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for Matthew True
Don & Sue Sturtz
April 2, 2010
Bev and Kelly
Words can't express how sadened we were to hear of Matt's passing. He was a fine young man who was always looking out for others. Don and I are grateful for all that Matt did for Pat and Don without hesitation and I know they were just as grateful. In fact they had a graduation picutre of Matthew on the table with all the grandchildren. I know they always thought of Matt as family. No words could take away the pain that you feel now but please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
God Bless
Lisa & Scott Holniker
March 27, 2010
Dear Bev and Kelly,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
Our deepest sympathy to you both and your families.
Chris & Jamie Lentz
March 26, 2010
Kelly, Bev and all family and friends,
We have watched Matt grown into a fine young man. You should be proud. You have always welcomed us into your home and into your hearts, I wish we knew how to help you through the pain. To be honest, we don't know what to say in these times. Please know you can always call us if you need anything.
Our deepest sympathy to you. We love you.
March 26, 2010
Dear Kelly,Bev,amd Family,
I just had to say a few words about Matt it's so heavy on my heart! I want you to know how much he meant't to our family! We spent time every week talking when he was supposed to be mowing, and I was supposed to be working! Oh-Well!! When we would start talking we couldn't stop, and sometimes at our house it could go on for hours! We both like to talk alot! What a wonderful person inside and out! It doesn't make sense right now, but there is a great Gospel song that's called "Stand Still" that says it all! It mentions our father has a plan,but it's hard to see right now. I know we don't know what that is now, but if we stand still and let god move, we will see the answer. I know I will never know the pain you are feeling, but please know that I will always carry an empty spot in my heart for knowing and sharing in the life of the most amazing young man I have ever met!! You have done an amazing job raising Matt and should be proud of every step he took on this earth, and all his accomplishments. All our love goes out to all of your family and if there is anything we can do please call us!
Our Prayers Are With You,
Terry And Tim DiPaula,& Family
And All The Crew At Lady Baltimore Floors!!
Beth (Woy) Shawl
March 25, 2010
Kelly and Bev..I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers...Beth (Woy) Shawl and family
Vicki Yarnell
March 24, 2010
Dear Bev, Kelly and family, There are no words to express the sorrow I feel upon hearing of Matt's passing. Your family was included in the Calvary United Methodist Church prayer chain and I knew the name was familiar. It took a call from Shannon for me to realize that she and Matt had been classmates all through school, starting in Kindergarten. I remember him as being a very happy child. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time.
Sherry Wright
March 24, 2010
Kelly, Beverly & Family,
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. There are no words that can ease the pain you are going through, you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Anonymous Anonymous
March 24, 2010
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Kate Ritchey
March 23, 2010
Matt was my very first friend when my family moved to the area 13 years ago, the True's lived right in front of us and Kelly built our house, our driveway is named after Matt. I'll never be able to pull into that driveway again without thinking of him. Matt always had a huge smile on his face and made me laugh every time I saw him. I am at a loss for words, as I don't think this could possibly be real. My absolute deepest sympathies go out to Ms. Bev, Mr. Kelly, the rest of his family and friends and Gamber Fire Hall. Rest in peace Matt, you'll always be missed and never be forgotten.
Lorna (Justice) Wyrick
March 23, 2010
Dear Kelly and family,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Please know that you have been in my thoughts and prayers. God is near to those broken at heart (Psalm 34:18). May you find comfort at this difficult time. With sincerest condolences,
Jimmy Spencer
March 23, 2010
I went to high school with Matt and became good friends with him when I was a senior and he was a junior. He was always having fun in whatever we did together and was just a great person to be around. Although after high school we did not see each other as much, we always had lots to talk about when I would see him either at the firehall carnival or at a party or even getting a drink together around Westminster. What I will miss the most about matt is how no matter what he always seemed to have a smile on his face and would talk to anyone about anything for hours on end. He will definetly be missed by everyone who know him, including me. "Only the good die young". I'll miss you Matt and your loud country self.
