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Captain Robert "Bob" D. McWethy (USN Ret.), 98, departed this life peacefully at home on January 29, 2018, surrounded by his family. He was born in Aurora, Illinois, on January 5, 1920, to the late J. LeRoy and Zula Miller McWethy. Bob graduated from the U.S. Naval Academy in December 1941, as part of the wartime class of 1942. His first assignment upon graduation was to the heavy cruiser USS San Francisco (CA 38), operating in the South Pacific out of Pearl Harbor. While serving on USS San Francisco, he received orders to submarine school in New London, CT. After completing the training, he was assigned to the newly constructed USS Pogy (SS 266), a Gato-class submarine, and returned to Pearl Harbor. Pogy made six successful war patrols from Pearl Harbor and Midway Island. Bob received the Silver Star for his actions as torpedo officer during a war patrol in the enemy-controlled waters of the Pacific Ocean which resulted in the sinking of two Japanese freighters and a 20,000-ton transport, and in the successful evasion of severe enemy countermeasures. After the war, Bob served as executive officer of USS Picuda (SS 382) and USS Skate (SS 305). Skate was a target ship for the A-bomb tests at Bikini. From 1952 to 1954, he commanded the USS Piper (SS 409). He also commanded USS Vermillion (AKA 107) and USS Providence (CLG 6). Bob pioneered submarine navigation under the Arctic ice pack. Working with his friend Dr. Waldo Lyon, the founder and chief research scientist of the Arctic Submarine Laboratory, Bob was instrumental in drawing up the Pentagon's plans for navigation of the Arctic by nuclear submarine in 1957. As chief of staff for Submarine Squadron 10, he wrote the orders that sent USS Nautilus (SSN 571) on its secret crossing underneath the North Pole. Bob received the Legion of Merit for meritorious conduct as commander of Oceanographic Systems Atlantic and his role in the widespread operations of the Atlantic Sound Surveillance System (SOSUS) underwater listening posts during a period of considerable growth and improvement. After retirement in 1970, Bob was active in the sailing program at the Naval Academy. He served as commodore of the U.S. Naval Sailing Association in 1971, and as offshore coach and race-committee head for midshipmen sailing. He received the A.G.B. Grosvenor award for his contributions to the mission and programs of the sailing squadron during his 35 years of service. He was an active member in the Cruising Club of America, Chesapeake Chapter. Bob and his wife Liz McWethy were actively involved in the Severn River Association, and they founded the Weems Creek Conservancy, spearheading many successful efforts to preserve the natural beauty of the creek. Bob was supportive of Liz's many contributions in the field of child development, and as a poet. Always humbly mindful of the source of his many blessings, he served as a Lay Eucharistic Minister and a lector for the early service at St. Phillips's Episcopal Church for 40 years. He held various offices in the men's club at the church and was voted "Father of the Year" in 1997. He treasured his camaraderie with classmates and friends in his Friday golf group throughout his retirement. Bob is survived by Daniel R. McWethy, David A. McWethy (Pam), William C. McWethy (Tamyr), Martha F. Boynton, Margaret E. McWethy Bodie (Steve), and Melissa M. McNitt (James), ten grandchildren, and four great grandchildren. In lieu of flowers, contributions in Bob's honor may be made to the Chesapeake Bay Foundation.

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Published by The Capital Gazette on Feb. 4, 2018.

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Roger Norian

November 5, 2024

Thanks for being the "skipper" that you were. Lt Roger Norian USNR

William J. Laz Jr.

January 29, 2023

My sympathy to the McWethy Family. I was born in Aurora, IL and lived there until I went to the Naval Academy. My Mom and Dad were friends with the McWethy family. There always were positive comments. God bless them all.

Frank Curnow

January 29, 2023

Frank Curnow

January 29, 2023

Frank Curnow

January 29, 2023

Frank Curnow

January 29, 2023

I was on board the U.S.S. Providence during Captain Mcwethy's tenure there. I recall him having frequent ship handling drills for junior officers. I excelled at these drills and thenceforth, as an ensign, then a LTJG, he allowed me to take the cruiser in and out of port. He had confidence in me. At the time I did not know his reputation as one of the Navy's top ship handlers, nor his record in WW II. He was a humble man. I came to the Providence after the USS New Jersey was decommissioned. He was highly respected by the ship's crew. After the deck division position, I was navigation division officer and honors officer. I tweeted Bob Hope aboard one day. Captain McCarthy approved my application for NILO and O-3 spot promotion and quickly approved my SWO designation. I left the Navy after my required service time. I am a 1969 graduate of the Naval Academy, and must, without any reservation, consider him to be the finest officer, by far, I encountered during my active duty time. I mention him frequently to my classmates to this day.

