DAVID MACOMBER ASHLEY

DAVID MACOMBER ASHLEY obituary, Westford, VT

DAVID MACOMBER ASHLEY

DAVID ASHLEY Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jan. 25, 2013.
DAVID MACOMBER ASHLEY - WESTFORD - David Macomber Ashley, 76, died unexpectedly Wednesday evening, Jan. 23, 2013. David was born in Taunton, Mass., on May 13, 1936, the son of Herbert Macomber and Clara Frances (Munroe) Ashley. He graduated from Dighton High School as a Junior, and enrolled at Yale University where he received his undergraduate degree in 1956 and his Architectural Degree from Yale University Architectural School in 1958. On June 16, 1956, he married Sandra Wiggin in Hamilton, Mass. He had worked as an Architect at Freeman French Freeman for 53 years, retiring on his birthday in 2011. Dave was very active and enjoyed hiking, skiing, gardening, puzzles, singing, playing the piano, and bass horn. He also was director of the Bells of St. James, a member of the St. James Choir, the VT Choral Union, Salvation Army Advisory Board, Westford/Fairfax/Fletcher Band, Enosburg Town Band, Sterling Weed's Imperial Orchestra and the Mad Bavarians. David is survived by his loving wife of over 56 years, Sandra Ashley of Westford; their children, Eric Kimball Ashley and wife, Lisa Limoge, of Lyons, Colo., Stuart Chase Ashley and wife, Christina, of Westford, Elizabeth Ashley O'Connor and husband, Timothy, of Lafayette, Colo., Cynthia Ashley Shepard and husband, Gerald H. Shepard Jr., of Grand Isle, and Jonathan Briggs Ashley and wife, Janelle, of Whiting; grandchildren, Gabe, Travis, Lauren, Martine, Katie, Matthew, Hannah, Ben, Julia, Nicholas, Jacob, Wyatt, Silas, David and Jarrod; great-grandson, Brayden; sister, Jean Harmon and husband, Robert, of Berkley, Mass.; and several nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his parents; and brother, Charles. A funeral service will be held at the St. James Episcopal Church in Essex Junction on Monday, Jan. 28, 2013, at 10 am. Visiting hours will be on Sunday, Jan. 27, 2013, from 4 to 7 p.m., in the Minor Funeral and Cremation Center in Milton. Online condolences may be made to www.minorfh.com. For those who wish, memorials may be made to the Vermont Respite House, 99 Allen Brook Drive, Williston, VT 05495.

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February 15, 2013

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February 1, 2013

Linda Ashley posted to the memorial.

February 1, 2013

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February 15, 2013

Dear Sandra and family,

We were shocked and saddened to receive your note about Dave's passing. He will be sadly missed by all of his DWM friends. Our outings will never be the same without him. We extend our very deepest sympathies to you and the family. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Hugs, Cathy & Bud

Linda Ashley

February 1, 2013

Stuart,

I just happened to check out the Burlington Free Press and am shocked and saddened by the passing of your Dad. He was a wonderful person, always very entertaining and fun. I have fond memories of cross country skiing in the woods behind the houses, the hikes up Mount Mansfield and playing trivial pursuit. And the haircuts and beardtrims on Mother's Day.
May you and yours find comfort in knowing that he led a wonderful life.
With Sympathy and Love, Linda

February 1, 2013

Dear Sandra and Family, David enriched my life for 30 years in the Choral Union, Wintergreen, rehearsals, our trip to England and France, and bell ringing! I shall always think of him as a superb musician! Please know that your loss is everyone's - our prayers are with you. Judith and Don Hillman

David, Nick, & Sandra

Cindy Shepard

February 1, 2013

Cindy, David, Sandra, Jacob, Wyatt, & Silas

Cindy Shepard

February 1, 2013

January 31, 2013

Sandra and family - We were saddened to learn
of David's passing. It was such a pleasure to see and talk with him, whether at town meeting or Tuba Christmas, and he will be greatly missed! Please know we are thinking
of you all and send our love and sympathy.
Kathy and all the Stebbins

January 30, 2013

My thoughts are with you. David will be deeply missed in the musical world.
My deepest condolences.

Joanne Scott

January 28, 2013

Dear Mrs. Ashely and family. Dave and I were saddened to hear of David's passing. He was such a supporter of ours during out appointment in Burlington. His love for the Salvation Army and our mission was amazing. He was always willing to go the extra mile to assist us in some difficult situation.
Praying for you all during this difficult time. So sorry for your loss.
God Bless you and know we are lifting you in prayer.
Sincerely
Major David & Karin Dickson

David, Wyatt, & Sandra

cindy shepard

January 28, 2013

Sandra & David

Cindy Shepard

January 28, 2013

Sara (Machia) Hurtubise

January 27, 2013

Cindy and family, my thoughts are with you and your family at this very difficult time. Wishing you strength and peace in the days ahead.

