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September 9, 2010
I still can't believe that you are gone. I think of you so many times and
all the great times we had. I still miss
my very Best Friend and wish you were here to talk to.
I love you,
Becky
July 20, 2010
Always remembering my very best friend. July is a hard month because that is the
month that I lost my very best friend. I will never have a friend like you. I love you,
Becky
July 9, 2009
Remembering you today and thinking
about you all the time. Such good memories that make me smile. You were and will always be my Best Friend!
Love,
Becky
March 10, 2009
I really wish I had you here to talk to today. I miss you.
Love,
Becky
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Becky
May 16, 2008
You will always be my best friend. I think about you often. You left us to early. I love you.
Becky
James Taibe
June 19, 2006
Pat has made such an impact on my life in the time God has blessed me with knowing her. Pat, I think about you everyday and how you lived. Your patience, your caring and the sweetness you portrayed was pure. Thank you for setting the example for us to live by. You are VERY missed.
Becky Fowler
May 22, 2006
I miss you now as much as I missed you last July. You are in my thoughts all the time. I still think I can pick up the phone and call you. I really miss not having my best friend.
Marshall Coble
May 22, 2006
To All,
This year we had our first Mother's Day without Pat. It was not as usual even though we did laugh and did many of the usual things we would have done if Pat were here.
We went to church and then went for a simple lunch which is the way she always wanted it. Nothing fancy, just the family together to talk and laugh and enjoy each other.
Will and the waiter became best friends which is very normal with him. He, Pat, and Leigh have never met a stranger and after 5 minutes with that person they could call each other friends for life.
We do miss her and Will still talks about his MiMi.
We love you all and miss seeing all of you.
God's blessings on you all,
Marshall Coble
May 14, 2006
Today is Mother's Day, May 14, 2006. I have been thinking about my dear friend today and what a wonderful, loving, caring, mother and grandmother she was. She was so proud of her children and her Will and would be sitting on her deck, slapping her knees, and laughing that beautiful laugh at his antics... you are not with us now, my dear friend, but you will always be only a memory away.
I miss you!
Patti Bolick
Marshall Coble
October 12, 2005
Leigh, Jeff, Joni, Will and I celebrated what would have been our 39th wedding anniversary on September 25 at Joes Bar and Grill. It was one of our favorite restaurants at Myrtle Beach, SC.
Will enjoyed seeing the Racoons eat.
The others seemed to enjoy his distractions rather that think of why we were there.
Jeff has had his birthday and is 30 - no longer in his 20's - and I am now 62.
Those days would have been different with Pat but you continue to send cards, phone us and we continue to pray for you -her friends - as well. I hope this helps you as I know it has been a huge support of us.
We love you all and please hoist a glass of wine and remember that Pat made us laugh and smile. We love to hear those fun stories each of you have shared with us about her.
We love you all,
Marshall
Marshall Coble
August 26, 2005
To all,
Pat's family celebrated her 60th Birthday on Monday, August 22, 2005. We celebrated quietly and modestly as she had said she wanted.
She is missed by us all and all includes you.
She would want to smile and thank you all for your kindness to her family.
Thank you for your love for Pat, your kindness and love to her family, and your continued prayers for us. I will pray for you, her grieving friend.
Thank you,
Christina Morrison
July 18, 2005
Dear Marshall,
We were so sorry to hear of your family's great loss. We have such fond memories of working together in new church development at MorningStar Presbyterian Church in Matthews; we will always be grateful for the years Pat (and you, Marshall) taught our children in Sunday School. You were both such a wonderful influence, loving and guiding those young people, and serving the whole church in so many ways. Pat will be greatly missed by anyone who knew her. We pray God's comfort for you all as you grieve your loss.
