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David Lancey Obituary
David B. Lancey, 46, of St. Louis, Mo., born March 30, 1967, in East St. Louis, Ill., died Friday, Aug. 23, 2013, at his residence.
Mr. Lancey moved to Highland, Ill., at the age of one and was a 1985 graduate of Highland High School. While in high school he participated in all the schools plays. He also performed at Diamond Mineral Springs and Southern Illinois-Edwardsville theaters. After high school, David toured and performed, as a singer and dancer, at military bases throughout the world for the Department of Defense. He had worked at Tri-Ford in Highland, was a manager of Lakeside Cafe at the St. Louis Zoo, worked as a bartender and waiter at several St. Louis restaurants, and managed food service at the Savis Center. He was a big fan of the "Oscars" and collected all the winners' DVDs, and also enjoyed watching show-tune movies. David was a cat lover, especially his latest cat, Oscar.
He was preceded in death by his brother, Edward Scott Lancey, who died July 21, 2012, at the age of 49.
Surviving are his parents, Terry M. and Virginia L., nee Chappell, Lancey of Highland, Ill.; two brothers, Stephen M. Lancey of Breese, Ill., and Kelly Q. Lancey of Highland, Ill.; sister, Suzie Kay Lancey of Highland, Ill.; special friend of 19 years, Robert J. "Bob" Maurer of St. Louis, Mo.; nieces and nephews, Quinn A. (Rachel) Frey of the U.S. Navy, San Diego, Calif., Kevin M. (Sarah) Hennessy of St. Louis, Mo., Katie A. Lancey of St. Louis, Mo., Libby M. Lancey (fiance, Jon Quinones) of St. Louis, Mo., Amanda R. Lancey of Chicago, Ill., Jonathan M. Lancey of Breese, Ill., and Kelly Ann M. Lancey of Denver, Colo.; great-niece, Ava M. Weidner of St. Louis, Mo.; and great-nephew, Jon A. "Jack" Quinones of St. Louis, Mo.
Memorial contributions may be made to Stray Rescue-St. Louis or H.I.S. K.I.D.S.
Visitation: Friends may call from 4 to 8 p.m. Tuesday, Aug. 27, 2013, and 8 to 11 a.m. Wednesday, Aug. 28, 2013, at Spengel-Boulanger Funeral Home in Highland, Ill.
Funeral: Funeral service will be held at 11 a.m. Wednesday, Aug. 28, 2013, at Spengel-Boulanger Funeral Home in Highland, Ill., with Rev. Christopher W. Hill officiating. Private interment will be at Highland City Cemetery in Highland, Ill., on Sept. 3, 2013.
SPENGEL-BOULANGER FUNERAL HOME, Highland, Ill.
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Memories and Condolences
for David Lancey
Daniel Gardabie
August 19, 2022
David, 9 years since you left this world. Things are just not the same without you. Prayers to your family and especially Bob. Can't wait till we "Talk Oscars" again. Peace, Danny
Susan STEPSON
August 19, 2022
David I think of you often and miss you so much. I think about the time we went to the Fox Theater to see Andrew Lloyd Webber. We got dressed to the 9's and had a great time. We shared many times together and always had fun. I'm sure you and Kelly are having many good times together in heaven. I love and miss you both so very much.
SUSAN STEPSON
August 26, 2020
I LOVE DAVID AS ONE OF MY OWN TO THIS DAY. I MISS AND THINK ABOUT HIM EVERY DAY. HE WAS SO TALENTED AND QUITE GOOD LOOKING (I MUST SAY). WE SHARED SO MANY LIKES AND TIMES TOGETHER DURING THE YEARS AT MAGS. I LOST KELLY IN 2017 AFTER 25 YEARS TOGETHER,SO BOB I UNDERSTAND YOUR LOSS AFTER ALMOST 20 WITH DAVID. IF YOU NEED SOMEONE TO TALK TO WHO UNDERSTANDS PLEASE CALL ME 727-278-2766. RIP DAVID WITH ALL MY LOVE. YOU AND KELLY KEEP EACH OTHER COMPANY .
Bob Maurer
August 19, 2014
This has been à rough year. I miss you so much especially having to take off your shoes. I really did Not mind it. I pray for your family to make it tbrough This year's grief. Please help us. Will love you forever, Bob, Simone, Oscar, Rosie, and Hazel.
September 1, 2013
Dear Jenny and Terry - so, so sorry to hear of another son gone. You know that we love you and are praying for you all.
We have been friends for over 50 years.
God bless, will be thinking of you. David sounded like a talented, neat man - wish I could have known him.
Patti and Michael
August 27, 2013
Virginia/Terry: praying God will wrap his arms around. Gloria Brown
David Daiber
August 27, 2013
Terry, Virginia, Steve, Kelly, and Suzie, I am very sorry about your loss. The Lancey family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Brenda Wetzel (Pogue)
August 27, 2013
Terry, Virginia, Steve, Kelly, Suzie and Bob My Prayers are with you all. May your memories give you Peace and Comfort.
August 26, 2013
Terry and Virginia, so sorry to hear of your loss, you and your family have my deepest sympathy amd prayers.
Dolores Kemp (Eddie Kemp)
Heather King
August 26, 2013
The world is not quite the same since Friday. David's positive spirit and energy will carry on through those who love him. My thoughts and prayers are with Bob and the family.
Laura Stock
August 26, 2013
My thoughts and prayers are with you Terry, Virginia, Steve, Kelly and Suzie. My heart also goes out to Bob. I will pray for peace and comfort for you all during this very difficult time. RIP David.
Julie Johnson
August 26, 2013
R.I.P. David. Heaven just gained another angel.
Marsha Brock
August 26, 2013
Terry and Virginia, so very sorry for your loss,i will be praying for you and your family..
Suzie Lancey
August 26, 2013
I WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU LITTLE BRO! I MISS YOU SO MUCH! THANK YOU FOR BEING MY BROTHER!
Daniel Gardabie
August 25, 2013
The world has become a smaller place without you, David. Goodbye my good friend. Your spirit will remain with me forever. I LOVE YOU! Danny
TAMMY WHITLOCK
August 25, 2013
DAVID YOU WILL ALWAYS BE IN MY HEART I LOVE YOU BROTHER
Terry Reinheimer
August 25, 2013
Bob, So sorry to hear of David's passing. We'll be thinking of you.
Craig Dobbs
August 25, 2013
My partner and I send our thoughts and prayers to you, and we are so sorry for your loss. David was always a good friend to me, and so talented and funny!!!! He will be truly missed!!!
August 25, 2013
I will miss you so much my dear friend!! RIP David Lancy
this was a few years ago
SUSAN STEPSON
August 25, 2013
SUSAN STEPSON
August 25, 2013
I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS BOB. PLEASE KNOW THAT I LOVED DAVID WITH ALL MY HEART AND SOUL. PLEASE CALL IF YOU WANT. 251-971-6430 http://sphotos-b-ord.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-prn1/s720x720/539847_466298906758947_1103378465_n.jpg I HAVE INCLUDED A PICTURE OF ME IN CASE YOU DON'T REMEMBER. KELLY DOBBS/PARTNER ALSO SENDS HER LOVE
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