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Anita Maria Bonacorsi Teeter

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TEETER, Anita Maria Bonacorsi 78, died peacefully June 12, 2009 after a long illness. Anita was born in Lawrence, MA, on June 15, 1930. She was a woman full of life and love, with a smile for everyone. She grew up the child of millworkers in Lawrence, MA, in a large extended family of Sicilian immigrants.She attended Lawrence High School and through hard work and determination was the first in her family to attend college, winning a full scholarship to Radcliffe College Anita earned a Bachelor's degree from Radcliffe and, in 1966, a graduate degree in elementary education from Harvard. Anita taught elementary school in inner city Boston for almost 30 years. A tireless advocate for children, throughout her teaching career Anita worked to address the needs of economically disadvantaged children, and children of color. She was an educational pioneer, introducing black and women's history into her curriculum. Following her retirement she offered consultation to teachers in curriculum development . She also volunteered as an adult literacy tutor and in a day-care center for homeless children. Her activism for children was not limited to the local area. Anita sponsored many children from third-world countries, and visited Guatemala to further her connection with some of them. She welcomed international exchange students into her home regularly. In 1997, at age 67 she attended the Stand for Children - Million Mom March in Washington D.C. She regularly attended opera, theater, museums and concerts. When she couldn't attend events, she listened to her beloved jazz, classical, and folk music at home. When traveling abroad, whether to Italy, Scandinavia, or Japan, Anita was sure to delve into the culture of the people. Anita had a strong commitment to her family. She was married in 1951 to Karl van Duyn Teeter, who became a professor of linguistics at Harvard University. After spending time in Japan when Karl was drafted during the Korean War, she moved with him to Berkeley, California. She gave birth to two daughters, Katharine and Judith, then moved to Cambridge in 1959, where she gave birth to twin daughters, Teresa and Martha. Anita lived in Cambridge with her family for 49 years. Anita is pre-deceased by her husband Karl V. Teeter, who died in 2007. She leaves behind four loving daughters, Katharine Emilie Teeter Thomas of Cambridge, MA, Judith Ann Teeter of Pittsburgh, PA, Teresa Maria Teeter Sargent of Jaffrey, NH, and Martha Elisabeth Cregan of North Reading, MA, as well as twelve grandchildren, two great-grandchildren, seven step-great-grandchildren, and numerous nieces and nephews. There will be a Memorial Service at 11:00 a.m. on Wednesday, June 17 at the Arlington Street Church, 351 Boylston Street, Boston, MA. In lieu of flowers the family requests donations be made in Anita's name to the Children's Defense Fund www.childrensdefense.org or the child-centered organization of your choice.

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Published by Boston Globe from Jun. 14 to Jun. 16, 2009.

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September 22, 2009

My mom recently informed me of Mrs. Teeter's death. She mentioned seeing the notice a few months ago and had been meaning to ask me if I had seen it. I hadn't, but have thought of her often over the years. I was a student of hers many years ago (23, to be exact) at the Ellis school in Roxbury--her 5th grade Advanced Work Class. I have so many fond memories of that class; especially of the sense of camaraderie that she instilled in us. We were a very close-knit group, which is such a tribute to Mrs. Teeter, as we were a diverse group of children, all of different racial and socioeconomic backgrounds, from many parts of the city. I remember well her lessons on womens' suffrage, her love of poetry, and even planting daffodil bulbs outside the school. We baked apple upside down cake from scratch, and I learned how to correctly follow a recipe. I believe that my fondness of writing (and aptitude for it) were first developed in Mrs. Teeter's class. As a student, you felt that you had a true supporter, teacher, and friend in Mrs. Teeter, and I will always remember her fondly. Thank you for sharing your mother with us.

Fred Gardaphe

June 24, 2009

She was one of the greatest women I ever knew. She taught me much and I revel in the times we shared. She was wise, witty, and dedicated to justice in a way one could only hope to emulate. I have learned to keep her voice inside me during the years we didn't see each other so it is good and strong and will remain with me always.
her first former son-in-law

Jane Dirks

June 16, 2009

Dear Judi and family,
I have such wonderful memories of your mom, especially at the Cape Cod beach house. Anita had a way of looking at you, and talking to you, that made you feel you were the only one in the world for her at that moment. What a wonderful gift to her many students, to have had her as their teacher.

