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On the 35th day of the search for Zahra Baker, Hickory police Chief Tom Adkins stood before television cameras on Friday and made a tearful announcement.

"I've been dreading this moment," Adkins said. Authorities have found enough evidence, he said, to prove the child is dead.

"Investigators, agents, and officers who worked on this case are devastated that they could not find Zahra alive and bring her home safely," he said.

Adkins, who has overseen the investigation since the freckled 10-year-old with the wide smile was reported missing last month, said DNA taken from a child's bone discovered last week on Christy Road in Caldwell County matched a DNA sample taken from Zahra's belongings at her house.

Additional human remains found along a creek five miles away are consistent with those of a child, he said. Those remains will be sent to the State Bureau of Investigation lab for positive identification.

The possibility that Zahra's remains have been discovered in at least two places sent shudders through the community.

"We can't believe this happened to a child," said Charles Estes, 68, who was among a group of Hickory residents awaiting news about Zahra outside the police department. "We're sad it was way too late for Zahra. We continue to pray for her and hope justice is done."

No charges were filed on Friday. District Attorney James Gaither Jr. said investigators are continuing to piece together findings in the grisly case.

"We're continuing to put a case together," he said. "The DA's office is working with law enforcement and hope to see some resolution in this case that will result in charges being filed in the near future."

The search for Zahra, who had lost part of her leg to bone cancer, began on Oct. 9 when she was reported missing by her father, Adam Baker, 33, and her stepmother, Elisa Baker, 42. Police said she has not been seen by anyone outside of her family since Sept. 25.

The case, one of the more notorious in the state, has drawn worldwide attention. Television crews from Australia, where Zahra was born, traveled to Hickory, nestled at the foot of the N.C. mountains, to cover the story.

Zahra moved to North Carolina about two years ago with her father from Australia after he met his soon-to-be wife online. Zahra's friends and relatives in Australia described her as an outgoing, happy girl despite the cancer, and said she didn't want to come to the U.S.

The SBI will build a DNA profile for Zahra from cheek swabs collected from her biological father, Adam Baker, and her biological mother, Emily Dietrich, who arrived on Thursday from Australia.

Elisa Baker has been provisionally assigned a public defender specializing in capital cases, in anticipation of possible murder charges. She is currently in jail on felony obstruction of justice charges after police said she tried to throw off their investigation.

Search began in October

The case came to light in October with a backyard fire and a phony ransom note.

Based on emergency calls, the Bakers appeared to suggest that Zahra might have been kidnapped while her father and stepmother were dealing with an early-morning fire. Firefighters discovered a ransom note appearing to come from someone who claimed to have abducted the daughter of Baker's boss and landlord, Mark Coffey. But the Coffey family was fine.

In a second call later that day to report Zahra missing, Adam Baker told an emergency operator that the alleged kidnappers might have taken his daughter by mistake.

Days later, Elisa Baker was arrested after police say she admitted writing the phony ransom note intended to thwart their investigation.

People who knew the family since they arrived in North Carolina last year said Zahra was frequently locked in her room for hours at a time, sometimes all day. Family friends and neighbors said they saw her with bruises and black eyes.

Elisa Baker described herself on her MySpace page as "Gothic." One posting on the page, that has since been taken down, reads: "your kids rip your heart out." The page, titled "MissGothicfairy," also contained violent music and graphics on a skull-and-crossbones background.

One posted photo showed Zahra dressed in black and smiling. The caption read: "the dark child!!!lol."

The owner of a crime memorabilia website is selling two letters he claims he received from Elisa Baker saying that her husband did something "horrifying" to the girl after her death.

"We didn't really kill her but what he did after the fact is kinda horrifying," says one of the letters Eric Gein claims he got from Elisa Baker. "Makes me scared of him."

Staff writers Cleve R. Wootson Jr., Ely Portillo and the Associated Press contributed.

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Published by Charlotte Observer on Nov. 13, 2010.

