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Stephen Snow Obituary

Stephen
Hopkins Snow, MA, PhD
Dr. Snow, formerly of Charlotte, NC and St. Petersburg, FL, died suddenly on December 27th, 2008 in Asheville, NC where he maintained a clinical practice in counseling. He was the loving father of Stephanie Snow Tursi, Mary Snow and Timothy Snow, all of Charlotte, NC and Katie Snow-Rackley of Cleveland Heights, OH and is also survived by grandchildren, Amanda, Ella, Jonah, Benjamin, Ruthie, Samuel and Thomas Tursi and Eli and Sylvia Rackley and siblings, Roger Snow of Boston, MA, Susan Snow-Burnett of Norfolk, VA, and Deb Snow of Santa Cruz, CA. He will also be mourned by his former wife Patt Snow, friend Ed Fierstos and fiance Cynthia Yancey.
Steve was a graduate of Northeast High School in St. Petersburg, FL, and The University of South Florida at Tampa and received both a Masters and PhD degrees from the University of North Carolina at Charlotte. He was a respected journalist of 28 years in Clearwater, FL and Charlotte, NC and the founder of Charlotte's Web, a free provider of internet access to the community of Charlotte.
Steve was known for his prowess as a woodworker and a blacksmith who loved to build furniture and refurbish tools and make them usable again. He was a dynamic personality who was involved in many other charities and organizations and touched many lives.
The family will receive friends on Thursday, January 1st from 7:00 to 8:30 p.m. at the Carolina Funeral Service and Cremation Center, 5505 Monroe Road, Charlotte A funeral service will be held Friday, January 2nd at 2:00 p.m. at the funeral center.
In lieu of flowers the family requests donations be sent to the Western Carolina Chapter of the National Alliance for Mental Illness or the Buncombe County Public Health Foundation. Please specify for domestic violence/child advocacy.
Online condolences may be sent to www.carolinafuneral.com.
Carolina Funeral Service & Cremation Center is entrusted with the arrangements.

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Published by Charlotte Observer on Dec. 31, 2008.

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Jes McFadden

January 29, 2009

I hate to hear about the passing away of Steve Snow. I had the great pleasure of having Steve as my supervisor in graduate school. He always created an open, warm environment. He was able to inspire me and challenge me to become a better counselor. It was obvious to me that he had a love for the counseling perfession and for life. I will keep his family and close friends in my thoughts. I know you must miss him tremendously.

Ed Fierstos

January 8, 2009

It is so nice to hear from so many of Steve's friends. You can tell by the vast number of people who have written just how many lives he touched. I can speak from having 46 years of the greatest friendship of my life. I treasured all we shared, the many foolish pranks we pulled in the early years, how many times he helped me through the critical problem of the day. I always knew he had my back. I will miss him in so many ways. We were to meet on New Years day at my house. We talked a few days before that to confirm. I am so glad we had a chance to talk. When I said goodbye, I only meant until Thursday, not forever. I know that heaven is a better place for his arrival. God can figure out how to handle him now. It will be a challenge. Steve always was. He was a great man.

Jami (Bez) Lowstuter

January 8, 2009

I knew Stephen as "Steve", who was my brother's good friend and buddy so many, many years ago in St. Petersburg, FL. Steve was always kind to me as Fred's "little sister" (smile). I was so happy he and Fred had (and took) the opportunity to reconnect not too long ago in NC to catch up on so many years that had since passed by--as it does with so many of us. Please know that I was so saddened (and shocked) when Fred got the news from Ed Fierstos that Steve was no longer with us. My love and continued prayers go out to all of Steve's family members, to Patt (it's been a long time, I know)...and to Cynthia. Bless you all. Steve touched many lives in a wonderfully rewarding way--he was just that type of guy!

John Silber

January 8, 2009

I was deeply saddened to learn of Steve’s sudden passing. His friendship is one of handful of cherished memories I have of my life in St. Petersburg. That he would befriend some one as reticent as I, was a true measure of his friendship. Steve was always immersed in life, seeking new experiences and confronting the injustices that accompany our life. Being swept along for the ride was a wonderful part of my education.