Rev. Keith and Christina Morrison
SGT Ronnie Farmer
July 16, 2005
Dear Coble Family,
MY heartfelt sympathies to you all. I remember (as a young one) playing with Jeff at Marshall and Pats' house. I attended Plaza Pres. Church back then. Gaye Farmer, now Gaye List, is My mom. And Jan Lee is my Sister. I will always hold Pat very near my heart. I wish you all Gods peace and LOVE. Please E-mail me if you need anything at all or just to talk to reminise (sp) the past. I will think of you in my prayers. Remember that just to know Pat was truly a blessing.
Julie Barrett Schmid
July 16, 2005
Dear Jeff and Coble family,
Your mother was a dear and special person to many of us throughout her precious life. I will always remember her smiles and cheers from the stands at all those basketball games. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
Yours truly,
Julie
Barbara & Larry Overcash
July 15, 2005
Dearest Coble Family,
I was so devastated when I was catching up on the news this past week and read about the Lake Norman accident. I kept thinking it was only a coincidence with names but then looked up the obits. We are so so sorry to hear about Pat. She was such a kind and wonderful person. It has been several years since we had talked but have tried to keep up with "old neighbor news" thru the grapevine. You are all in our prayers.
Leigh and I worked together at the Popcorn shop when she was in school. Remember those days, Leigh?
Love,prayers and thoughts to you.....
Larry and Barbara Overcash
Randy Bickel
July 14, 2005
Marshall, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss; My thought and prayer are with you. You and your family will be on our church prayer chain.
Michelle Easton
July 13, 2005
Marshall, Leigh, and Jeff,
What an extrodinary woman Pat was! I will forever cherish the fond memories I have of her and the wonderful times our families have had together. Pat had such a dynamic personality that just attracted people to her, and I feel blessed to have known and loved her. She will never be forgotten. Travis and I pray for Christ's peace and comfort to be with you all.
Our love,
Michelle (Bolick) and Travis Easton
Lee Christiansen Carroll
July 13, 2005
Dear Jeff & Coble Family,
I am so sorry to hear about your tragic loss. Your Mom was a beautiful person and her spirit will live on in you and your children. I pray for comfort for you and your family during this difficult time.
Dianne Herbert
July 13, 2005
Marshall, Leigh and Jeff,
I will always love and remember
Pat. She always cared and shared
her love of God. May He be with you
all in this time of sorrow.
Dianne Herbert
Gaye List
July 12, 2005
Marshall, Leigh and Jeff & family,
Our prayers and thoughts go out to you. I have so many wonderful memories of years spent at Plaza Presbyterian and the closeness of our church family and Sunday School class. While we may have lost touch through the years, you still hold a special place in my heart. I am so sorry that I didn't get to speak to you at the funeral. There are many who love you very much; who were there for you then, and are here for you now. Take care of eachother, and remember Pat as the beautiful woman, inside and out, that she was. Love, Gaye
kelly Borganti
July 12, 2005
I am truly sorry for your loss. Most of all sorry to not know your mother and wife personally. I am also a memmber of bethel and part of the cooking for christ ministry. I pray you have felt an out reach from us and most of all may you fell great comfort in knowing that your mother knew the lord and is with him now. I also lost my mom on May 1st and am 38 years old now as of July 7th. The coming years passings and milestones will be difficult but may the holy spirit and the love of Christ be present and with you all.
Kelly Borganti
Nancy Litaker
July 12, 2005
To Mr. Coble & Family: I did not know Mrs. Coble but was visiting with Mr. Fred Litaker over the weekend I heard of your tragedy. He and Jo spoke so highly of your entire family. I am Mr. Litaker's niece by marriage and just wanted to say how sorry I am for your loss. Please know that you and your family are in my prayers.
Tawana Goines
July 12, 2005
Jeff,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. Stay strong and God Bless
Wachovia Securities
Tana Almond Harwood
July 12, 2005
Marshall, I am so sorry for your loss. I wanted to look Pat up at the bank when our departments merged but then I saw she was retiring. She appears to have been a wonderful person and I know you are saddened. May God bless you and yours.
Tiffany Howlett
July 12, 2005
Marshall, Leigh & Jeff,
I am so sorry for your loss. I want you to know that you I remember Pat and your mom as someone who always made me smile & laugh, and made me feel better. She will always be remembered by me.
