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THOMAS HENNESSEY Obituary

HENNESSEY, Thomas P. Of Orleans, formerly of Brookline on July 22, 2012 peacefully after a brief battle with cancer. Cherished husband of Mary E. (Salmon) Hennessey. Loving father of Sara Berney and husband Scott of Needham, Christine Hennessey and husband Tim Goldstein of Radnor, PA., and Maria Hennessey and fiance Eric Larsen of Boulder, CO. Beloved son of the late Dr. James A. and Gertrude Z. (Welch) Hennessey. Dear brother of James A. Jr. and wife Carol of New Seabury, Dr. John W. of Dorchester, Michael and wife Donna of No. Reading, and the late Gertrude (Trudy) Hennessey. Devoted Papa of Alex, Caroline and Nick Berney, and Ryan, Lauren and Tommy Goldstein. Also survived by his cousin, Ann-Marie Carroll of No. Falmouth and many nieces and nephews. Always an outstanding athlete, he captained three sports at Brookline High School and went on to be one of Holy Cross's most memorable football players. He played two years as a professional football player with the Boston Patriots, and then began his twenty-eight year career as an educator in the Boston School System. He started as high school math teacher followed by many years as headmaster, first at Madison Park High School then at Boston High School. He served on Brookline's Board of Selectman and School Committee. In retirement he and Mary moved to their summer home in Orleans where he enjoyed fun-filled times with family, grandchildren and good friends. Funeral from the Bell-O'Dea Funeral Home, 376 Washington St., BROOKLINE, Friday morning at 10:10 followed by a Funeral Mass in St. Mary of the Assumption Church, Brookline at 11:00. Relatives and friends are kindly invited. Visiting hours in the funeral home on Thursday from 4 - 8. Interment Holyhood Cemetery. Donations in his memory may be made to Dana Farber Cancer Institute, 10 Brookline Place West, 6th Flr, Brookline, MA 02445. For guestbook and directions www.bellodeafuneralhome.com
Published by Boston Globe from Jul. 24 to Jul. 26, 2012.

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Jeanne Healy

October 21, 2024

Mr. Hennessey, I think of you often and tonight being one of those nights, I was inspired to google you. I was very sad to find this obituary and although 12 years have now passed since you left this earth, I would still like to send deep condolences to your family and express to you in this writing what a wonderful, caring, calm, compassionate and fair-minded headmaster you were to me at Madison Park in the 1970s, during the most volatile period I ever experienced in this city. My first day of high school coincided with the first day of mandatory busing and the city is in chaos. My bus pulls to the curb and police are lined up as far as I can see as we get off the bus and file through the door. It was so scary and intimidating to this 9th grader, but then the first person I see standing on the other side of the door is you, smiling, reassuring us that we are safe inside the school and then every day thereafter - keeping order and making sure we knew that you always had our back. I often think back on those days and marvel at all you had on your plate and how you handled it all with such wisdom and strength and grace. I will always be grateful for the influence you had in my life and I truly hope to meet you again one day on the other side to thank you personally. Rest well now, kind sir. You deserve all the reward. - Jeanne Healy

Dianne C.

May 8, 2023

I wanted to expressed my deepest condolences, i had remember Mr. Hennessy..during my years in Madison park high..1980's. He really about Care all the students.
Dianne C

Richard Balzarini

January 27, 2016

Mary, Tom was afriend as well as my boss at both Brighton Annex & Madison Park. He was a fine man and a great person. Rick & Carolyn Balzarini

Betty Bridgforth

January 27, 2016

Mr. Hennessey was a good man and a wonderful headmaster to work for. I thank God for his presence in my life. All that knew him were blessed.

Susan Taurinsky

January 27, 2016

I am very sorry for your loss. Mr. Hennessey was the Headmaster at Madison Park High School when I was a student - I can still see him standing in the halls between classes making sure things were uneventful. He was really good to me and I think of him often.

Jim Houhoulis

January 27, 2016

Dear Mary, God Bless Tom's soul and your family. Tom was a great coach and an even greater man.

