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Mattie Rice Obituary

Mattie Rice, a slave's daughter who urged Union County to erect a marker honoring the Confederate Army service of her father and other slaves, died Monday in High Point, her family said. She was 91.

The Union County native is believed to be among the last people in the state with a parent who was enslaved, said Earl Ijames, a curator at the North Carolina Museum of History.

"Her fortitude and her dignity was evident from the first moment I met her," said Ijames, who also had supported the marker drive. He praised Rice's persistence over the years in highlighting her family background, work that illuminated a long-forgotten chapter of state history.

In December 2012, Rice helped dedicate the marker in Monroe to her father and nine other Union County men. Nine of the men were slaves and one was a free black man, all of whom served in the Confederate Army during the Civil War then received tiny state pensions for their service late in life.

The granite marker at at the Old County Courthouse is thought to be the first of its kind in the nation to honor black men who worked, willingly or not, for the Confederacy. The marker was placed in front of a century-old Civil War monument from the Jim Crow era.

Rice's father, Wary Clyburn, died in 1930 at about age 90 when his daughter was 8.

During the war, he ran away from his plantation in South Carolina to join his master's son, working as his bodyguard and cook. He spoke proudly about risking his life to save the son, dragging him to safety after he had been wounded in battle, Rice recalled.

Clyburn settled in Monroe after the war, and is buried in a local cemetery.

There is no way to know how many of the Union County men willingly followed their owners into war and how many were forced into service. Historians have said virtually no black men fought in battle for the Confederacy, although slave labor was used for support and logistical work.

The marker was not without controversy, and to some historians, it sparked questions about misguidedly elevating the role of "black Confederates" while downplaying the central role that slavery occupied in the Civil War.

Rice ignored such criticism, and spent decades pursuing her unusual family history.

Before the 2012 ceremony, she told the Observer, "A lot of people ask me if I'm angry. What do I have to be angry about? There's been slavery since the beginning of time. I'm not bitter about it and I do not think my father would be bitter about it."

Tony Way, a local amateur historian and Sons of Confederate Veterans member, had led the push for the marker. He said he was glad that Rice had lived long enough to see the marker become reality.

Rice, who lived in Archdale, had congestive heart failure and died two weeks before her 92nd birthday, daughter Ruth Young said. Funeral arrangements are incomplete.

- Adam Bell, The Charlotte Observer
Published by Charlotte Observer on Sep. 2, 2014.

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leroy james

September 9, 2014

You will always live in our hearts and prayers.

Theresa James

September 9, 2014

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

Martin Pennington SCV Camp 50

September 9, 2014

We mourn the loss of this Southern lady.

Lee

September 6, 2014

I offer my deepest sympathies for the family of Miss Mattie Rice, who has fallen asleep in death. I did not know her personally, however I am certain that she was an extraordinary woman. Therefore may the comforting words found at John11:25 offer peace to you all.

Lani Burnette Rinkel

September 5, 2014

The Daughters have lost a precious treasure. Ms Mattie, your fortitude is legendary among us. Thank you for your example of how to honor and defend our ancestors. Peace and comfort on your family until we all meet at the last trump. Psalm 116:15

Barb Ferguson

September 5, 2014

Mattie,

Life here, on the planet is short and often difficult. RIP dear person and know that the Lord, will one day come again and uniting with your loved ones may well be in your book of life and theirs...she is resting peacefully. Prayers and RIP>

Your Guardian Angel has gone on to help another in life.

Thomas Hockenbury

September 5, 2014

How wonderful to have such a blessed life.
May Jesus welcome her with open arms saying, 'Will done good and faithful servant".

Jeff Barbour

September 5, 2014

GOD Bless Miss Mattie. Thank you for all you have done for your State, your Country and your linage. Thank you for educating the rest of us to your father's HONORABLE service. Finally you are with your father and Jesus Christ where there is no pain or suffering. I'm so sorry I never had the honor to meet you on this side. To your family, GOD REST! Jeff Barbour 13th Virginia Mechanize Cavalry SCV#9 Bugler

September 4, 2014

We offer our condolences to the family of "Miss Mattie".

Albert Sidney Johnston Chapter 1480 United Daughters of the Confederacy Cincinnati, Ohio.

J .B

September 3, 2014

It's very hard to bear the loss of someone so dear. And although there is little that one can say or do to take away all your pain, please know that you are in the thoughts and prayers of many. May every loving memory be like the warming rays of sun which help to bring some comfort when the pain and sorrow comes. And may you continue to assure your heart that Keith is safe in God's memory. Malachi 3:16; Micah 4:4. May God grant you comfort and peace. With heartfelt condolences.

September 3, 2014

We offer our condolences on the passing of Miss Mattie. What a wonderful legacy she leaves for her family and many generations to come. Our sincerest sympathy is extended to her family. Shiloh Chapter 2538, Texas

Dorothea Deese

September 2, 2014

Praying for peace for the family of Mattie. I did not know her but would have loved to have spent many hours talking with and getting to know her. May your noble blessed soul rest in peace.

September 2, 2014

Miss Mattie,
We will miss you. We have precious memories of getting to know you, a wonderful and caring Lady. You will be missed.
Shirley Glasgow, Joseph H. Cash 2647, Butner, NC

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