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Shirley BACKES Obituary

BACKES - Shirley (nee Adams) July 11, 2010, of West Seneca, NY, beloved wife of the late John Howard Backes; dearest mother of Sandra (Stephen) Jarmusz, Kenneth (Karen), David (Gail), John (Theresa) and Catherine Wagner; survived by nine grandchildren, 15 great-grandchildren and one great-great-grandchild; daughter of the late Jack and Grace Adams; sister of Kass Judson and Sonnie Adams; also survived by many nieces and nephews. Relatives and friends are invited to attend a Memorial Service on Wednesday, July 14 at 11 AM in Union Road Community Church, 2628 Union Rd., Cheektowaga, NY 14227. Shirley was a retiree of Arcata Graphics. Donations to Union Road Community Church. Arrangements by DANIEL R. SMOLAREK FUNERAL HOME.

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Published by Buffalo News from Jul. 13 to Jul. 14, 2010.

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Daryl and Renee Culp

July 20, 2010

Jay and Terry, David and Gail, Butch and Karen, Sandy and Steve and Catherine: Renee and I and I'm sure the rest of the Culp family just wanted to say how sorry we were when we heard about your mom. Whenever we got together in Buffalo or in Florida, we always had a good time; there was always lots of fun and laughter. A cute memory: At Jay's graduation from Optometry School, your mom was thanking us for taking care of Jay and when we got back to Miami, she had sent us a card with postage stamps in it as a thank you. We thought that was so cute. Just wanted you all to know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and the whole family at this sad time. Take care. Love Daryl and Renee

Walfrand & Zarcone Families

July 15, 2010

Cathy,
We are so sorry to hear about your mom. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

Kathy Caramazza

July 13, 2010

Cathy,
Sorry to read your mom died , I remember her when we were younger . I know it isn't easy right now , I lost my mom 4 yrs ago .
Take care , be strong for one another ..

Rosemary, Debbie and Kristen (Dr. Carlo's office)

July 13, 2010

Our deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family at this time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Tina (DeLellis) Lyman

July 13, 2010

Dave & Gail
I'm sorry about your Mom - I am sure she was a very special lady! My thoughts & prayers are with you. Try to take comfort in knowing that she is now in the best place ever to be.

Kathy McCarville

July 13, 2010

I am so glad that I had the chance to visit Shirley when I was visiting Buffalo in June. I wish I could be there during this sorrowful time & pay my respects but I just wanted you all to know that she was always special to me and will be missed.

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