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RALPH LEARNED Obituary

RALPH ROLLAND LEARNED SOUTH BURLINGTON - Ralph Rolland Learned, 82, died peacefully early Sunday morning, Feb. 21, 2010, at his home, with his loving family by his side, including his dog Toby, following a long determined and courageous battle with cancer. He now joins his loving wife in heaven. Ralph was born on July 13, 1927, in Fairfax, the son of Girard and Agnes (Boozan) Learned. He proudly served his country in the U.S. Army during WWII. On Aug. 27, 1949, Ralph married Blanche Willis at Christ the King Catholic Church in Burlington. They had lived for many years on Staniford Road in Burlington, where they raised their children, Jeff and Jean. Then later moved to Porters Point in Colchester where they tore down the family camp and Ralph built yet another home. They resided there for many years, and after his wife Blanche died, Ralph built a hunting camp in East Fairfield and lived there almost the remainder of his life with his dog Toby. He had worked for Pizzagalli Construction Co. for 26 years, working several years as a Superintendant. Before this he was self employed in construction for many years. He had a special gift at doing finish carpentry, paying very close attention to detail. He also loved to putter on his own home. Ralph was a member of the Holy Cross Catholic Church in Colchester. He was an avid fisherman and always enjoyed working in his large garden and enjoyed giving away the fruits of his labor. He also loved to hunt. Ralph loved the outdoors tremendously and started his own tree farm along with managing the woods he owned. Whatever Ralph took from Mother Nature, he always gave back. He also enjoyed a cold Genesee after a hard day's work. Working hard was Ralph's enjoyment. Ralph was a loyal Red Sox fan and enjoyed Texas Holdem with all of his buddies. Ralph was predeceased by Blanche on Nov. 18 of 1994 and is survived by his children, Jeff Learned and fiance Heidi Slattery of South Burlington and Jean Osborne and her husband Bryan of Colchester, by four grandchildren, one great-grandchild, his sisters Arlene Brown of Fairfax, Mary Learned Cleary of Hyde Park, Marshia Wilkenson and husband Earl of Virginia, Margaret Woodworth of Westford, Dorothy Root of Westford, and Bernice Hakey of Swanton. He was also predeceased by his brothers Aaron and Elmer Learned. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated by Fr. Roger Charbonneau on Monday March 1, 2010, at 11 a.m. in the Holy Cross Catholic Church in Colchester. Burial will follow in Holy Cross Cemetery with a luncheon to follow in the church hall at Holy Cross Catholic Church. Contributions in Ralph's memory may be made to the Redemption Band, c/o Holy Cross Catholic Church 416 Church Road, Colchester, VT 05446. Visiting hours will be held on Sunday, Feb. 28, 2010, from 4 to 7 p.m. in the Minor Funeral Home in Milton. Online condolences may be made to www.minorfh.com

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Published by The Burlington Free Press on Feb. 24, 2010.

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Kim Charland

February 28, 2010

To the family of Ralph,
I had the pleasure of knowing Ralph for many years as he worked at Pizzagalli Construction Company and after his retirement. He was a very nice person who i enjoyed talking with.
I'm sorry for you loss.
Kim Charland

carol Garrand

February 28, 2010

rest in peace papa. I will always cherish the memories. sitting around the bomb fire, and all the hard work we put into the trees. you will truely be missed.

February 24, 2010

Jean, Bryan and family: We are so sorry for the passing of your dad but grateful that he is free of pain and in a better place. We share your grief. He sounds so similar to my dad who left us two weeks prior. Our love to you all. Pam and Steve

Chic Chicoine

February 24, 2010

Jeff and family. Sorry to hear of your loss. Ralph was a great craftsman and teacher, alway positive and full of life. He will surely be missed by all.

With our deepest sympathy.

Chic and Pauline

Bobbie (Hotopp) Hunt

February 24, 2010

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2010

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