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Kathleen Center Obituary

Shortly before sunrise on Friday, Dec. 20, 2013, with Dean by her side, Kathy Center passed peacefully on to Heaven.

Officially Kathleen Ann (Toll) Center, to her VIPs she was Yaya or Grandma Bossypants.

Born in Denver to Rex and Esther Toll, Kathy was raised in Boulder, Colo. She graduated from Boulder High and then attended Colorado State University, where she met Dean. They would be together for the next remarkable, wonderful, scary, hilarious, rewarding 45 years. They went by in a flash.

After Kathy obtained a nursing degree, they toured the Western U.S. and Canada in their VW bus for a summer before Dean started medical school and Kathy started working in Chicago. They were married in Boulder by Abbott Ed in 1972.

Following medical school, Kathy and Dean spent three years in Spokane, Wash., where Amy was born in 1976. Kathy said the happiest day of her life was when she got to start a family.

Kathy wanted to make her home in a college town in the Rockies, and in 1978, she, Dean and Amy moved into their second and last home in Bozeman. Lovable Ben arrived the next spring, and curly blonde Adam completed the family two years later. For her, making a safe, supportive, fun home was the best and most important career she could have.

Kathy devoted her life to making other people happy and one beneficiary was the Bozeman School District. She spent many hours working with other parents on whatever the teacher or school needed.

During these years, she enjoyed picnics and camping by the river with friends, spring trips to San Diego, especially if they included Disneyland, and spending time at the cabin. While she greatly enjoyed spending a quiet evening on the couch with a book or TV, creating a party for children or family was big fun for Kathy, and Christmas was her most favorite time.

As her children moved on to adulthood, she returned to her love of fabric, color and design through the vortex of quilting. She made many beautiful quilts, designed a few wonderful patterns, and had some of her work appear in quilting magazines. At the quilt shop where she worked, she helped hundreds of quilters find just the right combination of fabrics to realize their dream. Kathy truly loved her family of quilting friends and the time she spent with them.

And then there were grandchildren! What a blessing they were to her. Her beautiful, special granddaughters, Molly, Zoe and Lilly, so enriched her life, and she theirs. And then came grandsons Noah and Liam, with more cheeks to pinch and the chance to play boy games. Kathy loved all children, but she especially enjoyed preschoolers with a little naughty streak.

Kathy is survived by her heartbroken husband, Dean; her amazing daughter, Amy, and her husband, Jeff Cory; her lovable and loving son, Ben; former daughter-in-law, Jami; and big-hearted son, Adam, and his wife, Katie LaCroix; along with her granddaughters and grandsons. She is also survived by sister, Barbara Wenzel, and her daughter, Kate (Willy), and special friend, Bruce; brother, Greg, his wife, Terri, and their children, Weston (Becca and Charlie), Brady, and Mandy; and brother, Scott, his wife, Paris Geiken, and their children, Nico and Vivian.

She was preceded in death by her parents, Rex O. and Esther M. Toll.

Memorial services will be held at 2 p.m. on Friday, Jan. 10, 2014 at Dokken-Nelson Sunset Chapel.

For those who want to honor her memory, we suggest a contribution to any organization that benefits children, and she would want you to hug a child daily.

Arrangements are in the care of Dokken-Nelson Funeral Service, www.dokkennelson.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Bozeman Daily Chronicle on Dec. 29, 2013.

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January 4, 2014

Dear Dean and Kathy's children:Barbie called me today with the incredible news.We talked about the wonderful Grape Ave neighborhood. All the love and condolences fom Marti, Mark,and Erik Ingraham..Surely there is a brighter star in the Bozeman sky.

January 2, 2014

I Norm Campbell, express my deepest sympaty and sadness at the loss of my beautiful, precious niece, Kathy....I Maura Campbell, Kathy's cousin send my deepest condolences to her family.....Kathy is shining in heaven right now along with her Mom and Dad and other relatives. We heard of all her wonderful attributes and she will be sorely missed.....God BLess You All....love, norm and maura campbell

January 2, 2014

i Norm Campbell thought so very much of her wonderful, beautiful and talented niece, Kathy and I Maura Campbell her cousin thought so much of her sweetness and devotion to her family.....our sympathy goes out to the rest of her wonderful family.....she's shining in heaven and happy and reunited with her Mom and Dad and so many other family and friends.....love to all!!!!

January 2, 2014

Dean, Ben, Adam & Amy,
Kathy was a treasure. We will all miss her.

God Bless,
Carol

Katie LaCroix

December 31, 2013

Kathy was such a wonderful person and I was blessed to call her my mother-in-law. She was an incredibly loving, nurturing, and talented person. She will be missed greatly.

With Love From The Wysoski Family

December 29, 2013

Dr. Center,
We are so sorry to hear of the loss of the love of your life, your dear wife. We wanted you to know that you are in our thoughts and prayers during this most difficult time. We never met your wife but always remember what affection and joy you had when you spoke of her and your kids. Take care and know that God is near.

Sarah Sellars

December 29, 2013

I am so sorry for the loss of this very special woman. She will live on through happy memories, and treasured quilts; in the hearts of those who loved her. My sincere sympathies to the family.

Doug Center

December 29, 2013

If you walked into the garden of Kathy's life, you were heartily and fully embraced, lovingly tended and pruned with good-natured humor when you needed a bit of pruning.

While the light of love in the world has grown a bit dimmer with Kathy's passing, the light of love that animates heaven now glows a bit brighter. A lovely woman has returned home.

Scott, Paris, Nico and Vivian

December 29, 2013

We are all heartbroken and will miss her greatly. Kathy was truly a beautiful person both inside and out. Lovingly humorous, I'm sure she would want us all to continue to have a little "silly" in our daily lives!

MARILYN NORWALK

December 29, 2013

I will ALWAYS miss my most PRECIOUS, Kathy!! Aunt Marilyn

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