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Joseph R. Vander Pluym

1951 - 2014

BORN

1951

DIED

2014

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Carlyle, Illinois

Joseph Pluym Obituary

Joseph Vander Pluym

Joseph Richard Vander Pluym, 62, of O'Fallon, Ill., died on Wednesday, April 16, 2014, at his home in O'Fallon, Ill.

Joseph was born Nov. 18, 1951, at St. Joseph's Hospital, in Breese, Ill. He was the youngest son of Loretta, nee Sellers, and Richard Vander Pluym. He grew up most of his life in Clinton County, Ill., and then moved to Arizona when he was a child, where his family lived for several years. At that time, the family came back to their roots to settle in Breese, Ill., where their hearts always remained. He graduated from Mater Dei Catholic High School in 1969. There, his love of music and the arts flourished, and he also met the love of his life, Janice, nee Sautman, Vander Pluym. They married on January 7, 1971.

Joe was a lifelong retail industry executive. Since early 2014, he was the Senior Vice President of Sales at Scrubs & Beyond in Brentwood, Mo. Previously, Joe was the Chief Operations Officer for Bakers Footwear Group in St. Louis, Mo. Joe put his heart and soul into building Bakers, where he worked for over a decade. He began his retail career at Merry Go Round Enterprises of Baltimore, Md. His career with MGRE is a testament to his hard work and dedication, as he started out as an hourly employee on store floors as a nineteen-year-old, and over the years, worked his way up to Executive Vice President of Operations. During his time at MGRE and Bakers, Joe made lifelong friends who are now part of his family. Joe inspired many careers throughout his lifetime, and he touched the soul of every colleague. He loved them all dearly in return.

Joe was a creative soul in every sense of the word, and he passionately shared his many talents with the world. He was an incredible visual artist, specializing in charcoal drawing and screen-printing. He built beautiful additions of his own design to his family's home that they will cherish forever.

His family knows that Joe was put on this Earth to share his musical gifts with the world. He was an incredible, self-taught bassist, guitarist, harmonica player, and vocalist. Additionally, he spent his life building a state-of-the-art home recording studio, where he wrote and recorded music with countless artists. In this way, he shared a special bond with his daughter, Lauren, who frequently wrote songs with him and sang on many recordings. His wife, Janice, also sings beautiful harmony. Janice and Lauren often sang with Joe in his many band performances. His daughter, Amber, and Joe shared a bond through her work in radio. Janice and her daughters are music lovers and will always be Joe's biggest fans.

Joe left a beautiful legacy of recorded music, including his heartfelt homage to Southern Illinois life in Breese, Ill.: Breese to the Blues, which was played by his closest friends and family - all area musicians - under the name of The Vanders. Joe donated all proceeds of this album to the American Cancer Society and the American Heart Association in honor of friends and family who have passed on, and his family will continue this tradition. You can honor Joe by downloading this album on iTunes at: http://bit.ly/1i2FW5p.

His heart always belonged in Breese with his best friends and fellow musicians. Through the years, Joe played in numerous bands with countless musicians across the United States, including The Livin' End, Arem Bay, Mr. Wizard, Quasi, Native Creative, Back Down 50, and so many others. Most recently, Joe played bass and sang for Gypsy Jones and Lucky Dog Band. This family of musicians inspired and fulfilled him all of his life.

His fulfillment in life was not limited to music. Joe lived his life as a true humanitarian. He gave so much to friends, family, people in need, and many charitable organizations, such as Catholic Charities, The American Cancer Society, The American Heart Association, and the Society of St. Vincent de Paul. He will always be remembered for his generosity and kindness.

He was preceded in death by his beloved parents, Richard and Loretta, nee Sellers, Vander Pluym; brother-in-law and soul brother, Dick Schoendienst; and mother-in-law, Rosalind, nee Winkeler, Sautman.

Surviving are his soulmate and loving wife, Janice; two daughters, Amber, nee Vander Pluym, (Michael) Rigsby of Bloomington, Ill., and Lauren (partner, Joe Tiberio) Vander Pluym of Chicago, Ill.; two brothers, John (Cathy) Vander Pluym of St. Louis, Mo., and Jerry Vander Pluym of Arizona; a sister, Jan, nee Vander Pluym, (Pete) Petersen of Reno, Nev.; two sisters-in-law, Gayle, nee Sautman, (husband and soul brother, Phil) Warnecke of Carlyle, Ill., and Angie, nee Sautman, Schoendienst of Bel Air, Md.; and several nieces and nephews, and their children who he loved dearly.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to a charity of your choice in Joe's honor. Online condolences may be sent to the family by visiting www.zierenday.com.