Lindsey Martinez

January 27, 2016

Sara and Scott - Peter and I send our deepest sympathies for your loss. Peace be with you and your family. Fondly, Lindsey

Karen Parial

January 27, 2016

I'm so sorry for your loss. Your father was such a great man. Thinking of you all with sympathy.

Hackey Kassler

January 27, 2016

My heartfelt sympathy goes out to Tom's family. Tom was a great athelete, teacher and friend. His service as a Selectman for the Town of Brookline was outstanding. All good memories...

Tom Ireton

January 27, 2016

Too many great classmates taken too soon and you, Tom, were one of our best. My deepest condolences to your family.

Thomas Flanigan

January 27, 2016

With Deepest Sympathy and Condolences to all of his family and many friends. May God Bless and Keep HIM always!

Steven Comen

January 27, 2016

As extraordinary as Tommy was in high school, I saw in subsequent years how truly special he was. His humility, empathy, integrity and genuine caring for others were always present. Over the years whenever we chatted, he was most passionate and proud of his family. My most recent memory is the long conversation we had on the boat ride about a year ago with many of our classmates and how quietly fulfilled he seemed. May his memory be a blessing,

JUDITH CHAIT

January 27, 2016

Dear Sara, I am so sorry for the loss of your father. You and your family were so kind to me when I lost my dad as a little girl, and my mom and I have never forgotten how much that support and kindness helped us during such a difficult time. He lives on in your heart and your memories of him: may those memories give you comfort in the days to come. Judith (Dantowitz) Chait

Bud and Betty Small

January 27, 2016

Mary and Family, Our hearts and prayers go out to all of you. Tommy was a great friend for over sixty years. He was a man of great integrity. I know how devoted he was to his family, so proud of his beloved daughters. We will miss him greatly.

Rosa {Jim Lee} Hunt

January 27, 2016

To Mary and children, my sincere condolences. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. May God comfort and keep you always. I will always remember Tom's smile!

David Wagner

January 27, 2016

To all of the Hennessey Family, I'm so sorry for your loss. Tom was a wonderful guy and will be truly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. David & Michele Wagner

Terry Donahue

January 27, 2016

My sincere condolences to the Hennessey family. Tom was my classmate at Holy Cross. A good man gone to his eternal reward.

Louis Theodos

January 27, 2016

Tommy was a very special person from grammar school on up.Tom was a great athlete but a truly greater friend.God Bless Him

Nancy Fox

January 27, 2016

Sara, Very sorry to hear of your father's passing. You and your family will be in my prayers. Nancy Fox

Melissa & Howard Schwartz

January 27, 2016

We are so very sorry for your loss. Your father was an amazing man and will be greatly missed. Please accept our deepest sympathies during this difficult time. May his memories provide you comfort. xo

Lola Heiler-Stillman

January 27, 2016

Our sincere condolences to Mr. Hennessey's family in this time of mourning. Mr. Hennessey was my daughter's headmaster at Madison Park High School. He was a wonderful positive influence in her life as a student there in the 80's and at ACC. We will never forget his kindness and support to our family as well. Thank you Mr. Hennessey for your love and devotion to Madison's students and their teachers. Leeja Horne Stillman (Madison Park High School Class of 1982)& Lola Heiler-Stillman, her mother.

Bill Balderson

January 27, 2016

Dear Mary: I knew Tom at Holy Cross. He was a man of great character. I share in your loss Sincerely, Bill Balderson

Lynell Crawford

June 15, 2013

R.I.P. Mr. Hennessey the coolest principal in the Boston Public School System...Boston High School Alum will miss you

Deshonna Hamilton

August 23, 2012

R.I.P Mr Hennessy, you will be greatly missed. Your words of wisdom kept me on the right path. Thanks for everything.

Demetria Campbell

August 23, 2012

RIP Mr. Hennessey. You were a wonderful principal & influence on many.

Mari

August 23, 2012

R.I.P Mr.Hennessey
You were a great principal.