Matt Osikowicz
July 12, 2005
Dear Coble Family,
It was heartbreaking to hear the news. The memory of Pat will continue on in everyone she touched. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Alix PHILLIPS
July 12, 2005
Mqrshall,Leigh, and Geoff There are not enough words to tell you how I feel but know that I am thinking of you. Pat's smile will always be with me. I am in France and I will call when I am back for good in late August. Alix PHILLIPS
Kay Trivette
July 12, 2005
Dear Marshall, Leigh and Jeff,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I never met your son Jeff, but I did meet Pat at one of Charlotte Pipe Functions. She was a beautiful person and I know she will be missed so very much. I know she was taken suddenly and that is a tragedy and my heart goes out to you all. I pray that the Lord will give you grace to sustain you through the coming days and months. He will never leave you in times of trials. My daughter Sandy Hensley worked with Leigh at the Plastics Plant and I worked with Shirley Currie. Our Thoughts and Prayers are with you all. God Bless You All.
Kay Trivette & Sandra Hensley
Glen Burleson
July 12, 2005
To: The entire Coble family
I just saw the article in the Charlotte Observer about your loss. I'm sorry I missed your visitation and the funeral. I remember each of you from the days at Endy School where your mother taught for many years. I recall the times I drove you home to Oakboro after school while your mother stayed late for play practice. Your family has always remained very special to everyone in the Endy community. God bless each of you.
Glen Dale
Dale Clubb
July 11, 2005
Marshal
I am very sorry for the loss of your wife. You and your family are in my prayers and may god be with you at this time of your loss.
God will help you through this , just look to him for an extra hand to hold and he will have an angel to guide you .
God Bless You and Your Family.
Dale Clubb
Charlotte Pipe
Jan Lee
July 11, 2005
Dear Marshall, Leigh, and Jeff,
As a teenager, twenty something years ago, I attended Plaza Presb. with my mom, Gaye Farmer (now Gaye List). My memories of Pat are that she was a wonderful, caring mother to her children and was always smiling. In those days, Marshall and Pat's generation were like second parents to many of us in the youth group. I will always appreciate Pat's contributions and will never forget her warm smile.
My family will hold you in our prayers during this difficult time.
Jan Lee
Jeannette Taibe
July 11, 2005
Marshall and the Coble Family, I was so devastated when my son called to tell me what had happened. My son loved Patricia as if she was the mother away from home. He spoke nothing but wonderful things of her. As Leigh and my son James see the future together I know that Patricia will still be watching over them. Leigh you are so muched loved and I know your Mom is with you. God gave us the tools to use our memories so we may reflect back of all the laughter and happiness you had with your Mom. Our thought and all our prayers go with all of you
Jeannette Taibe (James'Mom)
Jeannie Owen
July 11, 2005
Marshall, Our prayers and thoughts are with you. I have only known you and Pat for a few years, although I loved you both dearly.
Jeannie & (Uncle Fred)
Rebecca Wilson Hahn
July 11, 2005
Leigh,
I am so sorry to hear about your terrible loss. My deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Rebecca (Wilson) Hahn
Adriane Dean
July 11, 2005
Mr Coble and Family,
I was so sorry to hear about Pat. She was such a joy to work with. She was always smiling and always had a kind word. I was shocked to hear of her passing. She was a special lady.
Sherry Meacham
July 11, 2005
To the Coble Family,
You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Sherry and Steve Meacham
Merci Rice
July 11, 2005
To Mr. Coble and Family, my sincerest sympathy to you all. Pat and I met in 1988 at the bank and worked in the Banking Centers together. I always enjoyed our conversations. She was a phenomenal woman. God Bless you. Merci
Amy Tincher
July 11, 2005
I am so sorry for your family's loss. You can see from the guest book that she was well loved and admired. I am a teammate of Jeff's at Wachovia Sec. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Larry Shornack
July 11, 2005
Jeff and the Coble Family,
My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. I am very sad to hear of your loss. I know from the times I talked with your mother how proud she was of you. Sorry for the loss of your “Greatest Fan”. She was a wonderful person. Call or email me if you need anything.
