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Allyson Apo
February 20, 2011
My deepest sympathy for the Dattilio family. About two years ago, I was matched with Debbie to be my long distance mentor. Her work with IBM and love of technology were common topics we emailed about. I enjoyed receiving messages from her, as they always provided me with insight and encouragement. She will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with the Dattilio family.
Juli
February 18, 2011
My sincere condolences to all of Deb's family. I worked with Deb in audit at IBM and she quickly became my mentor and most of all my really good friend. I have wonderful memories of the times spent with her and wish I had another opportunity to say goodbye. She is a wonderful woman and I am truly blessed for having known her. Please accept my sincere regrets and hope that time will begin to heal the hole that she has left in our lives..
dawn stefenhagen
February 14, 2011
My deepest condolences to all who loved Deborah. May you always find her in your heart. I believe she was welcomed by her sweet Zoe Ann with loving kisses. Deborah is no longer in pain and is now with other loved ones. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Deborah Murphy
February 12, 2011
My deepest condolences to the Dattilio family on the loss of Deborah.I had only Know Debbie thru the pet loss Critters. My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this very hard time.
Charles Padilla
February 12, 2011
My deepest condolences to the Dattilio family on the loss of Deborah. I met Deborah through Critters where she had posted a memorial for her beloved Zoe Ann. I am sure that Miss Zoe Ann was there to welcome her mom home. May the beautiful memories you have of Deborah always bring you peace and comfort.
Laura Roake
February 12, 2011
My deepest sympathies to the Datillio family at this sad time of loss. I'm certain that Debbie's beloved Zoe Ann and others that went before Debbie were right there to welcome her. May the memories Debbie created with you bring some peace and comfort at this difficult time.
Brenda Grimes Norton
February 3, 2011
My deepest sympathies to you all. I will keep her and you in my prayers.

Jayne Healy
February 2, 2011
Dear Connie and family,
Debbie was my best friend here on Edgemoor Drive many moons ago; but I remember well her exuberant spirit. It's hard to believe the Doodlebug is gone. My deepest sympathies to you all.
Pam (Monell) Benoit
February 2, 2011
I was shocked and saddened to hear of Debbie's death. Even though it's been many years since we've seen each other, I still have fond memories of hanging out together with our North Ave. group of friends. My deepest sympathy to the Dattilio family.
Bo Wentz
February 2, 2011
Dear Family, I worked with Debbie for many years and traveled many places with her. She was a dear friend and I will miss her tremendously. My prayers are with you during this difficult time.
February 2, 2011
Dear Aunt Connie & Family,
Debbie was always so nice to visit with when I saw her at family gatherings or at the grocery store years ago... knowing she is with the Lord and with her dad and uncles and others who have gone before her, will give you all comfort, I hope.
all our love,
judy dattilio palermo & tim palermo
Amanda Alderman-Salyer
February 1, 2011
My thoughts and prayers go out to the Datillio family...may peace and comfort come to you in your time of grieving.
John Fletcher
February 1, 2011
To the entire Dattilio family - I am so very saddened to learn of Debbie's passing. I hired Debbie into the Lab Data Center as an Operator many years ago, and always had the very highest regard for her. She was a positive spirit with a Can-Do attitude, and she never fell short of expectations. She conferred with me about entering a career as an Internal Auditor, and I knew she was going to continue to be a success professionally, and a role model for those she came in contact with. Her enthusiasm was contageous! I'm so proud to have known her, sorry to have lost touch with her, and very very sad to learn of her passing. May her memories sustain you through this difficult time.
Roxanne Kamin
February 1, 2011
I’m sure that Deb is somewhere playing with her beloved Zoe Ann. My condolences to her family, thank you for taking care of her. My condolences to her friends, I’m sure each one of us can look back upon a memory or two and not help but smile. My condolences to her peers, we lost one of the best. Our world of Big Blue will be a bit bluer, as we all mourn her passing.
John Neader
February 1, 2011
Vinnie, I am sorry to hear about Debbie. She was a super person who cared deeply about many things and people. I lost track of her and many others after leaving IBM in 2003 and then moving to Arizona in 2006. She was always ready to enjoy life and shared her humor with everyone...
Once, again, my deepest sympathies for you and your family.
Roxanne Kamin
February 1, 2011
I'm sure that Deb is somewhere playing with her beloved Zoe Ann. My condolences to her family, thank you for taking care of her. My condolences to her friends, I'm sure each one of us can look back upon a memory or two and not help but smile. My condolences to her peers, we lost one of the best. Our world of Big Blue will be a bit bluer, as we all mourn her passing.
Alan Long
February 1, 2011
Although no words can really help to ease the loss you bear, just know that you are very close in every thought and prayer
Denis Ladd
February 1, 2011
My condolences to the Dattilio family.
Jane Landreth
February 1, 2011
To the Dattilio family, I would like to extend my deepest condolences in the death of Deb. I worked with Deb over 10+ years in IBM and always admired her knowledge, patience and willingness to stick to her guns when she knew she was right. She also had a great sense of humor, a crackling laugh and was a very good friend. Deb, thank you for your wonderful friendship over the years and I will dearly miss you. Thank you for enriching my life with yours.
Marty Sundby
February 1, 2011
My deepest sympathies for the Dattilio family. Debbie was a wonderful, kind, and funny lady and I enjoyed our times working together at IBM. You're in my thoughts and prayers during this sad time.
Tamas Kaldi
February 1, 2011
Debbie was a great colleague, and a hard fighter... We will miss her very much...
