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Deanna R. Holland

1937 - 2008

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Deanna Holland Obituary

Deanna Roberta Holland, 71, beloved wife, mother, sister, mother-in-law, grandmother, great-grandmother and "Mrs. Holland," passed away after a long illness on Thursday, Nov. 13, 2008, at home surrounded by her family.

Deanna was born in Butte on May 6, 1937, to Roberta (Northam) and Fred Dean. She was later adopted by Clyde Carpino. Her two brothers, Clyde and Bob, later joined the family.

She reflected back often on her wonderful childhood. She felt lucky to have grown up at the Columbia Gardens near Butte, where she experienced the joy of having flower gardens, a roller coaster, a carousel and popcorn stands just a quick walk across the baseball fields. She attended Harrison School where she completed the eighth grade. She and her family then moved to the "flat" in Butte where she attended Butte High School and graduated in 1955. Even before high school, she knew of Sonny and they later became high school sweethearts.

Deanna attended Colorado Women's College in Denver and graduated in 1957 with a degree in elementary education. Following graduation, she taught at Whittier School in Butte.

Deanna and Sonny were married on Aug. 23, 1958, in Butte.

Sonny's coaching career involved numerous moves, and their partnership and family began to grow. They eventually returned to Bozeman with their three daughters in 1970. First and foremost, Deanna was a devoted wife and mother while at the same time she completed her four-year college degree at Montana State University in 1976. Hawthorne School was "Mrs. Holland's" last stop, where she fulfilled 25 years of teaching and retired in 1992. She touched countless students' lives during those years and one of her greatest joys was having her former students greet her with a warm smile and a hug.

Following her retirement, she had more time to spend with her large circle of friends. Her P.E.O. sisters, her bridge clubs, her golf buddies, her church activities and volunteer hours kept her busy at the fast pace she loved. Her million-dollar smile and enthusiasm will be fondly remembered by all.

Deanna was the champion of her family and the heart of all family celebrations. The grand finale of the family events was Sonny and Deanna's 50th wedding anniversary celebrated on Aug. 23, 2008. Her tender leadership and ability to light up the room was her gift to Sonny and her family that will always be treasured. She was truly a beautiful lady in every sense of the word and will be deeply missed.

She is survived by her husband, Sonny of 50 years; and her three daughters, Wendy and Gator Rivers and their children, Amy, Ashley and Lily; Heidi and Eric Vinje and their daughter, Hailey; Jody and Tyler Delaney and their children, Alex and Luke, and her two great-grandsons, Peyton and Kolter Hoff; her two brothers, Clyde (Robin) Carpino, Bob (Sherry) Carpino; and half-brother, John Dean; as well as numerous nieces, nephews and cousins.

She was preceded in death by her mother, Roberta; father, Fred; and adoptive father, Clyde.

A memorial service will be held at noon Thursday at Hope Lutheran Church, 19th and Graf Street.

Should friends desire, memorials may be made to Hope Lutheran Church, 2152 W. Graf St., Bozeman 59718; or to Bozeman Deaconess Foundation, 931 Highland Blvd. Suite 3200, Bozeman 59715.

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Published by Bozeman Daily Chronicle from Nov. 15 to Nov. 19, 2008.

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Lisa Bailey

November 23, 2008

Our deepest Sympathies go out to all of you during your time of loss...
While living and being around Bobcat football for the 6 years we were coaching at MSU, Deanna always gave me wonderful advice in raising a family in the football world. She had such grace and really was a big support to me. It was a wonderful privledge and honor to get to know you (Sonny) and Deanna. She was a wonderful and caring individual. Our support and Love goes out to you and your family.
Love the Coach Bailey Family
Don, Lisa, Cooper, Dalton, Wyatt and Izabell Bailey

Diane Kondelis

November 19, 2008

Sonny, Wendy, Heidi, & Jody,

I'm so sorry to hear of the loss of your mother Wendy, Heidi & Jodi and Sonny your wife. Deanna was a very special person. My Prayers and thoughts are with you at this time of sadness. Deanna will be greatly missed by all.