I am happy he lived such a long and fruitful life.

Best wishes to his remembrance. An honor to serve under him.

Frank Curnow

Frank Curnow

January 29, 2021

He was a great CO! He let me, as an ensign, take the cruiser in and out of port. He felt I was a an "excellent ship handler", per my fitness report. After learning about his legendary reputation as a great ship handler in later years, his confidence in me was appreciated moreso. I left the Navy after my obligation was done, but to this day I still tell stories about my great CO. No senior officer ever came close to him in my Navy experience. It was an honor for me, and the ship's crew, to serve under him.

Frank Curnow

June 4, 2018

Captain McWethy was my CO on the Providence (CLG-6).I am an Annapolis graduate and failed YP's (ship handling) and got a "D" on the repeat while there. An admiral commented, I recently saw on-line, that Capt. McWethy was "best ship handler he had ever known; he was one with the ship". Capt. McWethy had many ship building exercises on the Providence, and commented in my fitness report that I "exhibited on many occasions my excellent knowledge of seamanship and ship handling ability", very ironic considering my YP experience at Annapolis. My career in the Navy was quite controversial, yet Capt. McWethy recognized my skills and allowed me, a very young junior officer, to take the ship in and out of port. He also commented on my short-comings which was fair. He mentioned to me that he had a son my age, and enjoyed his Arctic duty in particular that he expanded on when he was on the bridge with me.

He supported my in-country NILO (intelligence) interest but the orders were cancelled by his successor for my extreme partying, perhaps fortuitous considering the position, as it was found in later years, was a dangerous job with excursions into Cambodia. My father died when I was 3 years old, so I tended to be an individualist. Capt. McWethy was the only senior officer who recognized the good skills I possessed, either at Annapolis or on active duty.

In later years I realized that his son my age was a TV journalist. I was greatly saddened by his tragic passing.

The class of '69 is soon having its 50th reunion. They have asked for everyone to write up a summation of their life. My write up focused on Capt. McWethy. The class will know about his kindness to me and his greatness. I proved my mettle to him. He was the best in many ways so it counted.

I am now quite hearing impaired, so I could not have stayed in the Navy even if I wished. But Capt. McWethy is solely responsible for my love of the Navy and the Naval Academy. I did okay in private life, a VPHR at age 37, and a HR Director for the federal government for the last 8 years of my career. Hearing loss always was a problem, but I managed to age 65.

So, I just wanted to express my condolences, and was happy that he had such a long and prosperous life. You should rightfully be very, very proud of him. I owe him much.

[email protected] if you would like his fitness report on me.

February 15, 2018

On behalf of everyone from Navy Sailing at the Academy, we offer our condolences to CAPT McWethy's family.

The program he helped build still endures in our present day Offshore Sail Training Squadron, for professional development and cruise credit. We continue to present the McWethy Award for outstanding seamanship to a 3/C Midshipman at our annual Fall Awards.

Wishing you fair winds and following seas CAPT McWethy.

Renee Mehl
Offshore Sail Training Squadron
US Naval Academy

Brotherhood of the Dolphin

Nick Nichols

February 12, 2018

To the McWethy Family,

On behalf of the Charleston Base SUBVETS and Swamp Fox Chapter SUBVETS WWII, I offer you our sincere condolences on Robert's passing. We grieve with you on the loss of your loved one and our shipmate. The SUBVETS will have your family in our thoughts and prayers. There is no expiration date on the back of our dolphins and Robert, who earned his 'fish' when he qualified on submarines during World War II, will always be remembered as a Brother of the Phin, a member of our Greatest Generation, and a great Patriot. BRAVO ZULU SHIPMATE!!

