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JAMES POTEMBER Obituary

POTEMBER, James Suddenly, of South Boston, formerly of Peabody, July 27, 2013. Beloved husband of Donna B. (Barchey) Potember. Devoted father of Danny J. Potember. Loving son of Mary (Owirka) of Peabody and the late Stanley Potember. Dear brother of Richard Potember, his wife Susan of MD and Janice Maloney of Weston. Loving son in law of Jack and Priscilla (Tardiff) Barchey of Weymouth. Brother in law of Gail Romanow, her husband Michael of Holbrook, Billy Barchey, his wife Laurie of Weymouth and Jackie Barchey of NY. Also survived by many loving nieces, nephews, relatives and friends. Visiting hours in the O'Brien Funeral Home, 146 Dorchester St., SOUTH BOSTON, Wednesday, from 4-8PM. Funeral Mass in St. Brigid Church, 841 East Broadway, on Thursday at 11:00AM. Relatives and friends invited. Interment Puritan Lawn Cemetery, Peabody. Late member of the South Boston Yacht Club and active supporter of the South Boston Little League. In lieu of flowers donations may be made in James' memory to the South Boston Catholic Academy, 866 East Broadway, South Boston, MA 02127.

Published by Boston Globe from Jul. 29 to Jul. 31, 2013.
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Donna, Danny & Families -
You have all been in our thoughts & prayers through these last 10 years. Can't believe it's been that long since Jim passed away.
He was a wonderful man! I'm sure you have done a great job raising your son. I imagine he's like his Dad.
We'll continue to keep you all in our prayers as you continue on your journey thru life.
Happy Anniversary Jim!
God bless you all!
Cuz Alice, Frank & Mikey

Alice Gassiraro

Family

July 29, 2023

Jim was a wonderful man -- kind and gentle with never bad word against anyone. We all loved him in High School and know ow much he loved his wife and family. Love and Blessings to you ~ Eileen Duff

Eileen Duff

August 12, 2013

My deepest most heartfelt condolences to the family! Was saddened to learn of Jimmy's passing! As a resident of the "old neighborhood" in West Peabody, I grew up with Jimmy! Only found out on Friday Aug 2 , so unfortunately I missed the services! May he rest in peace!

Bob Corbin

August 4, 2013

Donna and Danny,
I was a classmate for years with Jim, and I am so very sorry to hear of his passing. He was such a wonderful friend & classmate who always like the gentle giant to me.. I sincerly send my prayers and hope that your pain will soon lessen and be filled with wonderful memories of this incredible man.So very sorry for your loss..
Corinne ( Lewis ) Thomits Peabody.

August 3, 2013

I knew Jim during high school and just found out about this sudden loss. Donna & Danny, I did not know you personally, but am sending my regrets and sadness for the loss of such a wonderful man.

Susan Lamkin

August 2, 2013

It's sad to hear this news about someone I met in Kindergarten. Although we grew apart later in life, I'll always remember Jimmy as a great friend for 30 years, and one of the funniest guys I've ever known. I miss my good pal, and I'm sorry for the loss of a loving father and husband. My sympathies to the family.

Grey Guthmann

July 31, 2013

Dear Donna & Danny - We just read Jim's Obituary in the paper. Our hearts are breaking for both of you and for Jim's family too. Just the other day I brought out one of the old photo albums and there was a picture of Jim waving the flag with the Uncle Sam Hat on his head and another photo with the "Sun Bonnet Suzie" straw hat tied under his chin. He would always do that one thing that would crack the room up. We all loved him so much. I know Jim was your soul mate and that he was a great father, son, brother, and uncle. Please accept our deepest sympathy on the loss of your darling Jim. You will all be in our thoughts and prayers as we recall the special moments we shared with Jimmy.
Love, hugs & kisses,
Cuz Alice, Frank & Mikey

Alice Gassiraro

July 31, 2013

Donna and Danny, you have lost a wonderful husband and father. Jimmy will truly be missed but never forgotten.

~Mary Heron(Potember)

July 31, 2013

Donna, Danny and Family,
My thoughts and prayers go out to you during this difficult time. Jim was such a sweet, kind, funloving man. He will surely be missed by all.

Terri Skinner

July 31, 2013

I cannot find the words to express our sadness. Prayers are with you all today, tomorrow and the days and weeks to come. Theresa Stewart (Potember)

Theresa Stewart

July 31, 2013

Donna, Danny and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you. Hold tight to the wonderful memories of a wonderful man.

Debbie Hays (Allison)

July 31, 2013

Donna and Danny,
We are so sorry for your loss.Jim was a such a gentleman and devoted family man.Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.

The O'Toole Family

July 30, 2013

RIP James, and my heart and prayers go out to the family

Francis potember

July 30, 2013

Donna, You,Danny and your entire family are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Jim was such a kind man he will be missed by all. Don't hesitate to call if you need anything.

Patty Donovan & Family

July 30, 2013

Donna and Danny,

I can't tell you how sad I am about the loss of Jim your most wonderful husband and father. I remember the day you guys were married and I didn't know who wore the bigger smile, Donna or Jim. I always said you were a couple that just BELONGED together! I can't imagine the pain you are feeling now but I know you will hold each happy memory you had together in your heart always. Love Paula and Tommy.

Paula Donovan

July 30, 2013

Dear Donna & Danny, our hearts and doors will always be open for you. We will miss Jim so much on the football field, basketball court, baseball diamond and lax turf. Always on the sidelines to cheer for all the kids, and to help in any way. You are in our hearts and prayers.

Woolf Family

July 30, 2013

Our hearts go out to Donna, Danny and the entire Potember Family. Jim was a great guy and adored by all! He will be greatly missed especially by the kids. Donna if you need anything at all please reach out to us. Forever in our thoughts and prayers. XO

The Kennedy Family

July 30, 2013

Donna, My thought & prayers go out to you & Danny. Jim was such a sweet & funny man. I remember the cruise where he had me laughing the whole time. He will be missed.

Susan Bosworth

July 30, 2013

Donna, Danny and the entire Potember Family:

Our deepest sympathy on the loss of such a wonderful man, son, father, husband and friend. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Linda Stanford

July 30, 2013

Jim was and will be remembered in the hearts of everyone he made smile...he will live on through your wonderful son who will remember everything his "dad" did with and for him. My heart breaks for you Donna, but you are so strong and have so many people who love you and remember...God never brings you to something that he can't bring you through...you will get through this and Jim would want it that way! He was a blessing to everyone who knew him.....and remember you are loved by many, just the way he was! Always in my prayers, Aileen

July 30, 2013

I will always think of Jim and his fabulous Boston accent and the way he could dive in the snow!! He is and will always be a gift!

Aileen Culpepper

July 29, 2013

The thoughts and prayers of Rockland Little League go out to the Potember family on their sudden loss. It was a moving moment to watch his son's teammates return to the field on Sunday to finish the tournament. The whole community should be proud of the courage they displayed.

Mark Norris, President RLL

July 29, 2013

My heart goes out to all the family of James (Jim) Potember. Never have I known a more genuine person who shared his warmth, kindness, and love for All... in his path! His quiet, comfortable smile and ways, always brought us Great Joy! May God be with him and his family now and forever! God Bless!

James Culpepper

July 29, 2013

I am so saddened by this news. I remember Jimmy as the 'boy' who always had a smile on his face, played basketball for hours on end and rubbed a twig between his hands. Your hearty laugh and big smile will live in my memory forever. You were a wonderful neighbor and such a funny guy. I know you will be missed by many. Love, Marilyn White Cerra

Marilyn White Cerra

July 29, 2013

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