March 23, 2010
Our hearts ach with you.
Hope to see you on Thursday.
Mr. Wayne& Ms. Helen
Lori Friedman
March 23, 2010
Dear Kelly and family,
I was so sad to hear about your loss and my heart and deepest sympathy goes out to you.
Lori Friedman
GDRS
Elizabeth Gartrell
March 23, 2010
Bev & Kelly,
I wish that words could take away the pain. I will never forget Matt. You guys have definitely raised a fine young man and you should be proud! I will never forget high school with Matt, hanging out late at your house building a 1000 piece puzzle or getting off work around 10 and driving straight to the cabin to spend the weekend with you guys. I still have the $20 bill that you folded up into a bow tie for my tip the night I waited on you. You guys are forever in my thoughts and prayers! LIZ
Hugh McLaurin
March 22, 2010
It's hard to find words to express the sense of loss since God called Matt home, and the sorrow that his passing left behind with his family, friends and acquaintances. The love and the bonds Matt shared with Bev and Kelly were special things to watch as Matt grew into an intelligent, accomplished and handsome young man. They loved Matt as much as parents can love a child, and Matt returned that love to them in many different ways. He inherited the best qualities of his parents, including the same heart of gold and integrity that both his parents possess. It was as much a pleasure talking and working with Matt as it was with Bev and Kelly. That was a great legacy for his parents to pass on to Matt.
Matt was taken too soon for reasons only God knows. But Bev and Kelly can forever be proud of the fine young man they raised who touched many lives with his kindness and his talents. As all of us with children know, every day we have with them is a blessing that's hard to measure, a day that enriches our lives in so many ways. Matt may be gone but that enrichment can never be taken away from Bev and Kelly and the rest of us who were privileged to know him. They are better people for having raised Matt and Matt lives on through them.
Wherever Matt was was a better place simply because he was there. He will be missed.
Lisa Elliott
March 22, 2010
To Matt's family, friends and fire department family - My deepest sympathies to all of you.
Dee Reed
March 22, 2010
With our deepest sympathy... Matt you are a fine outstanding person, we are honored that we have known you, our times spent with you will always be remembered. Dustin and Derek (Kristinas brothers) will always have fun memories of you! You were here to help lay the carpet in our sunroom last year. We are thankful for the birthdays and holidays we spent together... You will always be remembered!! Our thoughts and prayers will be with your family.
Wayne, Dee, Dustin & Derek Reed
RON AND HELEN HEBDEN
March 22, 2010
Kelly, Beverly, Family and Friends of Matthew: Although we have not seen you all for awhile our hearts were saddened to hear of Matthew's passing, you are in our thoughts at this time. We remember Matthew riding ATVS, shooting targets and putting on a great firework show for the 4th of July parties. We wanted to extend our deepest symphathies to you.
Paula Kleiman
March 22, 2010
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2010
Winnie Barnes
March 22, 2010
One of my fondest memories of Matt is when he was about 5 years old and he came to spend the night with his cousin Brian, I tucked them both into bed but Matt was a little home-sick so I told him if he went to sleep we would bake cookies in the morning, I didn't hear a peep out of him until about 5:00 in the morning, you know the feeling you get when you know someone is staring at you, so I opened my eyes and there was the dear little face of Matt and he said Aunt Winnie it's morning time to bake cookies. I tell that story often because it brings a smile to my face and joy to my heart.
Hold tight to your memories for comfort
With all my love,
Winnie
Jennifer Gover
March 22, 2010
To Matt’s family, my deepest sympathies:
I've known Matt since elementary school, and although we were never very close I will remember Matt as a country boy who really enjoyed everything that he was involved in. If memory serves me correctly he also won "Most Carroll County" during our Senior Year. I still picture him with his baseball caps and button up shirts on.
Edna Stambaugh
March 22, 2010
Kelly, Bev and family,
Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Please find comfort in GOD's love and the love of your family and friends.
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