Sharon Floyd Duncan

January 7, 2009

I am so sorry to hear of Steve's passing. He was a great guy. I remember him best as the cute guy walking down the hall in middle school, books tucked tightly under his arm, pencil behind his ear. He will be greatly missed.

Susan Snow- Burnett

January 7, 2009

Dear family and friends,
In the midst of this horrible grief over the loss of my dear brother and friend, this thought came to that Steve was in the cloud(s) hollering, "Hey, we've gotta get this place wired! How can you connect with anyone if you're not wired!". Steve, I miss you ever so much.
Susie

Jo McComb

January 6, 2009

Patt and Tim, I am sorry to hear about Steve. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Jan and Barney Valder Offerman

January 4, 2009

Steve, Pat and family our neighbor and friend from the Dilworth and St. Patrick days. From preparing for the birth of their children to experiencing the internet and its wonder we marveled at you. We remember Steve, the laughs, the meals, the projects. Thank you Steve's family and friends for sharing your stories of you and Steve at his funeral. Our sympathy and prayer we send to you.

Radie Armstrong

January 4, 2009

Steve, you had a remarkable capacity to befriend the most unlikely folks, to their betterment. You will be missed, but you have inspired so many, you live in the work they do and the people they became through you.

Gabriel Rogers

January 4, 2009

Steve and I matriculated through the masters and doctoral program at UNCC together. He had a tremendous mind and a very down to earth personality. His sense of humor was always a breath of fresh air. As a colleague he will truly be missed.

Kathy Weaver

January 4, 2009

It is interesting that during our lives we have remembrances of certain people who, for whatever reason, leave an indelible mark on us. I only knew Steve during the "fun" years of high school at NeHi in St. Pete, but he forever left that indelible mark -- he had that certain sparkle...that great smile....that sense of humor...and a quiet, but obvious, knowing intelligence. When I have thought back through the years to that time, either because of upcoming reunions or just reminiscing, he has always been one of my favorite classmates to remember --- leaving too soon is never a good thing, but leaving an indelible mark is a forever thing -- and that many times isn't bad. Any one of us can only hope that we will be remembered in a good way somewhere along the way --- Good job, Steve!!

David Snyder

January 4, 2009

Steve and I were seated next to each other in 10th grade homeroom (in the auditorium) at Northeast High School in St. Petersburg. Thus began a 44-year relationship that, thankfully, had been revived in the weeks before he passed. I was pleased to be able to connect my stepson, Peyton Jones, to Steve and Ed Fierstos to get their recollections of the 1968 garbage workers strike in St. Petersburg, which was the subject of a paper Peyton was doing in his graduate work in Florida Studies at USF-St. Petersburg.

I could fill a good-sized book with recollections of the many good times Steve (and Ed, Fred Bez, the late Ken Dunlap, former wife Patt, etc.) and I enjoyed together and a somewhat smaller book of recollections of the really difficult times and circumstances that Steve triumphed over as a teenager and young adult to become the wonderful man he was. Instead of either book, I only want to share what is perhaps my most treasured memory of him (and some of our friends) because this event is in my mind representative of Steve's brash and funloving approach to life.

Turn the clock back to summer of 1968. Lyndon Johnson has bowed out of the presidential race, leaving the field open in both parties. I can't remember whether this was before or after the losses of Dr. King and Robert Kennedy, but at the least the daily depressing news coming out of Vietnam was taking its toll on our spirits. Also can't remember whether any of us had yet read Tom Wolfe's Electric Kool-Aid Acid Test, about Ken Kesey and his Merry Pranksters, perhaps we had. Though none of our circle was into the drug scene (except, of course, beer) we were in serious need of something to lift our spirits that would be safer and more mainstream, yet sufficiently prankish for the conservative scene around us at St. Petersburg Junior College.

I'm going to give Steve credit as the mastermind for this (sorry Ed, Fred and Jim Piper), since none of the other members of our posse (myself included) could have been this creative.