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Chrystal Brown

August 24, 2022

Zahra, never had the opportunity to meet you.But as I said here and look at your beautiful smile in this pictures I'm sure you lit up the rooms when you walked in them. It's sad that something like this had to happen to you. R.IP Zahra

Danny Brackett

November 9, 2011

Zahra, I still think of you almost every day. I often contemplate what you would have grown into when you reached adulthood. As a child you touched so many lives I know, as an adult, your contributions to this world would be tremendous. I saw a mini van this week bearing your name on the license tag. Zahra means "shining flower". Be happy and be at peace, you are a beautiful angel! I look at you everyday. I have your picture on my screen savor. I want to look at you every day. What a special person you are for all eternity!

Joop Bersee

November 8, 2011

Sweet Zahra,

I live in The Netherlands with my family and was deeply touched when you disappeared. The bad news shattered me completely. You stood for courage, the will to live, an example and inspiration to many. You carried your terrible burden with a smile.
Now I see your photo again after many months and it made me very sad again. No, not only in your country you touched hearts. But you know that. You are never far away.

Patty Dedafoe

October 25, 2011

Hi Zahra. Just wanted you to know that I'm thinking of you. Hugs and Kisses

janet

October 21, 2011

Happy weekend sweetheart

janet

September 29, 2011

Precious

Peggy Owen

September 8, 2011

Zahra you touched so many hearts in many parts of this country. I still think about you often and wish you could have had a normal life like any girl your age should have.
Hope you know how so many people have sent up many good words to you...you were loved when you thought you weren't.

rita smith

September 7, 2011

luv you zahara zoey and maddy misses you and loves you

Barbera Pickett

September 6, 2011

You are loved & missed so very much. You & my daughter were friends in school. She says that you were very sweet & always had a pretty smile. R.I.P Sweet Angel.

donna ledford

September 6, 2011

she is an angel in heaven

Crystal McCloud

September 6, 2011

Zhara, you are greatly missed and will never be forgotten!! What happened to you was so very tragic and should never have happened!! I hope God takes a hold of whoever hurt you and makes the truth come to the light so that you may rest in peace!!!

deborah hobbs

September 6, 2011

I KNOW YOU ARE MISSED HERE. BUT YOU ARE PRETTY LITTLE ANGEL UP IN HEAVEN.

christy stewart

September 6, 2011

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

Keisha Lambe

September 6, 2011

Always thinking about you Zahra. I Love you.

Kim Kilpatrick

September 6, 2011

Never forget your AMAZING smile x x x x

Janet

September 5, 2011

Think of you always Zahra. God bless you angel. I bet you have the biggest wings ever.

August 21, 2011

Dear Beautiful little angel, Zahra Baker,precious child,may you be so happy in Heaven in Gods love forever.And may the whole truth come out on this earth, as to what really happened to you.God Bless you precious beautiful angel.Amen

Shelley

August 9, 2011

Your in my thoughts and prayers everyday. God Bless you baby girl!! Love ya much!

Marion Keith

July 23, 2011

We still remember you ANGEL Zahra. Love you very much. Brittany,Rayna,Marion

mirella

July 20, 2011

Dear God please bless Your little beautiful, Zahra, angel,Your precious loving little girl,it hurts so much to hear about the pain she went through,it should never have happened.I feel so much love for Zahra as so many others do, who also never met her.I wish the world could have saved her from all the pain she went through,its too tragic.I wish I could give her a hug.I pray now that there is complete admission and confession of sins on this earth from every human being,no matter how big or small the sins are.That everyone gets their hearts purified,so evil is banished from this world 100%.I will fast and pray for this & for little Zahra and all the other little children who have endured pain,my heart breaks for them.Amen

Patricia Dedafoe

July 14, 2011

Hi Zahra. Everyday I think of you and that justice will prevail soon. I will never forget you. You are a remarkable girl and everyone here will never forget you. I know that you are not in pain anymore and are in a better place.