Margarita Morton (Cortes)

August 23, 2012

My thoughts and prayers go out to Mr. Thomas Hennessey's family and friends! You were an outstanding principal and a great role model for me during my Boston High School days! But more importantly you were a great friend, I ran into Mr. Hennessey some years ago and he actually remembered me :) we spoke about BHS and then parted ways! Mr. Hennessey you will never be forgotten <3

August 23, 2012

Rest in Peace Mr. Hennessey. Thank you for being such a positive influence in my life. Joanne Kelly, Boston High School-Class of '91

Chanda Dunbar-Smart

August 23, 2012

Mr. Hennessy, you were the best! You truly changed the lives of Everyone that walked through your doors! Thank you for making so many of us feel special and that the sky was and is our limit. May you rest in peace!

Chad Gorham

August 23, 2012

RIP Mr Hennessey may you rest in peace. I am a better man because of you and Boston High School.

Joannie Alvarado

August 11, 2012

R.I.P Mr. Hennessey u were a great principal. Indeed u were very sweet nd caring my condolences to ur family nd close friends, & may God have u in his Glory, Amen.

Maggie Gbeyi

August 10, 2012

RIP Mr. Hennessey.U were a great and caring headmaster to a shy and scared little girl who just came from Africa at Boston High School...May God bless you.

Odeilmaris Rivera

August 10, 2012

Rest in peace Mr. Hennessey. I will surely miss you. you were the sweetest, and warm hearted principal i ever had.

antonia D

August 9, 2012

RIP.. he was my head master at Boston High

Mary Ellen Sheerin

August 8, 2012

I met Tom Hennessey when I went to work at Alternative Education. Tom was a wonderful man who treated all who entered his office with dignity and respect. Tom Hennessey was indeed a "class act". Please accept my deepest sympathy on your loss of this fine man.

Charlotte McCullough

August 3, 2012

I was so sorry to hear of Tom's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of sorrow. Tom was my first Headmaster at Madison Park Tech Voc (then known as the Humphrey Center).

Erin Connearney

August 2, 2012

I had the pleasure of working with Mr. Hennessey at Boston Adult Technical Academy. His gentle wisdom and great humor were priceless to colleagues and students. My prayers to his family and friends in their grief.

Rosslyn Riggins-DesRuisseaux

August 1, 2012

My heart felt sympathy and condolences for Mr. Hennessy's family. I worked for him for 15 years at Boston High and think of him often . His personality and genuine concern for his students was clear and he will be missed by many.

August 1, 2012

Please accept my most heartfelt sympathies for your loss…my thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time. Although no words can really help to ease the loss you bear, just know that you are very close in every thought and prayer.
Greg ( Smooth ) and Valerie Simpson MP

Tehka Bowen

August 1, 2012

Mr. Hennessey was a caring and dedicated person. I was honored to have worked for him during the final years of Boston High School. His legacy will live on through the lives of those that he mentored.

Susan Gomez

July 29, 2012

I am so sad learning of Tom's passing. He was a great guy, funny, and the kids in school loved him (Boston High). It's funny--when I think about him, I imagine him enjoying life and family and friends but that's not the case. Deepest sympathy to his wife and family. Susan Gomez, Boston High.

July 27, 2012

With deepest sympathy,

A fellow hiker in the Eastham Hiking Group,

July 27, 2012

My heart goes out to Mary,family and members of Holy Cross football, track teams and Baghdad Lay Apostalate group that had the honor of sharing lifes journey with Tom.A very specially gifted person in the total sense of the word.Tom thank you for coming into our lives,we love you and wish you peace.Prayers forever Dick Wotruba

John O'Sullivan

July 27, 2012

My sincere condolences to the family and loved ones of Mr. Hennessey. As a youngster from South Boston entering high school in 1976 at Madison Park I was filled with anxiety and doubt. But after meeting Mr. Hennessey as a member of the football team I was immediately put at ease and welcomed by him. We remained friends those fours and his office door was always open to me, for which I am extremely grateful. This world was a better place because of him, and I am a better man for having known him. Thank you Mr. Hennessey - for everything.