Steve had turned me and at least one or two others in our cohort on to a new book by Eugene Burdick (co-author of Fail Safe and The Ugly American) called The 480. See http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_480 The central character in The 480 was John Thatch, an upstart republican candidate in 1964 (modeled after Henry Cabot Lodge?).
As it happened, the Young Republicans club at SPJC was holding a Mock Republican convention in the auditorium at the St. Pete campus of the junior college. Steve's plan, which we all soon bought in to and added our own touches, was to prank the Young Republicans (our political opposites) by coming as a group to their event to advocate the nomination of John Thatch (instead of Tricky Dick, Romney, Reagan, whoever) at the mock convention.

We knew we needed something to draw attention to our group, so we painted Thatch signs and borrowed a bass drum and marching harness from NEHI, I unpacked my trumpet and Jim his trombone and we hit the aisles of the auditorium with a "spontaneous" pro-Thatch demonstration, playing "When the Saints Go Marching In" and singing to that tune: "Thatch Has No Match." We managed to stun the assembled Young Republicans for long enough to march around the Auditorium and when done, Steve began horsetrading with the delegates as if Thatch were a real person and had real support from some delegates in the hall. Steve's pitch went something like: "I've got a pledge from Michigan for 25 votes for Thatch (which, of course, he didn't). If you and the rest of the Virginia delegation cast at least 10 votes for Thatch on the first ballot, I'll swing all our pledged delegates to (pick your candidate of choice) on the next ballot." Steve was masterful at this charade, but it was becoming harder and harder for the rest of our group to keep straight faces.

As I recall, we did get Thatch's name placed in nomination, but frankly, I don't recall whether we snuck out quietly when the chance presented itself or we were unmasked as pranksters and barely escaped without having someone call the cops or campus security. I do remember that, for a time, we were filled with glee and probably laughed away a few more hours over coffee at Uncle John's or Steak n' Shake.

Steve did many kind things for me and brought a lot of joy to my life and many others', and though it may not have all been completely innocent (and in this case it was more than a little bit mocking) it was essentially harmless and makes for great memories of a wonderful friend.

Thanks, Steve.

May God comfort your family.

I know OUR next reunion will be in Heaven.

David
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Alice Battle

January 3, 2009

I remember Steve and Pat Snow from their years in the St. Patrick's choir. The choir director, Helen Wyatt, introduced a new hymn. From the first introduction of the piece, Steven sung the verses solo. The hymn was prophetic for Steve. It is entitled, "Here I am, Lord." You did hear the Lord calling in the night.

You accomplished so much in your life, even though it was cut short. My condolences to your family.

Patsy Howard

January 3, 2009

You have had a special place in my heart since the late 50's. Going back to elementary school, I never imagined that the impact you would have on the lives of others would be so great and it is wonderful to hear of the good things you did for people. You will be missed immensely. Patsy Taylor Howard

Dawn Sturgell Farrer

January 3, 2009

I was sadden hear about Steve
I best knew him from Northeast High
we graduated at the same time 1967
we were in some of the same classes. I remember him being very kind and very funny. May the love of God carrier you through your loss.

Phyllis Post

January 3, 2009

I had the privilege of knowing Steve since he began his master’s degree program at UNCC. I was honored to serve on his dissertation committee and still remember the day he defended his dissertation. He was amazing – so in command of his topic and able to present complicated material in such a clear, succinct way. While I loved Steve’s energy, creativity and excitement about pursuing new projects, I also found Steve to be one of the most powerful and focused counselors I have ever trained. His strong ability to connect with others, even with young children, was truly rare and tremendously therapeutic. I must admit that I was a little disappointed that Steve didn’t decide to work with young children - after some fairly “strong” conversations with him, I finally came to accept that he would use his talents in other ways. Steve was such a fine counselor educator and supervisor that he was one of our regular adjunct faculty members at UNCC. He was scheduled to teach a class at UNCC during the upcoming semester. We will miss him tremendously.

My relationship with Steve was professional….not personal. However, I remember vividly a conversation with him about Timm. It was a lively, interesting, and meaningful conversation about trusting and believing in our children. It meant so much to me to meet Timm yesterday and share that conversation with him. I know that Steve would be glad that I did….

Jim Kluth

January 3, 2009

I was indeed blessed to have known Steve Snow who inspired me as a wanna-be computer & Web geek. Through his brain-child called Charlotte's Web, I was able to experience the Internet and go on to share my continuing interest with others. May God give deserved rest to Steve and comfort to his family.

