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Samuel Spencer Obituary

Samuel Reid Spencer Jr.'s tenure as the 14th president of Davidson College spanned a tumultuous period of change. Davidson had just opened its doors to blacks in 1968 when Spencer arrived. Four years later, the all-male school went co-ed.

Spencer died Wednesday at the Pines in Davidson. He was 94.

"The single most important thing about Sam was bringing co-education to Davidson," said Tony Abbott, professor emeritus at the college. "A lot of the faculty members were opposed to co-education. It was a struggle, but Sam turned it around and made Davidson the place it is today."

"Dr. Spencer was always a step ahead of us, kindly and gently," said former Charlottean D.G. Martin, now the host of UNC-TV's "North Carolina Bookwatch" in Chapel Hill. Spencer followed Martin's father, Grier Martin, as president of the college.

"When we moved to Davidson, my parents fell in love with the Spencers," Martin said. "All I heard was 'Sam and Ava. Sam and Ava.' My father had enormous respect for Sam's experience and judgment."

When illness prompted Grier Martin to leave the presidency, Martin says Spencer "made it possible for my father – who was less and less capable of participating – to continue to be part of the college family."

Spencer left Davidson in 1983 to become president of the Virginia Foundation for Independent Colleges in Richmond. John Kuykendall then took the helm.

Kuykendall vividly remembered Spencer's "graciousness and openness about everything here."

"We had talked very frankly about some very difficult circumstances," Kuykendall said. "Then he said to me, 'As you go into the presidency, I will answer any question you ask, and I won't answer any question you don't ask.'

"That was such a wise statement and meant such absolute openness," Kuykendall said. "That was liberating all around."

Born June 6, 1919, in Rock Hill, the son of Samuel Reid Spencer and Mary Thomson Spencer, Spencer grew up in Columbia, S.C. At Davidson College, he headed the student body, served as managing editor of the student newspaper and graduated Phi Beta Kappa and summa cum laude in 1940 with a B.A. degree in English.

He served five years in the U.S. Army and was released from active duty as a major.

After a summer's study at UCLA, he entered graduate school at Harvard University and earned a PhD in American social history. During that time, he married Ava Clayton Clark of Abingdon, Va.

In 1951, he returned to Davidson as assistant to President John Cunningham. Three years later, he was named dean of students. By 1955, he was full professor of history. That year, Little, Brown published Spencer's book: "Booker T. Washington and the Negro's Place in American Life."

Says former Davidson student Bill Jackson, who worked in the administration of president John F. Kennedy: "Under Dr. Spencer, I had one of the most influential, substantive courses of my undergraduate and graduate academic life – American diplomatic history."

Spencer left Davidson in 1957 to become president of Mary Baldwin College in Staunton, Va.

"He did a magnificent job at Mary Baldwin," Kuykendall said. "When Grier Martin left the presidency, it was a no-brainer to ask Sam to come back and be president."

During his tenure, Davidson's endowment grew from $13.8 million to $30 million, and enrollment increased from 1,000 to 1,350. He spearheaded the construction of the E.H. Little Library, which opened in 1974 and encouraged the expansion of study-abroad programs. Disturbed by the "growing exclusivism" of campus fraternities, he supported a "self-selection" system in which students could choose their affiliations.

He also championed civil rights, pushing for increased recruitment of minority students and faculty at Davidson. For these efforts, he was recognized with the Whitney M. Young Jr. Award from the Urban League of Central Carolinas.

While at Davidson, Spencer served as chairman of the Association of American Colleges and was appointed by President Jimmy Carter to the U.S. Board of Foreign Scholarships.

In 1964, Davidson awarded him an honorary doctor of laws degree, and the following year he was Fulbright lecturer in American social history at the University of Munich in Germany.

"I had a much easier time being president of this college because Sam was president before I was," Kuykendall said. "He paved the way. He laid the groundwork."

The Spencers returned to Davidson in 1989. Sam Spencer, in addition to playing rigorous tennis, served on the boards of directors of Davidson College, Mary Baldwin, Agnes Scott in Atlanta, Warren Wilson in Swannanoa and Union Presbyterian Seminary in Richmond.