Corinne

May 6, 2011

Zahra you are in my thoughts. I hope you are dancing with the Angels.. I hope you meet my father up there he loves kids and I am sure he will love you

janet

April 28, 2011

Zahra I think of you often. We will meet one day.I wish you could have grown up in my family.

Janet

March 11, 2011

Zahra you will always be in my heart. You are safe now in the arms of the angels.You are loved by many.

Jean Morgan

February 22, 2011

I lost two very important people in my life last year. I weeped so hard when I lost my mother-in-law to cancer and a 17 yr old child to homicide. I know how Zahra's mom feels not to have been able to say good-bye or I LOVE YOU. Zahra is safe now and I know my Mother-in-law is with her. The Lord knew what he was doing even though we are in pain. Zahra is no longer in pain and is in a Peaceful place with alot of other angels.

Julie Ellis

February 21, 2011

You are safe now in the arms of the Lord. I hope you know how much you are loved today, tomorrow and always...

debbie ness

February 21, 2011

god bless you zahra you are now safe from harm

Janice Davis

February 3, 2011

We at our church Galatians Idependence Churc of Elm City was so sad to hear of this .we know now youy are one of God's angel . The Lord knew what you was going to came down to take you home. No more pain just joy.

Tracey

January 28, 2011

Zahra,
What happened to you was horrible. You had a fighting spirit. When I think of what happened to you I want to cry. Please know that your story has touched all of us. I know that you are in heaven now-and God will always love and take care of you

sheila

January 25, 2011

I think about you often. I was really hoping that this would not have turned out this way and I am beyond saddened for your loss. I am so sorry that none of us were able to change how it ended. Rest in peace you sweet sweet soul.

January 10, 2011

Zahra,
YOur smile will always been in our hearts you were a brave little girl and I am sorry about what happened to you-but I know that you are in heaven and God will take care of you now.

Holly Young

January 7, 2011

keep up that sweet smile, zahra baker

Brittany & Mommy

Brittany Marion Keith

January 6, 2011

Ellen Dee

January 6, 2011

Dearest Zahra....

I think & pray for you everyday. I never had children, but after seeing you on TV, I knew that if I were to have a child...I'd only hope that child would have been you.
Your sweet smile brought happiness to all who knew of you. Now you are in heaven where no one can hurt you ever again. I only hope that when my time comes, we will meet. I will never forget you.

Ellen Dee

January 6, 2011

Dearest Zahra....

I think & pray for you everyday. I never had children, but after seeing you on TV, I knew that if I were to have a child...I'd only hope that child would have been you.
Your sweet smile brought happiness to all who knew of you. Now you are in heaven where no one can hurt you ever again. I only hope that when my time comes, we will meet. I will never forget you.

Joy Motte

January 4, 2011

I admire you courage, Zshra. You're a little angel now.

shelley alger

January 3, 2011

Rest in peace Zahra. Your smile is something we will hold in our hearts always.

Melanie Hall Hughen

January 2, 2011

Rest in peace sweet girl; you will always be remembered!

Maria S.

January 1, 2011

Dear Zahra,
I may not have known u but your strength, and fight that you had in u gave me my strength and fight back hearing your story... u are in a better place where ur not only safe but also no more pain & sickness. U helped me see my life as a 1st time mom to be the best. May u rest in peace and continue to smile upon us baby girl. You are gone but will never be forgotten!!

Michelle

December 31, 2010

Zahra..
You have touched so many hearts. You will never be forgotten. Rest in Peace sweet child.

Zahra's Candle

Trish Anderson

December 31, 2010

Zahra...
You will always have a special place in my heart and will never be forgotten... my heart cries for you... I wish I would have known you so I could have saved you... my sympathy to your Real Mom Emily... and may she find peace...
Rest in Peace Sweet Zahra...

Lillian Chabassol

December 31, 2010

Sweet Zahra, you will always hold a special place in my heart. You are happy now and no one will ever hurt you again. RIP Sweet Angel....

