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Oliver Beckwith Obituary

BECKWITH, Oliver P. Beloved patriarch of four generations of Beckwiths, and self-proclaimed "Dear Old Dad," has died in Marshfield at the age of 96. Surrounded by his family, he passed blissfully; literally in the embrace of his children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren. A man renowned for his generous spirit, perfect manners, and his mastery of the art of conversation, Mr. Beckwith was loved by everyone who ever got to know him. Oliver grew up in Yonkers, NY and attended New York University, where he earned a degree in Mechanical Engineering. In 1941 he married Marinette Ryan, and together they raised their four children. Relocating to the Boston area to work for the William Carter Company, he moved the family into their home of 48 years at 968 Ferry Street in Marshfield. He considered his family to be his greatest achievement; he leaves behind his four children: Stephen, of Providence, RI: John and his wife Marion, of Marshfield: Marianne, of Scotts Valley, CA; and Paul, of San Francisco, CA, He had five grandchildren: Bryan and his wife Leslie; Sarah and her husband Jeff Dunn; Oliver Gomes; Olivia, and Henry; as well as four great grandchildren; Madeline, John, Ainsley, and Phoebe. In his early life, Mr. Beckwith was an equestrian, avid swimmer, and photographer. With little prompting, and sometimes none at all, he would launch into full length recitations of Shakespeare and other works of poetry, heedless of the interest level of the listeners. He loved the North and South Rivers, enjoyed fishing and clamming. He even seeded his own clam bed in the marsh behind his Ferry St. home. He was the doting and loving husband of Marinette for 66 years, and every day for both of them was productive, and ended with a martini, stimulating dinner conversation, and a book. He will be sadly missed. Services will be held on Thursday, January 28th, at 10:00 at the North Community Church in Marshfield Hills. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations to the American Diabetes Association, P.O. Box 11454, Alexandria, VA 22312. For online guestbook and directions please visit us at our website macdonaldfuneralhome.com

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Published by Boston Globe from Jan. 26 to Jan. 27, 2010.

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January 31, 2010

What a wonderful man my Uncle Oliver. I doubt there was ever anyone who ever had a bad word to say about him. Probably because he never spoke ill about anyone. He is an inspiration to me. All these years I have been saving all tool and equipment owner's manuals and warranties in one big pile or jammed into a file folder. This winter, I will organize them alphabetically in new folders in Ollie's honor. Cousin F.

Benjamin Bernick

January 28, 2010

Dear Paul,Remembering you from years past. Sound like your Dad enjoyed his time. Take care of yourself and God Bless.

Suzanne Allmendinger

January 27, 2010

Dear John and Marion
I learned so much about Oliver through the obit--What a beautiful tribute to this most unique man. I know he will be missed by you all but what wonderful memories you must have and what a good feeling of contentment you should have because of your personal devotion to him - particularly over the past few years.

My condolances to the grand and great grand children as well.
Suzanne

January 27, 2010

What a lovely obituary. Perfect for a lovely man. I wonder if the quoting thing is a family trait...Hallie

william hill

January 27, 2010

Dear Beckwith famlily,the Obituary expressed very kind words for a very nice man.We know he will be missed,and is in better place.Thinking of you, Judy&Billy Hill

Ed McCormick

January 27, 2010

Dear Sarah and family,

One of the most beautiful obituaries I have read. I wonderful monument to a great man and my uncle. Love to you Hong and Eddie

sherri atkinson

January 26, 2010

Sarah and Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

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