Michael Starker

Michael Starker

Michael Starker Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from May 14 to May 15, 2008.
STARKER _ Michael Gunter February 16, 1972 - May 6, 2008 On May 6, 2008 Cpl. Mike Starker of 15 (Edmonton) Field Ambulance was killed in action in Afghanistan at the age of 36. Mike will be forever loved and missed by his adoring wife of ten years Nicole; loving parents Helen and Gunter Starker and proud sister Carolyn (Grant) Straub all of Calgary; grandmother Stephanie Wasiutek (Strasbourg, France) and uncle Wasyl Wasiutek (Breitenbach, France); mother-in-law Jane (and the late Ray) Seguin and brother-in-law Raymond (Laura) Seguin of Windsor, ON. He is predeceased by grandmother Gertrude Szelei (Calgary). Mike will be fondly remembered by his nieces Sarah, Katie and Serene; nephew Ray and godson James; many cousins in Calgary, Germany and France along with countless other family, friends and members of his military and Emergency Medical Services families. During his military career, Mike served in the Calgary Highlanders, PPCLI, Canadian Airborne Regiment and 15 (Edmonton) Field Ambulance. He gave his life while completing his third tour of duty as a Canadian soldier. A valued member of Calgary EMS since 2005, he loved being a paramedic. He enjoyed taking care of others. Mike will long be remembered for his leadership, compassion, sense of humour and fun-loving nature as well as his great capacity to love and be loved by those around him. Our heartfelt gratitude goes out to 15 (Edmonton) Field Ambulance (especially Second-Lieutenant Terry Larson) and the wonderful Calgary EMS staff for their unwavering support and assistance. Thank you to Mike's brothers and sisters at arms from both the reserve and regular force communities, Canadian Forces Army leadership, the Calgary Police Service and the Calgary Fire Department for their help and kindness. The family would also like to acknowledge the amazing compassion and empathy from the supporters across Canada. A time of visitation for family and friends will be held at St. Albert the Great Roman Catholic Church, 10 Prestwick Drive S.E., on Thursday May 15, 2008 from 1:00 to 6:00 p.m., followed by Prayers and Eulogy from 7:45 to 10:00 p.m. The public are invited to attend the Roman Catholic Funeral Mass to be held at the Round-Up Centre, Hall D on Friday, May 16, 2008 at 2:00 p.m., with Reverend Kevin Tumback and Reverend Robert Rocheleau, Celebrants. Family and friends are invited to the Interment to follow at Queen's Park Cemetery, Field of Honour. In lieu of flowers donations may be made in Michael's name to the Poppy Fund, No. 1, 4539 - 6 Street N.E., Calgary T2E 3A6 or Operation Christmas Fund, 20 Hopewell Way N.E., Calgary T3J 5H5. Messages of condolence may be forwarded to the family at www.piersons.ca . Arrangements are in care of PIERSON'S FUNERAL SERVICE. Telephone: 235-3602.

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Roger Borchert

November 11, 2016

In thoughts of all those who have given all that could be given for our freedoms, our beliefs, our futures and in thoughts of their families, loved ones, friends and fellow soldiers. Thank You. We Will Remember

Etched in history's past hundred years
Is freedom's struggle forth
As nations stood allied to stand
To stop tyranny's closing doors
So many sons
Lay in far off lands
Never to return
Except in thoughts and memories shared
By their fellow soldiers, families, friends
What touches hearts still beating for
Those who stood that ground
Are those who shared their stories forth
Of a war that turned around
As years passed by
Nations share
A bond that cannot brake
Those who found freedom's door
Opened in their wake
Dear Lord, sons and daughters taught
Their children, of the past
Now years and years
So little's changed
Except the speed the news is passed
Yes war has changed
This past hundred years
As more and more have stood
Fallen near, that brethren strong
Freedom held so dear
I wish my tears could wash away
The reality war has shown
Shown to me, as one who cares
As one who's stood so near
One who allowed the tears to flow
As a mom talked and shared her love
For a fallen one
She held so dear
Now lifted high above
To continue caring, listening
As their daughters chatted so
And let me know
Of a love they held
For a dad who gave his all
His love
For his Nation dear
His all for a world to be
That which he would pass along
To his children strong and free
I stand with fallen angels
Their families, loved ones, friends
I stand with soldier bears who've heard
Over and over and over, again
I love you dad, I love you mom
I wish, you could come home
But now I know you look after me
From where ever angels go

By Roger Borchert For Remembrance Day 2016

My heart goes out to so many families who have shared with me, their journey to overcome such loss. My thanks to Britt and Sarah Stewart of Allan' s Angels Camp for introducing me to your soldier bears and letting me hear your dad say in his own voice good night to you even 3 years after his loss. My journey into 8 years of poetry and caring for the families of our fallen and wounded has taken so much of a bite out of me and left me so proud of our soldiers and their military families; I cannot turn away. Hugs to all: We Will Remember Them.

Roger, Eileen and The Borchert Family Morinville, Alberta

Roger Borchert

December 24, 2015

In thoughts of our fallen, their families, fellow soldiers, loved ones, and friends this Christmas 2015. May you enjoy the beauty, the wonder, and the miracles Christmas lays at our sides and in our hearts.

They stand nearby the window
Looking out through frost and fog
In hopes of seeing that miracle
That brings a loved one close
Their sighs in frosted vapor
Cling to that window pane
And will not melt
Until their heart, allows it to be felt
A moment, a special moment
A gentle thought recalled
Warms a heart
Fills a mind, with love once held so close
Oh Lord, I pray, their angel
Wanders close
Wanders near
For hearts, who held a soldier dear
Would see their loved one near
A child, a wife, a mom, a dad
A brother, sister, fellow soldier, loved one, friend
Would see the vision of one who stood
So proudly for all of them
I pray, Oh Lord, Our Canada
Feels their hearts, shares their tears
And holds them close, near beside
At this special time of year
For it is that time, when hearts break so
When hearts feel so much pain
For those they love
Those who gave
For a better world to save
I pray they view the value
Of the colours that appear
At this time, in Christmas joy
That brings us all so near
A special child
Found in love
For a world, held so dear
Walked among, mortal souls
Allowed a moment near
A moment of a lifetime
Albeit short, standing proud
Never flinched, never swayed
Towards a better world to save
Onward, onward, they have stood
Hold back tyranny or terror
In memory of one who shone
A light of Christmas Cheer
If we could just, but capture
A moment out of time
To share the glow of angels near
As a soldier left behind
All that was so sacred
All that held so dear
All that was the love of life
That held so many near
We would know that there, is more to life
Than each of us can give
It's seen within the window's glow
Through the frost on which it clings
As fond, fond memories melt its cold
And friends, loved ones, do recall
A Soldier as he wandered near
Near for all of us

By Roger Borchert

Wishing you all the Joy and Warmth Christmas has to offer. Know only; we just need to open our hearts to allow its's wonder to appear.