A Purple Candle 4 Healing RIP Sweet Zahra

Trish Anderson

December 31, 2010

Stephanie Lloyd

December 30, 2010

Zahra... I look at you and see a beautiful girl who deserved much better then what you were given. Your smile could light up a room, rest in peace..you're never going to be forgotten. I wish you would've gotten the chance to know a better world.

Joy Motte

December 19, 2010

Keep up that sweet smile, Zahra.

Nicki Propst

December 19, 2010

Rest in peace child. You have touched so many hearts. You will never be forgotten

Theresa Purcell

December 19, 2010

Dear Zahra, I am truelly sorry for what happened to you. I wish u would have been my little girl. Not one day goes by that I don't think of you. You were so beautiful, graceful and strong. I want so much to hold you in my arms. you didn't deserve the life you had. I will never forget you and I will try to watch for other children who may be going through what you went through. To me you were the greatest thing in the whole world and now your gone. This has changed my life forever. I will always keep a picture of you and a candle lit for you.

December 18, 2010

Sleep in peace little girl

rip zahra baker

Holly Young

December 17, 2010

Joy Motte

December 16, 2010

You are so brave, Zahra. Keep up that smile.

Cyndi Landreth

December 14, 2010

You precious little Zahra, rest in peace.

Patricia Dedafoe

December 14, 2010

My Dearest Zahra,

You have deeply touched my heart. You’ve changed my life and others down here. I’d loved your bubbly smile and your sweet freckled face. I will pray for you every night. I know that you are in a better place now with God and the other angels. I will never forget you. Even though I never had the pleasure of meeting you, deep down in my heart it feels like I know you. Rest in peace my sweet angel. We will never forget you.

S Hammer

December 14, 2010

Zahra is in a much better place and away from the physical and emotional pain her short 10 years brought her. Her legacy is great. She made so many aware of those children still suffering in silence.

Heather Kennedy

December 14, 2010

Angels belong in heaven, the world was blessed to have you. Your light will shine forever.

Zahra Baker

Richard Debnam

December 12, 2010

God bless you Zahra. You will be missed and you will never be forgotten.

Dorian Frye

December 12, 2010

LOVyto.E YOU zAHAR at home with the father you are yo sweet to beforgoyyen

janice ryals

December 11, 2010

December 11, 2010

ITS A SHAME THAT GOD ALLOWED SUCH A PRECIOUS ANGEL TO BE TAKEN SO SOON. THERE WILL BE GLORY IN HER PASSING. THATS GODS PROMISE. LARRY

suzetta hawn

December 11, 2010

You have touch so many lives and taught us all to look out for our little angels
You are in Gods Hands Now and safe.

Michele Duer

December 11, 2010

Zahra, Rest in peace little one.

Helen Chu

December 11, 2010

Dear Zahra,

Your life and bravery have touched me so deeply even though I have never met you. I am sure now you are in Heaven and live happily ever after. May God and the angels watch over you. You will not be forgotten.

Nina Price

December 11, 2010

Zahra I don't know why your short time on this earth was so painful but I do know you are safe and pain free now in God's Hands.

Sandy Lane

December 10, 2010

Zahra, may you rest in peace. God will take you in his arms and keep you safe. God please take care of this little angel. We will always love you

Angie Amen

December 10, 2010

Dear Zahra,
You look just like my daughter. I see you in her eyes. Your story saddens me while your courage is what I strive for. You will forever be in our hearts. You are now in the hands of our Lord where you feel no pain and can run free. Thank you for blessing this world with your courage and your beautiful smile. Rest easy little one.

Debboe Barringer

December 10, 2010

Rest in Peace baby girl! We will always remember you! I am sure God is wrapping his loving arms around you!

Diane Vellucci

December 10, 2010

Zahra I know you are a true Angel in heaven. Im so sorry life was so hard.

