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John Friedman Obituary

FRIEDMAN, John R. Of Sanibel, FL, September 4, 2010, age 84 peacefully in his sleep. He is survived by 4 children and multiple grandchildren. He will be remembered for his unconditional love, kindness, and penchant for enjoying life. He will be interred with his predeceased, beloved wife Judy of 40 years. His primary career involved educational productions covering a myriad of subjects, for which he received several commendations. After retirement he became actively involved in Big Arts on Sanibel Island enriching the lives of all who attended and worked with him. He was the son of William and Elizebeth Friedman, famous codebreakers of the World War 2 era. Relatives and friends are kindly invited to attend the memorial service in the Dahlborg-Macnevin Funeral Home, 280 Bedford St., Lakeville, MA 02347, November 6 at 10 a.m. In lieu of flowers a donation to: www.pulmonaryfibrosis.com would be thoughtful.

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Published by Boston Globe from Sep. 25 to Sep. 26, 2010.

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Kirstie Gentleman

September 19, 2023

I just bought a book about his mother, "The Woman Who Smashed Codes" by Jason Fagone. I remember John working on a movie script about his parents. Looking in the index found pages with specific references to John, I have learned things I never knew for all the years we were very close friends. Makes me want him here now to talk with.

Rose Mary Sheldon

May 30, 2011

John was a wonderful man who helped me with the history of his parents. If there are any relatives who care to share their memories with us, please contact Col. Rose Mary Sheldon, Department of History, VMI.

Kirstie Gentleman

March 29, 2011

John was like a big brother to me. He is truly someone who shared my joys and sorrows. He was my peer at Bell Labs and later my neighbor in North Plainfield. When he and Judy bought their home in Sanibel, John lived with me and my daughter until a desirable retirement date. Subsequently I enjoyed three wonderful visits at their home in Sanibel.

I just discovered his obituary and this memorial guest book today. I wondered why I had not received the family news letter in December or a reply to my news I sent him. I'm so glad to learn he died at peace.

Jil Smith

October 1, 2010

My hearts breaks for you mom - John was a magnificent man - so full of life. You both brightened any room you walked into. I will miss our conversations about the Arts and golf and will cherish my memories. You had an incredible relationship. Forever in my heart.

Bill and Lucy Lindsay

September 30, 2010

John was our great friend. We enjoyed many hours of tennis and golf together. All of his friends at the East Naples Community Park Tennis Association will miss him.

Ed & MaryLou Parker

September 28, 2010

We were so sorry at the passing of John.He was fortunate to have been able to spend the last few years of his life with his loving and caring friend,Myrna, with whom we share some wonderful memories.

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