Love and a Big Hug,

Richard & Ruth Kanemasu

November 19, 2008

Hello Sonny:
Our hearts go out to you in this painful time. Losing a loved one so close to you is very, very difficult and painful. Having experienced such a lose ourselves we share your pain. I won't tell you it is easy or that it will go away soon. But to rejoice in His name that Deanna knew her Lord. We are upholding you and your family in our prayers. God's strength and peace be with you.

Darryl Dupuis

November 19, 2008

Sonny and girls:
We were saddened by word of Deanna's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. She was a wonderful person and will be missed.

Darryl and Rita Dupuis (POLSON, MT)

Jim Lodge

November 18, 2008

Coach Holland and Girls It is with great sadness that we read about Deanna's passing. The time you and your family spent in Dillon is very special to both of us. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Jim and Vicky Lodge

Bob and Linda Lanning

November 18, 2008

Sonny and Family,
We were saddened to learn of your family's loss. Please know that our thoughts and prayers remain with you all.

Emma and John Ridgeway

November 18, 2008

You may not recall, but I am Deanna's cousin (my dad, Curt Phillips, was Clyde Carpino's uncle). We hadn't seen Deanna for years. We were saddened to learn of her passing and wish your family peace in your memories of her.

Richard and Charlotte Orr

November 17, 2008

Sonny,Jody, Wendy and Vickie, Deanna's warm smile and helpful hands will long be remembered as she helped with some of our kindergarten activities in my early years of teaching at Longfellow. Our thoughts and prayers will be with all of you.

Perrie Agocs

November 17, 2008

Dear Hollands:
So sad to hear about Deanna's passing. You are all in my prayers. Wishing you peace and comfort! Perrie Agocs

Bill and Debbie Crowley

November 17, 2008

Dear Holland Family, Debbie and I are so sorry for your loss. Please know that you all are in our thoughts and prayers. Debbie and I often think about and fall back on the many lessons that both Deanna and Sonny taught us while we were at MSU.God bless and watch over you all.

Kelley Edwards

November 17, 2008

Dear the Holland family-
I wanted you to know how very sorry I was to hear about the passing of your mother. She was a wonderful lady and I have many fond memories of both your parents growing up. I am Wayne and Lorinda Edwards daughter, and we were your parents neighbors for the first five years of my life. My sisters and I would love to go visit your mom on our bikes. She would greet us with a smile, usually followed by a treat or a band-aid if needed!! Please know that I am thinking of you and your family.

Karrie, Judd, and our three girls: Makayla, Kelsey, Joelle Moorhouse

November 17, 2008

Dear Sonny & Girls,
We are so sorry for your sadness. You and Deanna have been priceless friends with my parents for many many years. May God bless you with many memories and grace to help you though this time. Deanna will be forever missed, but not forgotten. She was an awesome lady with a beautiful heart and smile!

Mike, Vicki, Mason, & Peyton Carle

November 16, 2008

Dear Sonny, Wendy, Heidi, Jody, & Bobby,

Our deepest sympathy to you and your families. Deanna was a speical person and will be greatly missed by all who have had the priviledge of knowing her. We will hold you in our thoughts and prayers. God bless you.

Naomi Sigler/Bedwell

November 16, 2008

When I came to Mrs.Hollands kidergarten class in 1978,I had a very abusive childhood and was painfully shy,my first day she smiled at me and gave me a hug,when I would hide away from the rest of the class she would gently put her hands on my shoulders and lead me back to the rug.She was solitude and I looked forward to going to school and hear her say how is my little button doing today.She was never forgotten,not only because she was my teacher, she was kind and cheerful and loved her students,she had an impact on me that will forever be in my heart.Even when I was really messed up,I wandered into Hardees and she was eating and even as awful as I looked,I said do you remember me?she said of course I do!you were just a little bitty thing one of my little buttons,she saw past my ugliness and still gave me a hug!Even though its been 30 years she will never be forgotten as the teacher and friend that in her own gentle way pulled me out of my shell.I will see her in heaven as well as all those others whos lives she touched,she will be singing, time to put youre toys away and meet me at the rug.I send my condolences and my prayers for those who mourn her passing,but she is looking down with that big smile! P.S. I will never forget Clancy the clown either, each student had to bring him home for a week,then write a story about it and his head kept popping off.May God be close to youre sides,she was the portrait of beauty and kindness.

