Rev. Canon Robert S. S. Whitman
1915-2010 LENOX Rev. Canon Robert Shaw Sturgis Whitman, 94, of Union Street, Guilford, Conn., for 35 years Rector of Trinity Church in Lenox, died Tuesday morning at Connecticut Hospice in Branford, Conn.
Born in New York City, July 27, 1915, son of Dr. Armitage Whitman and Mary Lyman Sturgis Whitman, he first came to Lenox in 1929, to attend the former Lenox School for Boys, where he was a graduate of the class of 1933, and attended Harvard University, George Washington University in Washington, D.C., the DuBose Memorial Church Training School in Monteagle, Tenn., St. Augustine's College in Canterbury, Kent, England and Yale University's Berkley Divinity School.
Ordained a Deacon in 1943, he became Associate Rector of Bruton Parish Church in Williamsburg, Va., later became Vicar of Grace Church in Yorktown, and then Chaplain of William and Mary College. He served as Vicar to St. Martin's Church in Pittsfield from 1943-45, and during that time was ordained a Priest by then Bishop Lawrence in 1944.
An Army veteran of World War II, Canon Whitman served as a Chaplain in the Philippines from 1945-46.
He became Rector of Trinity Church in Lenox in October of 1949, where he remained for the next 31 years. While Rector of Trinity, he served as Rural Dean of the convocation of Episcopal churches in Berkshire County, and in 1978, he was named an Honorary Canon of Christ Church Cathedral in Springfield, Mass. As part of his ministry at Trinity, he held weekly services at the former Meadow Place retired woman's residence on Main Street and at the former Edgecomb Nursing Home on Sunset Avenue.
He was honorary Chaplain of Berkshire School in Sheffield, was a member of the Board of Trustee's at Lenox School, taught at the former Foxhollow School for Girls, helped revitalize St. Helena's Chapel in New Lenox, made significant improvements to his church, and was a leader of the ecumenical movement in Lenox.
Canon Whitman served as Chairman of the Lenox Historical Committee for many years, was a member of the former Lenox Kiwanis Club as well as the Diocesan Council and the Southern Berkshire Deanery. He belonged to the Stockbridge Boat Club, the Lenox Club, the Small Point Club in Maine, the Graduate Club, the Order of Saint John, and was a member and past secretary of the Oquossoc Angling Association in Rangely, Maine.
Following his retirement from Trinity Church, he returned to St. Martin's as Rector for several years. He also was the author of a book, "Beyond Words", which he hoped would help and inspire people long after he was gone.
Canon Whitman and his wife, the former Eleanor English, were married in New Haven, Conn. on November 25, 1944.
Besides his wife of Guilford, he leaves two daughters, Rosemary Whitman Moore White (David Moore) of Millis, Mass., and Sarah Whitman Kennedy (Patrick) of Westport, Conn.; one sister, Charlotte Casey of Orlando, Fla.; and four grandchildren, including Alyona G. Moore, Lyonya G. Moore, Robert Whitman Kennedy, and Michael Emerson English Kennedy; and step-grandchildren, Melissa Kedzior and Sean Kennedy.
He was predeceased by his beloved brother, Royal Whitman.
MEMORIAL NOTICE: A memorial service will be held in Lenox this summer at a time to be announced. His ashes will be interred at the Church on the Hill Cemetery near the burial site of Annie Hagerty Shaw, widow of Whitman relative Robert Gould Shaw, who was killed during the Civil War leading the Army's first black regiment against Fort Wagner.
To learn more about his ideas, his book, and his life, visit www.readbeyondwords.com.
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Monica Olsen
October 9, 2021
I took care of Mr. Whitman in his last years. He was a very kind man and I´m glad I was granted the opportunity to meet him and his family for a short time. I was thinking of him today and realized I wish I read and studied with him and Mrs. Whitman much more than I did. My interests were much different then and now as I´m very passionate about the Bible. I´m sure I could have got into some deep conversations with Mr. Whitman regarding God. Blessings to his daughters who were very kind as well. God bless.
fredi steven-hubbard
February 24, 2010
I remember wild rides in the land rover, to and from williamstown for folk services. i remember beating him in sailing races at the boat club. i remember Father Whitman picking up my dad to take him along to M.O.B. meetings at Colonel Wilde's truck stop in West Stockbridge, i remember my four year old standing in front of him at the fireworks at the boat club, and she belted out "sex and drugs and rock'n'roll" and i was mortified--he just grinned at me...i will forever remember his voice. my love and hugs to you, dear mrs. w. xoxoxo
Evie Burlinson
February 24, 2010
My sister,Abbie Spires, sent me the sad news of Rev. Whitman's death, I was a student at Foxhollow school and we would meet every friday for "religion!" Also, my grandfather Walden Pell taught him Latin at Lenox School . I have the fondest memories of him. Evie Burlinson (Thomson) class of '68.
