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Carey Scovel, 28, a Charlotte Police Officer, died in Columbia, South Carolina on April 21, 2012 of complications from Graft vs. Host disease. Carey was a survivor of Non-Hodgkins lymphoma and a bone marrow transplant recipient.
Carey was born in Newport, Rhode Island on October 15, 1983 the son of Brigadier General Calvin Scovel, USMC and Kiki Scovel. In 1986 he moved to Montclair, Virginia. Carey was active in many community activities including Boy Scout Troop 964 where he attained the rank of Eagle Scout, and was confirmed at the First United Presbyterian Church of Dale City. He graduated from Hylton High School in 2002 and received his B.A. from Elon University in 2006. He was a founding brother of Sigma Phi Epsilon, Mu Chapter. In 2007 Carey joined the police force in Charlotte, North Carolina where he was a patrolman in the Independence division. Carey was diagnosed with Non-Hodgkins lymphoma in 2009 and underwent a bone marrow transplant. He returned to work with the Charlotte Police Department following his transplant until further complications arose.
In 2010 Carey married his college sweetheart Alexandra Fippinger in Charlotte, North Carolina and they moved to Columbia, South Carolina, where Ms. Scovel is Coordinator for Volunteer Programs for Admissions at the University of South Carolina. Carey was admired for his positive attitude and his determination to help others despite his cancer. He was active in the young adult cancer foundation, i'm too young for this! stupid cancer (i2y.org), attending their annual conference twice. He felt it was important to help and support other young adults as they faced the challenges of cancer and survivorship.
Carey is survived by his beloved wife, Alexandra, parents Brigadier General Calvin Scovel, USMC and Kiki Scovel of Montclair, VA; brother, 2nd Lt. Thomas Scovel, USMC; sister in law Shannon Scovel of Carlsbad, CA; grandmother Dolores Gallant of Wilmington, NC; and many aunts, uncles, and cousins.
A service to celebrate his life will be held at 2 p.m. on Saturday, April 28, 2012 at Harry & Bryant Company, 'Chapel in the Oaks', 500 Providence Rd., Charlotte. Visitation will be held from 6 until 8 p.m. Friday evening, April 27th at the funeral home. Burial will be private.
In lieu of flowers memorials may be made to the the Carey Scovel Memorial Fund at CareyScovelMemorialFund.bbnow.org
Condolences may also be expressed at www.HarryandBryantFuneralHome.com
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Mom & Dad
April 15, 2013
Our wonderful son, Carey is always in our hearts. We are missing you so much.
July 24, 2012
Just wanted to share we grew and donated 26 pounds of vegetables in the community garden immemorial and it was donated to. Charlotte rescue mission. We know he is missed and we will pray that your family be uplifted. PHCC Inc celebrating heroes!
Kathryn Hove
July 20, 2012
While doing some research, I happened upon Calvin's name and then this website. Calvin, I went to grade school with you in Fairfield, Iowa. To your entire, family, please know I am so sorry for your loss and pray you all feel the comfort of the Holy Spirit as you live with this loss. My husband (Harlo) and I lost a son (also and Eagle Scout) in 2003 at age 17. A dear Christian counselor told us the first five years are the hardest! Please give yourself time and grace. Your loss is enormous. Carey did much in his life and loved and was loved. What a wonderful smile. God bless you all and may you see evidence of God's love for you in both large and small ways. Kathryn Hove, Solon, Iowa
Brenda Headley
May 23, 2012
To Cal and family: I am so sorry for the loss of your son. I wasn't aware he was ill. In the pictures of him it shines through how strong, positive and dedicated he was to helping young people with cancer. He was a good man. The world was definitely a better place with him in it. I pray that God comforts and strengthens you now and always.
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May 3, 2012
We want to know Officer Scovel's favorite color or plant. We plant favorite plants in our community garden to honor our hero's. Tweet your plant request 4 our community garden. We don't use his name unless the family says it is OK. But we will say in honor of a local hero, or something tactful and cordial. Proceeds given2 needy. I am very sensitive and actually cried thinking how young he was. My staff and I wish to honor him and all our hero's with our community garden. So much we share your grief. We have lost loved ones too. Gentle hugs.....Kandle
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May 2, 2012
You have my deepest sympathies over your loss. I first meet Carey when stationed at Quantico - he and his brother were sharing their exploits on the Appalacian Trail. He grew up to be an impressive young man and he will be missed. Please know that my family and I will keep you in our prayers.
