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Robert Thomas Dooley

1934 - 2018

Robert Thomas Dooley obituary, 1934-2018, Charlotte, NC

BORN

1934

DIED

2018

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Kenneth W. Poe Funeral & Cremation Service - Charlotte

1321 Berkeley Avenue

Charlotte, North Carolina

Robert Dooley Obituary

Robert Thomas Dooley, Jr., 83, died May 9, 2018 at his home in Sharon Towers. Tom was born on September 15, 1934 in Roanoke, Virginia, son of Robert and Helen Johnson Dooley. He was a graduate of VMI with a degree in Civil Engineering and received a Master's Degree in Soils and Structures from Georgia Tech. A US Air Force veteran, Tom enjoyed a career in commercial construction and was the Founder of R.T. Dooley Construction Company. He was also a former NFL referee. "Tom was a man who lived to serve his Lord wherever he was."

In addition to his wife, Nancy Wheeler Dooley, Tom is survived by a daughter, Nina Dooley McLean and her husband, Dickson of Wilmington, NC; sons, Robert Thomas Dooley III (Bob) and his wife, Anne and David Sanders Dooley and his wife, Susan, all of Charlotte; grandchildren, Nancy Lee and Rebecca McLean, Anne Howard, Catherine, Elizabeth, Helen Dooley, Caroline and Laura Dooley; and a sister, Phyllis Dooley Butts of Roanoke, Virginia.

A service to celebrate the life of Robert Thomas Dooley, Jr. will be held at 2:00 PM on Tuesday, May 15, 2018 at Christ Church. The family will receive friends Monday evening from 5:30 until 7:30 at the home of Bob and Anne Dooley.

The family would like to express special thanks to Tom's caregivers whom he loved dearly, and the family is eternally grateful for all of their love.

Memorials may be sent to Christ Church, 1412 Providence Road, Charlotte, NC 28207 or to Leighton Frederick Sandys Ford Jr. Memorial Fund, 4029 Doves Roost Court, Charlotte, NC 28211.

Arrangements are in the care of Kenneth Poe Funeral & Cremation Service, 1321 Berkeley Ave., Charlotte, NC 28204; (704) 641-7606. Online condolences can be shared at www.kennethpoeservices.com.

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Published by Charlotte Observer from May 11 to May 12, 2018.

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Eugene J Adams

May 5, 2025

They're not a day that pass that I don't think Mr. Dooley for giving the chance to become a superintendent he was a great men Thanks for everything Tom you will always be missed and remembered.

Eugene Adams

May 6, 2019

Tom Dooley was a great man who treated everyone with respect and its hard to believe he is not with us anymore you or truly missed RT. I will keep your family in my prayer, God bless you all.

Kimberly Street Kintrup

May 22, 2018

My thoughts and prayers for the Dooley family, God Bless you all.

Shaundra Garris

May 18, 2018

I will keep your family in my prayers! Mr.Dooley was such a wonderful man that I was blessed to meet. He always kept me laughing at the Dowd YMCA during lunch. He will truly be missed! " Everyday is a holiday, and every meal is a banquet." One of his quotes.

Noreen George

May 17, 2018

Mrs Dooley and family,
So very happy that I had the opportunity to experience the sweetness of this "Gentle Giant". Thoughts and prayers of peace and comfort are with you. Most lovingly, Noreen George

Reggie Kitchens

May 15, 2018

Condolences to the family. What a great guy. I had a lot of brief but funny conversations with Mr. Dooley at the Dowd YMCA.

The Charlotte Nagy family Steve,Debra,Lauren,Lindsay,Corey

May 15, 2018

Our deepest sympathy to the Dooley family.
We will always be grateful for having known him.
Amazing man and family.
Will miss seeing him for sure.

Gerri Lawrence

May 15, 2018

Tom was the best boss I ever had I was with him and Ed when they started the company and stayed a little over ten years when my husband was transferred. I watched the children all grow into responsible adults and eventually take over the business. Working for Tom was quite an experience d everyone was treated like family. My thoughts and prayers are with the family

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Susan Misiak

May 15, 2018

To the Dooley Family, Tom was loved by all who knew him. I didn't have the pleasure of working with Tom but I did have the pleasure of meeting him occasionally when he stopped by to say hi to us at Balfour Beatty. I am so sorry for your loss. May the Lord wrap his loving arms around all of you and help you all through this sad time.

Nancy Carter

May 14, 2018

Dear Nancy,
Please know that you and your family are held close in prayer and sympathy. I so regret that our days of walking the CCDS track have passed. I miss you and will be thinking of you.

Bettye Garmon

May 14, 2018

Our deepest sympathy to the Dooley family. Tom touched the lives of many people in our community, with a heart full of love and kindness. He leaves a legacy of unseen mentoring so broad, that very few will be able to duplicate the impact he spread across his life and a thankful community. I will always be grateful for having known him.

Bettye M. Garmon

Evon Alexander

May 13, 2018

Mr. Dooley was truly an extraordinary person, he will surely be missed. We send our deepest sympathy.

Gaston

May 13, 2018

When I have show my boys men who they can learn from and emulate, Tom Dooley is someone i have held up as an example.

Julia Vanderburg

May 12, 2018

I am so sorry for your lost. Please except my deepest condolences during this trying time. Read Isa.26:19 to receive some comfort fromGod's Word in your Bible.

Eugene Adams

May 11, 2018

It is with a heavy heart that I say Rest In Peace to a man who change my life and gave me another chance when in this world we live in its hard for you to get a second chance. With that being said I say you will always be in my heart and prayers and you will be missed by everyone you touched in your own way Mr.RT Dooley.

Marsha and Jeff Arnold

May 11, 2018

In loving memory to a wonderful person. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

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Timika Clyburn

May 11, 2018

My heart goes out to you and your family during this difficult time. Praying for peace and comfort.

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Peter Hitchens

May 11, 2018

Fond memories of Mr. Dooley growing up in Charlotte with his wonderful family. He was very helpful to me and scores of new entrepreneurs when we were first getting started in our business. Great meetings at the Dowd YMCA!

Kendal Patterson

May 11, 2018

Our deepest condolences to the Dooley family. Tom will surely be missed. May God bless you and the family in this time of sorrow.

May 11, 2018

Nancy, Nina, Bob and David.....what an extraordinary man that touched so many people. Immeasurable what he has meant to this community. Thoughts and prayers are with you and the family.

Robby & Kim Lowe

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14

Visitation

5:30 p.m. - 7:30 p.m.

home of Bob and Anne Dooley

4022 Arborway, Charlotte, NC

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15

Celebration of Life

2:00 p.m.

Christ Church

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1321 Berkeley Avenue, Charlotte, NC 28204

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