Kevin Martin
July 11, 2005
Jeff, Marshall, and Leigh:
We are deeply sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family in this difficult time.
God Bless You,
Kevin, Jennifer, Reg, Jan, Tom, Nicole, Christine, and Jamie Martin
Pam Farmer
July 11, 2005
I am so sorry for your loss. I worked with Pat at Bank of America in the Loss Control/Area Admin. department a few years ago. She always had a smile and a hug whenever we passed in a building or on the street. She will be missed! Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Lorelei Bonck Garrett
July 11, 2005
Dear Marshall,
Although it's been years since I've seen you and Pat, I remember our times together, working on various youth and other Christian Education activities at Plaza Presb. I am very sorry to hear about Pat's death and pray God's comfort will be as deep as your sorry.
Tanisha Wilkins-Mankes
July 11, 2005
Jeff, I am so terribly sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. She sounded like a wonderful person who loved life.
Anne Kuester Steppe
July 11, 2005
Jeff,
This helped me when my Grandfather passed, may help you...
"I have only slipped away into the next room. I am still I, and you are you. Whatever we were to each other, we still are. Call me by my old familiar name, speak to me in the easy way you always used to. Put no difference into your tone, wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow. Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes we enjoyed together. Play, smile, think of me, pray for me. Let my name be ever the household word that is always was. Let it be spoken without effect, without the ghost of a shadow on it. Life means all that it ever meant. It is the same as it ever was; there is absolutely unbroken continuity. What is this death but a negligible accident? Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight? I am but waiting for you, for an interval, somewhere, very near just around the corner. All is well.
Stacie Walker
July 11, 2005
Dear Marshall, Jeff and Leigh,
I am deeply saddened to hear about the tragic loss of Pat. She was an extraordinary person who touched so many lives. I will always remember her wonderful smile and her sweet and caring nature. I hold you all close in my thoughts and in my prayers.
Greg Brown
July 11, 2005
Marshal,Leigh & Jeff
I am deeply saddened by your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Michelle Keeter
July 11, 2005
Marshall and Leigh,
Sorry to hear of your precious loss. I have put you and your family on the prayer list. We love you and thinking of you. Remember that the Lord is here.
Thoughts and Prayers,
Love,
Michelle Keeter
Stacey Burnett
July 11, 2005
"May the road rise up to meet you, may the wind be ever at your back. May the sun shine warm upon your face and the rain fall softly on your fields. And until we meet again, May God hold you in the hollow of his hand." Deepest sympathy to your family.
victor newman
July 11, 2005
Dear Jeff and Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this sad time. May God bless you all with peace in your time of need!
Sincerely,
Victor Newman
Bryan and Myriah Richerson
July 11, 2005
Mr. Coble, Jeff and Leigh,
We are very sorry to hear of your loss. You are all in our prayers and if you need anything please don't hesitate to ask. Jeff, you were my teammate, but most of all you were and still are my friend. If you need anything please call or email me. We love and miss you all!!
Melinda Markman
July 11, 2005
Marshal & Family,
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. I worked with Pat at Bank of America. She was a pleasure and joy to work with. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you through this time.
Melinda Markman
Paul Lee
July 11, 2005
My deepest sympathies in your loss.
Kenneth Moore
July 11, 2005
I'm very sorry for your family's precious loss.
Alix PHILLIPS
July 11, 2005
Marshall,Leigh,Geoff; There are not enough words to tell you how sorry I am about Pat. Her smile will always be with me. I am in France. Bob sent me the news. I will contact you in late August when I am home for good. Sincerely; Alix PHILLIPS
Phillip Teeter Teeter
July 11, 2005
Marshall,
We are so sorry for your lost. We will keep you in our prays.