Merry Christmas
The Borchert Family, Morinville, Alberta

Roger Borchert

April 3, 2015

My poem for this Easter 2015

There are times respect
Grasps at the heart
For a gift so far beyond
Incomprehensibly stilled within the minds
Of those who've seen the light
So brightly shone within mind's eye
As real as life can bare
As heroes rode a highway home
Tears welled up within eyes
A nation stood, so near, to show
Their families, loved ones, friends
They weren't alone in sorrow's depth
As their loved ones returned home

On this, such special weekend
As hearts ponder a gift t'was given
To all mankind across our earth
From one who stood divine
A gift to grant a new birth
Believe in me, the message taught
He spread his good across the lands
Followed every step he took
He lived, he died, at the hands
Of those who could not see
The good he shared, the morals taught
The love that came to be
For all mankind forgiveness
For all another chance
For all to see each other
With a mutual respect
To pass along wherever roamed
A foundation of a world to be
He rose again from where entombed
To show, living, is more than life
It is how we live
What we give
During our moment here on earth

For centuries throughout history
There are those who are the beast
Who walk our earth immoral
Defile everything they see
Decimate, exterminate
Terrorize all within their path
Who do not share a vision held
In the mind, the beast has grasped
Easter weekend is about a love
Respect beyond compare
Passed on from one
Who stood, who gave
For a better world to come
Canada was founded
On this love passed along
A nation of mutual tolerance
And respect for all mankind
We are a collage of humanity
Evolved for a world to see
That mankind from a world surround
Can share a nation free
That rise to share this goodness
Stand across a world protect
A gift from those who make it so
Who stand to hold the beast

For all those who have stood, been wounded, or given their lives to foster this goodness across our world, we remain forever in your debt. May you know the light of eternal life shared and celebrated each Easter.

By Roger Borchert

Our hearts, Our tears, Our Prayers
The Borchert Family
Morinville, Alberta

Roger Borchert

December 23, 2014

For the Families of our Canadian Forces who lost a loved one during or due to their service for our nation, Christmas 2014

I have seen the frost the low clouds bring
As it rests on every branch
Glistens forth from each blade of grass
Paints pictures on the glass
Captured for a moment
Till sunshine's glow warms the chill
That froze each thought
The low clouds brought
As they wrapped around the soul
But the glisten, oh that glisten
Its sparkle shining forth
It brings the smiles, then the tears
As Christmas gathers forth
Lord our world is a reality
That spills what life unfolds
And those who've stood, those who gave
Are those we hold so close
Captured in a memory
Of a sibling, daughter, son, mom or dad
Who took that step, held out that hand
In a far off distant land
They took that step for Canada
For a whole wide world protect
And visit now at special times
As if they've never left
They are that sparkle that brings a tear
They are that laughter that brings a smile
They are that warmth now ever held so close
And at Christmas they're always near
Held forever in a heart's belief
Glowing brighter than the stars
That shines in eyes that hold them close
Throughout each Christmas time
Hang that special bulb upon the tree
The one that gleams and glows
That one that holds all Frosty shines
Glistening in the snow
For a special, special son was born
Who stepped forth to change a world
Who shared his life for all mankind
Brought forth hope of eternal life
So many tears at Christmas time
So many found in joy
So many smiles surround the tree
Each blessed Christmas morn

By Roger Borchert

We Will Remember Them. Wishing You All a Very Joyous Christmas and All the Best in the Coming Year
The Borchert Family, Morinville, Alberta

Roger Borchert

December 23, 2014

A thought in Remembrance, 2014. Please Know, We Will Remember Them.

A nation is measured by the hearts that beat
That make up its collective soul
And is witnessed in steps taken forth
As across a world they've roamed
I gathered my thoughts reluctantly
While about, out on a walk
A blustery day, as wind blew by
Leaves falling from the sky
I looked into the heavens
As tears were rolling down
My cheeks a chill, the tears they froze
As at once I realized
The leaves were endless soldiers
Who stood for all and gave
So we might each day have the joy
To walk in freedom's way
To not be hiding who we are
Not worry, to grow old
To not be shuffled to the side
To stand and be so bold
To demand that freedom is the goal
Of our nation standing strong
For founded in the leaves that blow
Are the hearts, the very souls
The torches passed to soldiers
From a brethren strong and free
Who stood and said no more, no more
As tyranny roamed the streets
Of far off lands, now close at home
They stood, they lived, they died
They paid the price of freedom
The price of Canada
For they have stood and given all
On behalf of all of us
A tear is just a moment
A fleeting moment's thought
2 minutes in a year that's passed
For freedom for all of us
2 minutes to remember
Those who lived, those who gave
That we could build a nation strong
Stronger by the day
But only through reflection
In the pool of tears now shed
For those who gave their very all
That we might live the dream they bled
A precious little flower
A poppy just to say
That we remember
Those who stood
In such an honoured way
Please stop for just a moment
A thought, a prayer, a tear
For those who've lost
Those who've stood
Their families, loved ones, friends
Please reflect on what
Life might have brought
If not for all of them

By Roger Borchert

Thank You to all those who have served, serve presently, all of their families, loved ones, and friends who walk so nearby their sides and support them as they step forth on our behalf. A very special Thank You to all those who have shared and lost their loved one in the service or because of their service on behalf of our Canada.

Our hearts, our tears, our prayers
We Will Remember Them
The Borchert Family, Morinville, Alberta

Gail Benjamin

November 6, 2014

Please accept a condolence from a stranger who just read such a nice story about Michael. It's been a few years since he died, but having lost a son as well, I know that no matter how much time has passed, you remember him every day.

Matthew McGuire

June 16, 2014

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Roger Borchert

December 23, 2013

For the families and children of our fallen this Christmas 2013

Colours glowing near a window pain
Shimmer gentle, seen, the sight
Lifting hearts in yuletide's glow
On Christmas Eve, tonight
Let them hear the carols
Sung on high
Sung in hearts so light
Sung with all the love that grew
Sung with all their might
As they gather close
Around their Christmas tree
Recall a life time, shared
Broke into tears, for a life once shared
With a nation
With all of us
Oh Lord our child of Canada
Lost a soldier, Oh So Dear
To a world that needed
A strong, strong heart
To stand, to say, no more
In a world gone so terribly wrong
On behalf of me and you
They stood, they gave, all that they could
Left those they loved behind
We now cherish, the very thought
A thought that's so profound
Hearts have risen high above
As angle's wings do fly
Carrying forth their love so dear
We hold them near to us
Their wives, their children
Their moms, their dads
Their families, loved ones, friends
And those who walked at their sides
On behalf of all of us
As sunshine gathers, sparkles thought
In the snow that's on a tree
May the beauty of the gift they gave
Shine on for you and me
May the warmth of love surround their hearts
Quell the hurt, the pain the loss
May it bring your soldier, mom, or dad
Close to you tonight
May they wrap their loving arms so tight
Hold you close and oh so near
And let you know you're never alone
At this precious time of year
In life, in birth, a special child
Was born on Christmas morn
To bring to you that special chance
To be near to them once more

May the Joy of Christmas warm your hearts and lift your spirits high
Shine the glow that Christmas brings
Close to you tonight

By Roger Borchert
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake/Morinville, Alberta
Our hearts, Our tears, Our prayers, Shared, This Christmas 2013
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Roger Borchert