Becky Lowe

January 2, 2009

How does one write in a note how important the life of one man can be? When it comes to the life of Steve Snow, it is quite impossible to describe adequately the magnitude of his greatness. I am just one woman, just one client. I was lucky enough to have one hour of his time every week for a year and a half.

I first discovered Steve in my research on domestic violence. I had just left an abusive marriage and was desperately seeking a therapist to help my ex-husband. I spent all my waking hours researching this invisible epidemic. I had read numerous books and was looking for the “best of the best” to counsel my husband. I wanted my husband to get help with his behavior so I could return to him. I was excited and impressed when I found an article that Steve had written in the Charlotte Observer on April 13, 2006 entitled, ”Break Cycle of Abuse, Violence.” I then found a lecture he had given called, “Relationship of childhood trauma and DESNOS in adult male batterers.” He presented it at the ISSTD Conference in November of 2006. It was fantastic.

For domestic violence to be as common as it is, I encountered a series of counselors that had such limited understanding of the problem. I am a perfectionist and when I say I interviewed counselors, I am telling the truth. I spoke to and saw many, many therapists, but no one seemed to “get it.” Then, I found Steve and was instantly won over and instantly comforted, hopeful and excited. My heart felt at ease. I finally felt like someone might be able to help my husband. Also, I was so impressed by Steve’s groundbreaking work with NOVA batterers program, which teaches batterers to become accountable. Between NOVA and Steve’s sessions, surely there had to be a way to save my marriage. I prayed that my husband would have the courage to utilize Steve’s knowledge and Steve’s passion to help men that seem to deserve nothing at all; men with a problem that causes them to choose a cycle of violence towards the women that love them the most. Steve understood that the only way to end domestic violence was to help the men that are causing the problem. Thankless work, but very, very important. Few therapists have the guts to attempt this type of work. Steve had the guts and also the heart to do the work and do it well!

Tragically, my husband never even tried NOVA and never even went to 1 session with Steve. I feel so sad for him. He never got to meet Steve. He never got to learn from Steve. He never tried to save our marriage. Thankfully, I got to know Steve. I instead chose Steve as my counselor. Instead, my life was changed because of Steve. Steve made me a better person. Steve gave me the strength to remove myself completely from my toxic marriage. He allowed me to survive the darkest hours of my life. He was a light in that darkness. He provided sound advice, a listening ear and strength beyond belief. He became my friend and confidant. I relied on him for survival through the nightmare. His knowledge of domestic violence was tremendous and so important for my recovery. He allowed me to feel sane. He was a shining star. There are so few people that I can say have been instrumental in my life. He is one of those people. In a time when I had no trust in men, I trusted a man to guide me. His kindness, common sense, wisdom, strength, knowledge, humor, commitment and resourcefulness saved my life. He made me a better person. He allowed me to believe in myself again, have strength again, trust again and live again! I still have notes from our conversations. I still reference those notes; they guide me. I still follow his advice. He would be happy to know that. I thumbed through my journals today and after one of my sessions with Steve I wrote this, “I just got back from a session with Steve. It’s amazing and fascinating how much I learn from him.”


One day I will make an impact in the domestic violence field. Steve’s encouragement helped me to start a dance class at the Battered Women’s Shelter. I remember how excited he was when I told him the idea. He had a gift, a true gift of helping others. He was a wonderful man; a wonderful person. I learned so much from him. I have become a better woman. I am a domestic violence survivor. I survived because of him. He was amazing and wonderful. I was lucky to have just a fraction of his time. He will always live on in my life. I will always remember his bright smile and incredible spirit.

My heart goes out to his family and close friends. I just know that all of them are amazing people. If I was unable to speak to any of them individually today, I send my sincere apologies in this letter.


Love,


Becky

Bonnie Franklin

January 2, 2009

Jeez, Steve, you always run through life at breakneck speed, maintaining your family, helping others, being on the cutting edge. You always have to do EVERYTHING RIGHT NOW. We wanted to learn from you as an example of how to grow old and still LIVE. Couldn't you have waited just a few more years... 20 or 30 before you died? For us?

