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Richard Settlemire Obituary

Richard Settlemire
Richard D. Settlemire "Mayor Dick," 56, of Mars died Saturday at his home, after an illness.
Born in Pittsburgh on Sept. 11, 1956, he was the son of R. Elaine Henry Settlemire of Mars and the late G. Dale Settlemire.
He was a member of the Crestview United Presbyterian Church, Callery. He also was a member of the John E. Mair Lodge 729 F&AM and a social member of the Mars VFW Post 7505.
He was mayor of Mars for many years and retired as sales manager from Westmoreland Supply in Hampton.
Surviving are his wife, Kathy Ross Settlemire, who he married Dec. 16, 1978; his mother of Mars; two sons, R. Grant Settlemire and his wife, Stefanie, of Evans City and Eric M. Settlemire of Mars; one brother, Scott D. Settlemire of Grosse Pointe Farm, Mich.; a sister, Toni K. Taylor of Pittsburgh; and three grandchildren, Dylan, Lexie and Lily.
SETTLEMIRE - Friends of Richard D. Settlemire "Mayor Dick," who died Saturday, Oct. 20, 2012, will be received at the McDonald-Aeberli Funeral Home, 238 Crowe Ave., Mars, from 7 to 9 p.m. today and from 2 to 4 and 7 to 9 p.m. Tuesday.
The service will be in the Crestview United Presbyterian Church, 210 Kline Ave., Callery, at 11 a.m. Wednesday with the Rev. Robert Goossen, pastor, officiating. Burial will be in Mars Cemetery, Adams Township.
Memorial donations may be made to Family Hospice.
Directions and condolences available at www.mcdonald-aeberli.com.

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Published by Butler Eagle on Oct. 22, 2012.

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Jessica Stambaugh

October 30, 2012

Eric, Grant, and Kathy my deepest regrets for your loss, Mayor Dick was a great man. Although I have not been around in awhile I will always remember the times spent with him and all of you, I am sure your hearts are aching. I was not able to make it to give my condolences, because of my own loss of my Father, but I struggled with letting you know your not alone. As cliche as it is if you need anything please let me know, even if it is just to talk, having someone who knows what it feels like makes it better. Rest In Peace Dick

Montgomery Moody

October 30, 2012

To all of the Settlemire Family I wanted to express my sympathies for your loss. Dick was truly someone you "wanted" to know and I was fortunate to know him and share many laughs and great times in my younger days. I know he is still presiding over all of us from another place and entertaining the Angels. God Bless.

Nancy Nalepa

October 27, 2012

Elaine, Scott and family; My deepest sympathy in the loss of your son, brother, husband and father.

October 26, 2012

Kathy,
We are so sorry for your loss. Dick made such a huge positive impression on our son Ronnie, and Tony still tells the story of the Mars city tour he gave us. He was such an entertaining man, and will be missed by so many. You have our condolences and prayers, blessing to you and your family.
Rachel, Tony and Ronnie Flow (Amy's sister in lawO

Matthew Gogolin

October 25, 2012

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Gary Kelley

October 24, 2012

My deepest sympathies to the Settlemire Family. I knew Dick for a lot of years and when our paths would cross, which wasn't often, he always would remember your name and pick up just like he seen you yesterday. Rest in Peace Dick.

Lee Rindfuss

October 24, 2012

I was so sad when I heard about Dick's passing. While I have not seen him in many years, I can't help but remember his sense of humor, the smile, his baritone voice, and his huge and kind heart. As a younger family friend, I felt so privileged to wear his hand-me-down school cloths. I always felt that wearing his bellbottom jeans (huge bells) and the coolest shirts placed me a few notches up the cool scale. I will be forever grateful for the college funding he worked painstakingly to secure for me after my dad died. I would not have been able to complete my degree without him. My prayers and condolence to Elaine, Scott and Dick's family.

October 24, 2012

Kathy Sorry to here about Mayer Dicks passing He will be deeply missed my thouts and prayers go out to you and your family. We have lost another great person way to young!! Dick was a one of akind person he made everybody laugh when he was around with his jokes and stories you couldnt help but love him.May you RIP MAYER DICK.

October 23, 2012

RIP Mayor Dick... What a fantastic man he was!

Michael and Maria (Wegemer) Kletzli

October 23, 2012

Dear Settlemire Family,
We were classmates of Dick's, Mars Class of '75, and neither of us can ever remember Dick being anything but kind to all, with a smile readily available to share with everyone he encountered. What a wonderful person, and sad loss to the entire community! God bless all of you, and may your sadness be soften with the thought of him spreading joy in Heaven and waiting to be with you again. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Galadriel Grace

October 23, 2012

Deepest sympathies to Grant and family. I remember Mr. Settlemire being a fun dad and a great guy from the time I met Grant early on in school and we became friends. Blessings to you all.

randy stadnik

October 23, 2012

they broke the mold after they made dick. what a truly funny and heartwarming man he was,always there with a smile and a laugh.a great storyteller is always missed.my condolences to the whole family and the community, we've lost one of the better ones.anyways , i'll be hoisting a few cold ones in your honor,my friend, whether its p.c. or not!