November 10, 2013

We Will Remember Them. Written for Remembrance Day 2013

For those who've stood at the gates of hell
As battle rages forth
And stood to hold their line, their fate
To lift a new world rising forth
A world in which freedom's hand
Was openly held toward
To those to escape the bonds that bind
To hold them ever more
From the clutches, the beating down
Their spirit and their hearts
Those who held that outstretched hand
To those who needed help
So thankful all a world should be
For they stood for another voice
One that held our hearts, our minds
Standing very close
Freedom is not just a venture forth
It is a way of life
That lends us all, the gift to stand
Go forth for what is right
And allow all those to climb aboard
Who see it in their sight
Oh Lord you gave us choices
Good or evil found in hearts
The two, so very different hold
Our worlds so far apart
Tonight I looked into the coals
Of embers burning bright
And saw the life of those who share
Our nation's glowing light
At first their dreams are smoke and mirrors
Of a life that used to be
And then each soldier rises up
Gives meaning to where they've been
Learning pride, remembrance
From those who've stood before
Those who tossed the torch that holds
Their futures, evermore
So many didn't return back home
They lay where poppies grow
So many others caught their torch
And across our earth they've roamed
Within this new world
They have worked so hard
To help to come about
A world where sons, where daughters, rise
And share a brand new world's spark
Lord love them for they took a stand
And said no more, no more
A message needed
In our world today
As terror knocks on every door
We could never wander very far
From these hearts so warm that said
Our world needs us brave enough
To stand in terror's way
So as you sit around a campfire's light
Look in and see how bright
The glow that warmed those hearts to stand
As they stood for all of us
We can never forget that step they took
We remember those who gave
All they could towards a better world
A better world today

We Thank Them
We Will Remember Them
Strong of heart
Strong in spirit
Glowing heroes to recall each day

By Roger Borchert
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake, Alberta

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brent schriner

June 18, 2013

will be in calgary today with my memorial vehicle canadian Heroes a tribute to the eight medics lost would love to visit with family or friends

Roger Borchert

March 30, 2013

My poem, written for this Easter 2013, in respect of those who have given their very all to bring about a better world on our behalf and in recognition of their families, friends, loved ones and fellow soldiers who miss them so deeply at each Easter Sunday meal. May They R.I.P. We Will Remember Them.

Empty chairs each Easter Sunday
In homes across our land
Tears flowing gently
For each son or daughter
Mom or dad
Who gave a heart to Canada
Stood proud for me and you
Stepped forth to make a difference
In a world, in need, they knew
I've seen comets
I've seen meteors
But what I saw the other night
Was a glowing ball
Streak across the sky
In slow motion, in its flight
It glowed so bright, like mini moon
Its colour just the same
And then in the spirit with which it came
Turned to darkness once again
Overjoyed in what, I had seen
It was not a shooting star
It was a light that lifted high
In the brief moment of its spark
Oh lord, so many soldiers
So young and full of life
Have moved my heart
In this gentle way
As they've stood so far apart
Parted from their families
Parted from their friends
Stood so tall for who we are
Given all that could be given
Now held so close, within the hearts
Of those who miss them so
As bright, as seen, this palm Sunday's eve
Not unlike a story foretold
Of a son who gave his very all
So others would follow
Follow in a dream, a way
That a world would see a light
Of goodness spread across a world
At freedoms dawning sight
Oh Lord be near our soldier
Who also gave a life
For all to see a better world
On behalf of all of us
Lord, I dare not compare your son of life
To our warriors brave and true
I only give this humble voice
Of their efforts, the good, they do
Standing tall
Standing brave
Standing with all you shared
Within their hearts as young they were
To mold them
Brave for you

By Roger Borchert
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake, Alberta
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Roger Borchert

December 23, 2012

For the Families of Our Fallen This Christmas 2012

Angel's feathers falling
To remind us they're up there
Wind chimes sounding gently
To let us know the lord is near
Today is but a lull, in winter's nasty chill
One can see the storm clouds building
Circling, all around us now
We hold so close the warmth that was
To let it not escape
Yet no matter how hard we try
The warmth, it finds the gate
The chill it reaches down inside
Attaches to the spine
Sends shivers climbing through us now
Hearts are frozen held in time
For those who've lost a loved one, friend
Tis all they can endure
A hope, a wish, a prayer, t'would bring
Their loved one home again
Oh Lord their Soldier stood for all
Please warm these hearts so chilled
So they may find the warmth once shared
With this one no longer near
As they look out through the window
Let the moon and stars, shine bright
Let all about, it glisten forth
On this, this special night
Another hero gave his all
The one who led the way
For them to find a life beyond
And faith to find a day
A way to climb a staircase
To the heavens high above
To join a son, a daughter, friend
To be together once more as one
Oh lord you sent your son, our gift
To those who lend a heart
To those who've given all and more
For those life has forgot
We stand so near, so near Oh Lord
In praise, in solitude
Await a time, a time to share
A loved one entrusted unto you

Thank you Lord
Merry Christmas To All
We will Remember Them Until You Meet Again
By Roger Borchert
The Borchert Family Slave Lake, Alberta
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Roger Borchert

November 11, 2012

For Remembrance Day 2012

Flurries of snow across our land
A chilly wind bites at the spine
As we stand for those who stood for all
In far off distant lands
Some recall the void, the pain within
Left in hearts, in minds, in lives
Who were impacted at the loss of those
Their lives never the same again
Friends recall fond memories
Child in tears for a mom or dad
A wife recalls the horror of war
That turned her life, a living hell
A mother or father stands in thought
A loss beyond belief
Of one who was their heart their soul
Since counting tiny toes upon their feet
Fellow soldiers, comrades
Loved ones, friends
In their minds they bring them near
In special thoughts of those they've lost
While fighting over there
We as Canadians
Stand proud, respect
All those who stood for all
Sent from a nation whose open heart
Has provided a world a home
Oh lord my heart so empty
As I stand, two minutes given
Just a moment's time
For the life they gave
On behalf of all of us
I cannot be prouder Canada
I could never turn away
From those who've shared
Their loved one forth
A debt we could not repay
Stand proud, Remember, Oh Canada
For those who stand for us
For their families, friends, and comrades too
For they gave for me and you
We are focused on the flower
Began in fields so far away
An image to be remembered now
On each Remembrance Day

We Who Remember Them
Are forever in their debt
By Roger Borchert
The Borchert Family Slave Lake, AB

ALEX GERVAIS

July 19, 2012

PLEASE CALL ME

Roger Borchert

December 24, 2011

For the Families of Our Fallen, This Christmas 2011

The wind is howling at my doorstep
This eve of Christmas Eve
The trees are bending low its clear
As Christmas day draws near
As I decked the tree this Christmas
I thought of those so brave
Of those who've lost a loved one
Who stepped forth for me and gave
They gave their all for Canada
A gift beyond compare
They stood a world away in time
Where few would tread or dare
So many loved ones share in tears
In thoughts they've left behind
Hugs once held so warm and close
A smile within a mind
The TREE has become so special now
For it holds a life time past
Its sparkling lights a memory's glow
Of a hero once held so near
As garland wrapped the tree in smiles
Those smiles of yesteryears
Those smiles held upon as face
Forever now held near
Each piece of tinsel a frozen tear
Shed at a time of loss
And now reflecting the reason why
For this hero was dearly loved
A true angel tops this Christmas tree
For is seen when looking high
As a loved one lifts their faces near
And a prayer races from a heart
A wish that they were standing near
A wish for laughter's sound
A warmth a hug once use to bring
Remains a memory oh so close
Oh Canada, our heroes gave
Their loved ones hold our hearts
Lord please reach out and hold them close
Please be so near this season forth