Joanne Tisei

July 27, 2012

It was an honor to work with Tom in BPS. He was a kind,bright,funny, and caring educator.He was a mentor, teacher, administrator and role model to many co workers. God Bless.

Ed Reynolds

July 27, 2012

Spent a year in Iraq with Tom at the outset of his journey. He shared his athleticism with us and his Iraqi students, but, more importantly, his optimism, determination, and overall sense of fairness. Thank you, Godspeed, and eternal rest, Tom.

July 26, 2012

So many fond memories of Tom running sprints on Humarock Beach to get into shape for Football. No one could match his speed and endurance summer after summer. He was loved and admired by all. May God Bless and keep his family safe. Our sincere condolances. Bob and Cathy Toran , Walpole, MA

Joe Mason

July 26, 2012

A tribute to an outstanding administrator, math teacher, athlete and coach. But, more importantly,a great person, which in the long run, is worth more than anything!

Barbara Connolly

July 26, 2012

I was fortunate enough to work with Tom during his time with BPS. What a wonderful guy! My prayers go out to the entire Hennessey family.

July 26, 2012

To all Tommy's family, we send our condolences. The Humarock connection is strong -- every time I walk by on the seawall, I can see, in my imagination, the whole family sitting out on the deck. In addition to success with the Patriots, I know his career as an educator touched so many. Maryellen Keenan Mastriani and the Keenan Family

Patty Nock (Pagliocca)

July 26, 2012

Mrs. Hennessey, I am so sorry for you and your family's loss of a great man. Mr. Hennessey, as I called him, being his student, was one of the best teachers I ever had. He was a great role model, mentor, and was great fun. I still remember how bad I felt when I disappointed him by not going into College programs in high school. I wish I could have told him that due to people like him, I did wind up going to college and am considered a very successful business woman today. Thanks, Mr. Hennessey!! (still would feel disrepectful to call him "Tom"...:-)) Rest in Peace.

Michael Matarazza

July 26, 2012

God bless you and your family. Tom was a real frend and graet boss. My prayers and sympathy are with you and family.

Mira Genser Woods

July 26, 2012

Today we remember an incredible man who touched all of our lives in so many ways. A man that always would bring a smile to your face and make you laugh. But also an incredible role model to everyone in the way he lived his life. A fun loving, dutiful, kind and wonderful husband, Father, Papa and friend to so many! You will live on forever in our memories Mr. Hennessey. Much love to all of the Hennessey family at this very difficult time. We are here for you all.

July 25, 2012

We loved our summers on Hummarock Beach near your family, the Mahoneys & the Flanagans. It was a great time growing up. Riki Blanchard

Drew Wintemberg

July 25, 2012

The thoughts and prayers of the Time/Warner Retail family are with you all. Know we are thinking of you.

July 25, 2012

My prayers and sympathy are with the Hennessey family during this difficult time.May you rest in peace Tommy.

Jim Flynn
Sarasota,FL

John MacDonald

July 25, 2012

Tom has been an important influence in my life. He was such a great person for whom I have a tremendous amount of respect.I am very thankful that I knew him, worked for him and most of all had him for a friend

Charles Hayes

July 25, 2012

Mary , God bless you and your family. Tom was my friend and a fine headmaster at Boston High. Charles and Margo Hayes

Lisa Robb

July 24, 2012

How we loved Uncle Tom and we will miss him very much and cherish all our memories from Scituate, Humarock, Bonad Rd and Orleans and on and on. Everytime you eat a stuffed clam or play with a child remember our dear Uncle Tom. All our love we send to Mary and the girls. The Robb Malones

Pete Frasca

July 24, 2012

Mary-
Tom- a good guy-taken to soon
cherish your memories-

Andrew and Drew Hennessey

July 24, 2012

RIP Uncle Tom--heart goes out to Mary, Sara, Tina and Maria.
Great Guy

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