Ann Fierstos

January 2, 2009

I knew Steve for 40 years. In the hundreds of times we got together, I don't think there was a single time we didn't have some kind of disagreement. He was smart, opinionated, cantankerous and a terrible tease. He was always proud of his children and was loving and caring to family and friends.
He was my brother.
I will miss him forever.
Ann Palecki Fierstos

Linda Wines Stokes

January 1, 2009

I was so sorry to read about Steve in the St Petersburg Times. He was a great person, and I remember him fondly from Northeast High School.

michael overstreet

January 1, 2009

we are thinking of the family and the loss of Steve..we were fortunate to know him and his family as Dilworth neighbors....the Snow cat still lives at their house on Lexington Avenue..Mike and Judith Overstreet

Janice Huguet Chandler

January 1, 2009

I remember Steve so well as we went to elementary, junior high and high school together. He was always the jokester and such a nice guy. He will be missed by the 1967 class of Northeast High School.

Bob BARRET

January 1, 2009

I met Steve some years ago when he was exploring the study of psychotherapy. I was fortunate to become his advisor and major professor during his MA and PhD degrees. The world is a lesser place now that he is gone. He had one of the most creative minds I have experienced and combined his intelligence with a humanitarian spirit that touched so many people. I am so sad that he is gone but feel so fortunate to have known him in such a special way. Yesterday when I heard him being discussed on NPR I realized that I only knew some of him. His impact has been far greater than I realized.

Joe Marinello

January 1, 2009

I had the pleasure of earning my Masters Degree at UNCC with Steve. We took many classes together. I remember one class we took together where we were partners and he played the part of the therapist and I played the part of the schizophrenic. Steve also created a web site for me entitled
"Men Stopping Violence". We also worked in the Domestic Violence arena together. He was a true friend and I will miss him dearly but will never forget him.

Cerese Feagans

January 1, 2009

I met Steve in 1978 when I went to work at The Charlotte News. I was impressed by his passion for journalism, his kind nature and most of all his sense of humor. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family.

Sam Eneman

December 31, 2008

I was also swept up in Steve's passion for Charlotte's Web and worked with him as a volunteer and Board member for a number of years. I was so shocked to read about his passing. I know he will be missed by so many people.

Sandy Archer

December 31, 2008

I am deeply saddened by the loss of such a caring person. My condolences to Dr. Snow's family.

December 31, 2008

My thoughts go out to the entire Snow family. Fond memories of Steve and the time spent with the family at St. Patrick's.
Marjorie Bazluki

Kim Funderburk

December 31, 2008

Timm:
Was so sorry and saddened to hear about your dad. My thoughts are with you during the days, months and years to come.
Kim Funderburk

Ann Helms

December 31, 2008

Hearing about Steve's death was a shock, but writing about it was a joy. I knew Steve as a pleasant and intelligent Features department editor back in the 1990s, but knew little about the rest of his life. It's inspiring to learn what a rich life he led, as a journalist and in other roles. I know his family and friends treasure great memories.

Kirsten Sikkelee

December 31, 2008

We were heartbroken to read that Steve had died. In 1996, Steve offered to help me create a resource center for the Women in Transition program of the YWCA. With two donated computers, no cash, armed with his can-do drive and technological expertise, the formerly homeless women that we housed were linked to the Internet through Steve's creation, Charlotte's Web. Over the last 12 years, hundreds of women overcoming the tragedy of homelessness have benefitted from his initial vision. As Steve pursued his dream of counseling, he returned to the YWCA to volunteer his time and talents in individual and group sessions. He was a delightful, positive, innovative person and his legacy continues at the YWCA Central Carolinas and beyond. Thank you for sharing him with us!