"Dad had an unassailable sense of right and wrong," said son Reid Spencer. "But in what is an almost impossibly rare combination, he was open to any and all points of view, was relentlessly tolerant of others' failings and never, ever spoke ill of another human being."

Spencer is survived by his wife Ava, and his children Samuel Reid Spencer III and wife Candice of Davidson; Ellen Henschen and husband Gary of Atlanta; Clayton Spencer of Lewiston, Maine; and Frank Spencer and wife Melanie of Charlotte, as well as nine grandchildren and one great-grandson.

- Dannye Romine Powell, The Charlotte Observer
Published by Charlotte Observer on Oct. 16, 2013.

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March 11, 2017

He was such a wonderful leader at Mary Baldwin. He knew all our names and whom we dated at which men's school and what our interests were. I am glad he had a long and successful life.
cewall, MBC AB degree class of 67, UGA JD 70.

Dot Killian

October 22, 2013

Frank:
Please know that I am praying for you and your family. Be encouraged.
Dot

Reed

October 22, 2013

My condolence to Mr Spencer JR family may God strength you at this very difficult time.

October 21, 2013

Frank and family, I am sorry to hear the news of your father's passing. You are in my thoughts and prayers always. You were blessed to have had such a wonderful man as a father you guided you througout the years.

October 21, 2013

With greatest honor to me is my life long remembrance of Dr. Sam Spencer, beginning with my Freshman year in the Fall of 1942, when 1st Lt. Sam Spencer was my Assistant ROTC Professor of Military Science and Tactics. His Davidson influence then was to later lead me to a Military Career which he continuously tracked throughout the years, culminating with my promotion to Regular Army Colonel and graduation from U.S.Army War College.

JOHN EDWARD GRAY, Class of '46-49
Army Distinguished Service Cross

Dottie Barber

October 19, 2013

Sending my condolence to the Spencer Family

William E. Jackson Jr.

October 18, 2013

Having been a student at Davidson College,1953-1957, and a faculty member, 1968-1973, it is my considered judgment that Sam Spencer--aided by his progressive spouse--was the real leader who pulled Davidson into the late 20th century. He was a modern man, with a strong Christian commitment. I knew him.

Linda Sisan

October 18, 2013

Although we've never met, reading about your loved ones life was truly amazing. The tribute mentioned , of "never, ever speaking ill of anyone", is very remarkable. Psalms 90:10, speaks of his long life. May, "the God of all comfort " be with you.

October 17, 2013

Deepest sympathy to Ava and all of the children and grandchildren. I regret losing touch with him in recent years, as he was a great man who made many fine contributions not only to education, but also to many people with his good counsel and his kindness.
My thoughts and prayers will be with the Spencer family. Nancy M. Lanier

October 17, 2013

Frank,
You have my sincere sympathy. You and your family are in my prayers.
Jackie Way

Heidi Andreasen

October 17, 2013

Frank, please accept my heartfelt sympathy for the loss of your father. I hope that you can find comfort in memories of your father.

October 17, 2013

My thoughts and wonderful memories are with Ava and all of the family who loved Montreat and who were and are such caring neighbors.
Jane P. Holt

October 16, 2013

Frank, wow...our prayers are with you and Mel
Chuck and Debbie Hughston

Clay Macaulay

October 16, 2013

I had the good fortune of being a student at Davidson from 1977 until 1981, while Dr. Spencer was president. I am forever grateful to him for his stewardship and grace provided for the College we love! Grace and peace!

Jean Berrier-Tate

October 16, 2013

Frank, So sorry for your loss. Your dad was an inspiration to many. Thoughts and prayers to you and your family.

Betsy Lawson

October 16, 2013

Frank, I want to extend my heartfelt condolences. What a rich legacy you and your siblings share. Your dad was an amazing man deserving of countless tributes. May the Lord comfort you in your time of sorrow.

October 16, 2013

Frank -

I am sorry to hear the news of your father's passing. While I never had the pleasure of meeting him, I was always aware of what a great man he was. Our community is richer for his having walked with us.

You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

John Crowell

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