By: Roger Borchert
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake, Alberta
Our Thoughts, Our Hearts, Our Prayers
Wishing You All A Wonderful Christmas
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Sabina Amaral

January 26, 2011

To Those I Love and Those Who Loved Me
When I am gone, release me, let me go
I have so many things to see and do,
You mustn’t tie yourself to me with tears,
Be happy that we had many years.
I gave to you my love, you can only guess
How much you gave to me in happiness.
I thank you for the love you have shown,
But now it’s time I travelled on alone.
So grieve awhile for me if grieve you must,
Then let your grief be comforted by trust,
It’s only for a time that we must part,
So bless the memories within your heart.
I won’t be far away, for life goes on,
So, if you need me, call and I will come.
Though you can’t see me or touch me,
I’ll be near.
And if you listen with your heart, you’ll hear,
All my love around you; soft and clear.
And then, when you must come this way alone
I’ll greet you with a smile and say,
“Welcome Home”
-author unknown-

Roger Borchert

December 24, 2010

For the Families, loved ones, friends of or Fallen This Christmas 2010

Looking back, on childhood’s days
When wonder set the sails
And all imagined could come to life
Within thoughts, dreams as they played
When Santa rode a sleigh one eve
In every coming year
And magic taught sweet dreams to fly
To rooftops every where
Now sitting wishing Christmas Eve
Looking off into the night
Pleading for a shooting star
Enhance this wish with all their might
A wish for just a Christmas hug
From a soldier no longer here
No longer in our earthly world
Held close now, within near
The hearts of those who’ve felt such pain
At the loss of a hero’s life
A hero who stepped forth for all
Bring this hero close this night
As tears once more roll down a cheek
Another endless, sleepless night
Let our Lord brush close a warming hug
Of your loved one, bring them near
A gentle breeze, fond memories’ bring
To hold them ever dear

Wishing the magic of Christmas could bring the smiles, the hugs and the warmth of your loved one, into your home for Christmas. Ever in our hearts and always remembered. May our Lord bless you this Christmas and throughout the coming year.

By Roger Borchert
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake Alberta
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Roger Borchert

November 2, 2010

Thinking of all those who have given so much; those who have paid the Ultimate Sacrifice, our Veterans, our serving soldiers, their families, loved ones and friends at this special time of Remembrance, 2010. We Do Remember.

They crawled on their bellies slowly
In the dirt, the dust, the slime,
Ran onto beaches, lived in fear, a moment out of time.
A time that changed a world in need
A time that set apart
Times that held a world so close, near and dear to every heart
The gas they sent, it took its toll
Many others held that ground
And challenged over and over again
Until freedom’s world was found
Liberated nations cheered delight
A world was aimed anew
But for so many who had lost a life
The tears fell hard and true
They stepped forth for their Nation
They stepped forth for a world to be
They stepped forth to chase the evil back
Keep their families safe and free
Through life times of years gone by
Up to this present day
A brethren strong with so much might
Stepped forth for you and me
We owe so much to those who’ve walked
In fear yet oh so strong
So brave in every step they took
So many now are gone
They have challenged life itself each day
And stood for what was right
They did it with their heart and soul
And stood with all their might
Lord love the souls of these so brave
And cherish duty’s call
For they gave all for a better world
On behalf of one and all.
At this time of Remembrance
Into our hearts we welcome those
Who have walked this solemn journey forth
For those who needed a friend along
We recall their families, loved ones, friends,
For so many have paid the price
Of freedom, or for a world in peace
Or to fight terror in another place
Oh Lord we hold their honour high
Our tears have washed the path
For those who take their torch to stand
As to them the torch is passed
Forever near we promise
We will honour these hearts so brave
And stand nearby their families, friends
For the sacrifice they gave

By Roger Borchert,
Our Hearts, Our Tears, Our Prayers
Thank You. The Borchert Family, Slave Lake Alberta
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Sabina Amaral

May 7, 2010

May 6, 2008.

A date no one will ever forget. The day a great friend was taken from us.

We shared in the memory of you tonight. The stories were told and will continue to be.

We hold you tenderly in our hearts, in our souls and always in our prayers.

Never to be forgotten, always spoken of.

David Miles

April 27, 2010

Hey Mike. We're coming to visit you in the the week brother...I'll bring some Pilsner for you. 2 Years later, and it still hits hard. - Miles

henry brenna

April 21, 2010

I Never knew micheal but he must of been one hell of a man ... fighting for our freedom and i cant amagine what his family is goin threw ... i was driving home from work i seen a harley davidson with condolances to michael on it ..and it made me think this man was a Hero an i should research him so i did and i would like to say rest in peace brother ...you were one hell of a man i know it ....

John Kelly

April 18, 2010

My son and I saw a cross on water tank trail (Stony creek, Pa, USA)today, bearing your name. After researching your name on the internet, I explained to my six year old how you were taken from us while fighting for our freeedom.

G

April 7, 2010

Dear Mike, even if I did not know you, not a day goes by without me thinking of you the day you left us. I remember taking care of you with your friend Rob by my side as we where getting ready to put you on the blackhawk helicopter to go to KAF. It was hard. To me you are a hero, a fellow soldier of arms and we will all miss you very much. I keep a picture on my wall of you at home to honor you. Rest in peace Mike, we think of you all the time. We will never forget you!

Roger Borchert

April 3, 2010

As I focus this Easter Sunday
My heart goes out to you
For a Chair is sitting empty
For a Hero Brave and True
Who gave a life for Canada
And a world we should become
A better world for all to share
A better world for everyone

They had raised their eyes in honour
To the Flag that flew above
They had sung its anthem strongly
In their hearts so full of love
It began for them in childhood
And sang out for years to come
At the vision of the Flag above
Onto which their hearts had clung
This special group, a brotherhood
That stepped forth to a country’s call
For them the Flag was calling
Could not turn away this love
For them it was the strongest call
The path that led the way
For they had held it steadfast near
Flying high above each day
And then one sad, so tragic day
The leaf flew from the sky
To wrap and hold them tightly bound
In return for all their love
It warmed their weary bodies
Clung closer to their hearts
And to hearts that shared the pain, their loss
At such a tremendous cost
Wrapped within the hug that flew above
Love’s vision, all their lives
Now carried forth in a country’s love
For their loving sacrifice

By Roger Borchert
They Will Be Remembered
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake, Alberta
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Mike Rude

December 31, 2009

Hey buddy,
You are always on my mind! The good times we shared will never be forgotten. The time in the Airborne was the best time of my life, and it was the time I made the best friends I man could ask for, and that's when i met you. You were a great guy, soldier, friend! Rest easy my friend! YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!