Deb Fiel

October 23, 2012

So sorry to hear of Dick's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Heather Marburger

October 23, 2012

Dick was a good man and always made me laugh when i saw him. He will be missed. Our condolences to the Settlemire family.

Jerry Lang

October 23, 2012

Im so sorry to hear of your loss. Dick and I worked together in the paint bus. at Masterwork He was a great friend and a lot of fun to be around. His crazy antics always kept me on my toes

Dick Weinzetl

October 23, 2012

Settlemire Family : Please accept my deepest sympathies in your loss of Dick.
I met Dick many years ago and found him to be a true "Gentleman" .
Dick Weinzetl ,Ret.L.C.B.

October 22, 2012

October 22, 2012

Randa Clark DiMaria

October 22, 2012

So sorry to hear of Dick's passing.My sympathy to his wife and family. Mr. Settlemire was the consummate gentleman. He truly cared for his community and he will be greatly missed.

joanne

October 22, 2012

Our family too was shocked and deeply saddened to hear of Dicks passing.I will always remember the last time I saw Dick...he tried to help me out when someone got nasty. If you knew him at all you know he was that way..would help anyone anytime... Shared many laughs with him, if Dick was in the room you better be ready for some serious laughter. Condolences to the family. Dick will be missed by so many....

Ann (Wharton) Weber

October 22, 2012

My sympathies go out to the entire Settlemire family. I was shocked to hear of his passing. I will say prayers for you all.

Julie Park

October 22, 2012

Elaine,Scott and Family, My special thoughts and prayers are with all of you now more than ever. I'm so sorry for your loss.

Jerry (Doc) Purvis

October 22, 2012

I'm sorry to hear about Dick passing we had alot of good times growing up & talking about old times. My condolences to your family.

Evelyn (Dudzinski) Griffis

October 22, 2012

Went to school with Dick. RIP May God be with your family left behind.

Dave and Marie Reynolds

October 22, 2012

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Joy hart

October 22, 2012

We all know he is in a better place. That is hard to say and even harder to believe, but some day, you will believe. My deepest sympathies to Elaine, Scott, Kathy and his sons.

Jimmy & Suzie Campbell Family

October 22, 2012

Heartfelt sympathies to Kathy, Grant, Eric, and Mom Settlemire. You will all be in our Thoughts and Prayers at this difficult time. Dick was a great guy and I will always remember him fondly.

Tammy

October 22, 2012

To all of the Settlemire family, Please know are hearts and prayers are with all of you. God Bless,ove you.

Jan Keys

October 22, 2012

I was in shock when I was sent the message that Dick has passed. He was a great guy. I remember sitting with him at "Matchtu" at Glade Run Lake and talking. He will be missed by so many. My condolences to the family.

Jill Welsh

October 22, 2012

Dick was a huge help when I hosted Letterheads on Mars. He became an official "Letterhead" that weekend. He was also a great help to me any time I needed a special color of paint mixed. I will miss him.

Janet Lamb

October 21, 2012

My sincerest sympathies to the Settlemire family. Fun next door neighbors when we were kids; I saw Dick the last time I was in Mars and he was as funny as gracious as ever. He will be missed

Micki Fetterhoff

October 21, 2012

I waited on him many times at Foodland which is now Shop n Save

Jen, Chris, Dei & Ari Swearman

October 21, 2012

Grant and family--you are in our thoughts and prayers.

October 21, 2012

Dick and I were childhood buds. We went to Adams township elementary together. We drove old lady Marburger crazy with our pranks. We buried a time capsule when we both moved from Callery. We hung out when I came back for visits. The miles and the years kept us apart. We never lost the bond we had. I saw him earlier this year for the first in along time and it was like we had seen each other yesterday. There are things in life that always make you feel good inside. Thinking of Dick always gives me the warm fuzzies. I will miss you. Love you Dick, Craig Raley.

Ronald Brown

October 21, 2012

My deepest condolences to all the family. Dick was a good and loyal friend. I have good memories of a lot of good times together more than forty years ago.

Anonymous

October 21, 2012

A sad, sad loss. My deepest, most heartfelt condolences to the family.

Howard and Michelle Bender and family

October 21, 2012

Prayers and condolences to the family and friends.

Jeannie Bruce

October 21, 2012

Mayor Dicks Smiling face will be sorely missed. No matter how crappy a day I was having he could always make me feel better. Love you Dick, RIP

Bill Vilk

October 21, 2012

My deepest sympathy to all the family. I hold many youthful memories of having Richard as a friend growing up.

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