TONYA THOMPSON

December 10, 2010

I NEVER HAD THE HONOR TO MEET YOU, I AM SURE THAT YOUR IN HEAVEN WITH MY BABY AND JESUS HE IS THE GREATEST PARENT ANY CHILD CAN HAVE REST IN PEACE SWEET ANGEL

Tammy Franklin

December 10, 2010

To Zahra,
May you rest in peace and know that you are truly loved. You are an inspiration to us all. God bless you!

frankie holland

December 10, 2010

May you find peace at last in the loving arms of your Creator.

Lori McCann

December 10, 2010

Such a beautiful and strong young woman, taken far to soon. You are very much missed but God has given you your angel wings, spread them wide and fly. You deserve all the freedom heavan has to offer.

Bernard Mansell

December 10, 2010

Zahra we will never forget, I shed a tear when I herd you left our world. But now I know you are at peace, Give the angles a kiss & hug for me.

jerri marks

December 10, 2010

you were a swet angel god gave too the world you suffered so much in your short life but now you have no more pain nomore suffering may god richly bless you rip sweet heart

December 10, 2010

You are in God's warm embrace now precious Zahra.
Judy North Carolina

Amanda Burch

December 10, 2010

RIP Babygirl!!! You are missed deeply!!! You have touched alot of peoples hearts and changed alot of peoples lives!!! You are safe now & I hope you are running around care free!! Watch over every one of us, protect the children that are going thru trouble times, and let them know that You are their Guardian ANGEL!!!

Patti Pizzano

December 10, 2010

RIP sweet Zahra. You have no idea how many lives you have touched. It is amazing all you went through, yet in every picture you are wearing a beautiful smile. I know you are at peace now.

Janis

December 10, 2010

Your pain is gone, your body is whole, run, laugh, play and be happy! The stars are brighter now with Little Zahra as the newest little angel. God bless you Zahra! Emily-She will never be forgotten, she is such an inspiration to so many. God bless you and your family during this time.

lisa sexton

December 10, 2010

sweet little zahra, my hearts hurts soo much because i didnt know you, how i would have loved to have made you my daughter, i pray for justice, i am soo waiting for that day,i take comfort in knowing you are with our father in paradise . you are whole now, free from any harm or pain and i shall see you in heaven when god calls me home, on that day i want a great big hug from you ! run and play little zahra , be happy , i will never ever forget you

Janis

December 10, 2010

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2010

ELAINE DILLS

December 10, 2010

Rest in peace. Little angel on earth, now an angel in heaven.

S Plummer

December 10, 2010

You were a sweet, precious, beautiful little girl. Your smile captured the heart of the world. You will always be remembered by everyone. Never to hurt again, you are free from pain in the arms of Jesus. God Bless your mommy & grandmother who misses & mourns for you. I pray that God will surround them with his love & comfort. RIP Zahra...not goodbye, but see you later <3

kimberly fry

December 10, 2010

god bless!!!!

Stephanie O'Shields

December 10, 2010

Peace to you, beautiful child. You are an Angel. You are loved.

Cheryl Mills

December 10, 2010

I didn't know u,but u have affected my life,my heart in a way u will never know.God Bless U u little precious angel.ur life was taken way too soon.Rest in Peace Zahra.

Kristina Krause

December 10, 2010

You have blessed many hearts, before and after you glided into heaven. To me, you have made an indent in my heart. A story that will never fade out of my mind, forever. I know you're smiling so big right now, looking over all of us who care and miss your presence. Rest in peace, you beautiful angel.

Joyce Herman

December 10, 2010

You will always live in our hearts and prayers.

shilla cothran

December 10, 2010

god sure took a beautiful angel when he took you no more suffering or pain

Sarah Houk

December 10, 2010

Rest in peace sweet angel. <3

Pat Wagner

December 10, 2010

R.I.P.

amanda gonzalez

December 10, 2010

Rest in peace you little angel may god bless you and your family and run with the andels baby girl you have no worries now! love mandy

Judy

December 10, 2010

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

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