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September 22, 2009
My mom recently informed me of Mrs. Teeter's death. She mentioned seeing the notice a few months ago and had been meaning to ask me if I had seen it. I hadn't, but have thought of her often over the years. I was a student of hers many years ago (23, to be exact) at the Ellis school in Roxbury--her 5th grade Advanced Work Class. I have so many fond memories of that class; especially of the sense of camaraderie that she instilled in us. We were a very close-knit group, which is such a tribute to Mrs. Teeter, as we were a diverse group of children, all of different racial and socioeconomic backgrounds, from many parts of the city. I remember well her lessons on womens' suffrage, her love of poetry, and even planting daffodil bulbs outside the school. We baked apple upside down cake from scratch, and I learned how to correctly follow a recipe. I believe that my fondness of writing (and aptitude for it) were first developed in Mrs. Teeter's class. As a student, you felt that you had a true supporter, teacher, and friend in Mrs. Teeter, and I will always remember her fondly. Thank you for sharing your mother with us.
Fred Gardaphe
June 24, 2009
She was one of the greatest women I ever knew. She taught me much and I revel in the times we shared. She was wise, witty, and dedicated to justice in a way one could only hope to emulate. I have learned to keep her voice inside me during the years we didn't see each other so it is good and strong and will remain with me always.
her first former son-in-law
Jane Dirks
June 16, 2009
Dear Judi and family,
I have such wonderful memories of your mom, especially at the Cape Cod beach house. Anita had a way of looking at you, and talking to you, that made you feel you were the only one in the world for her at that moment. What a wonderful gift to her many students, to have had her as their teacher.
I wish I could be with you in Boston; I'll be there in spirit. Many blessings for you, and may you receive the warmth and peace that remembering can bring.
Much love,
Jane
Maryellen Halsted
June 16, 2009
Martha,
What a wonderful woman your Mom must have been. I wish I had know her. The contribution she made to children is remarkable. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
My very best,
Maryellen Halsted
Teresa Sargent
June 16, 2009
Connections. Convictions. Determination. My mom lived those qualities, but I didn’t know all that until I was grown.
When she became an elementary school teacher in 1966 Martha and I “got” to go to mom’s classroom at the Ellis school in Roxbury, and I thought she was the most fun teacher ever! Not until I read some of her writing – oh, she wrote about everything – did I find out just how many challenges she faced in that job - not just the challenge of teaching students with very tough issues (and incidentally with no special education services yet) but also no playground equipment and oh yah - no playgrounds! When she put up pictures of black role models for her students she was told to take them down because she wouldn’t want to “emphasize their color” to them. Well, she refused of course, but she did let the assistant principal remove them. She felt isolated from other teachers. She called it a “sink or swim” mentality. But she swam alright, and she went on to build connections and collaborations between teachers and students. She built a very special multi grade program of connecting grades 2-5 in project work.
Can you guess who inspired me to be an elementary school teacher? Many of Anita’s “innovations” sound normal by today’s standards, but I think it is good to reflect on how many people including my mom were involved in creating the change that is now recognized as sound educational practices.
So Anita stuck to her convictions. She was determined to do what she thought was right. She connected people. And I’m proud of that. It’s not why I love her though.
I love my mom because she loved me. Even when I was grown up she insisted on traveling across the country to spend time with me at the hospital when my husband had surgery. She refused to get out of touch - postcards from afar, weekly calls. And I know I was just one of many souls she cared for in this way. All of us are blessed by the glow of her love. I miss you mom.
Love, Daughter Terri
Karen Engro
June 16, 2009
This is the story of a "life well-lived" by a beautiful woman. Although she will be missed, her spirit clearly remains in her wonderful family.
Rest in Peace, Anita
June 16, 2009
Karen Payne-Taylor
June 16, 2009
Dear Martha, Eric, Colleen, Liam & Connor: We send our love and support to each of you in the loss of your dear mother and grandmother. I still remember the conversation that I had with your mom, Martha, at your dad's memorial and how shegently shared with me and Colleen that day. Her sweet spirit and loving ways are reflected in you each day. We will be with you in spirit on Wednesday and will keep you all in our prayers. Love, Karen, Chris and Zoe
Susan Baylies
June 15, 2009
Dear Kathy, Judy, Terry and Martha,
I'm sorry I won't be able to come to Boston for the funeral, but my thoughts are with you. Anita was fun, friendly and relaxed. I always enjoyed her company whenever I was with her. I know you are missing both your parents greatly at this time.
With love.
Susan Baylies
Mira Naanes-Hodges
June 15, 2009
Dear Katharine and family, we pray for your peace and comfort through this time of loss of your dear mother. I am so grateful for the time I spent talking with Anita at your earlier goodbye party, when you left IHR for a time. I thoroughly enjoyed her brilliance, loving presence and cordiality and I fell in love with her instantly. I know the recent time during her illness has been both hard and yet offered segments of precious joys. You were blessed by these. Our condolences are heartfelt for all of you as Anita was truly a very, very special woman and mother, grandmother, and great grandmother. The blessing of the end of her illness does not ease the pain of losing her. She has, however left behind her dedication, commitment and love toward children and families in need, in you Katharine. Many of her precious attributes live on. May God bless and comfort all of you in this time of grief. Love, Mira and Tim
Margaret Booker
June 14, 2009
Dear Judi, Emma, and all of Anita's family,
We send our heartfelt condolences to you all. I will always remember Anita as the brilliant and loving woman that she was before AD robbed her and all of you of her bright light. She was a great inspiration to us all, a role model for us to follow as we face the challenges and conflicts we inevitably face of obligations to society, our work, and our families.
Our hearts go out to you all. She was there to show us all the way. love, Marge Booker and family
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