Colonel Jason J. Lagasca, USMC
April 28, 2012
Words cannot express how sorry I am for your loss. I am praying for the Scovel Family. Jacquie Wente (DOT-OIG)
Suzanne Turner
April 28, 2012
I am so sorry for your loss. My loving thoughts and prayers are with you today. Suzanne Turner, a friend of a friend
Chris Taylor
April 27, 2012
Im sitting in Carey's old room at my house and I can't help but cry. Carey and I lived together before he was married and after the academy. He showed me the ring before he gave it to Alex and was so excited. We graduate CMPD class 152 together and were finally Police Officers. We were together here when we found out about the cancer and i told him he would be fine because i knew he was strong and was a fighter; he truly had a drive like no other. I'm proud to say Carey was my friend. I will never forget you my friend and we will meet again. Godspeed my friend.
April 27, 2012
Cal and Kiki ~ Our deepest sympathy to you. Know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Rene and Lucille Fry
Montclair, VA
Wayne and Kathy Goldstein
April 27, 2012
Cal, Kiki, Thomas and family- Please accept our sincere condolences. You all, and Carey, are in our thoughts and prayers.
Dick Bates
April 27, 2012
Cal/Kiki: Jenny and I are deeply saddened. John Cocowitch just left the office and is heading your way this evening I believe. Please accept our sincere condolences over this great loss. s/f Dick
Michael Burd
April 27, 2012
Cal and Kiki - Janet and I share your loss, and I'm just devastated, remembering back all the way back to Carey, at age 2-3 months, at Exeter. You guys have lived so strongly and lovingly for Carey through these hard years, and we salute and honor you. You continue in our prayers at this tough time. Blessings and love to you all.
Mike and Janet Burd
Stephen Betzler
April 27, 2012
Tom, Gen. Scovel, Mrs. Scovel, and family, I am so sorry for your loss, please accept my deepest sympathies. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
April 27, 2012
Thank you, may you now rest in piece. Job well done sir
Charlotte NC residents
Betty Betzler
April 27, 2012
Steve and I are so sorry to hear this news. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this very difficult time. Betty Betzler (USNA crew)
April 27, 2012
Words cannot express our sadness upon learning of Carey's passing. We cherish our memories of watching Carey grow from a young inquisitive Cub Scout into a proud Eagle. He was a wonderful young man from a wonderful family who will be missed by so many who had the privilege of knowing and loving him in his all too brief time here with us.
Our love, support and prayers are with all of you - Carey was simply the Best.
The Bizzarri Family, Montclair, VA
Kyle Browne
April 27, 2012
Alex, Tom, Gen. Scovel, Mrs. Scovel, and family- I hope you accept my deepest sympathies, both from myself and on behalf of the Navy Crew team, for your loss. Carey epitomized strength, courage, and love, and his fight was inspirational to all. Thank you for sharing him and his wonderful life with us. We will most assuredly keep you all in our thoughts and prayers.
Carey your love for life was inspirational to all.
April 27, 2012
Ilona Birenbaum
April 26, 2012
Cal, Kiki, Tom, Alex, and Family - I am so sorry for your loss. Although I never had the pleasure of meeting Carey, I felt like I got to know him just a bit through the stories Cal shared. My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this very difficult time.
April 26, 2012
Kiki and Cal please accept our deepest sympathies for your loss. We are thinking about you. Dick, Jenny, Richard and Amanda Bates(Montclair, VA)
Jo Eaton
April 26, 2012
Dear Kiki and Cal,
I am go glad that I had the opportunity to spend at least a bit of time with Carey - he had such a wonderful brave spirit. Prayers for healing for your whole family and his lovely wife, Alex.
Laurie and Brad Pfeifer
April 26, 2012
Alex,Cal, Kiki, Tom and Shannon, we love you and are holding you close to our hearts. I can't even imagine how hard this is, but try to stay strong, just like Carey was. It's so wonderful to read how many lives he touched. He was amazing and so inspiring.
Scott Verzyl
April 26, 2012
Please accept my deepest sympathies for your loss. I am very, very sorry.
Robert G. Conway, Jr.
April 26, 2012
Dear General Scovel, Cathy and family - please accept my sympathy on the passing of your son Carroll. Words fail to express adequately the sorrow felt when a young son and husband is taken away so early in life. You are all in my prayers. -- Bob Conway (USMC, Ret.)
Chris O'Connor
April 26, 2012
Kiki & Family: I am so sorry to hear the news of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your beautiful family.
April 26, 2012
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers to you in this difficult time. Rose Fraser
Sarah Sonefeld
April 26, 2012
Alex, I am so sorry! Carey was such an amazing person! You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Jim Cohen
April 26, 2012
To Alex and Carey's family,
We really enjoyed getting to know Carey and are so thankful we got to see him recently in Florida. What a great person, and we are all so sad. Reading some of his blogs, it is remarkable that he fought as valiantly as he did, and it is truly admirable that he had such courage. We are here to help in any way. Strength to all of you.