Roger Borchert

December 23, 2009

To the Families of Our Fallen. Thinking of you this Christmas

The tears that fall to a winter’s sky
A loved one looks off into the night
For Christmas Eve is a lonely time
When a loved one is not held tight
We know they would have been here
For their families, for their friends
If they had not given our world the gift
In their service to all mankind
They stepped forth to change a world so wrong
Lift a country from it’s past
To provide a future for those in need
A future to go forth and last
But someone stole this life so strong
The beauty of a thought
Of stepping forth, to stand protect
And the goodness it could have brought
Please fill this void, warm this broken heart
Who looks out upon this eve
Troubled in a thought, a loss
Of someone now so close to thee
Oh lord please place a gentle thought
A memory of a time
When joy would fill this household warm
And keep it there at Christmas time
Let this family know we care so much
They should not be alone
Please help our thoughts be passed along
To warm those within this home
For Christmas is a time to know
That the coming of this child
Provides for all across our earth
To be reunited with that smile
The one that used to hold a hand
Or hold us in a hug
The one for whom we shed these tears
On this cold and lonely night
Please hold them close on Christmas morn
Celebrate the birthday of this child
Who came to bring salvation forth
To reunite them in awhile

By Roger Borchert

We pray oh Lord you stand near this Christmas to warm, to hold these families tight and mend these hearts so torn. Wishing you all the best this Christmas and throughout the coming year.

The Borchert Family, Slave Lake, Alberta
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s a

November 11, 2009

Mike;
Know that we have gathered to honour you, speak of you, and to remember what a good friend you were.

You are always in our hearts and our thoughts.

We are proud to have known you and blessed to have you as a friend.

The black band with your name on it is never taken off. The letters imprinted on it have been worn away.

You have touched our lives.

Thank you for being. We salute you.

s a

November 10, 2009

I received this email from a friend. I think it says everything....

THE FINAL INSPECTION
The soldier stood and faced God,
Which must always come to pass.
He hoped his shoes were shining,
Just as brightly as his brass.
Step forward now, you soldier,
How shall I deal with you ?

Have you always turned the other cheek ?
To My Church have you been true?'
The soldier squared his shoulders and said, 'No, Lord, I guess I ain't. Because those of us who carry guns, Can't always be a saint.

I've had to work most Sundays,
And at times my talk was tough.
And sometimes I've been violent, Because the world is awfully rough. But, I never took a penny,
That wasn't mine to keep...
Though I worked a lot of overtime, When the bills got just too steep.

And I never passed a cry for help, Though at times I shook with fear.
And sometimes, God, forgive me, I've wept unmanly tears.

I know I don't deserve a place,
Among the people here.
They never wanted me around,
Except to calm their fears.

If you've a place for me here, Lord, It needn't be so grand.
I never expected or had too much,
But if you don't, I'll understand.

There was a silence all around the throne,
Where the saints had often trod.
As the soldier waited quietly,
For the judgment of his God.

Author Unknown~
It's the Military, not the reporter, who has given us the freedom of the press.
It's the Military, not the poet, who has given us the freedom of speech. It's the Military, not the politicians, that ensures our right to Life, Liberty and the Pursuit of Happiness.
It's the Military who salutes the flag, who serves beneath the flag, and whose coffin is draped by the flag.

Roger Borchert

November 8, 2009

In Respect of our Military Families, Our Fallen, and Wounded on Remembrance Day

For what we take for granted
So many have died for
So many lives so vastly changed
At the dreadful cost of war
There is the good; there is the bad
A liberated nation cheers
Left in dread for those young souls lost
Devastated a world back home
Efforts to protect a peace
That no one thought was near
Laying lives upon the line
Visions at times so unclear
Lives touched by fear or lived in dread
Of wounded coming home
Of crosses lined in many rows
From a trip down a heroes road
I have been sitting on the bank
Of a river flowing by
Flowing heavy with the flood of tears
From their family’s eyes
For on this day of remembrance
Their thoughts, their dreams, their prayers
Are focused on a loved one lost
Leaving them in such despair
My heart it wants to reach out
Let them know I can’t forget
The gift they’ve laid for their fellow man
Tis the greatest gift to give
So humbled in a moment’s thought
So treasured was the step
That they took forth at their country’s call
Let it never be forgot
We measure freedom lightly now
For we’ve grown so familiar with
But if not for those who took this step
And gave this precious gift
Would we take it so very lightly
Would we have the chance to vent
About all that annoys and bothers us
Without retribution for what we’ve said
So thankful they stood so proudly for
All that we hold so dear
All that makes us Canada
For me it’s oh so clear
For some others they just don’t get it
They think so little of
What has been placed in front of them
At the cost of someone’s love
If I could send forth a message
Place it in a bottle, float it by
I’d provide a note of how much I care
For those whose tears are flowing by
If I could walk along this shore
Such a warming hug I’d give
To those who’ve lost a loved one
So we can live the way we live

By Roger Borchert

So Many gave so much so we could be who we are. So Proud to be Canadian
We will Remember Them

Our Hearts, Our Tears, Our Prayers
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake Alberta
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Broden Boothman

July 28, 2009

I'm fourteen years old. My dad served with him in the 15th field ambulance. There was an unfortunate accident near the end of training so he didn't leave with him but he always spoke highly of him as a friend. We'll miss him

Broden Boothman

July 28, 2009

Im 14, I did not really know him that well but my dad who served with him and his unit always talks about how great of a guy he was. We'll miss him.

sabina a

May 7, 2009

May 6, 2008
A date I know will forever be burned into the souls of many

A wonderful man taken on this day, one year ago...where has the time gone?

We gathered today to honor and remember him, we gathered today to honor a woman...

This man would be proud of her, the strength she shows, the smile she shares, the laughter of what once was

Honored to know her, and blessed to have known you.

You will never be forgotten. You touched us all, and we raise a glass to you.

Rest easy, we will look after her for you.

Roger Borchert

April 8, 2009

Thinking of our Canadian Fallen Soldiers due to our efforts in Afghanistan. For them, their families, friends and fellow soldiers during this Easter Season: this Poem was written with the help of one of their Mothers. For her assistance and inspiration I am so very, very grateful.

We thank you Lord for being near
And for your gifts given unto us
We thank you too for sending forth
Your son’s so gentle touch
He provides our world with caring hearts
Without which we could not love
He gives strength to those who would step forth
In a world hidden but from above
They’ve stepped beneath terrors darkened clouds
Too many whisked away
We pray Oh Lord you gather them
Provide them a new day
Please take them close, near to thee
We entrust them to your care
Let them rest awhile hold them near
And set their spirits free
May they stand proud now
Among their peers
Families, friends, and loved ones too
For in the loving Grace of an angel’s touch
We’re drawn so much closer unto you

Thank you so very much for your efforts and sacrifice towards making our world a better place.

Our tears, our hearts, our prayers
Roger Borchert
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake, Alberta
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sabina amaral

April 2, 2009

Time has gone by, but you are always thought of.

Our family misses you.....

Roger Borchert

December 31, 2008

For the loved ones of Canada’s Fallen Heroes

May the New Year bring
A warmth to thee
That helps to heal the heart
That mends the fracture caused within
That’s torn you apart
May it whisper in your ear at night
That love is standing near
That you will never be alone
A warmth to quell your fear
May it welcome you in mornings’ light
And be near throughout the day
Standing near to comfort you
In a needed special way
May you always know
The time will come
Together you will be
Find in the tear a memory brings
The joy it helped you see

May the lord be near throughout the year, come and help in every day, that it takes for you to overcome this tragedy life did play.

