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DR. ARNOLD ROBERT "BOB" BELLOWS M.D.

1937 - 2019

DR.  ARNOLD ROBERT "BOB" BELLOWS M.D. obituary, 1937-2019, Lexington, MA

BORN

1937

DIED

2019

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Dee Funeral Home & Cremation Service - Concord

27 Bedford Street

Concord, Massachusetts

ARNOLD BELLOWS Obituary

BELLOWS, Dr. Arnold Robert "Bob" MD A retired ophthalmologist and glaucoma specialist, died after a long illness, on March 15, 2019, at CareDimensions, Hospice House, in Lincoln, MA. He was a recent resident of Lexington, MA. He also enjoyed a long-held residence in Deer Isle, Maine, and trips to Idaho, Montana, and Wyoming, fly fishing with many friends and colleagues. On May 30, 1964, he married Jean (Farley) Bellows in Nashua, New Hampshire, his devoted wife of 54 years, and a trauma psychologist and educator. Throughout their lives they were avid travelers, cooks, and patrons of the arts, in particular, holding membership subscriptions to the Boston Symphony Orchestra since 1973. Bob was born on May 14, 1937, in Manchester, New Hampshire, the only child of the late Arnold Leo Bellows and Eleanora (Chulada) Bellows. Excelling in academics, athletics, and student life, he graduated from Central High School before attending Brown University in Providence, Rhode Island, where he studied Psychology and pre-Med, and was a member of the Brown Football team and the Delta Upsilon fraternity. Upon graduation, he was admitted to Boston University Medical School, followed by a two-year residency in internal medicine. In 1965, he and Jean moved to Tripoli, Libya, where he served for two years in the US Air Force, and where they traveled extensively throughout the Middle East and Europe. In 1967, Bob and Jean moved to New Haven, Connecticut for Bob's four-year ophthalmology residency at Yale University, at the end of which they moved to Haiti to work at the L'Hopital Albert Schweitzer for six months, where they would later return to continue their work. Upon returning to the Boston area, Bob completed a glaucoma fellowship at Massachusetts Eye and Ear Infirmary, after which he joined Ophthalmic Consultants of Boston, joining Dr. Buck Fredrick, Dr. Tom Hutchinson, and Dr. Silvo von Pirquet, where he specialized in glaucoma and cataract surgery. During this period, he wrote many scientific articles in a wide variety of peer reviewed journals, and held leadership positions in many national and international ophthalmologic organizations. Bob is survived by his beloved wife, Dr. Jean Bellows; his son, Matthew Bellows and wife Ruth Webb, of Cambridge, Massachusetts; daughter, Khristen Bellows of San Diego, California; son, Nathaniel Bellows, of New York City, New York; 4 grandchildren: Anna, Nelson, Roy, and Kassius; and his devoted dog, Sophie. Family and friends are invited to attend his Memorial Service on Sunday, March 24, at 12 pm, in the Story Chapel at Mount Auburn Cemetery, 580 Mount Auburn Street, Cambridge, MA. A private family burial will precede the Service. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the American Glaucoma Society (AGS); Eye Care America (via AAO); L'Hopital Albert Schweitzer. For his online guestbook, please visit www.DeeFuneralHome.com Dee Funeral Home of Concord 978-369-2030 Caring for families since 1868

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Published by Boston Globe from Mar. 19 to Mar. 20, 2019.

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March 25, 2019

My sincere condolences to the Bellows family.

Nancy LaBrecque

March 22, 2019

So sorry for your loss Dr Bellows was a wonderful kind man whom I had the pleasure of working with at my time as a ophthalmic technician at BESLC and OCB. May he rest in peace.

Lauren Lannon

March 21, 2019

My sincerest condolences to the Bellows family. I worked at OCB in the 1980s/1990s, and ARB was always such a gentleman; sincere, affable, and so wonderful with patients and staff alike. I have very fond memories of my days at OCB, and the close knit staff of those years. ARB was such a big part of that, and he will be missed by all who knew him. Deepest sympathies, Lauren Lannon

March 20, 2019

I am so sorry for the loss of your loved one. Please find peace and comfort in Psalms 119:76.

Bernadette Dalton

March 20, 2019

Rest in Peace Dr. Bellows. Words can't express my undying gratitude for making many of the tough times I faced during my forty years as your patient bearable. My sincere thanks for caring for me and so many countless others. God Bless you and keep you,Bernadette Dalton

March 20, 2019

I was a Mass Eye and Ear Glaucoma Fellow 1987-1989. I am forever grateful to Bob for his mentorship and guidance. Wonderful man.
Randall Ozment MD

March 20, 2019

REST IN PEACE DR BELLOWS. I DID NOT KNOW HIM PERSONALLY BUT FELT AS THOUGH I DID THROUGH MY SISTER WHO BROUGHT HER DAUGHTER TO HIM WHEN SHE WAS JUST AN INFANT. MY NIECE IS IN HER 30'S AND BUT FOR A LAZY EYE SEES PERFECTLY THANKS TO DR. BELLOWS iT IS MY HOPE THAT DR BELLOWS AND MY SISTER GET TO MEET AGAIN IN HEAVEN.

March 20, 2019

Mrs. Bellows and family: I am so sorry for your loss; I knew Bob from Ash St. School and Central High School, as well. He never forgot his Manchester roots. Nancy and Dick Katz

Audra Dalton

March 20, 2019

RIP Dr. Bellows. You were known to many as the God of Glaucoma but to me you will always be the doctor that helped my Mom throught countless eye operations and treatments during the course of the more than 30 years she was your patient. There were times when she had so many problems and surgeries and hospitalizations that I don't remember small chunks of my childhood that coincided with those times. One thing I do remember for sure is that you were not only the best in your field but you were so kind and considerate to our family and I just knew everything would be ok as long as you were helping my Mom. Thank you for all you have done for her and so many others in your incomparable career in ophthalmology.

Richard George

March 20, 2019

Dr. Bellows was my doctor for many years, an avid fly fisherman, we would often talk about the one that got away!!
He was quite simply Sine Pari!

Rose and Tim Tyler

March 19, 2019

So sorry Jean and Family for your loss.. I am devastated and heartbroken...Bob was my special friend and mentor and has always been important to me personally and professionally. I cherish all the memories we made working together and all that we shared. He was always an exceptional person. He has made an impact in my life and has touched the lives of all the people who have known him in great ways. May he Rest In Peace..
Love Rose ❤

Karen Boyken

March 19, 2019

Dr Bellows was my son's doctor for many years. A kind caring and loving man. He was a great support over the years as my son who is deaf and blind dealt with many eye problems. RIP Dr Bellows.

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