Alex Delaney

November 16, 2008

Nana.
You are amazing. I hope you can all learn to be exactly like you. I love you. Al-pal

Don & Joy Sherick

November 16, 2008

As we write this with broken hearts, we pray for you, Sonny, Wendy, Heidi, Jody, and your beautiful families. May the Lord bless and comfort you in your time of need. Deanna and you have been our dearest friends. We will always remember the fun and special times we had together. Deanna was greatly loved and will be missed more than we can express.

Don & Joy Sherick
Idaho Falls, Idaho

Larry & Betty Lister

November 16, 2008

Sonny & Girls - We were so sorry to read about Deanna. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. With sincere sympathy.
Larry & Betty Lister

Ashley Wesen

November 16, 2008

Nana-
Like your legacy, our love for you will never die. Thank you for the beautiful moments, lessons, and love, which is carrying us all. We have been eternally blessed for the gift of you. Words cannot express our honor for you and will miss you beyond measure. You will continue to shape our lives with your memory.

Cheryl & Rich Giblert

November 15, 2008

Dear Sonny & Family
Our sincere condolence to you all. Deanne was a special person.

Eileen Giacomino

November 15, 2008

Sonny and family, Our sincere sympathy. We will always remember beautiful Deanna and her heart warming smile.
Jim and Eileen (Henderson) Giacomino

Diane Urdahl Guthrie

November 15, 2008

Dear Sonny and Family,
I loved Deanna so much. She was a beautiful person inside and out. I am so thankful for her friendship and support but also for the friendship she shared with my Mom. Mom loved being the secretary at Hawthorne School because she enjoyed the children and more importantly all of the close friends she had there.
One of my favorite memories of Deanna was in 1988. Our first daughter, Eileen had just been born in Cody, Wyoming and I brought her to Bozeman to visit Mom and Dad. We visited Hawthorne School as well so I could show her off to Mom's friends and this included a visit to Deanna's Kindergarten class. I was enthusiastically answering student's questions until one little boy asked "Where do babies come from?" While I was quickly trying to think of the briefest and most appropriate answer Deanna stepped in and said, "Cody, Wyoming." That was that. The little boy was satisfied and I was relieved. It still makes me giggle a little when I think of it.
I also was fortunate to be included on a trip to New York City with Deanna, Mom and Molly Davis. What fun we had.
I do so hope that wonderful memories will help comfort you at this difficult time.
Again, There are no words to express how thankful I am to have been a friend of Deanna's but how thankful that my Mom was too.
I keep you all close in my heart.
Dicie

Peggy Lewis (nee Jones)

November 15, 2008

My heart is sad. Deanna was a beautiful lady and I will always remember her glowing smile. My deepest sympathies.

Jodi Hougard Petty

November 15, 2008

Dear Jody, Heidi, Wendy and Mr. Holland,

Please accept my heartfelt thoughts and prayers that your memories will keep your hearts comforted. Your mother was a very dear and special person. Just as her photo shows, her beautiful smile will always be cherished by so many of us that had the privilege of knowing her. She truly touched many lives and she will be missed.

You are blessed to have such a beautiful and supportive family. She will continue to live in each of you. I love you all and am sending hugs. Your Friend,

Connie (Buckingham) Chausse

November 15, 2008

Wendy, Heidi and Jody:

Please accept my sincere sympathy in your time of loss. You did a fine job writing the obituary, which is a real tribute to your mother's life. My prayers are with you, and your families.

Carol Parrett

November 15, 2008

Deanna was one of the most beautiful people we have ever known. She was a sweetheart and we'll treasure her memory forever. Our fun times in High School and twirling. Rest in peace dear friend. Our deepest sympathy to you Sonny and all your family.

Carol and Frank Parrett

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