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Becky L. Frawley Obituary
Becky Frawley

Becky L. Frawley, nee Grider, 53, of Fairview Heights, Ill., born Jan. 8, 1960, passed peacefully in her home on July 25, 2013.

Becky bravely fought breast cancer for almost 12 years before she lost her battle. She was a much loved wife, mother, "Gram," daughter, sister, and friend. She loved her cats, especially her baby kitten, Stripe. Becky was an amazing friend who was always there for those she loved.

Becky "Reba" was a member of the Fairview Heights Elks Lodge 664 and the Fairview Heights Lady Elks. She was a longtime employee at Lakepointe Dental, where she considered her bosses and co-workers friends and cared for the patients they saw. She was well loved and will be missed.

She was preceded in death by her father, Charles Grider Jr.; great-uncle, George "Bud" Hall; and nephew, Kyle Grider.

Surviving are her husband of 31 years, James Frawley of Fairview Heights, Ill.; her daughter and son-in-law, Kelly and Jeffrey Quirin of Fairview Heights, Ill.; her granddaughter and "Best Friend", Samantha Quirin; her mother Grace, nee Brown, Grider of Fairview Heights, Ill.; three brothers, Charles "Chuck" (Deborah) Grider III of Belleville, Ill., Donald (Renee) Grider of St. Peters, Mo., and Mark Grider of Belleville, Ill.; a sister, Cynthia (Gary) Frizzell of New Baden, Ill.; her nieces and nephews; her great-nieces and great-nephews and lots of friends.

Memorials may be made to: Hospice of Southern Illinois or FORCE: Facing Our Risk of Cancer Empowered, 16057 Tampa Palms Blvd. W, PMB #373, Tampa, Fla. 33647. FORCE is a research and support group for individuals with BRCA gene mutations, which caused Becky's cancer, that is looking for treatments and cures for BRCA mutations and related cancers as well as providing support and education for individuals with the genetic flaw.

Visitation: Friends may call from 4 to 7 p.m. Monday, July 29, 2013, at Kassly Mortuary, Fairview Heights, Ill. Becky requested that her friends celebrate her life in casual, comfortable, and cheerfully colored clothes.

Funeral: Her life will be celebrated with a memorial service at 7 p.m. Monday, July 29, 2013, at Kassly Mortuary, Fairview Heights, Ill.

KASSLY MORTUARY, Fairview Heights, Ill.
Published in Belleville News-Democrat on July 27, 2013
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