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Shirley Clapper Obituary

Shirley P Clapper

Mrs. Shirley P Clapper of Craneville Place of Dalton, formally of 85 Howard Street, Pittsfield, MA passed peacefully, on February 12, 2014 after battling Alzheimer's for 4 years, surrounded by family. She is the widow of Winthrop (Paul) T. Clapper who died in 1973. Shirley was born in Pittsfield the daughter of the late Mr. & Mrs. Samuel D. Pullano. Mrs. Clapper graduated from Berkshire Community College in 1980 with High Honors in Human Services. She attended Pittsfield Public Schools. Shirley, a passionate hard worker, was proud of the many positions she held throughout her life. Shirley was employed at the General Electric Company, St. Stephen's Church, England Brothers, and was Nutrition Assistant at her beloved Berkshire WIC where in 5 short years she worked her way to the Director of Berkshire WIC, a position she held from 1988-2010. Shirley was named the Massachusetts WIC Director of the Year 2005. She received a Certificate of Achievement for 25 years of Dedicated Service to Berkshire Health Systems. She attended WIC Conferences held all across America (in numerous States). Shirley was a member of St. Stephen's Church, and active in several church groups. She served the church as the Executive Secretary, served 2 separate terms as President for the Women of St. Stephen's, held both the Secretary and President positions of St. Catherine's Chapter at St. Stephen's, and was a member of St. Stephens' choir for 60 years. She also sang in the First Church Oratorio Choir for 25 years. She was a member of the Incorporation Committee of St. Stephens', a member of the Altar Guild, Vestry and worked on numerous other committees for the church. She traveled throughout Europe singing with the Berkshire Choir. She had been a Cadets Girl Scout Leader for 7 years, a co-leader for a Widows Outreach Group during the 1970's , a volunteer for Berkshire Home Care, President of the Board of Directors of Dorothy Amos Day Care, a member of the Berkshire Business and Professional Women, and a member of the Head Start Advisory Committee. Mrs. Clapper was a Past Worthy Matron of Collina Chapter #69, Order of the Eastern Star, and a Past Deputy Grand Matron of the Grand Chapter of Order of the Eastern Star. Even with all of her accolades she found time to cultivate her love of gardening, reading, and traveling, visiting all the corners of the world, including a trip to Grand Canyon which she enjoyed, both by Hot Air Balloon and Donkey. She will be missed by her children, Kenneth A. Clapper, Patricia A. Presenti, Thomas E. Clapper and his wife Lyla-Jean, Jennifer L. Edwards and her husband Donald, Richard P. Clapper and his wife Peggy L. White, and Susan M. Bedard. She also leaves grandchildren: Dawn Sickell, Cari-Lee Duguay, Peter Clapper, Michael Clapper, Christina Presenti, Mark Presenti, Andrew Clapper and 6 great grand-children. The Clapper family, would like to thank the staff at Craneville Place of Dalton, unit 3, for taking exceptional care of Shirley. FUNERAL NOTICE: A memorial service with Eucharist for Mrs. Shirley P. Clapper will be held Saturday, March 8, 2013 at 11AM at St. Stephens Episcopal Church in Pittsfield, with a reception to follow. Donations in her memory may be made to St. Stephens Episcopal Church in care of the Rector's Discretionary Fund in care of the WELLINGTON FUNERAL HOME, 220 East. St., Pittsfield, MA 01201. Please visit www.wellingtonfuneralhome.com to leave condolences for the family.



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Published by The Berkshire Eagle on Feb. 20, 2014.

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Thos. Martin

March 4, 2014

To Rick and the Clapper family,
Know our sympathies and prayers are with you.our condolences on your loss.
from the
Martin and Anderson Families

Brigitte Chase

March 3, 2014

My sincere sympathy to all of the Clapper family during this sad time.
My memories of Ma Clapper just fill my heart with the love she so openly gave. I will remember her always.

Sally Clapper Niks

February 26, 2014

A wonderful Aunt to all my sister's,brothers and me. We will surely miss your smiling face!! Cousin's- My prayers are with you all!

Bill Herrick

February 25, 2014

Susan and family,
So sorry to read about the loss of your mother. My thoughts and prayers are with you. She sure was an active lady and did much for her community.

February 25, 2014

My sincere condolences to all the Clapper family. Your mom will always be with you in spirit. My memories of Ma Clapper was she was always smiling, always showing a happy face and always making you feel at home. May she rest in peace. God Bless, Judy (Gray) Desjardins

February 25, 2014

To Ken, Patty, Tommy, Richard and Susan, So sorry about your Mom - My prayers and thoughts are with all of you at this difficult time. She will be missed by all - See you on the 8th

Pam Warner

February 25, 2014

To the Clapper family I am so sorry for your loss. Tried contacting you when I was up there for my mother-in-law's funeral. May God Bless Shirley and the rest of the family.

April Slater

February 24, 2014

Peter, I am so sorry for your loss.

Gerry Hassan Ulrich Rose Hassan Lown

February 22, 2014

To the Clapper family, we are very sorry to hear about the passing of your mom. We were neighbors from Howard St. You are all in our prayers at this time of sorrow.

Jim Welch

February 21, 2014

To Dick, and entire family,

It's been 40 years (!?!) since we were youngsters and attending junior and senior high schools, and many memories have faded. What hasn't, however, was the fact that few, if any of us had halo's floating over our heads. Those weren't the easiest times to raise a family. I also remember that EVERYONE who walked through your front door was treated like GOLD (whether we deserved it or not).
All the decades can't fade the memory of how we were all treated.
If patients, and putting up with the likes of me, and (almost) everyone we knew, earns entrance to Heaven, then the Gates flew wide open for her!
May your Beautiful Mom Rest in Peace.

Laura Patenaude (Stebbins)

February 20, 2014

To all the Clapper family - I'm so very sorry for the loss of your mom. I haven't seen her in a long time but I remember her as a wonderful woman. I pray for comfort for you all.

Amanda Storm

February 20, 2014

A truly amazingly wonderful woman! I had not seen in her in many years but still thought of her often- a great influence and loving friend!

Kermit Goodman

February 20, 2014

Shirley and WIC were tenants and friends at my location for many years. My sincere condolences to her family.

Hazel LeVardi

February 20, 2014

My condolences to Shirley's family. She was always a good person who was involved in many things. She will be missed.

Lyla-Jean Clapper

February 20, 2014

Forever iny heart.

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