CAPT(SS) Robert D. McWethy
US Navy WWII Submarine Veteran Retired
Now on Eternal Patrol
Sailor Rest Your Oar
Your Shipmates Have The Watch

Fair Winds and Following Seas Shipmate

Charleston Base Submarine Veterans
Nick Nichols, MTCM(SS) USN Ret.
Base Chaplain

Carlotta Castillo Moulder

February 11, 2018

My condolences to Capt. McWethy's family. My father, Ernie Castillo, worked for Captain McWethy in the 60s and was tapped by him to command Naval Facility Keflavik when it first opened. I remember sailing with them one afternoon in Norfolk and staying as guests in their home just a few days before my mother took my sister and I to join my father in Keflavik.

I also recall a blustery March kite making and flying party where various awards were given. My mother, Anne, made a kite out of a postage stamp and received an award for the smallest kite.

My father Ernie passed away early Monday morning, Feb 5. I know that the Captain and he are sharing some great stories in heaven of how much they accomplished for the US over the Soviets.

God bless you sir and all you did for my father and our country!

Nancy Smith Hopp

February 10, 2018

Captain McWethy, or Uncle Bob, as we came to call him, will always hold a very special place in our memories. What a great honor and privilege it was to get to know him in the later years of his life and to learn of his service. Among all the giants from the McWethy families who grew up in the Fox River Valley of Illinois, Bob is certainly on the top tier. We thank his family for sharing him and caring for him. Nancy and Jim Hopp

February 8, 2018

As a JO in 65-68 the Captain was always very good to me as far as duty stations ie Kef, then Bermuda.. I took him skindiving a couple of time while at NavFac Eleuthera. I visited him a year or so ago at his home.. Still sharp and pleasant. May he Rest in Peace.
Bud Hilton

Admiral Weakly's HU-16 with Captain McWethy on a trip to the NavFac's 1967

Bruce Turner

February 6, 2018

He was my CO 1965-67 in Norfolk while he was Commander Oceanographic Systems Atlantic. Even though I left the Navy, it was through his influence that I pursued a career in marine science. Only in recent years did I reconnect and appreciate his friendship. He was, indeed, of the Greatest Generation" and a life well lived.

Michael Case

February 6, 2018

Capt. McWethy will always be remembered and loved for the dedicated service and training he provided to our offshore racing crews. He was on board Avenger with us in the 1982 Newport Bermuda Race when we had a structural failure of one of our inner rods high up on our rig. Of course, this happened in the middle of the Atlantic at midnight but Capt. McWethy never panicked and neither did we. His calm demeanor in a crisis situation where we could have lost our mast during a hair-raising trip to the masthead that night is something that sticks with me all of these years and taught me a lot about being calm in dangerous offshore situations to this day. Fair Winds and Following Seas Captain! Thank you for all you did for the USNA, the Navy Submarine Service and Navy Sailing.

Bill Dixon

February 5, 2018

On behalf of the United States Submarine Veterans (USSVI), I offer our sincere condolences on Robert's passing. You and your loved ones are in our thoughts and prayers. We are forever grateful for Robert's service to our country in the U.S. Submarine Service. To our Brother of the Phin we say, Sailor, rest your oar. We have the watch. May you rest in peace and may God bless your loved ones who remain. Thank you for your service to our country.

"Now may the Lord of peace Himself give you peace always in every way" 2 Thess 3:16

Robert Devon McWethy CAPT(SS), US Navy, Now on Eternal Patrol.
Fair Winds and Following Seas Shipmate.

Bill Dixon, National Chaplain United States Submarine Veterans, USSVI.

Tim Oliver

February 5, 2018

CAPT McWethy was extremely generous with his time and his stories. The Naval Submarine League greatly appreciated him allowing us to interview him as he shared his career and his insights. He is missed, and we were all blessed by his presence.

Michelle Kroeger

February 5, 2018

I had the distinct pleasure of meeting Captain McWethy during an interview we did with him about his time serving in the Navy. He was such a delight and we spoke about him often afterward. I enjoyed my time with him during our visit and was so grateful that he opened his home to us. He is someone I will never forgot.

My condolences to the McWethy family. You were very blessed to have such a wonderful man in your lives and should be proud of his service in the Navy, along with so many other accomplishments.

Tibby Duncan Llewellyn

February 4, 2018

I send my sincere condolences to the whole family. I'm Tibby Duncan Llewellyn and my father, Max Duncan, was a USNA42 classmate and fellow submariner and very close friend of your father's. I was so honored that your Dad came to my Dad's memorial service last June at the USNA Columbarium. I can just imagine that our Dads are playing golf together right now and sharing sea stories. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.

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