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Marshall, Andy Ross Dilley
Of New London, N.H., spouse of the late Malcolm Marshall, mother, author, active community member, and sportsman, died March 2nd at home. She was 82. Born and raised in Eastbourne and the Lake District in England, Andy lived in Newton for much of her life. She later resided in New London, N.H. Andy graduated from Huyton Girls College, England and attended the University of California at Berkeley. She was a dedicated tennis player, a protégé of Tom Stow and top twenty player on the US Tennis Circuit winning many regional championships, often partnering with her twin sister, Joan Soule. Andy was a Wimbledon Tournament and Forest Hills player. She assisted Gladys Heldman in creating "World Tennis" magazine and was its first editor and writer. Throughout her life she was an avid diarist and writer, publishing several books of fiction and collections of poetry. Andy was an enthusiastic and generous supporter of adventures for school children and founded, in 1968, "Community Ventures" in Newton, MA. The charity provided school field trips, novel for the time, to the many historical and other sites around Boston in order for students to experience first hand the excitement of our heritage and community. In 1974, she was awarded Freedoms Foundation Schoolman's Award for creating an innovative elementary school program. Andy also received the "Newton City Award" for notable community and charitable service. Andy was an energetic and devoted member of Grace Episcopal Church in Newton, MA. She also for many years was a great supporter of the acolyte and youth programs, and helped sponsor Cambodian refugee resettlements in the Newton area. One of her great pleasures was to have the Grace Church playground named in her honor. Andy was known for her great goodwill and love of life often encouraging kids with a great "Hurrah, Hurrah!" She occasionally preferred to drive a golf cart around town instead of a car, because as she says "she could stop and chat with neighbors and kids". She welcomed all to her home. She will be remembered as a loving mother and wife, prolific writer, passionate and involved citizen, and dear friend. She is survived by her daughter JJ (Rich) Marshall-Scott of Bedford, N.H; her three sons, Duncan (Elise) of Dublin, CA, Roderick of New London, NH, and Gordon (Kathy) of Pomfret, VT; her twin sister Joan (Ross Dilley) Soule of Concord, MA; and her four grandchildren. Contributions in her memory may be sent to Compassionate Care Hospice, 25 Nashua Road #E3, Londonderry, NH 03053. A memorial service will be held at Grace Episcopal Church, 76 Eldridge Street, Newton, MA, at 10:30 a.m. on Saturday, May 18th. Hurrah!, you made the most of every day.

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Published by Boston Globe from Apr. 10 to Apr. 14, 2013.

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Eva Piper

April 13, 2014

So sorry to read that Andy had passed. I admired her as she was so thoughtful of others. I was impressed by how she endured so much pain but never complained. She was a fine example to me and I will always remember her. I hope her last hurrah was painless.

Douglas Tomb

January 17, 2014

One more Andy story, and then I am done.
Every Thanksgiving Malcolm would go duck hunting in Maryland or somewhere with old friends. Andy and the kids would stay home and have Thanksgiving at their house.

One Fall day Andy recruited Mom (Viney Tomb) to help her explore the water way near Plymouth Plantation south of Boston. They took a canoe, and paddled over to where the embankment was that lead up to the base of the Plymouth Plantation area. Once Andy knew the route, she was all set for her next adventure.

On Thanksgiving day, Andy and her four kids dressed up as Indians, and in the early morning mist, they paddled the canoe over to the embankment at Plymouth Plantation. Andy and her kids got out of the canoe, and climbed up the hill, thru the brush and brambles, and emerged from the bushes at the top, much to the shock and amazement of the Pilgrim reenactors. Andy announced that they were Indians, and were there for the Thanksgiving feast.

The reenactors regained their composure, and in the spirit of what a "first Thanksgiving" was like, they invited the Indians (Andy and her kids) to join the Pilgrims at their Thanksgiving feast. She reported that it was actually a pretty good meal.

Just one more adventure by Andy.

Thanks, Doug Tomb.

Douglas Tomb

January 16, 2014

The Marshalls house was always open to the neighborhood kids, both the Ruthven Road house and Waterston Road too. The neighborhood kids were always welcome to come over and just chill out. Sometimes you would walk in and no one was home, so you would settle down in front of the TV by yourself.
Andy always had a project going. I remember the golf cart. Golf carts were not legal vehicles on Massachusetts roads, but Andy wanted to license and drive her cart as a licensed vehicle. The Massachusetts Dept of Motor Vehicles said NO! Andy worked on them for a few months. They threw up roadblock, after roadblock, BUT, the Mass DMV was no match for Andy Marshall. She enjoyed driving her licensed and registered golf car for several years.
The Marshalls had maple trees in the front yard. Every Spring they tapped them and collected the sap. Andy would boil it down in the kitchen, and all were able to sample the maple syrup and candy that resulted. The steam left the ceiling a bit sticky, but that was a small price to pay for a fun activity.

I could go on and on. It was always and adventure,
Thanks Andy.

Lisa Lincoln Chioffi

May 26, 2013

As a kid I rode an elephant and a camel down Waterston Road because of Andy Marshall. And had the life scared right out of me with her chicken livers on Halloween! What a cool neighborhood mom. She had vim and vigor with a capital V. God bless.

May 11, 2013

Andy was such an influence for good fun, loved the children and welcomed everyone with open arms. We were fortunate to have the Marshalls there. Esther Schleifer

Scotty Miclette

April 21, 2013

Never one to pass on ceremony, everything Andy Marshall did was done with vim and vigor! My fondest of memories will always centered around the 4th of July. At precisely, it MUST be precisely, noon...up the stairs to the widow's walk she went..closely followed by the Fourth Faithful; down came the British flag, up went the origional American colors and it all ended with a florishing shout of "Hurrah!" Ring the bell, feed the family and friends, shoot off the fireworks, find a place to sleep and Andy would declare it (every year) to be the best celebration ever! Every day of Andy's life was a new adventure to be experienced. Just being in her presence was enchanting. Being her friend was a priviledge. Having her for family was an honor. Being with Andy was always like being in the inner circle of a shooting star....magical.
With love,
Scotty & Greg, Richard, Chanel & Kayla

April Crosby

April 19, 2013

Before the Marshalls moved to Waterston Rd (and bought that cool trampoline), they lived at Park St and Ruthven Rd, across the street from us. What Andy did for us was incalculable: when our mother developed liver cancer and died 6 months later, Andy quietly delivered food inside our back door every few days . .for months and months. There was the new dish, with a little sign saying "Just Heat 'n Eat." You were such a friend and neighbor for our parents. Thank you, Andy!

April 17, 2013

Andy was an amazing woman!! I am so glad i got to know her. What a sense of humor and a bit outragious!!!!! She embraced life with a passion that was always there for all to see!!!
vicki lee

Greg Leary

April 15, 2013

Mrs. Marshall was generous in all ways...with her heart, her spirit and always welcomed the neighborhood kids into her home...a beautiful light has flickered out in our world

April 15, 2013

I didn't know the full scope of her achievements until I read this. So impressive, and all of it geared outward towards others - benefiting others. Her sense of fun was wonderful. The sensational haunted houses she put on every Halloween set my standards for tableaux very high! Love to all of you, Jess Foz

Larry Rogovin

April 14, 2013

I remember her fondly—one of the coolest moms in the neighborhood when I was growing up in Newton. A truly singular woman. My condolences to family and friends.

Tony Leary

April 10, 2013

What memories of the house on Waterston rd, she was a grand lady!...although I could do without the Halloween scares. Her memory lives on in the stories the neighbor kids all tell...and we do.
Rest in peace, Mrs. Marshall

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