Rebecca Long Johns
January 31, 2011
Dear Aunt Connie and Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. I have many fond memories of summer visits with Debbie. I will forever remember her beautiful smile. Your all in my thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Becky
"When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight." ~Kahlil Gibran
Kathy Long
January 31, 2011
To all Dattilio family and friends,
I am truly sorry for your loss. It has been many, many years since I saw Debbie...heck we were just kids! I remember many summers with you all and have very fond memories of the many good times we shared! My sincere sympathies go out to you all for your loss! I am thankful she no longer feels the physical pain in this life and am sure she will find the joy she gave us all here tenfold in the next! Love to you all, Kathy Long
Phil&Vera Brothers
January 31, 2011
Debbie was like a daughter to us and always welcome in our home.We were proud to hear of her achievements later in life and thought of her often.Our deepest condolences to her family and everyone who loved her.
Phil & Vera Brothers
January 31, 2011
We loved her like a daughter and always welcomed her in our home. We were very happy to read of her successes as an adult.We are deeply sorry for her families and our loss.
Dave Pinhorne
January 31, 2011
My sympathy to the Dattilio family - so sorry to hear of Deb's passing. A lovely colleague, generous and caring in all she did. She is already sorely missed.
Tim and Sue Audette
January 31, 2011
Our deapeast sympathies to the Dattilio family. Debbie was a very nice, sincere person. Tim and I were sorry to hear of your loss.
Joe Giordano
January 31, 2011
I worked with Debbie at IBM in the mid 90's. She had a passion for her work and had few peers when it came to knowledge and work ethic. She was a special person. Debbie was a friend as well as a co-worker. My hearfelt sympathies to her family and friends. It was my pleasure to have had her pass thru my life.
Lois Hansen
January 31, 2011
Dear Connie and family. It is Monday and I just heard of Debbie's passing. I know how hard it has been for you all for such a long time. Debbie is now smiling down on all of us and is pain and worry free. Many blessings to you all as you go through this very difficult time. Love from your friend and cohort, Lois
Debbie McAllister
January 31, 2011
Debbie was a wonderful lady and we look fondly back on the time when we worked in IT area @ IBM in Essex. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family during this difficult time.
Glen & Debbie McAllister
Nicole Higginbotham
January 31, 2011
God Bless All Of The Dattilio Family. Jeffrey let me know about your loss. I am so sorry to hear bout Debbie, Jeffrey told how nice a person she was. You are in my prayer & thoughts during this sad time.
Nicole Higginbotham
( I am engaged to Jeffrey Claude Danis)

My visit with Debbie, Jan 10, 2011
Bo Alvarez
January 31, 2011
Dear Connie and Family.
I am glad I met you and your family while visiting there. Debbie was special to me. Not only because we share a common disease, cancer, but also she was instrumental in my growth as an auditor. She was fun to travel around with and would surely miss her.
Our prayers go to you and your family.
Sincerly...Bo
Stacey Smith
January 31, 2011
Our thoughts are with you during this difficult time, love Stacey, Curt, Sharron and girls.
Stacey Smith
January 31, 2011
Our thoughts are with you during this difficult time, love Stacey, Curt, Sharron and girls.
January 31, 2011
Our thoughts are with you during this difficult time, love Stacey, Curt, Sharron and girls.
Deb Bergeron
January 31, 2011
Mark,
I am so very sorry for your loss.
Sincerest sympathies,
Peter Kurth
January 31, 2011
I went to BHS with Debbie and will always remember her fondly.
Roxanne Halverson
January 31, 2011
I had the priviledge to know Debbie and work with her at IBM. She was a cracker jack auditor and a standout for sure. My hearfelt sympathies to family and friends. It was a honor and delight to know her.
John & Cathy PUTZIER
January 31, 2011
“To the Dattilio family, please accept our deepest sympathies. Our thoughts and prayers go out to each and everyone of you.”
John & Cathy Putzier
January 31, 2011
“To the Dattilio family, please accept our deepest sympathies. Our thoughts and prayers go out to each and everyone of you.”
Moe and Jean Brown
January 31, 2011
Connie and family,
Moe and I go back many years with the Datillio Family and can remember Debrorah as a beautiful little girl.
May your fond and pleasant memories help you through these difficult days.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Moe and Jean Brown
January 30, 2011
VINNIE AND SALLY,
WE SEND OUR LOVE AND SYMPATHY TO YOU AND
YOUR FAMILY. WE ARE SORRY WE COULD NOT
COME TO BE WITH YOU BUT CONSIDER ALL OF
YOU HUGGED AND LOVED BY YOUR FAMILY IN
MICHIGAN. BS AND BBIL
January 30, 2011
Dear Mary and Frank,
So deeply sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and all of your family at this sad time.
Ann Dewyea and family (Essex Jct., Vt.)
Jeffrey Danis
January 30, 2011
God Bless Debbie Dattilio & All Her Family During This Time Of Loss.
Jeffrey Claude Danis
Jeffrey Danis
January 30, 2011
Dear Dattilio Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. I met Debbie when she was in the hospital & was getting well & gave her communion. Debbie was a very warm,kind & happy person. Debbie will be dearly missed. Debbie is now in Heaven with God,Jesus & our family & friends who have gone before us & she will no longer have to endure anymore suffering. Debbie now gets to be part of the celebration in heaven with Jesus & God & enjoy the resurection of our Lord. Debbie will always be watching over us. God Bless Debbie's mom,dad,brothers & sisters,aunts & uncles,cousins,nephews & nieces everyday.
Jeffrey Claude Danis
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