Jessica Sides

December 31, 2008

I am shocked and saddened to hear of Steve's passing. I had the pleasure of working with him for a very short time. He was one of the most kind, compassionate, and easy-going people I've met. He was truly dedicated to helping others, a quality that's rare these days. I know he will be missed. His family and friends will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Fred Bez

December 31, 2008

December 31, 2008

Got the news about Steve from his best friend, Ed Fierstos, and it is still taking time to grasp, if we can do such a thing. I met Steve just a few years after he and Ed met when they were about 14. I was 17 and we all spent many hours with the kids at Jordan Park in the projects in St. Petersburg. We also spent time at the counter at Wolfies eating ice cream or playing tennis or working together to pay for school at the St. Petersburg Times coloring and printing plant in the early days. We also just hung out and laughed and were teenagers, then young adults at U.S.F in Tampa working at the campus newspaper, The Oracle. We went separate ways after college and Steve and Ed maintained regularly in touch. I was recently reconnected to both of them via the internet sleuth of Joe, one of Ed's sons. Steve and I had a 4 hour visit in Johnson City, Tn., in November of 2007. It had been about 25 years since our last visit when I saw he and Pat in Florida. We picked up our conversation as if it had been only a week and of course we talked of all the years, past, present and future. I was able to reconnect with my friend Steve and we coached each other via email. I was centered again in a way that surprised me due to the reawakened feelings of long time friends like Steve and Ed. I came to depend on these communications and looked forward to future visits with Steve and Ed and their families. I am so lucky to have been reconnected with old friends and will miss Steve always. I hope his family can gain some strength in time from the knowledge of how far reaching and positive Steve has always been. More than 40 years have passed since those early days and it certainly now seems like the blink of an eye. Keep her on the road Steve and let us know how it goes. You were always one to make the first and best moves. Miss you buddy.

Tom Franklin

December 31, 2008

I was so sorry to hear of Steve's death. I worked with him as reporter and for him as editor. I always considered him a great friend.

Dawn Pressley

December 31, 2008

Steve was a wonderful person to work with and a great asset for all he did for the people in Buncombe County. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and friends.

John Basilice

December 31, 2008

My deepest sympathy to Steve's loved ones.

Steve was a tremendous spirit who helped make women and children safer by challenging violent offendors to change their paradigm. Obviously, Steve was an innovator and change agent in so many ways. I remember someone challenging him on his motivation for an altruistic effort, with at least the implication that it was only out of his self-interest, Steve didn't become defensive or distracted; he just gave that smile of his and said "that's not how I live my life" and got back into his presentation of the good things this effort could bring. The world is indeed a better place because of how Steve lived his life.

Steve at work at BCHC

December 31, 2008

Susan Ferguson

December 31, 2008

I am so shocked and saddened to hear of Steve's passing, but I am so fortunate to have known him - first, from his stint at the Charlotte Observer (he was at my dad's retirement party and wrote a beautiful story for the paper) and secondly, from Steve's more recent years at UNC Charlotte. Steve always had a smile on his face, always ready with a new idea, and always willing to help out. He was a joy to know. My deepest sympathy to his family and friends. He will be greatly missed.

Ken Garfield

December 31, 2008

I have rich memories of Steve as a dear colleague and fascinating friend at The Observer, going back 25 years. Losses like this remind us of life's fragile nature, and how truly fast the years pass by.

Suzanne and Brian Sigmon

December 31, 2008

We are so sad for your family. Our thoughts and condolences are with you all.

Linda Gardner

December 31, 2008

My heart goes out to the family. For this is a great lose. Dr Snow will greatly be missed by all who knew him.

Donna Shetley

December 31, 2008

was saddened to hear about Steves death.He will be greatly missed.My thoughts and prayers go out to the family.

Commissioner Lloyd Scher

December 31, 2008

I am very sad to hear about the passing of Steve I got to know him when he was developing Charlotte's Web at the Mecklenburg County Library.

He was a true giver to this world through his volunteer work at the Homeless Shelter and other non-profit organizations.

Steve was a joy to know and respect and I along with his family and friends will miss him.

Rita Wilkinson

December 30, 2008

I was saddened to hear of Steve's death and amazed to read about all that he had accomplished before I met him at UNCC. Steve contributed more to the communities that he lived in during his short time on earth than many of us ever would if we had 100 years. What an example to others. My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this most difficult time.

Jennifer Moore

December 30, 2008

I am so saddened to hear of Steve's passing. I went to graduate school with Steve and worked briefly with him in community mental health. He was always "on the move" and excited about everything there was to learn, and so kind as well to everyone. My condolences to his loved ones during this time of loss. May you have the peace and comfort of God.