Our Hearts, Our tears, Our Prayers
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake Alberta
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Roger Borchert

December 20, 2008

For the families, loved ones, and friends of Canada’s fallen soldiers: It was written this evening with thoughts of what you and your families are going through at this season and could not hold it back any longer. It is my Christmas gift to you all.

I thank you for wandering near
As you think of where I lie
You think of what I went through
And a tear wells up inside

Let not that tear
Fall for me I’m sitting watching you
For I’m not there at all no more
I’m here inside of you

I’m sitting near within your thoughts
And in your memories
I’m just the thought a gentle breeze
In a gust of memory

I’m the gentle shiver when you are near
I’m the glimmer in your eye
I’m the sparkle that a teardrop brings
When it wells up in your eye

I’m the smile a fond moment brings
I’m the warmth you held so dear
Remember that, as time goes by
And know I’m standing near

As you look upon the Christmas tree
Shinning at this time of year
Know the Lord sent his only son
So that I could be standing near

May our Lord be near you all.

Our hearts and prayers go out to you all during this so difficult time of year. Please know that it comes complete with the glisten of tears held within the eyes of it’s, author Roger Borchert. Thank you so very much for the efforts of your loved one towards making our world a better place

The Borchert Family, Slave Lake Alberta
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Bruce Cleveland

December 11, 2008

I am left humbled by the selfless and endless dedication and commitment that I witnessed being exhibited by our Medical Technicians on Roto 5; a group to which Cpl Starker belonged. To me, these men and women are like guardian angels to our troops on the battlefield when they bring "aid to the soldier." Now, Michael has become our own guardian angel who will be there to watch over us for eternity.

Nathanael

November 14, 2008

hello i am a grade 6 student who wants some info on cpl michael starker for a school project to bless what he has done for us. if you can please send me some information

Roger Borchert

November 6, 2008

In Respect and Remembrance of Our Fallen Warriors, their Mothers, Fathers, Wives, Children, Grandparents, Loved Ones, Friends, Fellow Troops, and all those Canadians whose hearts and tears lay at your side; I submit:

There are no words that I can place here in this registry that could ever justify or explain the loss of your loved one, friend, or fellow soldier. Please know that my family and I cannot stand idly by, without taking a moment, to express how much our hearts go out to you. There is no greater gift towards the future of our country, our world, our humanity, than the efforts and sacrifices made by our Canadian forces towards making our world a better place. Whatever the politics of the day, whatever the leadership of the moment, our selfless warriors have stepped forth to deploy to meet the needs of our changing world, with honour and an integrity that is unrivalled. We as Canadians truly bow and honour your efforts and sacrifice.

We have fallen on fields of battle
In lands so far from home
We have marched to war in honour
For those who’ve felt alone
We have defended those who couldn’t
And stood between the lines
Of two opposing armies
In this new world in our time
We have stood for those who cannot
For those who are oppressed
Standing shoulder to shoulder
To help others do their best
We have held our line with honour
Fury held at bay
Rebuilding a broken nation
To allow all to have a say
Our sons and daughters moms and dads
Stepped forth to make it so
A gift given for a better world
Such a precious gift you know
Our youth in pride have stepped forth
Do this job as best they can
Lay their life upon the line
Each true Canadians
They will not be forgotten
We can never turn away
They have taught the price of giving
In such an honoured way
For where would our world be then
If we just stood by and watched
Could we look ourselves in the eye
And say it wasn’t lost

Our tears. Our thanks. Our prayers.
The Borchert Family, Slave Lake, Alberta
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Roger Borchert

September 22, 2008

Oh lord please hear
Our pain runs deep
At the loss of so many sons
Oh lord be near
To those who wait
The return of those so dear

Oh lord give strength
Help us endure
This foe we’re up against
Oh lord please guide
Our warrior lads
As they stand for those who can’t

Help us provide
A better life
In this your changing world
For those oppressed
And left behind
With no future to be unfurled

In doing so
Please stand near
Mothers, fathers, daughters, and sons
Who’ve lost a loved one
Stepping forth
Your comfort needed to overcome

Let the world know
We’ve stood near
To those who need a friend
For those who need
A helping hand
In a country on the mend

We do, so dearly, thank you all and your loved ones for your efforts towards making our world a better place.

The Borchert Family Slave Lake Alberta

Maureen Mione-Beauchamp

August 11, 2008

Always a hero and in our prayers.

Barry Davidoff

July 24, 2008

Your sacrifice is a reminder to all Canadians of the brave men and women still serving in hostile areas around the world. May your family find peace at this difficult time. In our prayers...

Kyle Dorricott

July 9, 2008

One the most dedicated people to his field I have ever heard of. To work full time as an EMT, and then volunteer to go help out where is was needed, I was in awe when I read about it. As a Medic Trainee I have nothing but the highest respect for Michael. I only hope I can live up to the precedents set by amazing men and woman like him.

Although I did not ever meet him, I know the world is a lesser place without him.

From the bottom of my heart, thank you so much, Rest in Peace my Brother.

Tiffany Rock-Bebbington

June 17, 2008

I didn't know you but I'm thankful for your bravery.

Teresa Pelda (mother-in-law Cpl Jordan Anderson KIA July 20/08)

June 16, 2008

To the Family of Cpl. Michael Starker
My thoughts and prayers are with you as you travel down this difficult road. May your memories help give you comfort.

Katie White

June 11, 2008

Hey,
im doing a english hero project on Michael starker, for my grade 10 english project. i believe that he is a true hero = )

Katie White.

Benjamin Tagseth

June 10, 2008

I am truley humbled at the bravery of our troops and cannot express my gratitude to Cpl. Starker for his sacrifices. My deepest sympathy to his family.

June 8, 2008

Rest in peace, Cpl. Michael Starker. I send my heart out to your loved ones. May God bless them during this hardship.

God bless

Geoff Anderson

June 7, 2008

It's a terrible thing, but our thoughts are with you and your family. You were very brave and I'm sure that you'll leave an unfillable gap in your unit and among your friends.

Debra Stanley, (Paramedic)

June 7, 2008

Mike,

I know I waited until now to talk with you but, to be honest, I just can't believe you are not home safe. I continue to think about you and the wonder at how certain people touch out lives and the impact it has on us. For the first time I can agree on how people talk and remember someone lost in death, and how wonderful and sincere you are. Your wife and family have so much to be proud of as you are the genuine man all describe. I absolutely enjoyed working with you at both Cochrane EMS and Nakoda EMS. I learned much from you as both a Paramedic and most of all as the honest caring man you are. Few people affect me the way you did and will always will, hence the importance of the legacy we choose to leave behind because of our good and honourable life. I sincerely wish your family all the best. I am happy you are well loved and remembered. This is proof that you truly are a good man. Most sincerely, Debra (ps. I got me a Harley too...what a good ride!)

ron&mary miller

June 5, 2008

thank- you so very much

Alex Peterson

June 3, 2008

Thank you Sir. You and every soldier make us all proud.

kirsten spisak

June 2, 2008

As the moon rises up into the night sky your memory is posted in the stars. You were a great parmedic and I was told you were a great friend to those who knew you. You are leaving a huge hole in all those you left behind. Even though I never knew you I see the sadness in fellow workers who knew you and know you will be missed. My thoughts go out to your family and a thought crosses my mind that every time the moon moves into the night sky it is you looking down on all those you knew and protected and helped thought out your career.