I wish I could be with you in Boston; I'll be there in spirit. Many blessings for you, and may you receive the warmth and peace that remembering can bring.

Much love,
Jane

Maryellen Halsted

June 16, 2009

Martha,

What a wonderful woman your Mom must have been. I wish I had know her. The contribution she made to children is remarkable. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

My very best,

Maryellen Halsted

Teresa Sargent

June 16, 2009

Connections. Convictions. Determination. My mom lived those qualities, but I didn’t know all that until I was grown.
When she became an elementary school teacher in 1966 Martha and I “got” to go to mom’s classroom at the Ellis school in Roxbury, and I thought she was the most fun teacher ever! Not until I read some of her writing – oh, she wrote about everything – did I find out just how many challenges she faced in that job - not just the challenge of teaching students with very tough issues (and incidentally with no special education services yet) but also no playground equipment and oh yah - no playgrounds! When she put up pictures of black role models for her students she was told to take them down because she wouldn’t want to “emphasize their color” to them. Well, she refused of course, but she did let the assistant principal remove them. She felt isolated from other teachers. She called it a “sink or swim” mentality. But she swam alright, and she went on to build connections and collaborations between teachers and students. She built a very special multi grade program of connecting grades 2-5 in project work.
Can you guess who inspired me to be an elementary school teacher? Many of Anita’s “innovations” sound normal by today’s standards, but I think it is good to reflect on how many people including my mom were involved in creating the change that is now recognized as sound educational practices.
So Anita stuck to her convictions. She was determined to do what she thought was right. She connected people. And I’m proud of that. It’s not why I love her though.
I love my mom because she loved me. Even when I was grown up she insisted on traveling across the country to spend time with me at the hospital when my husband had surgery. She refused to get out of touch - postcards from afar, weekly calls. And I know I was just one of many souls she cared for in this way. All of us are blessed by the glow of her love. I miss you mom.

Love, Daughter Terri

Karen Engro

June 16, 2009

This is the story of a "life well-lived" by a beautiful woman. Although she will be missed, her spirit clearly remains in her wonderful family.
Rest in Peace, Anita

June 16, 2009

Karen Payne-Taylor

June 16, 2009

Dear Martha, Eric, Colleen, Liam & Connor: We send our love and support to each of you in the loss of your dear mother and grandmother. I still remember the conversation that I had with your mom, Martha, at your dad's memorial and how shegently shared with me and Colleen that day. Her sweet spirit and loving ways are reflected in you each day. We will be with you in spirit on Wednesday and will keep you all in our prayers. Love, Karen, Chris and Zoe

Susan Baylies

June 15, 2009

Dear Kathy, Judy, Terry and Martha,
I'm sorry I won't be able to come to Boston for the funeral, but my thoughts are with you. Anita was fun, friendly and relaxed. I always enjoyed her company whenever I was with her. I know you are missing both your parents greatly at this time.
With love.
Susan Baylies

Mira Naanes-Hodges

June 15, 2009

Dear Katharine and family, we pray for your peace and comfort through this time of loss of your dear mother. I am so grateful for the time I spent talking with Anita at your earlier goodbye party, when you left IHR for a time. I thoroughly enjoyed her brilliance, loving presence and cordiality and I fell in love with her instantly. I know the recent time during her illness has been both hard and yet offered segments of precious joys. You were blessed by these. Our condolences are heartfelt for all of you as Anita was truly a very, very special woman and mother, grandmother, and great grandmother. The blessing of the end of her illness does not ease the pain of losing her. She has, however left behind her dedication, commitment and love toward children and families in need, in you Katharine. Many of her precious attributes live on. May God bless and comfort all of you in this time of grief. Love, Mira and Tim

Margaret Booker

June 14, 2009

Dear Judi, Emma, and all of Anita's family,
We send our heartfelt condolences to you all. I will always remember Anita as the brilliant and loving woman that she was before AD robbed her and all of you of her bright light. She was a great inspiration to us all, a role model for us to follow as we face the challenges and conflicts we inevitably face of obligations to society, our work, and our families.
Our hearts go out to you all. She was there to show us all the way. love, Marge Booker and family

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