Much love to Coach BB, Mrs. Tracy and the boys.
Clay Hamilton
September 27, 2010
May the memory of Coach Barbay live on and the principles of life, he instilled in his players. My heartfelt condolences to Mona, Kelly, Brian, and Darrell. Thanks for the memories, NHS class of 1989
Charles Simmons
September 27, 2010
Praying for the Barbay Family.
Jarrell Family
September 27, 2010
Our prayers are with the Barbay Family. May God bring you comfort in this time of grief. You will never be forgotten you were a strong pillow of Newton County. You coached so many during your reign as our beloved coach at NISD.
Hugh & Diannah Windham
September 27, 2010
"Lord, mend these broken wings and teach them how to fly....." (K Gibran) The influence he had over so many will never be forgotten. He taught many Eagles to fly both on the field and off. Those life lessons will be with them always. Thank you, Barbay Family, for sharing him with all of them. God Bless.
Melanie Smith
September 27, 2010
RIP Coach...you will be missed. You have touched many lives and were a part of many great memories. Friday night won't be the same without you. My deepest sympathy to the Barbay family for your loss. I hope you find comfort in knowing that Coach was so loved.
Kristi Sullenger / Jolet
September 27, 2010
You will never be forgotten and you will always live on in all the hearts of everyone you came in contact with. RIP Coach Barbay. I will always remember you as an awesome coach, wonderful role model, and amazing man.
BOB JENKINS
September 27, 2010
""GREAT COACH AND EVEN GREATER FRIEND""
OUR YEARS WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTRN--GOD BLESS---COACH BOB JENKINS,KIRBYVILLE-1962-76--HEMPHILL--1976--1990!!!!!!!
David Landrum
September 27, 2010
A true leader of young men. A father to them all. A cornerstone to the foundation. The focal point of some of my fondest memories on and off the field. May God Bless the Barbay Family.
Belinda Hough
September 27, 2010
I am very privileged to have met such a man, coach, and mentor of our kids. R.I.P. Coach Barbay. Condolences to all the Barbay family and the Newton community. It will be impossible to forget the legacy he left us with. God Bless.
Vicki Jones
September 27, 2010
Thoughts & prayers are with the Barbay family at this most difficult & trying time. May God Be with You and All Coach's many students & team members!
ginger lisenby arabie
September 27, 2010
Coach Barbay not only a Great Coach but a great role model for all young men and woman trying to find thier way .. My prayers and thought to the Coach Barbay family ,, and a extra prayer for my class mate Bryan ,
class of 86
Jim Hancock
September 27, 2010
Coach Barbay was much more than a great coach. He had the ability to motivate and inspire young people to be more than anyone would expect, just to give that extra effort. Newton, Texas was truly fortunate to have The Coach !!!
Vicki Jones
September 27, 2010
May God Bless and comfort the Barbay Family in this great time of need. My heart goes out to all he touched and his family at this most difficult and trying time. Our continued prayers are with his family, the students and all of his many team members. Vicki Jones & Family
Nathan Hines
September 27, 2010
May your family feel the love from all the people that loved you and Coach Barbay. Curtis was a great man that touched the lives of untold people. His family is his legacy, but also all the people he influenced. May God bless you now and always.
DeNell Wray Burr
September 27, 2010
Coach Barbay was a big influence on me during my years at Newton High School. He was always there when you needed advise, especially about sports. He was the one who convinced me not to quit basketball my senior year, and he always said that I would look back and thank him one day. He was right. Thanks Coach!! Mrs. Barbay and family, my prayers are with you. May God Bless and keep you.
Melinda Medley
September 27, 2010
Coach Barbay was agreat man,coach&teacher and will be greatly missed by many my thoughts and prayers are with my classmate Brain Barbay and the rest of the Barbay family which is pretty much anyone who ever attended Newton High School RIP COACH BARBAY.
-Melinda Medley
September 27, 2010
we are very sorry we lost a great head coach of newton eagles of newton texas. from the comiskey family ,PAULA,JULIE,MARY,BILL,ANNIe comiskey
Tina (Boyett) Conn
September 27, 2010
There are no words to ease the hurt and grief that you feel. May God bless and keep you close in your time of sorrow. You will all be in my prayers. Class of '86!
Ginger Lisenby arabie
September 27, 2010
Coach Barbay not only a great coach but a great role model for all the young men and woman trying to find thier way going to be missed by many ,,, my prayers go out to Coach Barbay Family.
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