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Fannie Fishlyn Obituary

FISHLYN, Fannie Szathmary Of Santa Monica, passed away peacefully on Jan. 8 at St. John's Health Center, at the age of 90. Fannie was born July 23, 1919 in Quincy, MA, and had lived in MA, CA, and FL. She will be dearly missed by her family, relatives, and many, many close friends. After raising three children, Fannie returned to school later in life, earning her bachelor's and MLS degrees at UCLA. She then started a remarkable second career, rising to tenured Associate Law Librarian at USC, where for many years she assisted uncountable graduate students, faculty, and other researchers in finding difficult and obscure materials; she retired in 1987. She loved music and attending the Philharmonic, and was an avid traveler, reader, and follower of the American political scene. She was predeceased by her brothers Irving, Albert, and Sidney Szathmary, and by her ex-husband Samuel Fishlyn. She is survived by her brothers Arthur Szathmary and sister-in-law Lily of Princeton NJ, and Bill Dana and sister-in-law Evy, of Knoxville TN; by her son Elliott Fishlyn and daughter-in-law Laura Green of Los Angeles; by her daughter Debby Carlton and son-in-law Jim, of Stonington CT and by her daughter Suzan Jaffe, son-in-law Gary, and grandson Alex, of Ft. Lauderdale FL. The family is very grateful to her caretakers, Faten Safadi and Isabel Sosa for assisting Fannie during the last year. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in the memory of Fannie Fishlyn to the Law Library at the USC Gould School of Law, or to the Union Rescue Mission, Los Angeles. A memorial service will be held Sun., Jan. 10, 2:00 PM, at Mt. Sinai Memorial Park, 5950 Forest Lawn Dr, Los Angeles, CA.

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Published by Boston Globe on Jan. 10, 2010.

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Faten Safadi

January 22, 2010

Fannie,you will always live in my heart.I will never forget your smile,kindness and big heart.Fannie,you were a beautiful person insid and out,and loved by every one who knew you.
Yuo were always there for us when we needed you.If one thing that I can take from my experience with you is that there is nothing impossible in life espically for woman. your life is an inspiration to me.
Fannie, your greatest legacy will be the wonderful children you raised, you were so proud of!!
Elliot,Debby and Susan my thoughts are with you this time. you all must know how deeply sad I`m over Fannie`s loss. I dare say she was like a mother to me!
Fannie, I love you, I will miss you, rest in peace.

John Chapman

January 9, 2010

I met Fannie only a few times. The time I remember most is when Jim and I showed up at the same time. She said we looked like a couple of young lawyers! I was pretty sure it was a compliment. She spoke directly, eminated kindness and was always smiling. She took care of everyone.

Caryn Diuguid

January 9, 2010

Dear Debby, Elliott, and Suzan,
What words are there to express our sadness at the loss of your mom and our Cousin Fannie? She was such an accomplished LADY and did much for so many in the family. My mother adored her and her incredible mind. We know she will be dearly missed, but she lived a good life and fought a courageous battle for so long. The struggle is over, but the memories are forever and she would not have wanted to go on without her independence. We wish we could be there for you all at this difficult time, but know that we are there with you in spirit. May Fannie’s memory be forever a blessing.
Love,
Cousins Caryn, David, Jillian and Danielle

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