All our love,
Jim and Lisa Cohen
Tomeika Banks
April 26, 2012
To Alex & The Scovel family, you are in my thoughts and prayers. May God comfort you and give you peace during this time.
Nayland Olsen
April 26, 2012
Alex,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I never had the pleasure of knowing Carey, but I trust that he was a truly special man if somebody as wonderful as you had him. Be brave. I will keep you in my thoughts.
Hilary Dyer
April 26, 2012
Alex, keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. LITB
The Hammers
April 25, 2012
Mrs. Scovel, Mother, Father, Brother and Friends of Carey Scovel:
Our hearts breaks for your loss. Our prayers are with each of you through this time of sorrow. Our Lord and Savior will get you through this. Keep your beautiful memories of Carey alive in your hearts and mind. They will help you more than you may know.
Caery..Our sweet, smart, devoted and brave nephew we miss you so much. So many memories to hold close to our hearts. Alex, Cal, Kiki, Tom and Shannon,
Laurie and Brad Pfeifer
April 25, 2012
Lois Pradka
April 25, 2012
Alex, this message is for you. Carey did many wonderful things in his life, one of which was bringing you to us. Just as Kiki, Cal, Tom and Shannon will be there for you, please know that we will be also. Please visit us in Durham any time - we have a room set up. Love, Lois and John
Brian Myhre
April 25, 2012
Carey,
Thankful for you and your passion for life. Thankful for the times we shared. Thankful for sitting under the slide at Henderson Elementary and trading cards. Thankful for camping and hiking with Troop 964. Thankful for our Eagle ceremony on Lake Montclair. Thankful for your wisdom over pool in your parents' basement. Thankful for great burgers in Charlotte.
Your friendship is a gift. Your life is an inspiration of perseverance and courage. I miss you, my friend.
Brian
Ethan Sprague
April 25, 2012
Carey,
I trust that you can see what I'm writing to you, my dearest cousin Carey. The very sheer moment I heard your decline, I just wanted nothing less than to be able to drop everything, and be there with you. It still feels like a nightmare, and I often comfort myself by saying "It's just a dream, it's just a dream....this isn't real. We'll wake up tomorrow, and everything will be fine...."
I love you dearly, Carey....I always have, and I ALWAYS, always will. You're with Mabie and Grandpa now, Carey. They will take good care of you, I know that you are not alone. We will see you again, one day.
Aunt Kiki, Uncle Cal, and cousin Tom, I don't even know where to begin as far as words are concerned. I will see you in a few days.....you are at the forefront of my thoughts....please know this. I love you guys, from the very core of my heart.
Sgt Dan Merwin (Independence Division)
April 25, 2012
I was saddened to hear about Carey's passing. I worked with him in the Independence Division. We will miss his positive outlook. Carey was a caring Officer who was very interesting. Rest in peace brother Officer
April 25, 2012
I didn;t know him but he give us all hope .
Douglas Keith Family
April 25, 2012
Our family recalls our fond memories of Carey as a cheerful young man growing up, doing his best in whatever was asked of him in all the activities he pursued. We wish you the comfort of loving memories and the feeling that you will always be connected to Carey.
Randy & Bettie Harris
April 25, 2012
Cal and Kiki,
I know that these are difficult times but please know that you do not have to make that journey alone. We are here to support and comfort you during these times. You and your family are forever in our hearts, thoughts and prayers. God bless you
April 25, 2012
Dear General and Mrs. Scovel,
Our hearts and prayers are with you. You have our condolences.
Cindy and John Valentin (Ret. USMC)
Toni Dickinson
April 25, 2012
My thoughts and prayers are with you during your time of sadness. The memories of him are a blessing for you.
My sincere condolences.
Christina Lee
April 25, 2012
Cal and the Scovel family--I am so grieved to hear about your loss. Although I have never met Carey, I've been inspired by the many accounts of his positive attitude and good humor during his brave fight with lymphoma. It's heartbreaking that such an honorable man had to leave the world so soon. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts.
Wes & Carley Bodenhamer
April 25, 2012
Dearest Alex and Scovel Family,
May God grant you strength and peace during this most tragic time. Know that you are surrounded by the prayers of love and support from so many. We love you and feel so blessed that we were able to know Carey.