Betzi Sheperd

January 27, 2013

Dear Mrs. Ashley and to all the Ashley family,
I worked with Dave a bit when directing and playing with the Enosburg Town Band, and was so sorry to hear of his passing. Such a nice man, and I know music meant so much to him. My sympathy goes out to you. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Gary Moreau

January 27, 2013

Sandra and family,
I was saddened by the news of David's passing. For many years I worked in the Choral Union as a fellow singer and later as director. David's sense of humor and wit often entertained me and so many others. I pray that the time ahead may be comforted by your great memories and support of friends and each other. Please assured of the thoughts and prayers of both Lynn and I.

January 27, 2013

David and I worked together for 7 yrs. at F.F.F. I can still feel his laughter. His kind heart and determination for excellence will always be remembered. God bless you and your family during this time. With sympathy and prayers - Colleen Leonard-Nichols

David & Sandra Ashley, Darlene & Jerry Shepard, and Jacob Shepard

January 26, 2013

Dale & Lauri Fisher

January 26, 2013

Stuart and family- sending you the deepest sympathy during this difficult time.

Carroll Lawes

January 26, 2013

Sandra, Dave and I worked together for 7 years at FFF back in the 60's. He was a great teacher to this young structural engineer. He also got me into running---never could keep up with him! Had many a laugh and never a cross word. Great guy for whom I had the most respect. My condolences to you and your family. Carroll Lawes

Ron Russotti Family

January 26, 2013

Ashley families, we send our condolences, thoughts and prayers out to you on the passing of David.

January 26, 2013

Sandra, You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers at this sad time.
Your Alpha Delta Kappa Sisters

January 26, 2013

Sandy - Judy emailed me to tell about David. So sorry for your great loss. May lots of happy memories help you through this difficult time. Love, Natalie (Stone) Connolly
Hamilton, MA

January 25, 2013

Dear Sandra and all the Ashley Family, John and I were so sad to hear about David's passing. Sandra, you and David have always been an inspiration to us....your wonderful family and loving relationship. David's memory will live on in his beautiful children, grandchildren and great grandchild. Our thoughts are with you during this sad time. Berney and John Skutel

Del Drew

January 25, 2013

To Jon and your whole family, I was sorry to hear of your Dad's passing. I can remember him bringing you and I to Boy Scouts in Essex. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Don and Sue Foss

January 25, 2013

So sorry to hear about David's passing. Don and I wanted to let you know you you are in our thoughts at this time. Don and Sue Foss

Priscilla Reed

January 25, 2013

To David's family:
I sang in Choral Union for many years and always loved being around David. He had such zest for life and loved his music and friends. I haven't seen him in a few years, but always think about his dancing and beard around Christmastime when we would do the Carol Dinners.
My thoughts are with you.

peg checchi

January 25, 2013

I was just so sad to hear about this! All of my thoughts are with you. May you find some peace in the coming days.

All of our love, Peg, Pierre & family

Margie Cain

January 25, 2013

To Mrs. Ashley and the rest of the family - My thoughts and prayers are with you. David was such a wonderful person. I had so much fun over the years playing in different bands with him. I will miss his presence. My deepest condolences.

Patrick Haller

January 25, 2013

We are so sorry and we extend to the entire family our condolences. We will miss David very much.

Sally Howe

January 25, 2013

Dear Sandra and family: I was so shocked to read of David's passing in the paper this morning. I saw him less than a month ago at our Beethoven's 9th rehearsal. I was happy to see him still singing, and as he told me, skiing. He helped inspire my running so many years ago in Westford.

My condolences to you and your family. This must be such a shock.

Fondly,

Sally Howe (Pollak)

January 25, 2013

Dear Sandra and Ashley Family,

I spent most of the day, yesterday, thinking of all of you and the suddenness of David's passing. We shared some tears and fond memories last night at choir, and clearly, David's absence was felt.

Bless you all. Carol Gross

January 25, 2013

Dear Ashley Family,
David was a wonderful, caring, generous man. We will miss him dearly. Our prayers go out to your family. May the Lord bless you and comfort you through these days.
Sincerely,
The Salvation Army Advisory Board

Deb Sawyer Jorschick

January 25, 2013

To Mrs. Ashley and Family, Our thougthts and prayers are with you and your family. I enjoyed seeing Mr. Ashley daily at the Westford School yard walking the dog. The Jorschick family is thinking of you all. Love, Deb and John

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