The Ritchie Family

June 2, 2008

Thank you for serving Canada. We are all grateful for your courage and we all mourn our loss.
May you rest in peace.

Shawn Silvestri, President CUPE 4911

May 29, 2008

Michael's honourable sacrifice while serving those in need will be remembered. Our condolences to family and friends. On behalf of CUPE 4911 Peterborough Paramedics.

coral turner

May 25, 2008

God Bless You Michael. May God lift up your family and hold them all in comfort and love. Your loss is unimaginable, there are a great many people praying for all of you.
Thank You.

May 25, 2008

Love and prayers to all -From Cupe local 2094, Seaview Manor, Glace Bay

May 24, 2008

The Sisters and Brothers of CUPE 1999 send their deepest sympathy to the family of Brother Starker.

Dena Roud

May 24, 2008

Thank you for serving your country and making a difference in Afganistan.

Your courage and strength will never be forgotten.

My prayers and thoughts are with your family.

May you rest in peace Michael

gem dirk & family

May 23, 2008

We share your grief for one of Canada's heros.

Sharon Mannering Secretary, CUPE 4222

May 20, 2008

The Sisters and Brothers of CUPE 4222 send their deepest sympathy to the family of Brother Starker.

Brother Starker gave the ultimate sacrifice for his country and for that we are grateful.

Heather Howell

May 20, 2008

Dear Nicole, Jane and the Starker Family,

My deepest sympathy at this time. It sounds like Mike was a wonderful guy and he will be greatly missed.

Deb Magson

May 20, 2008

Dear Starker Family,

I am a 34 year old City worker. My common-law husband was an infantry member of Princess Patricia's Canadian Light Infantry (PPCLI). I shared the same building as your son. Each day I walk past his picture. I clearly remember the day that picture was posted. I remember because I walked by and said thank you to the two men in that picture. I remember because the same feelings I had with my husband came flooding back. Feelings of pride, of strength, of fear, of love and of gratitude. I remember thinking how strong, brave and handsome they both looked. I remember feeling that I too should be standing with these men. That I too should be standing up for the right to freedom, safety, and health as these men were. Each and every day that I have walked into this building I have looked at that picture, with both a sense of awe and appreciation.

My words can not begin to touch the loss and pain your family is experiencing. However I wanted to take the time to tell you that you are thought of. That I pray for Michael's soul; and for the grieving hearts of your family. I wanted you to know that many of us, here at the City, in Calgary, in Canada and in war torn areas of the world bow our heads in thanks and tremendous grief for the loss of Michael's life. I wanted you to know how very much I appreciate what Michael stood for and that he stood for me and my family. I am so proud of the honour and strength the men and women, like Michael, exhibit in the constant threat of terror.

I don't believe a family ever truly heals when they lose a member in the line of duty. I believe this loss echos through the family, through our military family and into the civilian community. I know the loss of Michael will echo in our hearts forever.

Michael, thank you for your ultimate gift and sacrifice.

Danniel J. Lennax

May 19, 2008

To the Starker Family,

My heart feels your pain and the sorrow you're going through. May your greif be only as long as you need it to be...and your strength give you the will to continue.

This is just something I wrote and now it seems as though it was written for the men and women who are not returning home.

I hope you enjoy it.


"THEY"

They stand up for us every day,
And we don't know their names.
To most they are just uniforms,
And they all look the same.

They stand on guard for country,
And defend the way we live.
These men and women chosen,
Called upon to give.

To those who know the sacrifices,
These soldiers face each day.
To us they are our heroes,
God protect them, this we pray.

They face the unknown enemy,
With bravery and pride.
They deal with situations,
Where most would run and hide.

Seeing things they wish they hadn't,
Their courage gets them thru.
These soldiers who stand up for us,
Doing the deeds they have to do.

To those who know the sacrifices,
The challenges, the pain.
We know some will be taken,
And not come home again.

Danniel J. Lennax

Sgt Derek McLagan

May 19, 2008

Mike you are what the Canadian Soldier is all about. Your comrades will carry on the with the job that we all came over here to do. Your sacrifice will never be forgotten. I was proud to have known and served with you. My heart goes out to your family.

Gary and Carrie Rung

May 18, 2008

Although we never met you we thank you for your greatest sacrifice. We will keep you all in our hearts and prayers as well as all of Canada's forces fighting for and keeping the peace for the rest of us at home.
Captain Gary Rung (ret.) and Carrie Rung

Sister Anne Rektor. SSND

May 17, 2008

Dear Mrs. Starker...Nicole and
Parents of Michael...The Starkers
and also Nicole's Parents and all
members of this grieving family....
My prayers, thoughts and condolences are forwarded to you in
this book to tell you how much I
learnt from hearing your Uncle
Priest's homily, Nicole. During his reflections about your
beloved spouse, whom you married in 2007....it was as though I came to know him and the many gifts he possessed and shared so generously with all with
whom he shared life and also with those to whom he ministered in health issues....He sounded like a very brave soldier and indeed he was...he gave his life
for the good of a nation....Jesus gave His life for us all....May that giving...that self-giving and supreme sacrifice of Michael's life become a very special blessing in your lives as you ponder how faithful and good Michael was. May he now be rejoicing in the heart of heaven. May joy, peace and
true freedom be his and may Our Faithful God grant him that Eternal Peace for which he gave his life........God bless and keep you all and His healing peace be yours too.
Sincerely in Christ...Sister Anne Rektor, SSND

angie lowerison

May 17, 2008

I just got back from your funeral. It was beautiful and well executed. So many people showed up. There were stories to be told, and laughter to be had. We did you proud. At times I just sat, sat around the room and watched. Watched as the boys we haven't seen for years gathered together witout missing a beat. There were stories to be had, with booze to be drunk...we were strong, just like you would expect us to be. Every now and then someone would break down with the agonizing pain of reality. Wow, we will never see you smile again, never be the brunt of your sarcasim, never feel the heat you exuded from your presence...You are gone...Huge reality check! If I never hear those bagpipes again, it will be too soon. You were loved, loved by many, and now, you will be oue toast. Toast to the good times, and memories shared...Life is unpredictible, yet so cruel. How can one man who touched so many lives be summed up by a tap on the table and a cheers of the drink....But that is all we have left, is the memories and the protocol...You will be sadly missed, and respectfully honoured always. RIP

R. & S. Galley

May 17, 2008

To the family of Cpl. Michael Starker, Our condolences to you all. We knew Michael for only a brief time more than a decade ago. One didn't have to speak with him for very long without coming to the quick realization he was truly a great guy. He really left a lasting impression. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this very sad time.

Victoria Kravec

May 17, 2008

You will never be forgotten. You have been an inspiration to me since the days of Nakiska and especially the day I was your patient. Your bravery, kindness, and selflessness are qualities that we should all strive to achieve. My deepest sympathies to the Starker Family in your time of loss

Seth THOMAS

May 17, 2008

Mike, take care brother... To family left behind I wish you strength in this terrible time, and mostly strength to heal.

sabina amaral

May 17, 2008

Deares Nicole and Family;

I or should I say we attended your funeral Mike. Wow! To see your life, flash before our eyes, an open door to who you were, was truly amazing.