There was not a soul that Joe encountered that he did not impact in life-changing ways. He will be missed and loved by so many forever.

Rock on, Joe.

Visitation: The family will hold a visitation from 4 until 8 p.m. Monday, April 21, 2014 at Zieren Day Funeral Home, Carlyle, Ill. During the last hour of visitation, musicians are invited to bring instruments for a musical celebration of his life.

Visitation will also be held on from 8 until 10:30 a.m. Tuesday, April 22, at St. Mary's Catholic Church, Carlyle, Ill.

Funeral: A Mass of Christian burial will be held at 11 a.m. Tuesday, April 22, 2014, at the church. Interment will follow in St. Mary's Cemetery.



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Published by Belleville News-Democrat on Apr. 19, 2014.

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Dale Miller

May 12, 2014

Janice - I was shocked to hear the news about Joe. Very few people have made such a lasting impression in my life. He was a rare talent in virtually everything he did. The world is not the same without Joe's smile and passion. He will be missed by his hundred and hundreds of friends.

Robin Treaster

April 28, 2014

The American Society of Radiologic Technologists extends our deepest sympathies to Joe's family, friends and colleagues. We appreciated his leadership while working on our partnership with Scrubs and Beyond.

Tina Zellman

April 21, 2014

For those of us children who grew up in the whirlwind success of Merry-Go-Round, we were blessed more then we could have known. We moved a lot and our fathers traveled, but powerful family-like bonds emerged all around us.

From way early on, I have cheerful memories of Joe and Janice. My sister, Teyra, and I knew they loved us just like we were their own. We vacationed with them, we visited them, and they lived with us for a time during one of the relocations. Both embraced us, cared about our schooling and dance recitals, and most importantly provided a dear, sincere friendship with our parents. After all, if you couldn't live near your “real” family, you had better create one because there is nothing more necessary in life than surrounding yourself with people who accept and love you.

Since I've heard of the news, I have been remembering special moments: visiting and camping with Joe in Carlyle; wearing bubble jackets while in Chicago touring around the sites; going to the 1984 World's Fair in Knoxville; to my most recent memory of visiting him with my own children in 2009. Again, Joe was dear and sincerely interested in making my children feel at home. We have recordings of them playing music and singing together – what a blessing.
As I remember these moments, I hear Joe saying, “Hey Teen!” in that warm, happy voice. Thanks for being such a special part of my life, my sister's, my family and my parents. We love you and will miss you!

Tina and Teyra
(Rodney, Brooke, and Tate)

The Reilmanns

April 19, 2014

You will always be in our hearts. Godspeed Joe.

Chuck Topetzes

April 19, 2014

Dear Janice, Amber and Lauren.

On Wednesday, April 14th, I received a call from Jay Page at exactly 8 AM. Before I answered, I knew this could not be good news. And it wasn't. When Jay told me Joe had passed away sometime that morning, my heart sank. I was absolutely in shock.

I first met Joe in 1969. Sounds like a million years ago when you look at it. That was at the same time I met Jay, Les Laux, Steve Kressig, Colby Sellers and all of the other wonderful people of Clinton County who took a handful of us lonely, young Scott AFB airmen and gave us a home away from home. I was 19 or 20 at the time and knew I'd found a very special place in my life at a time I needed to find some normalcy from living in a military environment. I will always hold a special place in my heart for
Clinton County, especially Breese.

The last time I spoke to Joe was at the end of October or early November. Jack Pearson had contacted me to say he was putting on one of his master guitar classes, and I called Joe to see if he'd come down to Nashville to join me in the class. Because all of this came up so fast, he, quite understandably, couldn't make the trip.

Whoever wrote Joe's obituary did a superb job. He was everything it said he was. In every conversation he and I had had over the last 7 years or so, music always took up most of our talks. I cherished the advice he gave me on arrangements, on technique and his constant belief tat music was a gift to us and we each had an important job to do in delivering the song in a way it deserved. He never took the easy way -- he took the path that was best for the song.

Janice and girls, I know that not 2 seconds after he passed, he was in Heaven putting together a four-piece band to rock his butt off. As the obituary writer put it, "Rock on, Joe. Rock on."

Chuck Topetzes and Family,
Atlanta, Georgia

April 19, 2014

Joe played the blues on his saxophone so nice!

Calvin Binder-Cahokia

Dorothy Restoff

April 19, 2014

Janice - My sympathy to you and your family!

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