With our deepest sympathies,
Kathy,Dave, Meghan,and David Markley
April 25, 2012
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of loss. Carey was a wonderful young man who at such a young age has touched many lives. God gave Carey so many gifts that he used to reach out and help others, always putting them before himself. We will cherish the memories of the fun times shared while our children grew up together busy with school activities, Boy Scouts, church and everyday life.
May God give you comfort and peace in this difficult time.
Cynthia Harding
April 25, 2012
Alex, you have been in my thoughts and prayers ever since I learned of your sad news. Words seem inadequate right now, but I am so sorry.
Ellen Craig
April 25, 2012
Cal, Kiki, Alex and Tom - I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Sgt. Kim Maynard (Independence Division)
April 25, 2012
I worked with Carey in the Independence Division where he is missed dearly. Anytime I saw Carey he always had the biggest smile! His attitude was amazing. He never hesitated to make you laugh and was always such a joy to be around. His outlook was always so positive I think many of us did not fully understand the battle he was waging because he never complained. He was a warrior!! I will always remember how brave he fought this battle. RIP Officer Scovel. You are dearly missed.
David Wingate
April 25, 2012
Cal and Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you as you mourn the passing of your son.
Fay Richards
April 25, 2012
Thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time...... cherish your memories.
Mike Wholley
April 25, 2012
Cal and Kiki,
I was so saddened to learn of Carey's passing. This kind of sadness affects you as his parents, his spouse, hIs extended family and friends, and makes all of us realize that we are on this earth for but a fleeting time. We also realize that for the moment there is little we can say or do to mitigate the life altering pain and grief you are feeling. Just know that with faith, the support of family, and the comfort of friends, you will get through this!
Corey was a tremendous young man with enormous promise and with a joy for life that will be his legacy. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Peace and Understanding,
Mike.
Mike WHOLLEY, Alexandria, Virginia
Terry & Michele Hagerty
April 24, 2012
Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with the Scovel family. Sorry for your loss.
April 24, 2012
Dear Alex and Scovel family,
Our hearts are heavy with the loss of a wonderful husband, son and brother. Please know you all have our deepest sympathy.
Love,
Leslie, Eric,Rachel and Scott Fippinger
Shirley Bates
April 24, 2012
Please accept my most sincere condolences. Always remember that what the heart has once owned, it shall never lose.
Donna Davis
April 24, 2012
Cal and Kiki,
What a fine man young Carey became. Please accept my deepest sympathy, and know that you are in my prayers.
Donna
Louis King
April 24, 2012
Cal & Family:
My condolences to you in this difficult time. You are in my thoughts and in my prayers.
April 24, 2012
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. I will always remember him as a fine student at Henderson Elem. who possessed such good character and manners.
Charles and Eileen Ricks (Bristow, VA)
Tina Nysted
April 24, 2012
So deeply sorry for your loss.
With heartfelt condolences,
Ana R
April 24, 2012
Dear Scovel Family, May your loving memories of yesterday be your comfort for tomorrow! Carey was sent home to fulfill a bigger purpose; know he will watch over you all forever as he now has wings. God Bless! A Rover
Emma Hernandez
April 24, 2012
I am so sorry for your loss. You are all in my prayers. May God give you strength and keep you all safe in his arms. God be with you all.
Jill Cottonaro
April 24, 2012
While I didnt know Carey personally, I know he was a great and highly admired man - just like his father. He is resting peacefully now and will be watching over you everyday. You are all in my prayers
April 24, 2012
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Dottie Bowie (DOT OIG Washington, D.C.)
Henning & Michelle Thiel
April 24, 2012
Although we have never met this young man, we are profoundly sorry to hear of his passing. As part of the OIG family, we wish to convey our condolences and best wishes for the entire Scovel family.
Our deepest sympathies,
April 24, 2012
Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with your family during this difficult time. Love ya Kiki!!
Teddy & Teresa Lyons (Woodbridge, VA)
April 24, 2012
Carey was an amazing young man and we cherish so many wonderful memories as the boys grew up. Our heart goes out to you and our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Love, Lloyd, Kathy, Brian and Jennifer Myhre
Jonathan Weisberg
April 24, 2012
I saw your story posted on Facebook by a fellow Elon Alum in CT. She put a link to your blog. You were and are an inspiration to all of those affected by cancer and what it means to persevere. God Bless you and your family. Mespah.
Barb & Bob Flores
April 24, 2012
Please accept our deepest sympathies.
Vicki Kennedy
April 24, 2012
Alex, I am so sorry. You have been in my thoughts and will remain in them.
James Suber
April 24, 2012
Alex, I am so sorry for your loss. I will be praying for you and your family.
April 24, 2012
Alex, I am so sorry for your loss.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Susan Yobs
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