Phillip and Sally Teeter
Clarke Gower
July 11, 2005
I did not know Pat as my mom, Camelia, did but have heard many stories when they were in school together at Chapel Hill. My thoughts and prayers go out to the entire Coble family and all who knew her.
michael matthews
July 11, 2005
Jeff,
On behalf of the Matthews', our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. We hope the wonderful memories of your mom comfort you.
~Mike
Jenny Puckett
July 10, 2005
Marshall, Leigh, and Jeff,
Pat was such an amazing and loving woman, and friend. She always made you feel so very special when you were around her. There are so many wonderful memories of her that I will always cherish, and will never forget. Please know that we are all here for you, and that you will all be in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Love You All,
Jenny James Puckett
pat brown
July 10, 2005
Dear Marshall, Leigh & Jeff,
I am so shocked & very sorry for your loss, what a tragedy. I know the heartaches of losing someone so dear to you and a part of you goes with them. Remembering the wonderful times and years you had with Pat will comfort you. I am sure she met my Son Bobby when she went to heaven and what beautiful angels they must be. You are in my thoughts & prayers.
Michael and Sheila Furr
July 10, 2005
Marshall and Family,
Our deepest sympathy to you all. You are in our thoughts and prayers. May the Lord carry you and give you strenght during this most difficult time.
Love,
Michael and Sheila Furr
Barry & Lisa Holshouser
July 10, 2005
Dear Marshall & Family,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers during this most difficult time.
Sincerely,
Barry & Lisa Holshouser
chris raborn
July 10, 2005
I'm am so sorry for you and your family. I will lift up to Lord in prayer for you.
Rhonda Kramer
July 10, 2005
I was so shocked to hear of Pat's death through my son Ryan. In thinking of Pat, my memory is that of someone with a smile on her face and happiness in her heart. Please accept my heartfelt sympathy.
Carlton Nesmith
July 10, 2005
My condolences go out to the entire Coble Family. You will be in my prayers and thoughts. Jeff, I will always be here for you and your family if need be. May God Bless.
Judy Howlett
July 10, 2005
It was too soon that you left us... you were a great friend and neighbor but most of all you were LOVE.
I will miss you,
Judy
Sarah Sumner
July 10, 2005
We are so very saddened to hear of Pat's death. She was such a delightful person. Please accept our deepest sympathy.
Sarah and Thom Sumner
Amber Sherman
July 10, 2005
I am so sorry. Pat made me welcome in her home on several occasions. The time that touched me the most was when Leigh and I graduated from college. After our graduation they invited me and my parents to their home for a graduation party. She even had an individual cake for me. It was so special. Leigh is the best friend I have ever had. Thank you for raising such a wonderful woman.
Leigh Coble
July 10, 2005
I love you Mom.
Steve Roe
July 10, 2005
Marshal,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Steve& Stacye Roe
David & Tracy Sanders
July 10, 2005
We are truly saddened by your loss. Pat will always be in my memories. I feel blessed to have known her for most of my life.
David
Thomas & Linda Hunter
July 10, 2005
Our prayers are with you Marshall, and your Family. May God hold all of you close through this time of sorrow. Your Neighbors at 16605-One Hundred Norman Place
Becky Ross Denison
July 10, 2005
Pat was a very special person who made those around her feel the love and caring she felt for them. Being around Pat was a special treat for me on trips back to Charlotte. She radiated warmth and honest interest in whatever news that you shared with her. She made you feel special. I will miss her, our class reunions will not be the same. Pat's many friends will miss her terribly. My sincere sympathy to all those family members and friends who will grieve for her. Pat, you were a wonderful friend, mom, wife, and Grandma. You will be missed, but never forgotten. With love, Becky Ross Denison
Camelia Gower
July 9, 2005
Dear Marshall, Leigh and Jeff,
I'm so very sorry. It is so difficult to find the words to convey all that is in my heart. Pat was such a wonderful and loyal friend. We may have been miles apart, but our kindred spirits made each visit (personal or phone) seem as if we had just seen each other.
Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Camelia
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