Michael Boldt

December 30, 2008

Steve will be missed by many in this community. I met Steve at the Uptown Shelter for homeless men in 1996. He installed Charlotte's web in the shelter for the men to use. Over the years Steve always felt a connection with the men at the shelter. He would volunteer and offer his professional services to the men. I remember him as a smart, caring, real man. Fare thee well, my friend. Peace.

John Bordsen

December 30, 2008

I am incredibly saddened to hear of Steve's passing. He was my close colleague and friend at the Observer for many years. He was a man of great learning, profound compassion and stellar humor. I am better for knowing Steve; I am lessened for this loss. Villon's words ring too true from here on out: "Ou sont les neiges d'antan?"

Ken Sanford

December 30, 2008

Steve was a great help to me in getting involved in the Internet age, both in my work and at home. I also remember him fondly from the Charlotte Folk Society. He was always a restless soul, and kept searching. May he find rest now. Ken Sanford

VALERIE WRIGHT

December 30, 2008

IT WAS A GREAT PLEASURE WORKING WITH STEVE. HE WILL BE GREATLY MISSED. MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU ALL.

C.J. Tyler

December 30, 2008

To the family, I am so sorry for your loss. I pray God comforts you during this difficult time.

Bryan Alsop

December 30, 2008

I'm very sad and shocked to hear of Steve's passing. I worked with Steve in The Charlotte Observer newsroom in the 1990s and, like Steve, had a passion for the Web when it was in its infancy. Steve swept me up in his infectious enthusiasm for Charlotte's Web, and I was one of the early volunteers for that venture. Those were great times! During those days, I remember Bob Cannon (who led the Charlotte-Mecklenburg Library at the time) describing Steve as "a man on fire." Indeed he was. He will be dearly missed. I extend my condolences to his family and many friends.

Robert Gammon

December 30, 2008

I went to High School with Steve Snow, at Northeast High School in
St. Petersburg, Fla. He was a great
person then. I'm so sad to find out
he's passed on. I'm sure his many contacts through life will feel as I do right now.

Roy Pickett

December 30, 2008

I am saddened to hear of Steve's passing. I worked with him for several years with One Special Christmas. He will be missed by many.

Becky Wilson

December 30, 2008

Steve was a great friend to many of Northeast High School's Class of 1967. He will be remembered and missed by his classmates. Becky Day Wilson

Salem Macknee

December 30, 2008

Steve did so much for so many people. And everybody has a favorite story about him! It's hard to believe someone so colorful, so vital is gone.

David Ramsey

December 30, 2008

I too am shocked and sad to learn of Steve's passing. I worked very closely with Steve and others involved with Charlotte's Web years ago. He was one of the most energetic and passionate people I've ever known, always looking for alternative and creative solutions to challenges. I send my most sincere sympathy to all of Steve's family and friends.

Lisa Piazzi

December 30, 2008

Patt and Timm:
I was shocked and saddened to hear of your loss.Our sincerest condolences to your entire family.
The Piazzi Family

Angela Shannon

December 30, 2008

I remember Steve Snow as a kind, sensitive, soft-spoken editor and dedicated journalist who walked to work during a rare major snowstorm (I think it was the Blizzard of 1993). You could tell he cared about his job and his colleagues. Rest in peace, Steve. My condolences to the family.

David Enna

December 30, 2008

I worked with Steve for many years at the Observer. What I remember most was his incredible passion -- shown in his amazing work on Charlotte's Web and also in the One Special Christmas auctions. He just kept pushing and pushing those projects. He was a true Internet pioneer, a zealot who saw the future and wanted the whole community included.

Michelle Suriano

December 30, 2008

I am so, so sorry for your loss! I was taken aback on seeing the article and remember him fondly from my St. Patrick's Day. I will be thinking of you all! Michelle Suriano (formerly Mazoyer)

Tracy Greene

December 30, 2008

We will miss Steve's ability to tie the meaning of technology and its many uses so that everyone understood. Back in the "Electronic Neighborhood," days (1999), Steve helped many Charlotte residents appreciate the use of e-mail and the Internet to help improve skills and access to needed information for a better quality of life.

We will miss him.

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