February 22, 2010
'Ginkle Bob', our childhood way of saying 'Uncle Bob', was a friend of my family in Williamsburg, VA. My Dad became an Episcopal priest and followed Bob to the Berkshires, was Rector of St. James, taught at Lenox School and even became the Rural Dean of South Berkshire. Pierce & Jane Middleton, my parents, were Godparents for one of the Whitman girls and he and Eleanor were Godparents to my brother Kit. When I married in 1993 my husband got calls from Uncle Bob...and had to learn who he was-a major part of our family. To all the Whitmans, I know this is a major loss, it is to me too. I'm just so glad we had him all those years that we did. I know he's in the heaven he always believed in.
God's love to all.
Pam Middleton Drumm
Priscilla Green
February 20, 2010
Thank you for sending me to this website. Mr. Whitman (your Father) was clearly a significant thinker, leader of many and loving family man. He has clearly left a legacy of meaning. My thoughts are with your family at this time. Most warmly, PA Green
Kathleen Bryan
February 16, 2010
This wonderful man was my Uncle Bob, he was such a amazing Uncle to have, with his powerful voice, his sense of humor and his love for me, I will miss him terribly. My thoughts are with my Aunt and Cousins and his Grandchildren, whom have lost an incredible person that was a presense in their daily lives. I love you Uncle Bob, Your Niece..Kathleen
Dan Hatch
February 16, 2010
Memories of Rev. Whitman punctuated my youth and young adult years. He was constant link to my Lenox roots. I remember his teaching me how to be an Acolyte, his morning communion servies, his joy and enrgy at the annual church fairs, his love for sailing at the Boat Club, and his pastoral preswence at the time of my mother's death.
Rev. Whitman was part of the inspiration that eventually led to my own ordination. He willl be truely missed.
Mary Ann (Walter) Syms
February 16, 2010
I was deeply sadden to learn of Canon Whitman's passing. He was a remarkable man and a person that strongly influenced my path in life. I was a student at Foxhollow School (19961-1964) and anxiously awaited his sermons every Sunday at Trinity Episcopal. During our 45th Class Reunion this last May, my husband and I were able to attend Trinity Church (now under construction) where I reveled in so many past memories. It truly is a measure of his influence that so many of us remember him after all these years. Chris and I send our sincerest condolences to his wife, Romi and Sara in this time of their loss and sorrow. God Bless.
Barbara Williams
February 16, 2010
What a marvelous man Canon Whitman was. He once told me the story of how he worked for a woman with no arms, and how he marveled at how she was able to take care of herself using her toes. When he mentioned this to her; she said, "Not a day of my life goes by that I don't thank my Father. He loved me enough to allow me to hate him, and oh how I hated him. He was such a drill master, and demanded that I learn to take care of myself. There is now not a single day that goes by that I do not thank him for loving me enough to allow me to hate him."
I have never forgotten that wonderful story.
John Schneiter
February 15, 2010
Canon Whitman (Rev. Whitman) was a positive presence while I was at Lenox School. I enjoyed seeing him when he would attend reunions and the lively conversations we would have were always enjoyable. For the last several years, I was disappointed that he was unable to attend. It was difficult to imagine that he was not the active and engaged person I had always known. He will be missed by the Lenox School Community.
Mark David Gottsegen
February 15, 2010
When I was a student at Lenox School (1964-67) I was struck by what a stern and kind visage RSSW projected -- a vigorous man, full of life and curiosity and immensely interested in the healthy intellectual development of all us boys. It is a measure of his influence that I remember him so well after all these years, and I send my sincerest condolences to his family in this time of sorrow and loss.
Lenox Police Department
February 15, 2010
Please accept our sincere condolences at the passing of Canon Whitman. Our prayers and thoughts are with you.
Fr.Daniel Brunton
February 15, 2010
Canon Whitman was a remarkable person. He used to drop by St. Ann Church, while I was Pastor,and we would have wonderful talks about Lenox. He would fill in this new "Lenoxite" about this wonderful Town. We had many spiritual talks and prayed together. He was a welcoming and comforting presence whenever we met. I will always remember his faithful attendance in the Memorial Day Parade (in his service uniform which he proudly proclaimed still fit him!).He was always a great leader in the Ecumenical Clergy group that faithfully met in one anothers parish home or facilities.He was a great help to me as a fellow Priest. I will remember him, and his family, in my Masses and Prayers. Sincerely, Fr. Dan Brunton
Gerry Korkin
February 15, 2010
As a former Lenox School alumnus, I remember Canon Whitman as being associated with the school on many occasions from 1958 to 1962. I am sorry for your loss. Gerry Korkin, Lenox '62 now living in Wyoming, OH.
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