As I looked around the hall, I could tell that you have touched the lives of everyone. From soldiers to policemen, bikers to civilians, you certainly left your mark on all of us.

I cried for you, I wept for your parents. I sobbed for Nicole, so full of grace, strength and humility.

Not only are you a hero, but I as an ex-military wife saw another hero within our midst. Nicole.

You would have been proud of her Mike. Her dignity, courage and strength helped all of us get through this terrible time.

I myself learned so much from that sweet Nicole. I am proud to have known you, but am equally as proud to say that Nicole is my friend.

To Gunter and Helen: Thank you for sharing your son with the world, but especially thank you for you. For it was you that created this fine man, he has the strength and dignity from you both.

To the McGonigall family: I had the priviledge of meeting Mike's 2nd parents. You are equally as special. Not only did you welcome and love Mike and Nicole, but he was one of your own. Thank you for taking care of him.

To all of Nicole and Mike's family: I sit here today, thinking of the past few days, and just need to say this. God has a special place for people like you. Without you, there would be no Mike. Without ever having known Mike, we would never had gotten the chance to know you.

God Bless.

Trina Adams (Akkerman)

May 17, 2008

Helen and Gunter
So sorry for your loss . There is no greater gift then a child. Please except my deepest regrets .
Trina & Jack Adams

Billy and Katherine Herchuk

May 17, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers go out to the Starker family. Cpl. Starker was truly a Canadian Hero. Goodbye Michael and God Bless

Simon Savage

May 17, 2008

Mike I knew you through Alex and Gord. We would see each other at events like Cory's spring BBQ. In time I would learn to Like and admire you. I was truly blessed to have known you. I will always thank Alex and Gord for that.

Johnston Family

May 17, 2008

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived.

Claude Venne

May 16, 2008

Dear Starker Family and friends.

On behalf of all My brothers and sisters of CUPE Local 4698 Renfrew County Paramedic Services.

We are all Sorry for your loss our hearts our with you.

Brad and Dayna Bowen

May 16, 2008

Nicole,

Mike would be proud of your grace and dignity in a time of such tremendous grief. You did an honourable thing in allowing all Canadians to share in your grief and to honour Mike's memory and commitment to making the world a safer place. May the pain in your heart gradually be replaced with warm memories.

Graham & Becky Coulter

May 16, 2008

Thank You Mike for making this a safer country for us and all of our children (Renie, Little Ray, Chad and Heidi). We will miss you in Amherstburg. We are so thankful to have met you. Nicole, we are thinking of you, we feel sorrow for your loss and we thank you for the sacrifices you have made for our country. If it wasn't for strong wives like you we would not be where we are today. We will see you later.

Michael Johnson

May 16, 2008

Thank you for your sacrifice and may you rest in peace. Deepest sympathies to your family.

Tamara Harder (Boudreau)

May 16, 2008

Dear Starker Family,

I want to give you my sincerest condolences.

I supervised the majority of Mike’s exams through the Testing Centre for his EMT program; he was always a happy guy and always put a smile on my face during stressful times. It broke my heart when I heard the news. I no longer work at SAIT but it was people like Mike that make me reflect back at the good times during my position there.

I pray for the strength and healing for you and your family during this hard time. Remember that he will always be in your hearts as he looks down upon you from Heaven.

Jim Chisholm

May 16, 2008

Michael...even heaven needs those who will respond with no thought of themselves. I believe God needed a really empathetic, able and loving individual to embrace the task.He knew that you were more than qualified for that task.CARRY ON CPL.STARKER,CARRY ON.........

May 16, 2008

We are touched by the bravery and beautiful spirit of Cpl. Michael Starker. Our deepest condolences to his friends and family.

Nandini & Marvin

Darren Smith

May 16, 2008

My thoughts and prayers go out to the entire Starker family. Cpl. Starker was truly a Canadian Hero and we should never forget his sacrifice!

Warren & Mari Hagerman

May 16, 2008

Our thoughts go out to the Starker family and especially his loving wife for Michael's greatest sacrafice.

Jeremy Payne

May 16, 2008

God bless you. Our thought will always be with you and your family. You are a true hero in everyone's eyes. Thank you for your service, Cpl Starker. We will not forget.

May 16, 2008

Today at 2:00 I and my Children will observe 2 minutes of silence for Cpl. Starker. Our thoughts and prayers are with the Starker Family and I will always remember what Cpl.Starker gave for our freedom. I will be forever greatfull.

The Taylor family

May 16, 2008

Our thoughts are with you and all your family & friends today.
Thank you Michael for everything that you have done for Calgary & for Canada. We are so sorry that you had to pay the ultimate price for freedom. We are proud of you, now there is another angel watching over us.

Shauna

May 16, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this sad time. You had a very special husband, son, brother and friend, he thought of others and wanted better for them.

Anne Louise Beauchesne

May 16, 2008

Nicole
You will be in our thoughts and prayers always.

Love
Muggs, Louie, Bucky, Katie, Christine and the rest of the Beauchesne family

Ginny Bryant

May 16, 2008

God bless you. May you take comfort in knowing how grateful we are for Michael Starker, your husband and son....our hero.

Gord Bryant

May 16, 2008

Corporal Starker was a true hero in every sense. His dedicated his life to helping and protecting others. As a City of Calgary paramedic, he routinely responded to dangerous situations to assist those in medical distress. As a soldier, he commited himself to helping protect those whose safety was threatened by an evil regime.
This noble commitment to mankind ultimately cost him his life. There should be some measure of comfort in knowing that his sacrifice was not in vain. Inspired by his leadership, valour and righteousness, others will carry on and complete the mission to which he was so devoted.
We will not forget Corporal Michael Starker.

Allan Novodovorski

May 16, 2008

My prayers are with you and your family

T Woo

May 16, 2008

Thank you for your service, Cpl Starker. We will not forget.

Mike Taylor

May 16, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God bless you all.

Mike & Trudy Taylor

Sheryl T

May 16, 2008

TODAY
Today, let us not forget the fallen – they are the brave;
Today, mothers will hold their son’s and be glad that they can;
Fathers will sigh deeply, wondering if they could stand tall and strong if their son was taken from them;
Today, wives will hold their husband and look into their eyes and be thankful that they came home.

Let us not forget;
Today, a mother has lost her son – she cannot hold him again;
Today, a father who has lost his son, will try to stand strong for his family;
Today, a wife will say goodbye to her husband for the last time.

Today, we will remember this man’s sacrifice - his own life;
It will be something his whole family has to bear – they are the brave;
Something for every Canadian, man, woman or child to bear – let us learn from them;
Today, we need to appreciate our family, our city and our COUNTRY.

A grateful Calgarian

May 16, 2008

Thank you, Cpl. Starker, for your willingness to risk your own life to do the right thing. Thank you for believing in peace and helping those in need. Our world has lost one of the best; you will not be forgotten. God bless, and may time bring peace and comfort to those who loved you.

Jacquie & Mike Launer

May 16, 2008

Please accept our sincerest condolences.

There are no words to express how proud we are to have Heroes like Michael Starker serve this great country as well as our community.

May all of your memories bring you comfort at this time.

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