Ben Abels, age 33. Ben was lost in the South East Asian Tsunami. Dearly beloved son of Robert and Hope, nee Brown; loving brother of David (Heather); proud uncle of Emmet. Private family service was held Tuesday. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to the Tsunami Relief Fund, in honor of Ben Abels, TRF-DAF, 2110 Central Street, Evanston, 60201. The Weinstein Family Services Wilmette Chapel, 847-256-5700.