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IRMA MILLER LESSELL M.D.

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Lessell, Irma Miller, MD A remarkable woman who enjoyed phenomenal success in several of her "lives", died last week at age 79. She was a Lexingtonian for 52 years. Married at 20 she was for 18 years homemaker and exemplary mother to four boys. During that time she became, among other things a superb chef and an avid cookbook collector (over 1500 volumes). At age 38 she fulfilled her dream, long delayed, of becoming a physician. As a student she excelled at every level and was only the third person ever to graduate summa cum laude from the Boston University School of Medicine. After completing her training in Neurology she joined the staff of the Lahey Clinic where she spent the next 19 years in the Department of Neurology specializing in Neuro-Ophthalmology and Pediatric Neurology. Her skill as a diagnostician was legendary. The patients loved her and her colleagues respected and admired her. In retirement she returned to her alma mater Wellesley and audited a large number of courses in subjects that she had not studied during her undergraduate years. Had they been taken for credit she had accumulated nearly enough for a second Bachelor's degree. It is unlikely that any of the undergraduates put in as much effort as Irma did. She bought every book that was mentioned and read them all. Our house has books everywhere including piles on the floor and on top of furniture. Irma became interested in fishing in mid-life and it became her main outdoor recreation. She fly-fished in fresh and salt water and also tied flies. During trips to her winter home in Florida she fished for large-mouth bass extensively in Lake Okeechobee and took up bird photography. She is survived by her husband Simmons, three sons, three grandsons and one grandaughter and her brother. Another son died in 1977. Services were private. Irma was unique.

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Published by Boston Globe from Sep. 2 to Sep. 3, 2014.

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David Kolesar

October 9, 2014

Irma was a regular at the United Fly Tyers and was often teased about the fur coat she wore and how it would make good material for fly tying. Irma was very popular among the club members and will be missed.

Ellen Stone Lubofsky

September 11, 2014

Dear Dr. Lessell,
She will be missed. She was one of the kindest and most caring physicians I have ever had and will always keep her in my prayers. I am so sorry for your loss.

Grant Liu

September 11, 2014

Dear Simmons:

I am so sorry about your great loss. My sincerest condolences. Irma's path to medicine is an inspiration to all of us. Our thoughts are with you in this difficult time.

Sue Benes

September 10, 2014

She made me proud of "lady doctors". What a great example to her children and grandchildren: to keep learning forever...Sue Benes

Bob Lesser

September 10, 2014

Dear Simmons and Family.
I am so sorry to hear about Irma. I wish you all the best in this most difficult time.

Marjorie Seybold

September 10, 2014

Dear Simmons,
I am so sorry to hear of Irma's death. She was a terrific lady. Not just a wonderful neuro-ophthalmologist but a wonderful person as well.
With sympathy,
Marge Seybold

David J. B. Singer, MD, FACS

September 10, 2014

Dear Simmons,
Have not seen you since we all were on NO Program in Montreal, and we then went up to Mt. Tremblant, to ski, for a few days. I broke my leg and Joel Glazer dislocated his shoulder, and my (then) wife Barbara, took care of us on our flight back to Miami. I didn't know Irma, but she sounds like a most special person...in fact, "one of a kind" person. I can only say that such a loss is monumental, especially after the almost 60 years of life together. I regret your loss and send you my warmest thoughts of support, across the miles. I've been living and working in Aspen since the early 90's...but I miss BPEI and my early life hero's, JLS, Nobby, Joel, Daroff, and others....sadly, the moving finger writes, and we must, by whatever means, make the best of it. With sadness, I hope your pain will not be overwhelming. Fondly, David

September 8, 2014

I am very sorry to hear of Irma's passing. As a colleague I had great admiration for her. She had a sense of humor and was very smart. I remember her sitting at Medical Grand Rounds, taking everything in while knitting continuously. A lovely person. She will be much missed.
My condolences to her family.
Luis Fernandez-Herlihy, MD

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